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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA

SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION TWO

In re J.D., a Person Coming Under the Juvenile Court Law. B254280 (Los Angeles County Super. Ct. No. CK87515)

LOS ANGELES COUNTY DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN AND FAMILY SERVICES,
Plaintiff and Respondent,

v.
ELIZABETH S.,
Defendant and Appellant.

APPEAL from an order of the Superior Court of Los Angeles County. Anthony Trendacosta, Juvenile Court Referee. Reversed and remanded with directions. Leslie A. Barry, under appointment by the Court of Appeal, for Defendant and Appellant Elizabeth S. John F. Krattli, County Counsel, Dawyn Harrison, Assistant County Counsel, and Jacklyn K. Louie, Deputy County Coun sel, for Plaintiff and Respondent. No appearance on behalf of Minor.2 * * * * * * Elizabeth S. (Mother) appeals from a juve nile court order terminating parental rights over her daughter, J.D., pursuan t to Welfare and Institutions Code 1 section 366.26. Mother claims the juvenile court committed reversible error in failing to apply the section 366, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i) exception to termination of parental rights. As an alternative argument, Mother asserts the orde r terminating her parental rights must be reversed because the juvenile court failed to ensure proper comp liance with the notice requirements of the Indian Child Welfar e Act (25 U.S.C. §§ 1901-1963) (ICWA). We conditionally reverse the order term inating parental rights and remand the matter to ensure compliance w ith the ICWA. If, after rece iving proper notice, no tribe
indicates J.D. is an Indian ch ild within the meaning of the ICWA, then the juvenile court shall reinstate the order terminating parental rights.
FACTUAL AND PROCED URAL BACKGROUN D
The Section 300 Peti tion and Detention On April 19, 2011, the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services (the department) file d a section 300 petition on behalf of 14 month-old, J.D. As sustained the petition alleged, on prior occasions, Mother and J.D.’s father Joseph D. 2 (Father) engaged in altercations in which the Mother bit the Father. On a prior occasion, Father pushed Mother. The vi olent altercations on the part of Mother against Father endangered J.D.’s physical health and safety and placed J.D. at risk of physical harm, damage and danger. On prior occasions, Father left J.D. with Paternal Grandmother, C.D. (Paternal Grandmother), without making an appropriate plan for J.D.’s ongoing care and supervision. The failure to make an ap propriate plan for J.D.’s ongoing care and

1 All further statutory references are to the Welfare and Institutions Code unless otherwise indicated.

2 Father, who did not challenge the order te rminating his parental rights, is not a party to this appeal.3 supervision on the part of Fath er endangers J.D.’s physical health and safety and places J.D. at risk of phys ical harm and damage. On January 22, 2011, the Child Protection Hotline received a referral that J.D. was
the victim of sexual abuse. The referral stated that “the child’s genitalia was red and that the child was complaining that it hurt.” When Maternal Grandmother, Maria. S., was interviewed, she indicated that J.D. was vis iting Mother earlier in th e day. As Maternal Grandmother prepared to return J.D. to Father, Maternal Grandmother observed redness and irritation in J.D.’s vaginal area.
When Father was interviewe d by an emergency social worker, Father denied that anyone had touched J.D. Father stated J.D. was given lots of affection, was well cared for and all her needs were met. J.D. appeared to be neatly dressed and groomed. Father disrobed J.D. in the presence of the social wo rker and a police office r. The social worker did not observe any marks or br uises on J.D. A medical examination of J.D. revealed no
evidence of anal or genital trauma. Father reported that, alth ough Mother had no physical detects, she has Down’s Syndrome and cannot care for J.D. on her ow n. Father provided a family law order, dated June 25, 2010, granting him full custod y of J.D. Father had filed for custody
because he was concerned that Mother was unable to care fo r J.D. appropriately. The family law order gave Mother two-hour monito red visits three days per week. The order provides that Maternal Grandpar ents were to monitor the vis its and Mother was not to be left alone with J.D. during the visitation peri ods. In April 2011, while the matter was pending, the family law order was dismissed at Mother and Father’s request after they
reconciled in March 2011. Father indicated that he wanted the maternal relatives to have a relationship with J.D.
When Paternal Grandmother was intervie wed, she also denied that anyone had touched J.D. in an inappropriate manner. Pa ternal Grandmother indicated that she and
Paternal Grandfather cared for J.D. Patern al Grandmother stated she would be attending J.D.’s January 2011 doctor’s appointment with Father.4 Mother lives with Maternal Grandmot her. Mother stated that she did not
“believe” that she could not car e for J.D. Mother reported that she had been receiving parenting services and Options for Independe nce (Options) classes through the Regional Center in Downey. Mother stated that her case manager’s name was Jennifer Carter (Carter). Mother indicat ed that she and Father were cu rrently separated but there was a chance they might work on their marriage.
Maternal Grandmother stated she did not have any concerns about J.D. staying
with Father. Maternal Gran dmother indicated Mother had some developmental issues.
She said Mother has Down’s Syndrome and functions intellectually at the level of a 13-year-old. In an interview with Father on January 31, 2011, he reiterate d his concern about Mother’s ability to care for J.D. on her own. Father stated that, when Mother would become angry, she might disregard J.D. Father indicated that he continued to see Mother but he did not bring J.D. with him. Father said he and Mother had been toge ther for two years. Father denied being violent against Mother. However, he said Mother had been violent towards him on two different occasions. In the first incident, Moth er burned his clothes. As a result, Father obtained a restraining order against her. The second incident occurred at a park, when Mother became angry with Fath er and bit him. Father filed a police report after the incident. Father said J.D. was not presen t during the most recent domestic violence
incident.
