We had a great 10-night vacation in Del Mar. Tom was very welcoming, and his in-law unit is very comfortable (nice bed, modern appliances, fast internet, etc.). There is a beautiful garden, where we ate most of our meals. On a couple of occasions it's also where we enjoyed a glass of wine and good conversation with our host.

Tom works during the day, so he's generally not around. And he'll leave his guests to themselves if that's what they want. But if you want a host who will show you the local scene he's your guy.