This was the best possible choice I could have made for my trip up to SF. A traditional hotel would have been about twice as pricey and half as unique.
The Red Victorian is right in the heart of the Haight and Ashbury area. All I had to do was step out the gate to be surrounded by interesting shops, bars, restaurants, and people. The Kezar Pavilion, where my martial arts tournament was held, was just a short walk away. Parking wasn't even a nightmare--I just found a spot up on Ashbury, totally free, no permit or anything required.
The building is old and full of people. The staff keep it very clean and orderly, though don't expect the same kind of crisp, sterile environment as a hotel. Think of it like living with roommates: sometimes someone leaves a wet towel on the floor in the bathroom, or has their stuff spread out on the dresser. It's to be expected in a place with common spaces. In general, though, people were quiet and mindful of others sharing the rooms with them. Bathrooms (and the whole place really) were all gender inclusive.
I had a lot of fun exploring the building and looking at the art and decor. A whole stay could probably be spent on that alone. Each room and bathroom had a theme (my favorite was the Aquarium Bathroom).
Check-in and check-out were as easy as showing up and leaving by the specified times. I was free to come and go as I pleased as long as I respected the quiet hours.
All in all, I hope to stay here again next year and give one of the private rooms a try.