Paternal Grandmother stated she has c oncerns about Mother because Mother had insulted Father calling him the N-word and ha d made racial slurs against the paternal family. Paternal Grandmother was concerne d because J.D. is biracial. Paternal
Grandmother said she did not know about Mother’s disa bility until after the parents
married. Paternal Grandmother was concer ned about the level of supervision during
Mother’s monitored visits.5 On February 18, 2011, Mother’s case ma nager, Carter, reported that Mother was diagnosed with expressive, developmental a nd receptive language disorder when she was six years old. While in school, Mother had an Individual Education Plan, which diagnosed her specific learning disability. Mother was going to have another psychological evaluation to see if her diagnosis needed to be updated.
Carter indicated that Mother received 90 hours of in-home parenting services each month. Mother was reported to be doing well and respondi ng positively to teachers, who
came to Mother’s home. Mother sometimes missed the pare nting appointments but had
not missed one since December 2010. Carter reported that the Maternal Grandparents are always there and always monitor visits betwee n Mother and J.D. Ca rter stated that the Maternal Grandparents are very responsible and take good care of Mother.
Carter knew about the incident where Mo ther burned Father’s clothes. Mother
said she burned Father’s clothes because he told her to do it. Carter was also aware of the biting incident. Mother told Carter it occurred because Father wanted to be intimate and she did not. Father became angr y and told Mother to hit hi m so she bit him instead.
Carter said sometimes Mother “doesn’t make good decisions .” Carter did not suspect that Mother abused or neglected J.D. A previously assigned social worker, Lilia Aguire, who handled a March 2010 referral, indicated that the pa ternal relatives were very ap propriate. They sought the family law order to protect J. D. when she was in Mother’s custody. Aguire had no safety concerns for J.D. in Father’s custody and no suspicion of sexual abuse. On February 23, 2011, because there was no evidence of sexual abuse found during the investigation, the social worker offered Father alternative response services, which he accepted. However, on March 22, 2011, the alterna tive response services case manager, reported that Father’s whereabouts we re unknown. Paternal Grandparents said Father left on March 4, 2011, without informing them of where he was going. J.D. was
left in the care of the Paternal Grandmother. After searching for Fath er in hospitals, the6 morgue, and jail, paternal grandfather we nt to Maternal Grandmother’s home and discovered Father was residing with Mother. On March 24, 2011, Maternal Grandmot her reported that Mother and Father
moved into their own home. Maternal Gran dmother’s sister-in-law was living in the home with them. Maternal Grandmother repor ted that Mother and Father intended to have the family law order amended to allow J.D. to live with them.
When Mother was interviewed at her hom e on March 24, 2011, sh e stated that she and Father were arguing less now that they liv e together. Mother reported that she bites Father sometimes when they fi ght and she bit him in the last month. She reported that Father pushed her on the bed once while she was pregnant. Mother was still having her
monitored visits three times a week. She thought she was rea dy to have J.D. with her. Mother stated that, if she became angry w ith Father, she would ju st “‘walk away.’” The social worker met with Mother, Fath er and maternal relatives. The Maternal Grandparents, who have been foster parents si nce 1996, explained in detail a safety plan for J.D.’s care. Mother, Father and Maternal Grandparents agreed to the plan, which all parties signed. On March 26, 2011, during an interview, Father stated his relationship with Mother was getting better. Father was rea dy to have J.D. with him. Father was not comfortable with Mother being alone with J. D. because Mother might not know what to do if something out of the ordinary happened. Father explained that the family law judge
ordered monitored visits for Mother after obs erving that Mother wa s unable to care for
J.D. without a monitor. During an interview on March 26, 2011, Maternal Grandfather stated he thought Mother was doing well with her Options servic es. He felt the parents would be able to care for J.D. Mother could soothe her, prep are food and changer her diaper. J.D. was healthy and free of marks and bruises. In a Team Decision Making meeting on Ma rch 31, 2011, Father disclosed that the family law order was still in place. Joanie Schultz from Options stated Mother “functions around the age of 13.” It was hard for Schultz to assess Mother’s pa renting skills because7 Mother is only with J.D. for a limited time during the week. Maternal Grandparents
wanted Mother and Father to care for J.D. Maternal Gran dparents also reported that Mother had post-partum depression after givi ng birth but had subse quently improved. Because of the family law order requiri ng Mother to have monitored visits, a safety plan was proposed for Father to care for J.D. Father would have to move to a separate residence from Mother. Father sa id he would move back to the Paternal Grandparents’ home. Mother refused to sign the safety plan that would have allowed Father to reside with J.D. by himself. Instea d, Mother indicated she did not want to move out of her home and repeatedly stated, “‘I already moved in.’” Later in the day, Father called and said he was staying in the residence and Mother was moving in with her parents. On April 1, 2011, the social work er went to Father’s home; Mother was not residing with Father. However, on April 4, 2011, Father called
the social worker and said he moved back to his parents’ home. Father explained that Mother had bitten him again after the team decision meeting (TDM). On April 5, 2011, Paternal Grandparents called the depa rtment and reported Father had left J.D. with them on the previous nigh t and had not returned home. Father did not say where he was going, did not leave any contact inform ation and did not leave any
documentation which would allow them to si gn for medical care. The social worker
could not contact Father because he does not have a telephone. On April 12, 2011, Matern al Grandfather contacted th e social worker and faxed the family law court’s dismissal order to the social worker. Maternal Grandfather
contacted the social worker for the next two days explaining various plans for caring for J.D., which included the Mother and Father and Maternal a nd Paternal Grandparents. The department detained J.D. from Fath er due to the on-going domestic violence
between Mother and Father with Mother as the perpetrator. Father was willing to move
J.D. back into a home with him and Mother, which was indicative of his failure to protect. Father also repeatedly left J.D. for extended periods of time in the care of8 Paternal Grandparents. Father failed to comply with the agreed upon safety plan. On April 19, 2011, J.D. was releas ed to Paternal Grandmother. At the April 2011 detention hearing, the j uvenile court ordered J.D. detained with Paternal Grandparents. Father was allowed to remain in the home. Mother was given monitored visits in a neutral setting, where Fath er was not to act as the monitor. Father was given unmonitored visits but was ordered no t to take J.D. to Mother. Father was ordered to inform Paternal Grandparents wher e he was going when he visited J.D. outside their home. Mother and Father were given referrals for domestic violence counseling, individual counseling, and parenting. Jurisdiction/Disposition The jurisdiction/disposition report stated J.D. was walking, running and babbling with Father and paternal rela tives. She was using some wo rds including mom, bottle, and
water. Mother said J.D. lived in Maternal Grandparents’ home until she was four months old, at which point Father gained custody. Father and J.D. began to live with Paternal Grandparents. According to Mother, Paternal Grandparents were the primary caretakers
of J.D.
