Spoiled.
We had never slept on a boat before and were aprehensive. Lindsay not only put our fears at bay (or 'to sea' if you like), but spoiled us with delicious food (he loves cooking) and wine (his speciality). He even washed up!
We were given a sail around Nelson Harbour and felt like royalty. (He was embarased when he ran the boat aground for the first time ever) and we had to wait for high tide to lift us free - but that gave us time to enjoy one another's yarns - he has had an interesting life!
Do it! Go stay with him. Be prepared to be spoiled.