I only stayed one night and got in super late but every light was on. Lights on to me mean very welcoming and inviting. I never saw or met the host but this is definitely a place I'd stay at again. I love that they had darkening curtains so I actually slept in better. Only issue I had was it seemed a little hot but it wasn't unbearable (I turned on their air they had in the room). Maybe I was the problem on figuring it out? Anyway, I enjoyed my stay. Nice touchs.