Mother did not want to be interviewed privately and insisted that her Options counselor and Maternal Grandmother be pr esent for the entire in terview. Mother answered all the investigator’s questions. Mother denied burning Father’s clothes but
said Father had told her to do it. Mother said that she had cut up his clothes on one occasion and put toothpaste in his shoes. Mo ther stated she was in a psychiatric hospital for three or four days after that incident. She said she was not pr escribed psychotropic medication because she was breastfeeding. Mother reiterated that Fath er pushed her onto a bed while she was pregnant. Mother admitted biting Father but said he told her to do so
because it would make her feel better. Father and Mother had been together since 2008 and married in July 2009. Father lived w ith Mother but would leave whenever he was

angry.9 Father denied hitting Mother or telling her to burn his clothes or to bite him. Father stated that, when Mother is angry, she is violent a nd cries. Mother would often leave the house and cry in the streets. She woul d tell Father that he needed to let her bite him. Mother bit him when she was angry or he did not do something she wanted him to do. Father said that it rarely happened that Mother would bite him “‘but there are times where it gets [out] of control.’” Mother bit hi m at least three or four times. On advice of his divorce attorney in Novemb er 2010, Father filed a poli ce report against Mother after
she bit him on the chest. The matter never went to court. Father reported that Mother did not want anyone around J.D. Father did not think Mother was capable of caring for J.D. on her ow n. Father said Mother was not able to read J.D. meaning pick up on the child’s ne eds. Father was also concerned about
Mother’s violent behavior. He stated Mother might snap at anytime and could hurt J.D.
Father admitted that he left J.D. with his parents without telling them where he was going and when he was returning. Maternal Grandmother reported that Moth er needed a lot of help with her own daily routine. Given Mother’s limitations , Maternal Grandmother was concerned about Mother’s ability to care for J.D. on a daily ba sis. Maternal Grandmother reported that Mother and Father had a very violent relationshi p when they lived in an apartment. They would hit each other. To prot ect Mother, maternal relative s moved Mother into their home. However, Mother would go back to live with Father. Father pushed Mother when she was pregnant. Mother would defend Fa ther and minimize the domestic violence. Maternal Grandmother thought Father was manipulating Mother and trying to take advantage of her de velopmental disability and then use it against Mother. The Options family services worker, E llamay Cruz, said Mother and Father had “‘severe arguments.’” Father once threw ho t water on Mother. She would bite Father every time a situation arose. Disagreements about little things woul d escalate into huge arguments. Options provided monitoring servi ces and assisted Mother during monitored visits with J.D. Mother had only cared fo r J.D. in supervised situations. Cruz was10 working with Mother on pare nting issues like changing di apers and feeding times. She
confirmed that Mother’s interactions with J.D. needed to be monitored. Cruz said Mother needs continual prompting in caring for J.D. Mother would get sidetracked with texting or using her phone and would not recognize J.D.’s needs for feeding or changing. Cruz had to constantly remind Mother that J.D. had needs. Mother also had to be prompted to
interact with J.D. Mother sometimes interact ed with J.D. but would get easily distracted
and did not maintain her inte ractions/bonding with J.D. On June 27, 2011, Mother and Father pled no contest to the petition. The juvenile court sustained the petition, as amended pursuant to secti on 300, subdivision (b). The court declared J.D. a dependent of the c ourt, removed her from Mother and Father’s custody, and ordered her suitably placed. Th e department was ordered to provide family
reunification services. Mother and Father we re ordered to complete parenting programs and to participate in indivi dual counseling to address do mestic violence and anger management issues. Mother was given mon itored visits. Father was given unmonitored visits, but Mother was not to be present at Father’s visits. On August 22, 2011, the juvenile court signed an order allowing Maternal Grandparents to have weekend overnight visits with J.D. Mother could ha ve monitored visits in Maternal Grandparents home but could not stay overnight.
Six-Month Status Review In the January 2012 status review report, the department stated J.D. was a happy child. J.D. was doing well in Paternal Grandm other’s home. J.D. visited twice a week
with Mother. Maternal Gra ndmother monitored Mother’s visits with J.D. Maternal Grandmother stated Mother sp ent time reading to J.D. and playing with her. Mother changed J.D.’s clothes and diapers. Mother would make simple food for J.D. Maternal Grandmother said J.D. appeared to be happy during the visits and J.D. recognized Mother
as her mother. Mother completed anger management and parenting classes. A January 17, 2012 letter from Mother’s parenting instructor re ported, Mother “could not explain what she11 had learned and stated she would need to read ov er the lessons again. She also stated that
her husband did the homework for her.” The instructor felt that Mother would benefit from an in-home or hands-on training.
Neither Mother nor Father had enrolle d in individual counseling to address domestic violence. Mother resided with her pa rents and Father lived with his parents.
