I've stayed in a few airbnbs in my time, so I feel I've grown accustomed to what is standard and what is not.
Standard is that the host tells you if they live on the premises so you can be aware, Adelina did not do this, she lives in the front house and turned up at our unannounced on the Friday afternoon to deliver a chair that we didn't request.
Only providing the exact number of pillows and towels per guest was slightly inconvenient as it didn't allow for contingencies in case a 2nd towel was needed for any reason. The towels were also the smallest and thinnest of any towels I have ever had to use. Luckily we had a friend who lived nearby and they loaned us some towels for the duration of our stay.
Probably the worst part of the stay was the fact we were living in constant fear that we would receive a bill at the end of our stay because there were laminated price lists left in the house which outlined charges for every item from the cutlery drainer to the frying pan. We had to go through and account for every item just in case something happened to be missing by no fault of our own, yet we'dbe charged for it. It was rather insulting to be confronted with these lists and I think that if you need to charge guests $1 for a fork, then perhaps being an Airbnb isn't for you!?
For the price we paid to stay, I expected to feel a bit more comfortable.