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                                                                    EXHIBIT 10.2

                   OPTION TO PURCHASE SHARES OF COMMON STOCK

                 THIS AGREEMENT is dated as of December 2, 1996, and is made by
and between DAISYTEK INTERNATIONAL CORPORATION, a Delaware corporation
(hereinafter referred to as "COMPANY") and STEVE GRAHAM (hereinafter referred
to as "EMPLOYEE"):

BACKGROUND

                 1.  In consideration of services rendered, and to be rendered,
by the Employee to the Company and its Subsidiaries, the Board has determined
that it is in the best interests of the Company to issue this special one-time
option to purchase shares of the Company's Common Stock.

                 2.  This Option is granted as a separate, independent,
one-time grant and has not been issued, and shall not be deemed to have been
issued, under any "plan" (as such term is used in Rule 16b-3(c)(2)(i) of the
Exchange Act) of the Company (including the Employee Stock Option Plan of
Daisytek International Corporation or the 1994 Stock Option Plan for Key
Employees of Daisytek International Corporation); provided, however, that the
shares to be issued upon the exercise of this Option may be registered under
the Securities Act on Form S-8 pursuant to Instruction A.1(a) therein, and
solely for such purpose, this Option shall be deemed an "employee benefit plan"
as defined therein.

I. DEFINITIONS

                 Whenever the following terms are used in this Agreement, they
shall have the meaning specified below unless the context clearly indicates to
the contrary.  The masculine pronoun shall include the feminine and neuter, and
the singular the plural, where the context so indicates.

                 "BOARD" shall mean the Board of Directors of the Company.

                 "CODE" shall mean the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as
amended.

                 "COMPANY" shall mean Daisytek International Corporation, a
Delaware corporation.  In addition, "Company" shall mean any corporation
assuming, or issuing a new option in substitution for, the Option in a
transaction to which Section 424(a) of the Code applies.

                 "EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT" shall mean a written employment
agreement, if any, between the Employee and the Company, any Parent Corporation
or any Subsidiary, duly executed and delivered by the parties thereto;
provided, however, that this Agreement shall not be deemed an Employment
Agreement.

                 "EXCHANGE ACT" shall mean the Securities Exchange Act of 1934,
as amended.

                 "OPTION" shall mean the stock option to purchase Common Stock
of the Company granted under this Agreement.
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                 "PARENT CORPORATION" shall mean any corporation in an unbroken
chain of corporations ending with the Company if each of the corporations other
than the Company then owns stock possessing fifty percent (50%) or more of the
total combined voting power of all classes of stock in one (1) of the other
corporations in such chain.

                 "SECRETARY" shall mean the Secretary of the Company.

                 "SECURITIES ACT" shall mean the Securities Act of 1933, as
amended.

                 "SUBSIDIARY" shall mean any corporation in an unbroken chain
of corporations beginning with the Company if each of the corporations other
than the last corporation in the unbroken chain then owns stock possessing
fifty percent (50%) or more of the total combined voting power of all classes
of stock in one (1) of the other corporations in such chain.

                 "TERMINATION OF EMPLOYMENT" shall mean the time when the
employee-employer relationship between the Employee and the Company, a Parent
Corporation or a Subsidiary is terminated for any reason, with or without
cause, including, but not by way of limitation, a termination by resignation,
discharge, death or retirement, but excluding any termination where there is a
simultaneous reemployment by the Company, a Parent Corporation or a Subsidiary.
The Board, in its absolute discretion, shall determine the effect of all other
matters and questions relating to Termination of Employment, including, but not
by way of limitation, the question of whether a Termination of Employment
resulted from a discharge for good cause, and all questions of whether
particular leaves of absence constitute Terminations of Employment.

II. GRANT OF OPTION

                 2.1 GRANT OF OPTION. In consideration of services rendered by
the Employee and the Employee's agreement to remain in the employ of the
Company, its Parent Corporations or its Subsidiaries and for other good and
valuable consideration, on the date hereof the Company irrevocably grants to
the Employee the option to purchase any part or all of TWENTY FIVE THOUSAND
(25,000) shares of the Company's Common Stock, $.01 par value (the "COMMON
STOCK"), subject to and upon the terms and conditions set forth in this
Agreement.

                 2.2 PURCHASE PRICE. The purchase price of the shares of Common
Stock covered by the Option shall be THIRTY FIVE DOLLARS AND NO CENTS ($35.00)
per share without commission or other charge.

