Ursula is a generous and charming lady. She is generous with breakfast. There is cereal, fruit, eggs in the morning for guests. I didn't dare cook because I afraid I would be scolded. She has a few years on me and I was afraid of doing something that would upset her. There are strict rules she expects you to abide by. There are seven rules listed in the bathroom. She might ask you to follow one or two more. One of the things that made me uncomfortable the fact that she would go into the bedroom. I would have appreciated her letting me know. I prefer she didn't hover over me. She rarely did this, but when she did it wasn't always pleasant. Right before I left as I was getting her keys back to her, she asked me why my keys were so "tangled." Additionally, called me a (fill in the blank) person, which was cruel label. It wasn't the word "bad." It was an unnecessary degrading word. Fortunately, I know that you can't put people on two groups or labels. Just because I don't do things her way, does not make me any less of a person.