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                                                                   Exhibit 10.35


                              E-STAMP CORPORATION

                     CHANGE OF CONTROL SEVERANCE AGREEMENT

     This Change of Control Severance Agreement (the "Agreement") is made and
entered into effective as of November 17, 2000 (the "Effective Date"), by and
between Edward Malysz (the "Employee") and E-Stamp Corporation, a Delaware
corporation (the "Company").  Certain capitalized terms used in this Agreement
are defined in Section 1 below.

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     A.  The Company may from time to time consider the possibility of a Change
of Control.  The Board of Directors of the Company (the "Board") recognizes that
such consideration can be a distraction to the Employee and can cause the
Employee to consider alternative employment opportunities.

     B.  The Board believes that it is in the best interests of the Company and
its shareholders to provide the Employee with an incentive to continue his or
her employment and to maximize the value of the Company upon a Change of Control
for the benefit of its shareholders.

     C.  In order to provide the Employee with enhanced financial security and
sufficient encouragement to remain with the Company notwithstanding the
possibility of a Change of Control, the Board believes that it is imperative to
provide the Employee with certain severance benefits upon the Employee's
termination of employment following a Change of Control.

                                   AGREEMENT
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     In consideration of the mutual covenants herein contained and the continued
employment of Employee by the Company, the parties agree as follows:

     1.  Definition of Terms.  The following terms referred to in this Agreement
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shall have the following meanings:

          (a)  Cause.  "Cause" shall mean (i) any commission of an act of fraud,
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dishonesty, misappropriation, embezzlement, or other willful or reckless
misconduct with respect to the business or property of the Company which is
intended to result in substantial personal enrichment of the Employee or causes
material harm to the Company, (ii) Employee's conviction of, or plea of guilty
or nolo contendere to, a felony, and (iii) Employee's willful and continued
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failure to substantially perform his or her duties of employment after there has
been delivered to the Employee a written demand for performance from the Company
which describes the basis for the Company's belief that the Employee has not
substantially performed his or her duties.
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          (b) Change of Control. "Change of Control" shall mean the occurrence
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of any of the following events:

                 (i) the approval by shareholders of the Company of a merger or
consolidation of the Company with any other corporation, other than a merger or
consolidation which would result in the voting securities of the Company
outstanding immediately prior thereto continuing to represent (either by
remaining outstanding or by being converted into voting securities of the
surviving entity) more than fifty percent (50%) of the total voting power
represented by the voting securities of the Company or such surviving entity
outstanding immediately after such merger or consolidation;

                 (ii) the approval by the shareholders of the Company of a plan
of complete liquidation of the Company or an agreement for the sale or
disposition by the Company of all or substantially all of the Company's assets;

                 (iii) any "person" (as such term is used in Sections 13(d) and
14(d) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended) becoming the
"beneficial owner" (as defined in Rule 13d-3 under said Act), directly or
indirectly, of securities of the Company representing 50% or more of the total
voting power represented by the Company's then outstanding voting securities; or
(iv) a change in the composition of the Board, as a result of which fewer than a
majority of the directors are Incumbent Directors. "Incumbent Directors" shall
mean directors who either (A) are directors of the Company as of the date
hereof, or (B) are elected, or nominated for election, to the Board with the
affirmative votes of at least a majority of those directors whose election or
nomination was not in connection with any transactions described in subsections
(i), (ii), or (iii) or in connection with an actual or threatened proxy contest
relating to the election of directors of the Company.


          (c) Termination Date. "Termination Date" shall mean the effective date
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of any notice of termination delivered by one party to the other hereunder
within twelve (12) months after a Change of Control.


          2. Term of Agreement. This Agreement shall terminate upon the earlier
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of (i) the date that all obligations of the parties hereto under this Agreement
have been satisfied or (ii) if Employee's employment with the Company terminates
for any reason prior to a Change of Control, the date that Employee is no longer
employed by the Company.

