My husband and I live locally and had our wedding guests stay at Bill's due to overflow of guests at our apartment. The check-in and check-out process was simple and the place was beautiful. However, I worked with Bill directly to coordinate the stay and he was sometimes hypervigilant of our guests and, although he was not physically present, the abundance of notes throughout the property listing various house rules was noted by our guests to be somewhat imperious. Regarding hypervigilance, my husband and I met with our guests at the property to coordinate airport drop-off and regroup, which took perhaps a 10- to 15-minute visit in total, with no visits, parties, or overnight stays throughout the reservation period. Within the hour, Bill messaged me to say, "I see from the building video cameras that there are 6 people in the home" referring to myself, my husband, and our four guests, as well as a reminder of his guest policy. After receiving a message he watched us on camera, it felt a bit violating and unsettling, especially as my husband and I had left shortly after visiting his residence. Although the residence was spacious, centrally located, and held stunning views, the seemingly overbearing nature of his hosting style felt very unwelcome and somewhat stressful following our wedding weekend.