                 2.3 CONSIDERATION TO COMPANY. In consideration of the granting
of this Option by the Company, the Employee agrees to render faithful and
efficient services to the Company, a Parent Corporation or a Subsidiary, with
such duties and responsibilities as the Company shall from time to time
prescribe, for a period of at least one (1) year from the date this Option is
granted.  Nothing in this Agreement shall confer upon the Employee any right to
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Parent Corporation or any Subsidiary or shall interfere with or restrict in any
way the rights of the Company, its Parent Corporation and its Subsidiaries,
which are hereby expressly reserved, to discharge the Employee at any time for
any reason whatsoever, with or without cause; provided, however, that the
foregoing is subject in all respects to the terms and provisions of any
Employment Agreement.

                 2.4 ADJUSTMENTS IN OPTION. In the event that the outstanding
shares of Common Stock subject to the Option are changed into or exchanged for
a different number or kind of shares of the Company or other securities of the
Company by reason of merger, consolidation, recapitalization, reclassification,
stock split up, stock dividend or combination of shares, the Board shall make
an appropriate and equitable adjustment in the number and kind of shares as to
which the Option, or portions thereof then unexercised, shall be exercisable.
Such adjustment in the Option shall be made without change in the total price
applicable to the unexercised portion of the Option (except for any change in
the aggregate price resulting from rounding-off of share quantities or prices)
and with any necessary corresponding adjustment in the Option price per share.
Any such adjustment made by the Board shall be final and binding upon the
Employee, the Company and all other interested persons.

III. PERIOD OF EXERCISABILITY

                 3.1 COMMENCEMENT OF EXERCISABILITY.

                 (a) The Option shall become exercisable in three (3)
cumulative installments as follows:

                          (i) The first installment shall consist of fifteen
         percent (15%) of the shares covered by the Option and shall become
         exercisable on the first anniversary of the date the Option is
         granted.

                          (ii) The second installment shall consist of fifty
         percent (50%) of the shares covered by the Option and shall become
         exercisable on the second anniversary of the date the Option is
         granted.

                          (iii) The third installment shall consist of one
         hundred percent (100%) of the shares covered by the Option and shall
         become exercisable on the third anniversary of the date the Option is
         granted.

                 (b) Except as may otherwise be permitted by the Board, no
portion of the Option which is unexercisable at Termination of Employment shall
thereafter become exercisable.

                 3.2 DURATION OF EXERCISABILITY. The installments provided for
in Section 3.1 are cumulative.  Each such installment which becomes exercisable
pursuant to Section 3.1 shall remain exercisable until it becomes unexercisable
under Section 3.3.





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                 3.3 EXPIRATION OF OPTION. The Option may not be exercised to
any extent by anyone after the first to occur of the following events:

                 (i)  The expiration of ten (10) years from the date the
Option was granted; or

                 (ii) Except if (a) the Employee is totally disabled (within
the meaning of Section 22(e)(3) of the Code), (b) the Employee retires within
the meaning of clause (iv) below, or (c) the Employee dies, the expiration of
three months from the date of the Employee's Termination of Employment for any
reason unless the Employee dies within said three-month period; provided,
however, that the Board reserves the right to cancel and terminate this Option
immediately upon Termination of Employment for cause; or

                 (iii)If the Employee is totally disabled (within the meaning
of Section 22(e)(3) of the Code), the expiration of one year from the date of
the Employee's Termination of Employment by reason of his disability unless the
Employee dies within said one-year period; or

                 (iv) If the Employee retires after reaching the Company's
normal retirement age or takes early retirement with the consent of the Board,
the expiration of two years from the date of the Employee's Termination of
Employment by reason of such retirement; or

                 (v)  The expiration of one year from the date of the Employee's
death unless clause (iv) above provides a longer period of exercise; or

                 (vi) The effective date of either the merger or consolidation
of the Company with or into another corporation, or the acquisition by another
corporation or person of all or substantially all of the Company's assets or
eighty percent (80%) or more of the Company's then outstanding voting stock, or
the liquidation or dissolution of the Company, unless the Board waives this
provision in connection with such transaction.  At least ten (10) days prior to
the effective date of such merger, consolidation, acquisition, liquidation or
dissolution, the Board shall give the Employee notice of such event if the
Option has then neither been fully exercised nor become unexercisable under
this Section 3.3.

