E.J. is the kind of host any responsible traveler would love to count on during their stay. After leaving a previous horrible AirBnB situation, I was exhausted and desperate for considerate hospitality. When I showed up, he asked me which of the available rooms I wanted. That first night he ensured I got a quiet sleep, despite my room being across from the tv area. I later heard that he gently asked other guests to keep the sound down.
He manages a huge mansion, with the capacity for numerous guests to stay on three different floors. He addresses people by name and asks about their comfort. He was very responsive when I asked for an extra blanket and mentioned that one of the heavily used bathrooms needed more supplies. He's congenial and cares about the people who choose to stay in his place. He's a hands-on kinda guy, who can be seen washing up dishes, digging out thorny agaves that overran the sidewalk, and driving a guest's car up the steep driveway to park off-street.
Walking in the rear door brings you into the huge kitchen, and possibly a lively conversation with some of the guests. A glass of wine, a snack, and curious questions are frequently on offer here from people passing through or maybe a couple longer-term residents.
The things that most impressed me were E.J.'s earnest desire to bring community together and the magic that happened when "the community" got it together to keep the kitchen clean and organized. This mansion is not a $300 a night concierge hotel. The fabulous cleaners are not there 24/7. The vibe and functionality ultimately depend on who comes together to make this arrangement work for everyone. E.J. leads the way. You get to share in the teamwork and delight when you get onboard and enjoy the whole process.