Mother and Father wanted to reuni te with each other and J.D. A September 14, 2011 letter from Options stated Mother and J.D.’s bond was strengthening and increased visits would help the bond to grow even more. Mother wrote a letter dated September 15, 2011, which stat ed she loved J.D. very much and enjoyed spending time with her. A January 12, 2012 letter from Option’s a ssistant director, Schu ltz, stated Mother continued to receive services including pare nting training. Mother had become more accustomed to checking J.D. to see if a diap er change was needed without prompting. Mother interacted with J.D. and engaged her in play activities and re ading. Mother also prepared snacks for J.D. when necessary. Mother had made great strides in improving her parenting skills but still need ed guidance and training. Th e letter also stated Option’s staff assisted Mother in completing her homewo rk. Mother stated sh e and Father worked on their homework together for their pare nting and domestic violence classes. Paternal Grandmother reported that sh e thought Maternal Grandparents were allowing Mother to ha ve overnight visits with J.D. Maternal Grandparents denied that they were violating the court-ordered cond ition that Mother not stay overnight during
J.D.’s visits. Adoption with Paternal Grandparents wa s identified as the concurrent planning goal in the event parents fail ed to reunify with J.D. The department recommended continued reunification services for the parents. At the hearing on January 23, 2012, the juvenile court found the parents to be in partial compliance with the case plan. The de partment was ordered to continue providing family reunification services. The court m odified Mother’s visitation to unmonitored12 including overnight visits in Maternal Gra ndmother’s home. Mother’s day visits were
increased to six hours. Mother’s visits we re conditioned upon confirmation that she had enrolled in individual counseling. Pare nts were ordered not visit together.
Twelve-Month Status Review In the 12-month status review report da ted June 19, 2012, the department stated J.D. remained placed with Paternal Gra ndmother. J.D. was healthy, happy and developmentally on target. Paternal Grandpar ents wanted to adopt J.D. if the parents failed to reunify with her.
Mother resided with Mate rnal Grandparents and continued to participate in Options. Mother volunteered as a janitor at an an imal shelter five days a week. She continued to participate in court-ordered programs.
Mother enrolled in individu al counseling on March 26, 2 012. Mother’s therapist, Dr. Melanie Cain, indicated Mother had just begun to discuss the domestic violence
issues. Dr. Cain stated Moth er was more open during the sessions. Mother reported that she no longer had any fights or arguments with Father. Dr. Cain could not assess child safety issues because she never observed di rect interaction between Mother and J.D. When questioned by the so cial worker on March 22, 2012 and April 27, 2012, about domestic violence, Mother was very defensive. She stated she did not want to
discuss the matter with the so cial worker. Mother was ea sily frustrated and upset at routine questions. Mother would often respond to the questions by saying “‘I don’t know.’” The department reported that Mo ther had completed a 12-week parenting education program and a 26-week anger manage ment class. However, her developmental delays and lack of fundamental skills hindere d Mother’s ability to apply in daily social situations what she had learned in her parent ing and anger management classes. Mother did not appear to have the ab ility to retain information fro m her programs. Mother felt that, because she had almost completed court- ordered programs, she should be able to gain custody of J.D. Mother wanted to reunify with Father and J.D.13 Father moved out of Paternal Grandpar ents’ home because he did not want to abide by their rules. Father was homeless an d lived in shelters. Paternal Grandparents said Father would often ask for money to register for individual counseling and transportation needs. They would subsequently discover Father had spent the money paying for motel rooms so that he and Mother c ould be together. Father spent most of his time outside the home instead of spending time w ith J.D. Father indicated he wanted to reunify with J.D. and Mothe r. On April 27, 2012, Father reiterated that he thought
Mother could not care for J.D. without help because of Mother’s developmental issues. If he could not reunify with J.D., he wanted Paternal Grandparen ts to care for J.D. Paternal Grandmother suspected that Fa ther was not homeless but was residing with the Maternal Grandparents . She thought that Father and Mother were visiting J.D. together in Maternal Grandmother’s home beca use Father spent most of his time there.
Paternal Grandmother was concerned about J. D.’s safety during the visits. Maternal Grandparents, Mother and Father all denied that Mother and Father visited J.D. together. Maternal Grandparents were planning to buy Mother and Father a trailer. Maternal
Grandfather assisted Father in obtaining employment and wanted to continue supporting parents so they could reunify with J.D. On June 19, 2012, the juvenile court ordered unmonitored visits for Father and
Mother. Mother’s visits we re to occur in Maternal Grandmother’s home. The court continued the matter for a contested hearing. The court ordered the department to prepare a supplemental report “to addre ss parents’ progress in programs, updated information, and any change in recommendation.” In the August 2012 supplemental repor t, the department stated Father was interviewed on July 18, 2012. Father reported that Mother is still violent toward him. Mother would easily get upset whenever she cannot have her way. Mother often hit him or punched him with her fists. Father said he did not trust Mother to care for J.D. Father did not report the continued violence ear lier because Father wo rked for Maternal14 Grandfather and Father was afraid of losing his job. Father wanted to save his money and get his own place to live. Father said he was living with a friend. Father refused to give his address to the social worker. Father said he had just enrolled in individual counseling but could not remember the name of the counselor or counseling agency and did not provide any
contact information. Father stated he was not sure when he woul d be able to obtain suitable housing for himself and J.D. With Mother’s on-going domest ic violence toward him, he would not be able to reunify with J.D. in the future. On July 18, 2012, Paternal Grandmother reported Father did not show up for visits and had not asked fo r any visits since June 19, 2012. Mother denied being abusive towards Fath er. Mother stated she planned to stay with Father. Maternal Grandpa rents would assist them to ge t stable housing in the near future. Mother visited J.D. every Tuesday an d Thursday for about five to seven hours per
visit. The visits were m onitored by Mother’s Regional Center workers when they
occurred outside the Maternal Grandmothe r’s home. The visits were good and appropriate. They watched children’s movi es or played in th e backyard. Mother continued with individual counseling. The department noted that the domestic violence issues remained unresolved between the parents, who wanted to continue their relationship with each other. Father was financially dependent on the maternal re latives. It did not appear that Mother learned any valuable lessons from her parent ing or anger management classes. The department recommended that the court termin ate family reunification services and that a selection and implementa tion hearing be set. In a Last Minute Information for the Court dated September 24, 2012, the department reported parents’ visitation schedule. Moth er had six-hour unmonitored visits, two times a week. Moth er shared meals or watched children’s movies with J.D. during the visits. J.D. returned from the visits clean and well.15 At the contested hearing on September 24, 2012, the juvenile court found Mother in compliance with the case pl an and Father in partial co mpliance with the case plan. The department was ordered to continue fam ily reunification services. The court ordered the department to convene a TDM to include Mother, Fath er, Maternal and Paternal Grandparents, service providers, therapists, and Regional Center pr oviders. The meeting was to address a safety plan for the parent s and J.D. and recommendation as to whether
the monitored or unmonitored visits should occur for both parents with Mother being observed during the visit. Mother and Father we re to be referred for conjoint counseling. Eighteen-Month Status Review In the November 2012 eighteen-month st atus review report, the department indicated that J.D. remained placed with Pa ternal Grandmother. J.D. was doing well in her placement. She was age a ppropriate and presented no co ncerns. J.D.’s caretakers reported that she is ha ppy and healthy. Mother continued receiving services fro m Options and worki ng as a volunteer. A TDM was held on October 26, 20 12. Mother’s therapist, D r. Cain, provided a letter dated October 22, 2012, showing Mother’s progress. Dr. Cain stated that Mother had attended
30 individual sessions. The sessions focuse d on assisting Mother with increasing independence and assertive communication. The sessions also explored decreasing conflict with her spouse, identifying her level of anger, and alternative responses to anger such as communication, walki ng away and taking a break from the distressing situation.