                 3.4 ACCELERATION OF EXERCISABILITY. In the event of the merger
or consolidation of the Company with or into another corporation, or the
acquisition by another corporation or person of all or substantially all of the
Company's assets or eighty percent (80%) or more of the Company's then
outstanding voting stock, or the liquidation or dissolution of the Company, the
Board may, in its absolute discretion and upon such terms and conditions as it
deems appropriate, provide by resolution, adopted prior to such event and
incorporated in the notice referred to in Section 3.3(vi), that at some time
prior to the effective date of such event this Option shall be exercisable as
to all the shares covered hereby, notwithstanding that this Option may not yet
have become fully exercisable under Section 3.1(a); provided, however, that
this acceleration of exercisability shall not take place if:

                 (i) This Option becomes unexercisable under Section 3.3 prior
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                 (ii) In connection with such an event, provision is made for
an assumption of this Option or a substitution therefor of a new option by an
employer corporation or a parent or subsidiary of such corporation.

                 The Board may make such determinations and adopt such rules
and conditions as it, in its absolute discretion, deems appropriate in
connection with such acceleration of exercisability, including, but not by way
of limitation, provisions to ensure that any such acceleration and resulting
exercise shall be conditioned upon the consummation of the contemplated
corporate transaction, and determinations regarding whether provisions for
assumption or substitution have been made as defined in clause (ii) above.

IV. EXERCISE OF OPTION

                 4.1 PERSON ELIGIBLE TO EXERCISE. During the lifetime of the
Employee, only he may exercise the Option or any portion thereof.  After the
death of the Employee, any exercisable portion of the Option may, prior to the
time when the Option becomes unexercisable under Section 3.3, be exercised by
his personal representative or by any person empowered to do so under the
Employee's will or under the then applicable laws of descent and distribution.

                 4.2 PARTIAL EXERCISE. Any exercisable portion of the Option or
the entire Option, if then wholly exercisable, may be exercised in whole or in
part at any time prior to the time when the Option or portion thereof becomes
unexercisable under Section 3.3; provided, however, that each partial exercise
shall be for not less than one- hundred (100) shares (or the minimum
installment set forth in Section 3.1, if a smaller number of shares) and shall
be for whole shares only.

                 4.3 MANNER OF EXERCISE. The Option, or any exercisable portion
thereof, may be exercised solely by delivery to the Secretary or his office of
all of the following (except as otherwise waived by such officer) prior to the
time when the Option or such portion becomes unexercisable under Section 3.3:

                 (a) Notice in writing signed by the Employee or the other
person then entitled to exercise the Option or portion, stating that the Option
or portion is thereby exercised, such notice complying with all applicable
rules established by the Board; and

                 (b) (i)   Full payment (in cash or by check) for the shares
         with respect to which such Option or portion is exercised; or

                     (ii) With the consent of the Board, shares of the
         Company's Common Stock owned by the Employee duly endorsed for
         transfer to the Company with a fair market value (as determined by the
         Board) on the date of Option exercise equal to the aggregate purchase
         price of the shares with respect to which such Option or portion is
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                    (iii) With the consent of the Board, any combination of the
         consideration provided in the foregoing subparagraphs (i) and (ii);
         and

                 (c) A bona fide written representation and agreement, in a
form satisfactory to the Board, signed by the Employee or other person then
entitled to exercise such Option or portion, stating that the shares of stock
are being acquired for his own account, for investment and without any present
intention of distributing or reselling said shares or any of them except as may
be permitted under the Securities Act and then applicable rules and regulations
thereunder, and that the Employee or other person then entitled to exercise
such Option or portion will indemnify the Company against, and hold it free and
harmless from, any loss, damage, expense or liability resulting to the Company
if any sale or distribution of the shares by such person is contrary to the
representation and agreement referred to above.  The Board may, in its absolute
discretion, take whatever additional actions it deems appropriate to insure the
observance and performance of such representation and agreement and to effect
compliance with the Securities Act and any other federal or state securities
laws or regulations.  Without limiting the generality of the foregoing, the
Board may require an opinion of counsel acceptable to it to the effect that any
subsequent transfer of shares acquired upon exercise of an Option does not
violate the Securities Act, and may issue stop-transfer orders covering such
shares.  Share certificates evidencing stock issued on exercise of this Option
shall bear an appropriate legend referring to the provisions of this subsection
(c) and the agreements herein.  The written representation and agreement
referred to in the first sentence of this subsection (c) shall, however, not be
required if the shares to be issued pursuant to such exercise have been
registered under the Securities Act, and such registration is then effective in
respect of such shares; and

                 (d) Full payment to the Company (or other employer
corporation) of all amounts which, under federal, state or local tax law, it is
required to withhold upon exercise of the Option; provided, however, with the
consent of the Board, shares of the Company's Common Stock owned by the
Employee duly endorsed for transfer may be used to make all or part of such
payment (which shares be valued at their fair market value on the date of
Option exercise as shall be determined by the Board); and

                 (e) In the event the Option or portion shall be exercised
pursuant to Section 4.1 by any person or persons other than the Employee,
appropriate proof of the right of such person or persons to exercise the
Option.

