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# Emotional Wellness Toolkit

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How you feel can affect your ability to carry out everyday activities, your relationships, and your overall mental health. How you react to your experiences and feelings can change over time. Emotional wellness is the ability to successfully handle life’s stresses and adapt to change and difficult times. Flip each card below for checklists on how to improve your health in each area. Click on the images to read articles about each topic. You can also print the checklists separately or all together to share with others or as a reminder to yourself.

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## 6 strategies for improving your emotional health

### Build resilience

People who are emotionally well, experts say, have fewer negative emotions and are able to bounce back from difficulties faster. This quality is called resilience. Learning healthy ways to cope and how to draw from resources in your community can help you build resilience.

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#### To build resilience:

                            - Develop healthy physical habits.  Healthy eating, physical activity, and regular sleep can improve your physical and mental health.
                            - Take time for yourself each day.  Notice the good moments. Do something you enjoy.
                            - Look at problems from different angles.  Think of challenging situations as growth opportunities. Learn from your mistakes. Try to see the  positive side of things .
                            - Practice gratitude.  Take time to note things to be thankful for each day.
                            - Explore your beliefs about the meaning and purpose of life.  Think about how to guide your life by the principles important to you.
                            - Tap into social connections and community.  Surround yourself with positive, healthy people. Ask for help when you need it.
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### Reduce stress

Everyone feels stressed from time to time. Stress can give you a rush of energy when it’s needed most. But if stress lasts a long time—a condition known as chronic stress—those “high-alert” changes become harmful rather than helpful. Learning healthy ways to cope with stress can also boost your resilience.

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#### To help manage stress:

                            - Get enough sleep.  Adults need 7 or more hours each night, school-age kids need 9–12, and teens need 8–10.
                            - Exercise regularly.  Just 30 minutes a day of walking can boost mood and reduce stress.
                            - Build a social support network.
                            - Set priorities.  Decide what must get done and what can wait. Say no to new tasks if you feel they’re too much.
                            -  **Show compassion for yourself.** Note what you’ve accomplished at the end of the day, not what you didn’t. 
                            -  **Schedule regular times for a relaxing activity that uses mindfulness/breathing exercises,** like yoga or tai chi. 
                            - Seek help.  Talk to a mental health professional if you feel unable to cope, have suicidal thoughts, or use drugs or alcohol to cope.
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### Get quality sleep

To fit in everything we want to do in our day, we often sacrifice sleep. But sleep affects both mental and physical health. It’s vital to your well-being. When you’re tired, you can’t function at your best. Sleep helps you think more clearly, have quicker reflexes and focus better. Take steps to make sure you regularly get a good night’s sleep.

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#### To get better quality sleep:

                            - Go to bed the same time each night and wake up the same time each morning.
                            - Sleep in a dark, quiet, comfortable environment.
                            - Exercise daily (but not right before bedtime).
                            - Limit the use of electronics before bed.
                            - Relax before bedtime. Try a warm bath or reading.
                            - Avoid alcohol and large meals before bedtime.
                            - Avoid stimulants like nicotine and caffeine.
                            - Don't take naps after mid-afternoon. Keep naps short.
                            - Try to get natural sunlight for at least 30 minutes a day.
                            - Consult a health care professional if you have ongoing sleep problems.
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### Be mindful

The concept of mindfulness is simple. This ancient practice is about being completely aware of what’s happening in the present—of all that’s going on inside and all that’s happening around you. It means not living your life on “autopilot.” Becoming a more mindful person requires commitment and practice. Here are some tips to help you get started.

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#### To be more mindful:

                            - Take some deep breaths.  Breathe in through your nose to a count of 4, hold for 1 second and then exhale through the mouth to a count of 5. Repeat often.
                            - Enjoy a stroll.  As you walk, notice your breath and the sights and sounds around you. As thoughts and worries enter your mind, note them but then return to the present.
                            - Practice mindful eating.  Be aware of taste, textures, and flavors in each bite, and listen to your body when you are hungry and full.
                            -  **Be aware of your body.** Mentally scan your body from head to toe. Bring your attention to how each part feels. 
                            -  **Find mindfulness resources,** including online programs and teacher-guided practices. 
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### Cope with loss

When someone you love dies, your world changes. There is no right or wrong way to mourn. Although the death of a loved one can feel overwhelming, most people can make it through the grieving process with the support of family and friends. Learn healthy ways to help you through difficult times.

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#### To help cope with loss:

                            - Take care of yourself.  Try to eat right, exercise, and get enough sleep. Avoid bad habits—like smoking or drinking alcohol—that can put your health at risk.
                            - Ta lk to caring friends.  Let others know when you want to talk.
                            - Find a grief support group.  It might help to talk with others who are also grieving.  
                            - Don’t make major changes right away.  Wait a while before making big decisions like moving or changing jobs.
                            - Talk to your doctor  if you’re having trouble with everyday activities.
                            - Consider additional support.  Sometimes short-term talk therapy can help.
                            - Be patient.  Mourning takes time. It’s common to have roller-coaster emotions for a while.
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### Strengthen social connections

Social connections might help protect health and lengthen life. Scientists are finding that our links to others can have powerful effects on our health—both emotionally and physically. Whether with romantic partners, family, friends, neighbors, or others, social connections can influence our biology and well-being.

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#### To build healthy support systems:

                            - Build strong relationships with your kids.
                            - Get active and share good habits with family and friends.
                            - If you’re a family caregiver, ask for help from others.
                            - Join a group focused on a favorite hobby, such as reading, hiking, or painting.
                            - Take a class to learn something new.
                            - Volunteer for things you care about in your community, like a community garden, school, library, or place of worship.
                            - Travel to different places and meet new people.
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## Want to learn more?

NIH scientists study how physical illness, mental health conditions, caregiving, sleep, and stress impact your emotional health and well-being. Read more resources from the NIH institutes advancing research in these areas.

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This page last reviewed on August 8, 2022

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