Be sure to check with Rubina that she will be there when you arrive to avoid confusion over expectations from both host and guest. I had informed Rubina that I had a concert to attend at Wembley Arena. i texted Rubina at 19.04 to say I was there. I received a text back at 19.12 to say she was not there and would be another 5 minutes. In a later text, Rubina said she had waited til 'well after 19.00' for me which cannot have been true given that she was 5 minutes away. I did not expect to have to wait - even 5 minutes - to drop off my stuff when I was already late for my concert at Wembley Arena. It would have been better if Rubina had contacted me prior about her not being home around that time and then we could have coordinated better. Also, I was willing to take my bags to Wembley Arena and return later after the concert but Rubina cancelled leaving me with no-where to stay.