The host should be more clear with the house rules in order to avoid awkward situations with the guests if they use the towels and the blankets that looks “available” at her place, or just leave the ones she consider enough for them.
We were 3 people and she is charging us extra costs for laundry because we used all the feet towels we found and an extra blanket. The host was rude rude claiming us for that! It seems crazy!