I unfortunately was not the best guest in this case as I had not realized that people actually are waiting for you to arrive. I did not know the hosts were at the house or waiting for me. I couldn't find the house and I couldn't get to SF before around 10pm so after searching around I decided to call a friend and not check in at all because I didn't think it would be safe to wander up and down the street at that time of night will all my stuff.