There is no other way to say it, the host was very intrusive, and ruined our stay. She told us to turn down the TV, when it was set at the minimum we could hear (I'm 57) . We literally walked on our tip toes to keep quiet. She assumed we left the unit unlocked, and sent me a message, when our son was upstairs in bed with the flu. Her door is right next to the front door of the unit and she knows when you come and go, and it didn't feel private at all. She had to come in twice to flip a breaker. The house rules and instructions are lengthy, and we never felt comfortable. We have stayed at other airbnb locations with our adult Son and had great experiences. We will never stay at another airbnb that the owner stays on premise.