I think it’s acceptable for a woman to decide whether her stay is pleasant after the fact, no?
When I found Mark, the host, in the bed I was paying for when i arrived after a long journey. My immediate thought was that I got the room direction wrong, and I didn’t snap when he was woken up by his roommate and we had our first exchange of words. Is that a problem?
I don’t blame Mark, I just wished I booked a hotel room instead.