Patrick was lovely until i accidentally let the door bang shut one night on my way to the toilet. I immediately received an aggressive message about it. When i wrote back expressing that he had been out of line to write me so aggressively over a mere one-time accident, he proceeded to undermine my clear boundary communications by judging my person and appearance. Highly uncalled for, disrespectful and bad communication skills. He left a series of things that must have bothered him greatly about my completely normal behaviour (asking if certain amenities were available to me) in the dark from me leading to an outburst, blindsighting me, and making me feel unsafe in the lodgings for the remainder of my stay.
Outrageous