Weirdest stay in my dozens of Airbnb's – do not recommend! – very overbearing hosts who made me feel very uncomfortable by listening through the walls!
Gayle required guests to squeegy and then towel down the shower during the lengthy in-person check in process because she was "trying to take care of her grout".. "OK Mom" little weird but fine no problem, it was a new bathroom – I took 4 showers in 3 night stay, during just ONE of them I forgot because I had come back late and was tired...I *immediately* got a message from her saying "I usually hear squeegying when I am on the other side of the wall hearing the shower, but did not! Please remember to." OK this was really disturbing to feel like I am being watched and listened to through the walls!
Then the next morning when I checked out I get a long message, in the traditional entitled "polite, but rude" tone — "we won't be leaving a review because you did not respect our wishes, when we checked this morning we noticed you didn't squeegy again" – actually YES I DID squeegy in fact I did so so well that I didn't need to use the washcloth which was step 2.
Certain hosts act as though the reason you are staying in their home is so they can play host, and you are paying for that. They need to understand there are norms and in 2020, for an experienced superhost to think that messaging someone about their speculated behavior through the walls is extremely disturbing and inappropriate.