Dr. Cain stated that Mother “continues to report increased comfort with independently tending to her daughter’s need and enjoys learni ng new ways to be a parent.” In a prior letter dated, September 17, 2012, Dr. Cain wrot e that Mother reported that her “motherly bond with her daughter has increased and she is committ ed to doing whatever is necessary for her child.” On October 25, 2012, the so cial worker spoke to Dr. Cain, who stated she could not make any judgment about Mother’s behavi ors or ability to parent a child. Dr. Cain
added that she did not want to discriminate against Moth er for being developmentally16 delayed. Dr. Cain opined that Mother coul d care for J.D. with support and supervision from Maternal Grandpar ents and Options. On October 26, 2012, Mother reported that she and Father had two physical altercations, one in September 2012 at Knott’ s Berry Farm and one in October 2012, at Father’s place of employment. Mother bit Fa ther’s chest during th e Knott’s Berry Farm
incident after he refused to let her leave. J. D. was not present at the time. Mother said
she also bit Father’s arm while he was working at the church because he refused to give her X-Box game to her. J.D. was being superv ised by Maternal Gran dparents in the same building at the time Mother bit Father’s arm. Father confirmed the two biting incidents, which occurred within two months of the status review report. Father said that Mother bit his arm out of frustration and anger when he would not give her the X-Box. There was open skin and bleeding. Father showed the TDM partic ipants a healed scar where Mo ther had bitten him. Father enrolled in individual counseling and atte nded three of seven scheduled sessions.
Mother had unmonitored six-hour visits twice a week in Maternal Grandparents’ home. During those visits, Mother and J.D. ate and watched movies. If Mother and J.D. visit outside the home, the visits are monito red by Mother’s Options’ counselor, Cruz. According to Cruz, when Mother started visi ting J.D. in 2011, Moth er needed prompting to care for and interact with J.D. In the past three or four months, Mother did not need as much prompting to attend to J.D.’s needs. In addition, J.D. had started asking more of Mother rather than running to Maternal Grandmother. Mother reported that she wanted to reunif y with J.D. and Father. Mother thought she could support J.D. with SSI if Maternal Grandparents provided them with a home. Mother wanted to continue her relationship with Father in spite of the two recent physical
altercations. Father reported that he did not believe Mother alone could care for J.D. or have
unmonitored visits with her. Father felt J.D.’s safety c ould be compromised because17 Mother tended to get angry when she did not get her way. He too wanted to continue his relationship with Mother even t hough they had engaged in two recent violent altercations.
Maternal Grandfather stated that Mothe r’s anger and physical violence toward Father were the result of manipulation and pr ovocation by Father. Maternal Grandfather
did not believe Mother was vi olent and had learned to control her emotions through individual counseling. He th ought Mother should be reunifie d with J.D. and that Mother was capable of having unmonitored visits. Paternal Grandparents wanted to adopt J.D. if parents fa iled to reunify with her. The department recommended the court terminat e parental rights and set the matter for a section 366.26 hearing to select and implemen t a permanent plan for J.D. The juvenile court continued the matter for a contested hearing. In a December 2012 supplemental report, th e department stated the social worker
met with Mother on November 28, 2012. The meeting was at Maternal Grandparents’ home and included Mother’s Options’ counselor and Maternal Grandfather. When the social worker questioned Moth er about future plans with Father, Mother shrugged her shoulders replied she did not know. Mother also did not want to continue conjoint counseling stating it was not court-ordered. Mother stated she wanted to focus on reuniting with J.D. although Mother was unable to say how she would take care of J.D. Mother spoke with Fath er on the telephone several times a week. However, she did not see him in person. Mother was constantly looking at Cruz and Maternal Grandmother during the meeting. Cruz said J.D. appeared to enjoy visiti ng Mother. They visited about four hours twice a week. Mother made a good effort to keep J.D. engaged in playing and in interacting with Mother by reading or playing. Paternal Grandfather reported that J.D. was doing well in her placement. She enjoyed preschool. J.D. had be havioral issues after her vis its with Mother and Maternal Grandparents such as sucking her thumb. Pate rnal Grandfather attributed the behavior to18 missing Mother and Maternal Gr andparents right after the vis it. Father was visiting more regularly and spending time playing and reading with J.D. In a January 18, 2013, Last Minute Info rmation for the Court, the department reported that a TDM was held on January 9, 2013. Mother and Maternal Grandparents refused to attend the meeting. At the meeti ng, Paternal Grandparents refused to allow
Father to live in their home. They did not trust Father to pr otect J.D. from Mother. They
did not believe that J.D. was Fa ther’s number one priority. They said Father continued to have a relationship with Mother, who had a hi story of domestic violence against him.
