This was the WORST accommodation experience I have ever had in my life.
The host had specific requests I had to follow such as: not flushing the toilet if I had to use it in the middle of the night, not using the kitchen after 9:30 pm, not using the hairdryer after 9:30 pm, and saying the living room was not in the listing even though it was.
I had to buy my own dishwashing soap even though it was in the listing and the host would keep the soap I bought under the sink so that I had to take it out every time I used it, insist the chairs be pushed all the way in and password lock her air conditioning. I tried to accommodate her requests and stopped flushing the toilet, rearranged my schedule so that I showered before a certain time, and stopped using the kitchen at night, but there was only one clean bowl in the apartment as all her dishes are in her dishwasher unwashed for two weeks. She complained that water stained her stove, that I had stained her toilet tile groove, suddenly confronted me about the smell of my cooking and promptly told me to look for other housing. I was shocked and when I asked her to talk to Airbnb, she got very upset and refused. By this time I was feeling completely unsafe and left the property to call Airbnb for help.
I have frankly never felt more unwelcome or disrespected in my life and by the end of my stay, felt so unsafe from the host I had to call my friend to pick me up. If any of these restrictions had been in the listing including showering, flushing toilets, cooking, and cleaning bowls, I would not have booked the place in the first place. The trauma and distress I had to go through, as well as the disruption of having to take one day off work to look for emergency housing, was simply HORRIFIC.
Save yourself the pain of going through this. I definitely did not get what I signed up for and I hope that no other person will have to go through what I did.