Sometimes rules are hard wired and demand absolute respect. By breaking Vanessa's rules with an impromptu party I not only damaged a trust, I upset her neighbours and put her property in jeopardy for future airBNB contracts. Having hosted myself in the UK, I understand that rules can get bent a bit. THESE RULES ARE CONCRETE, AND RESPECT IS A MUST. I wont make this mistake again, and I hope Vanessa has now regained trust within her community.