Pam is a lovely person.
The house is amazing.
Keep in mind you are only booking the room, nowhere else. No access to kitchen, or any other common area. This is a very old house and I had already low expectation.
No visitor allowed. I didn't know this fact (my own fault, should've read the house rules) so even my friend who wanted to help me to get stuff in and come for a tea couldn't not visit me, even after discussing it with the host.
So Pam is a good person, but not the greatest host.
I'm a super host myself, and her hospitality is below average and I did not feel like home.
She actually said that in a conversation. She said this is not your home. You're a guest. Do, I stayed there for two weeks and not having a car made it difficult.
All in all, compare to all other airbnb I have stayed, I would rate hospitality below average. Everywhere else, I felt more like home. I'm a digital nomad and live in various places.