Nicola is an amazing host. I had just moved to New Zealand, and she had inquired about what I was up to (without being nosy about it). In my case, I was looking for workshop space. She was an invaluable resource for coming up with possible leads and ideas, as well as introducing me to various friends and acquaintances -- she is one of those well-connected people who takes the time to understand what you are looking for, then connects you with relevant parties.
I would say that Nicola would be happy to leave you be, or party it up -- whichever you are looking for.