Father confirmed that he chose to be with Mother in spite of her violent behavior.
Father said he did not trust Mother to be alone with J.D. because of Mother’s unpredictable angry out bursts and behavior. On January 18, 2013, the co urt terminated reunification services and set the matter for a section 366.26 hearing.
The Sections 366. 26 and 388 Hearing In the May 2013 section 366.26 report, th e department stated J.D. had remained placed with her prospective ad optive family, Paternal Grandp arents, since April 2011. J.D. has been provided with adequate care and supervision. She was strongly bonded with Paternal Grandparents, who wanted to provide her w ith a stable and permanent home. They love J.D. and wa nt to keep her safe. They were committed to J.D. The department recommended that parental rights be terminated with a plan of adoption. Mother filed a section 388 petition on July 8, 2013. Mother re quested the juvenile court to return custody of J.D. to her and to reinstate family reuni fication services with unmonitored visits. Attached to the petition was a letter from Dr. Cain dated May 13,
2013. The letter stated Mo ther had attended 54 individua l therapy sessions. Mother continued to make J.D. a priority and enjo yed the opportunity to spend time with her during visits. A May 14, 2013 letter from Mo ther’s social vocational manager described Mother’s participation as a volunteer at the an imal shelter. The juvenile court granted a hearing on the sec tion 388 petition.19 The July 2013 status review report for the permanent plan hearing stated J.D.
visited with Mother twice a week. Father ha d not visited J.D. since January 18, 2013. J.D. was doing well in the home of Paternal Grandparents, who remained committed to providing a stable, loving and nurturing home environment for her. J.D. appears to be quite comfortable and happy in her prospectiv e adoptive home. She is always clean, well dressed and is healthy and happy. Matern al Grandparents take J.D. to medical appointments and have enrolled her in preschool. The department reported that Mother has intellectual, social and emotional disabilities for which she receives Regional Cent er services. Mother needed to continue participating in her Regional Center program s to assist her in improving her living and
social skills. Mother continue d in individual counseling to deal with the case issue of
domestic violence. Mother chose to continue a relationship with Fath er even though they
continued to have domestic violence incidents. Mother planned to re side with Father in
the near future. Mother is very dependent on Father for em otional support and also relies on Maternal Grandparents for emo tional and financial support. Father had only partially complied with court orders. Father did not enroll in individual counseling until Se ptember 14, 2012, and then missed three out of seven
sessions. Father has not addressed his domes tic violence problems. Father chooses to remain in a relationship with Mother despite their on-going dome stic violence incidents.
Father has no stable housi ng and depends on Maternal Grandparents for financial support. Attached to the July 2013 status report was a letter from Dr. Cain which indicated Mother had completed 60 individual therapy se ssions. Mother continued to attempt to independently care for J.D.; however, Maternal Grandmother’s protective nature did not always allow this to happen. Mother enjoyed visits with J.D. “and is making more efforts to independently provide care for her daughter.”20 The department continued to recommend term ination of parental rights. In a Last
Minute Information for the Court dated Ju ly 19, 2013, the department advised the juvenile court that the Paternal Grandpar ents’ adoptive homestudy had been approved. On July 19, 2013 , the juvenile court held co mbined section 388 petition and section 366.26 hearings. Mother testified that J.D. called her “Mommy.” Mother visited J.D. on Tuesdays and Thursday s and on every other weekend J.D. sleeps over at Mother’s home. The two went to the park, playground, mall and library. An Options worker went
with Mother and J.D. to the park. Mother and J.D. did “ little projects” with paper and glue. Mother prepared eggs and rice for J. D. to eat. Mother would assist J.D. in changing clothes. However, Mother woul d be present when Maternal Grandmother
bathed and cleaned J.D. Mother re sided with Maternal Grandparents.
Mother also testified that Father was not present during her visits with J.D. Father had dropped off boxes in front of maternal grandparents’ home while J.D. was in the living room. Mother went out on dates with Father and had gone on one with him the day before she testified. In argument, the department asserted the juvenile court should deny Mother’s section 388 petition, terminate parental rights, and “free” J.D. for adoption. J.D.’s attorney joined the department’s requests. Mother requested the court grant the section 388 petition and not term inate parental rights. The court denied the section 388 petition finding there were no changed circum stances and it was not in J.D.’s best
interests. The juvenile court found Mother failed to meet her burden of establishing an exception under section 366.26, subdivision(c)(1)(B)(i ). The court noted that Mother had not had physical custody of J.D. even before April 2011 when the dependency proceeding began because of the family law order. Mother’s visits were “almost always with someone else present.” The court indica ted it appreciated the fact Mother had gone to all her individual therapy sessions. Howeve r, the court stated: “But after 60 individual therapy sessions the best that her therapist can say is that she’s making more efforts to21 independently provide care for her daughter.” The court further noted that Mother and Father continued their relationship withou t addressing the case issue of domestic violence. The court pointed ou t that, while Mother did some things a parent would do, Paternal Grandparents acted as J.D.’s parents. The court also noted that, during Mother’s visits, Maternal Grandmother assumed most of the parental responsibility. The court found J.D. adoptable, terminated parental rights and ordered a plan of adoption. The
record does not show that Mother was serv ed with the order terminating her parental rights. On January 17, 2014, the department filed a status review report for a post permanent plan review hearing. After th e January 17, 2014 hear ing, Mother filed a notice of appeal. Mother ch ecked a box under section 360 (declaration of dependency).
Mother stated she wanted “to get my daughter back I am doing everything in my interest to comply.” Mother also described her appe al as one “to get my daughter to return
home.”
