Staying at the Red Victorian was a highlight of my trip to the West Coast (from Australia). I loved my room (Sunshine). I had the best sleep for the two nights I was there, although if you're a light sleeper, bring ear plugs (it's an old house with floorboards!!). If you want to get in the spirit of Haight-Asbury, you will feel it every time you enter this gorgeous place. Yes. as a single woman traveller, I had to be alert while I was out in the neighborhood later at night, but everyone I met staying in the house was friendly and respectful.
A special shout out to Amber who was so good with communication about checking in and out, shared meals at the house (such a lovely touch), and answering any other queries I had. She was always very prompt and friendly.
If you love bookshops, check out the Bindery and the BookSmith, within a few blocks, also some good independent coffee shops, and of course plenty of vintage fashion.