I do not even know where to begin with my complaints about this trip. I have never been treated with so much aggression and disrespect by a host before.
Long story short: I spent 37 nights in Nicoletta's tiny (pineapple) room, which I had originally booked for three months as temporary housing until I could get my hands on a permanent place to stay. She wanted me to leave her flat while I was at work and had back-to-back meetings. I left her flat at 8 pm that same day. So she can kick you out at night, whether it's your first time in a completely different country and you do not have a place to stay. I was lucky because I reached an agreement with a family as nachmieter very same night, so I had a place to stay. Otherwise, I would have had to stay in a hotel, which would have been an additional cost.
Now let's talk in detail about my stay at Nicoletta's place:
When I first entered the flat, I made a mistake that would form the basis of her disrespectful behavior toward me later on. I said, "I am new to this country and do not know the culture. Please warn me if I am doing something wrong". And she took advantage of my nice and friendly attitude to humiliate me every time.
The flat is old and dirty. There are spider webs at almost every corner. If you do not wear slippers, a thick layer of dust and hair forms under your foot. Because she cleans the flat once a month. Her vacuum cleaner is worn out and almost broken. (She gets offended when you point this out to her).
Before making the reservation, I asked if I could register my address with the municipality, to which she replied in the affirmative. But during my visit, she pointed to the address registration and kept saying "I helped you" and finally demanded payment for it. I said to her, "If that was a help, thank you, then I do not need to pay, but if that was a service, I did not buy that service from you." She changed the subject.
One morning he asked me if I could leave five days before the reservation date. I said I could, but I would pay for five days less. She suddenly went crazy and said she would no longer help me (address registration, getting letters out of the postbox, etc.) and that she would rip up the letters that came to me and throw them in the trash.
She charges 5 euros for laundry and doesn't let you use the machine. So you can not do your laundry without her. She immediately charges you for doing your laundry and if you pay with coins instead of paper bills, you get an unpleasant response. (She calls it "provocation") She even told the boy in the next room to do his laundry somewhere else. (she said it in German, she does not know I understand German).
She does not care about your privacy and always finds an excuse to enter your room without your permission.
The balcony door and the window in the kitchen are always open. If you turn on the lights in the evening and prepare something in the kitchen, dozens of mosquitoes get in. Even if you do not cook anything (no smell), she will not let you close the door even for 10 minutes.
When she needs the hanger, she collects your undried clothes and puts them in your room.
When you are talking to the other visitor in the kitchen, she leaves her door open to listen to you.
Now I will write something about the day she kicked me out of the house:
From the moment I entered the house, she wanted to take away my house key, she tried to get into my room, even though I said I would give it to her when I left.
She said she would call the police if I did not give her the key. I told her to call the police because I wanted the police to witness everything.
So instead of calling the police, she called one of her friends and asked her to act like a police officer. (She thought I could not understand German conversations, big mistake!) It was a funny moment and frankly disrespectful to the police officers in Munich. Because the policemen in Munich speak English very well!
I am sure I have forgotten a lot more things. But that should give you an idea.