ICWA FACTS The detention report stated that ICWA might apply because Paternal Grandmother
stated that she has Cherokee ancestry from her mother. Mo ther denied America Indian ancestry. Father complete d an ICWA form on April 19, 2011, indicating that one or
more of his ancestors is or was a member of a federally recognized tr ibe. Father was not aware of which tribe but wrote it was his great grandmother “Mattie [B.] 1911.” At the April 2011 detention hearing, the juvenile court ordered the department to follow-up on possible American Indian heritage through paternal great-great-g randmother, Mattie B. The May 2011 jurisdiction/disposition repor t indicated that Paternal Grandmother stated that one of her grandparents was belie ved to be Cherokee but she was not sure of
the tribe or state. Paternal Grandmother di d not believe that any family members were registered with a tribe or would meet qua lifications for registration. However, she provided the department with her family information. The department reported it sent notices by registered mail to the Bureau of Indi an Affairs, the Department of the Interior,22 Cherokee Nation, Eastern Band of Cherokee Indians, and the United Keetoowah Band of Cherokee Indians. The department attached to the jurisdiction report return receipts from the Cherokee Nation of Oklahoma, the United Keetoowah Band of Cherokee Indians, and the Bureau of Indian Affairs. The depart ment also attached a letter from the United
Keetoowah Band of Cherokee Indians indicati ng J.D. was not eligible for membership. The June 2012 status review report stated that a letter dated J une 2, 2011 from the
Cherokee Nation indicat ed that J.D. was not an Indian ch ild in relation to the tribe. The
letter stated that the determination was base d on the information provided and that any incorrect or omitted information might invalid ate the determination. The department attached a list of ICWA notices sent by regist ered mail and return re ceipts. The notices
did not mention the ancestor Mattie B. On November 5, 2012, the juvenile c ourt found that ICWA did not apply.
DISCUSSION I. Jurisdiction to Determine Appeal As a preliminary matter, the department as serts we lack jurisdiction to consider Mother’s appeal because the notice of appeal did not chec k the section 366.26 box on the Judicial Council form. ‘“[I]t is, and has been, the law of this state that notices of appeal are to be liberally construed so as to protec t the right of appeal if it is reasonably clear what [the] appellant was trying to appeal from, and where the respondent could not possibly have been misled or prejudiced.’ [Cita tions.] A notice of appeal ‘is sufficient if it identifies the particular judgment or or der being appealed.’ [Citation.]” ( In re Joshua
S. (2007) 41 Cal.4th 2 61, 272.) An appellate court w ill liberally construe an appeal where: the order is appealable; the notice of appeal is timely; and there is no prejudice to the respondent. ( In re Madison W. (2006) 141 Cal.App.4th 1447, 1449-1450.) In this case, we liberally construe Moth er’s notice of appeal to be from the order terminating her parental rights. First, an or der terminating parental rights is appealable. (§ 395.) Second, the department does not di spute Mother’s assertion that the notice of appeal is timely because the order term inating her parental rights was rendered by23 Commissioner Anthony Trendacosta, appointed to sit as a juvenile court referee. (Super. Ct. L.A. County, Local Rules, rule 7.33.) And, the record does not reflect that the commissioner provided Mother with notice as required by section 248 and California Rules of Court, rule 5.538(b). (See also § 250.) Thus, the appeal is timely given the
failure to serve Mother with the order terminating her pare ntal rights. Third, it is also reasonably clear that Mother wa s contesting the juvenile court’s order refusing to return J.D. to her and the department has not argued prejudice. Moreover, because there is no record that Mother was ev er served with notice that her parental rights were terminated pursuant to section 366.26, Mother’s pro. per. notice of appeal is entitled to a liberal constructi on under the circumstances of this case. ( In re Joshua S., supra, 41 Cal.4th at p. 272; In re Madison W., supra, 141 Cal.App.4th at pp. 1450-1451.) Mother, who has Down’s Syndrome, functions at the age of a 13-yearold. Although Mother check ed a box under section 360 (declaration of dependency), Mother specifically stated sh e wanted “to get my daughter back I am doing everything in my interest to comply.” Mother also described her appeal as one “to get my daughter to
return home.” Under the circum stances, the department is in correct in asserting that the notice of appeal was insufficient to establish jurisdiction to review the order terminating parental rights. II. Termination of Parental Rights Mother does not claim J.D. was not adoptab le. Rather, Mother claims the juvenile court committed reversible error in failing to apply the exception to termination of parental rights contained in section 366.26, subdivision(c)(1)(B)(i ). There is some discrepancy between appellate c ourts as to what standard of review applies—sufficiency of the evidence or abuse of discretion. (Cf. In re S.B. (2008) 164 Cal. App.4th 289, 297-
298 and In re Autumn H. (1994) 27 Cal.App.4th 567, 575 [the determination of whether an exceptional circumstance exists is customar ily challenged for suffi ciency of evidence]
with In re Jasmine D. (2000) 78 Cal.App.4th 1339, 1342 [abuse of discretion applied to determination of whether parent -child exception existed] and In re T.S. (2009) 17524 Cal.App.4th 1031, 1038 [Indian ch ild exception].) Some courts apply a hybrid of the two standards. ( In re C.B. (2010) 190 Cal.App.4th 102, 122-123; In re Bailey J. (2010) 189 Cal.App.4th 1308, 1314-1315.) Under this standard, the juve nile court has discretion to resolve whether a statutory exception exists such that termination of parental rights would be detrimental to an adoptable child. ( In re A.A. (2008) 167 Cal.App.4th 1292, 1322; In re Jasmine D., supra, at p. 1342.) However, the juvenile court’s pure factual findings are reviewed for substantial evidence. ( In re C.B. , supra , at p. 122; In re Jasmine D. , supra , at p. 1351.) Under either standard, th ere was no reversible error in this case. If a child is likely to be adopted, the preferred permanent plan, at a section 366.26 hearing, is adoption. ( In re Celine R. (2003) 31 Cal.4th 45, 53; In re Jasmine D., supra, 78 Cal.App.4th at p. 1348.) The parent has the burden of raising any relevant exception in the juvenile court. ( In re C.F. (2011) 193 Cal.App.4th 549, 553; In re Erik P. (2002) 104 Cal.App.4th 395, 402-403.) Mother ha s the burden of producing evidence showing the exception applies. ( In re Celine R.
