I'm sure some guests, who are looking for a more communal or "shared space" feel for their stays, love it here. It's very clear Danna cares about her guests well being, but for someone used to Airbnb hosts being in the background, it definitely comes off like a helicopter mom with no kids to helicopter over.
If you are a guest looking to just keep to yourself and do your own thing, this is not the place for that. Danna texted me several times asking us if we had any questions (we didn't, and made no attempt to reach out after the introduction) and several OTHER texts until 1 am about an issue I didn't even know was going to be an issue because it hadn't been mentioned on her extremely intense 15+ minute "orientation" (It was blisteringly hot and the one fan provided did NOT cover the heat, so when we found an AC panel, thought it would be fine to use. The host thought it was okay to harass us over text because of the off chance the blower "might" disturb her other airbnb guest, but I had a sneaking suspicion it was that she didn't want to pay for the electrical bills, because she also insisted we turned off the fan at 9pm (which is the END of peak energy usage btw) even though it was so hot without it on we were miserable). She charges an extremely high cleaning fee but still made me put towels under all my dog's stuff so that she didn't have to deal with cleaning as much the next day and seemed to twitch when she saw that my dog had fur on her bed.
She also was extremely inappropriate and borderline harassing me towards the end of my stay, asking me such personal questions as "are you and your fiance in therapy?" when I made the mistake of telling her that a small disagreement had happened between me and my fiance from the 1am blower texts. She then texted me the NEXT day trying to push the conversation again which completely crossed a line for me.
I can empathize that she was trying to look out for her guests while we were in her home, but I in no way asked for such an invasive breach of privacy after we left (or even frankly while we were there). It's also ridiculous to assume that I would want to talk to a complete stranger about communication issues I had between myself and my fiance, who she said: " reminded [her of her] narcissistic, psychopathic ex-husband" simply because my fiance wanted to change a plan or two relating to his birthday. Ridiculous. Perhaps don't project your trauma from your marriage onto your Airbnb guests simply because they had a minor disagreement that stemmed from the harassment texts that were sent at 1am.