So let’s say Jamilah and I didn’t get along.
She was always a bit standoffs in and made me feel like she was bothered by me staying in her home. Not sure why considering I didn’t cook, didn’t make a mess, and she never said anything to me about anything at all . I was just catching a vibe.
Her friends come over a lot and she doesn’t like her guest to be around when they come. My last day she looked at me and said “Do you mind giving me the living room, I have a guest coming?”. like it wasn’t rude.
Her neighborhood is not ideal for single females. A week into my stay there was a fight right outside her balcony where a lady was screaming “PUT THE GUN AWAY!!!” before speeding off in her SUV. It was unsettling.
Last host can be unresponsive. The day I checked out At 11am buy I forgot a prescription bottle with my medication and asked her when I could get it. She said at 1pm she was busy and only had 5 minutes. I asked when she had time the next day and she didn’t respond. I came by 9:30am the next morning, no response. That afternoon she had an attitude saying I came by unannounced. YOU HAD MY MEDICATION!!!!! I gave you time.
It wasn’t her fault but I was expecting basic compassion for important matters. She didn’t have it.