I was really looking forward to staying at Shy's place but when I first got to town, I asked if I could arrive a little early from the 4pm check-in since I had been traveling since the early morning. I got no response, which was not a big deal, but it started a trend of non-communication that was really frustrating.
I arrived at the apartment to find that the power was shut off and that the circuit breaker was tripped and wouldn't come back on. Since the wifi of the apartment was tied to this breaker I had to go find a public internet at the local grocery to notify Shy of the situation. They said someone was coming to fix it but didn't notify me when, so I went back to the apartment and had to repack my personal stuff to get out of the way of the worker who arrived unexpectedly.
They fixed the breaker while I was gone, but I didn't hear from Shy again for the rest of my visit. No apology, no concern about the matter, no attempt to reconcile the situation. Just silence...
I wrote to Shy this morning when I checked out early and still haven't received any note of "thanks for understanding" or "hope things were OK for the rest of your trip." It really stressed me out and made my stay feel very unwelcome.