You are a nice person; she offers also driving you to nice location like the falls!
But, there are a few tips that would make you on the same page with Lisa; and give you a peace of mind in advance:
1- Ask the host about the cleaning service in advance, what does it include; so you know what is on you; and what you have paid for; so, you don't have to spend your precious time in Honolulu arguing that with the host there.
2- If you exchange phone numbers with the host; agree on texting only if there is something that cannot wait; any extra notes that can wait until the evening, can be written on a white board in the apt, you don't want to receive long msg talking about emptying the trash yourself, and why it is not included in the cleaning service due to COIVD; these things can be agreed on from the first day; not added as notes to the white board
3- Order a taxi or an Uber from the airport to the apt
Enjoy your stay there; the apt is close to the ocean! great location and a nice host!