                 4.4 CERTAIN TIMING REQUIREMENTS.  Shares of the Company's
Common Stock issuable to the Employee upon exercise of the Option may be used
to satisfy the Option price or the tax withholding consequences only (i) with
the consent of the Board and (ii) during such periods of time as employees of
the Company are permitted to buy or sell shares of Common Stock.

                 4.5 CONDITIONS TO ISSUANCE OF STOCK CERTIFICATES. The shares
of stock deliverable upon the exercise of the Option, or any portion thereof,
may be either previously authorized but unissued shares or issued shares which
have then been reacquired by the Company.  Such shares shall be fully paid and
nonassessable.  The Company shall not be required to issue or deliver any
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or certificates for shares of stock purchased upon the exercise of the Option
or portion thereof prior to fulfillment of all of the following conditions
(except as otherwise waived by the Board):

                 (a) The admission of such shares to listing on all stock
exchanges on which such class of stock is then listed; and

                 (b) The completion of any registration or other qualification
of such shares under any state or federal law or under rulings or regulations
of the Securities and Exchange Commission or of any other governmental
regulatory body, which the Board shall, in its absolute discretion, deem
necessary or advisable; and

                 (c) The obtaining of any approval or other clearance from any
state or federal governmental agency which the Board shall, in its absolute
discretion, determine to be necessary or advisable; and

                 (d) The payment to the Company (or other employer corporation)
of all amounts which, under federal, state or local tax law, it is required to
withhold upon exercise of the Option; and

                 (e) The lapse of such reasonable period of time following the
exercise of the Option as the Board may from time to time establish for reasons
of administrative convenience.

                 4.6 RIGHTS AS A SHAREHOLDER. The holder of the Option shall
not be, nor have any of the rights or privileges of, a shareholder of the
Company in respect of any shares purchasable upon the exercise of any part of
the Option unless and until certificates representing such shares shall have
been issued by the Company to such holder.


V. OTHER PROVISIONS

                 5.1 ADMINISTRATION. The Board shall have the power to
interpret this Agreement and to adopt such rules for the administration,
interpretation and application hereof as are consistent therewith and to
interpret or revoke any such rules.  All actions taken and all interpretations
and determinations made by the Board in good faith shall be final and binding
upon the Employee, the Company and all other interested persons.  No member of
the Board shall be personally liable for any action, determination or
interpretation made in good faith with respect to this Option.

                 5.2 OPTION NOT TRANSFERABLE. Neither the Option nor any
interest or right therein or part thereof shall be liable for the debts,
contracts or engagements of the Employee or his successors in interest or shall
be subject to disposition by transfer, alienation, anticipation, pledge,
encumbrance, assignment or any other means whether such disposition be
voluntary or involuntary or by operation of law by judgment, levy, attachment,
garnishment of any other legal or equitable proceedings (including bankruptcy),
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however, that this Section 5.2 shall not prevent transfers by will or by the
applicable laws of descent and distribution.

                 5.3 SHARES TO BE RESERVED. The Company shall at all times
during the term of the Option reserve and keep available such number of shares
of stock as will be sufficient to satisfy the requirements of this Agreement.

                 5.4 NOTICES. Any notice to be given under the terms of this
Agreement to the Company shall be addressed to the Company in care of its
Secretary, and any notice to be given to the Employee shall be addressed to him
or her at the address given beneath his or her signature hereto.  By a notice
given pursuant to this Section 5.4, either party may hereafter designate a
different address for notices to be given to such party. Any notice which is
required to be given to the Employee shall, if the Employee is then deceased,
be given to the Employee's personal representative if such representative has
previously informed the Company of his status and address by written notice
under this Section 5.4.  Any notice shall be deemed duly given upon receipt and
shall be delivered by hand, reputable overnight courier or deposited (with
postage prepaid) in a post office or branch post office regularly maintained by
the United States Postal Service.

                 5.5 TITLES. Titles are provided herein for convenience only
and are not to serve as a basis for interpretation or construction of this
Agreement.





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                 In Witness Whereof, the Company and the undersigned Employee
have executed and delivered this Option as of the day and year above written.


                                                   /s/  Steve Graham
                                                   Steve Graham



DAISYTEK INTERNATIONAL CORPORATION


By: /s/ Harvey H. Achatz
    Name:   Harvey H. Achatz
    Title:  Vice President - Finance





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