We have just come back from 2 weeks staying at Rivabella - a family with 3 children. Highlights were the amazing, huge pool, the outdoor BBQ and fantastic hospitality from Othello.
We explored the region, swam a lot and snorkelled on the coast. We liked Nardò and were lucky enough to experience their local festival while we were there.
Southern Italy is very rural and while the trulli is basic the air con is great and you need it in the summer heat.
Like others I can mention Othello who was always helpful without intruding. On our first night he welcomed us with a barbecue and wine. Amazing!