, supra , at p. 61; In re Bailey J., supra, 189 Cal.App.4th at p. 1314.)
Mother claims she estab lished the exception by showi ng regular and consistent
visitation and that she and J.D. are bonded. To determine whether the exception applies, the juvenile court should consider: the age of the child; the portion of the child’s life spent in the parent’s custody; the positive and negative intera ction between the parent and the child; and the child’s particular needs. ( In re Amber M. (2002) 103 Cal.App.4th 681, 689; In re Jerome D. (2000) 84 Cal.App. 4th 1200, 1206; In re Autumn H. , supra , 27 Cal.App.4th at p. 576.) “In the context of the depe ndency scheme prescribed by the Legislature, . . . the ‘benefit from continuing the [parent/child] relationship’ exception [means] the relationship promotes the well- being of the child to such a degree as to outweigh the well-being the child would gain in a perman ent home with new, adoptive parents. In other words, the court balances the strengt h and quality of the natural parent/child relationship in a tenuous placement against th e security and the sense of belonging a new25 family would confer. If severing the natural parent/child relationship would deprive the child of a substantial, positive emotional attach ment such that the ch ild would be greatly harmed, the preference for adoption is overcom e and the natural parent’s rights are not terminated. [¶] Interaction between natura l parent and child will always confer some incidental benefit to the child. The signifi cant attachment from child to parent results
from the adult’s attention to the child’s need s for physical care, nourishment, comfort, affection and stimulation. [Citation.] The rela tionship arises from da y-to-day interaction, companionship and shared expe riences. [Citation.] The exception applies only where the court finds regular visits and contact have continued or de veloped a significant, positive, emotional attachment from child to parent.” ( In re Autumn H ., supra , 27 Cal.App.4th at p. 575.) Mother did not show she had a parental ro le as opposed to a mere friendship with J.D. ( In re Brittany C. (1999) 76 Cal.App.4th 847, 854; [p arents must show at least one biological parent occupies a parental role rath er than a friendship].) Instead, Mother only showed frequent contact with pleasant visits, which did not establish a parental role. (See
In re Andrea R. (1999) 75 Cal.App.4th 1093, 1108, 1109 [parents are required to establish more than “‘frequent and loving contact’” or an “emo tional bond” accompanied by pleasant visits but must s how “‘parental role’”].) Mother did not produce any evidence that she provided daily nurturing to J.D., which was indicative of a strong parent-child bond after April 2011 when the dependency proceeding began. ( In re Jamie
R. (2001) 90 Cal.App.4th 766, 774.) Furthermor e, as the court pointed out, J.D. was not in Mother’s custody at that time due to th e family law order givi ng Father custody of J.D., when she was four months old. J.D. was over three and half years old wh en parental rights were terminated. The dependency action was filed in April 2011 when J.D. was 14 months old. We acknowledge that Mother continued to partic ipate in court-ordered programs during the two-year period after the depe ndency petition filed. Howeve r, Mother and Father had not resolved any of the issues which brought the fa mily to the court’s attention. Mother and26 Father continued the on agai n off again domestic violence filled relationship throughout the proceedings. Although J.D. had happy vis its with Mother, Mother ha d not provided for J.D.’s daily needs or care since J.D. was four months old. J.D. had been living with Paternal Grandparents since Father had moved in with hi s parents after he and Mother separated. Thus, for the bulk of J.D.’s life, she had lived with Paternal Grandp arents, who were her prospective adoptive family. Fo r most of her life, J.D.’s daily needs and care were met by Paternal Grandparents, who wanted to adopt her. Under the circumstances, the juvenile court did not err in terminating parental rights given the absence of evidence showing “the existence of such a strong and beneficial parent-child relationship” which “outweighs the child’s need for a stable and permanent home.” ( In re Casey D., supra, 70 Cal.App.4th at p. 51.) III. ICWA Compliance
Mother asserts the order must be reversed on the ground ICWA notice requirements were not met because the de partment failed to include sufficient information about paternal rela tive Mattie B. “[W]here the court knows or has reason to know that an Indian child is involved, the pa rty seeking the foster care placement of, or termination of parental rights to, an Indian child shall notify the parent or Indian custodian and Indian child’s tribe, by register ed mail with return receipt requested, of the pending proceedings and of th eir right of intervention.” (25 U.S.C. § 1912(a).) The department concedes that there we re irregularities in complying with the notice requirements in that Mattie B. was co nfirmed by Paternal Gr andmother to have a Cherokee heritage. However, the notices sent to the Cherokee tribes did not contain ancestor Mattie B.’s name. In addition, there was no signed return receipt from the
Eastern Band of Cherokee Indians in the record. The department conced es that the return receipts and responses were not provided to th e court and asks that the termination order
be reversed and remanded for the sole purpose of complying with the notice requirements.27 We agree that the termination order must be reversed for the limited purpose of determining compliance with th e notice requirements. (See In re Brooke C. (2005) 127 Cal.App.4th 377, 385; In re Miguel E. (2004) 120 Cal.App.4th 521, 549-550; In re Karla
C. (2003) 113 Cal.App.4th 166, 174-176.) Howe ver, if no tribe responds that J.D. is an Indian child, the juvenile court is directed to reinstate the order terminating parental rights.

DISPOSITION The order terminating parental rights is conditionally reversed and the case is remanded to the juvenile court with directions to order the department to comply with inquiry and notice provisions of ICWA. If, after receiving proper notice, no tribe
indicates J.D. is an Indian ch ild within the meaning of the ICWA, then the juvenile court shall reinstate the order terminating parental rights.
NOT TO BE PUBLISHED IN THE OFFICIAL REPORTS.

________________ _____, J. *
FERNS
We concur:

_____________ _______________, P. J.
BOREN

___________________ _________, J.
CHAVEZ

* Judge of the Los Angeles Superior Court, assigned by the Chief Justice pursuant to article VI, section 6 of the California Constitution.