The Pacific Shores condo complex has it all. It's in a fantastic location just a short walk from the beach, and a short walk to lots of stores and popular areas. But it's still quiet and calm at night. The complex has a great heated pool and BBQ area, and we spent a lot of time there -- there's a good mix of residents and vacationers, and everyone seemed friendly and eager for conversation. The units themselves are not generously sized, but definitely have everything you need. The complex is older and not fancy, but comfortable, friendly and clearly cared for by its residents.
Pam's unit is lovingly maintained and she includes lots of helpful extras to make the stay extra comfortable, such as beach gear, lots of beach towels, cleaning supplies and more. To be honest, we spent some time at the Grand Wailea, and felt so much more at home at the Pacific Shores condo. We appreciated the air conditioning and how it's able to be controlled by room, and made ample use of the bathroom fans and supplied drying rack. We super appreciated the presence of a removable showerhead in one of the bathrooms, as that makes cleaning kids and rinsing saltwater off of swimsuits so much easier. We enjoyed near-nightly live music from the hotel next door, which we could hear from the lanai. The assigned parking spots add a level of security and make it stress-free to park. I would go back in a heartbeat.
Just a couple tips for fellow travelers - there isn't much pantry space, so don't overbuy items that need pantry storage. Which brings me to my next point... the complex has a problem with sugar ants (sooooo common in Hawaii, not blaming them at all), so you probably don't want to leave anything out anyway. We put everything in the fridge and kept the kitchen meticulously cleaned. A few wipes with a bit of Raid (supplied) in strategic places every now and then kept the problem at bay. If you have mobility issues, bring your patience or ask for a unit on the 1st floor as the elevator is very slow. (But it makes for a fun "beat the elevator to the 4th floor" game for kids.)
Overall, great stay; would absolutely recommend to families traveling with kids as well as others.