          3. At-Will Employment. The Company and the Employee acknowledge that
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the Employee's employment is and shall continue to be at-will, as defined under
applicable law. If the Employee's employment terminates for any reason, the
Employee shall not be entitled to any payments, benefits, damages, awards or
compensation other than as provided by this Agreement, or as may otherwise be
established under the Company's then existing employee benefit plans or policies
at the time of termination.



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          4. Severance Benefits.
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                 (a) Termination Without Cause Following A Change of Control. If
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the Employee's employment with the Company is terminated by the Company without
Cause at any time within twelve (12) months after a Change of Control and
Employee signs and does not revoke a release of claims with the Company in the
form provided to Employee by the Company, Employee shall be entitled to the
following severance benefits:

                        (i) Employee shall be entitled to severance pay equal to
100% of Employee's annual base salary, as in effect immediately prior to the
Termination Date, less applicable withholding, payable in a lump sum within
thirty (30) days of the Termination Date.

                        (ii) The Company shall pay the group health plan
 continuation coverage premiums for Employee under Title X of the Consolidated
 Budget Reconciliation Act of 1985, as amended, ("COBRA") through the lesser of
 (x) twelve (12) months from the date of Employee's termination of employment,
 or (y) the date upon which Employee is covered by a substantially similar plan
 of Employee's new employer. Employee shall notify the Company when coverage
 under a new employer's plan begins.

                        (iii) The Company shall immediately forgive any unpaid
principal and accrued interest on any promissory note that was used by Employee
to purchase Common Stock of the Company. The foregoing shall not apply to the
payment of any accrued interest that is then past due under any such promissory
note, and shall not affect in any manner the obligations of Employee under any
other loan provided by the Company to the Employee.

                        (iv) The Company will offer Employee Company-paid
outplacement services for twelve (12) months following the Termination Date, up
to a maximum cost of $1,000 dollars.

                 (b) Other Termination. If the Employee's employment with the
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Company terminates for any other reason other than as provided in Section 4(a)
above, then the Employee shall not be entitled to receive severance or other
benefits hereunder, but may be eligible for those benefits (if any) as may then
be established under the Company's then existing severance and benefits plans
and policies at the time of such termination.

                 (c) Accrued Wages and Vacation; Expenses. Without regard to the
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reason for, or the timing of, Employee's termination of employment: (i) the
Company shall pay the Employee any unpaid base salary due for periods prior to
the Termination Date; (ii) the Company shall pay the Employee all of the
Employee's accrued and unused paid time off through the Termination Date; and
(iii) following submission of proper expense reports by the Employee, the
Company shall reimburse the Employee for all expenses reasonably and necessarily
incurred by the Employee in connection with the business of the Company prior to
the Termination Date to the extent reimbursable under the Company's travel and
expense reimbursement policies. These payments shall be made promptly upon
termination and within the period of time mandated by law.

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          5.  Successors.
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                 (a) Company's Successors. Any successor to the Company (whether
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direct or indirect and whether by purchase, lease, merger, consolidation,
liquidation or otherwise) to all or substantially all of the Company's business
and/or assets shall assume the Company's obligations under this Agreement and
agree expressly to perform the Company's obligations under this Agreement in the
same manner and to the same extent as the Company would be required to perform
such obligations in the absence of a succession. For all purposes under this
Agreement, the term "Company" shall include any successor to the Company's
business and/or assets which executes and delivers the assumption agreement
described in this subsection (a) or which becomes bound by the terms of this
Agreement by operation of law.

                 (b) Employee's Successors. Without the written consent of the
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Company, Employee shall not assign or transfer this Agreement or any right or
obligation under this Agreement to any other person or entity. Notwithstanding
the foregoing, the terms of this Agreement and all rights of Employee hereunder
shall inure to the benefit of, and be enforceable by, Employee's personal or
legal representatives, executors, administrators, successors, heirs,
distributees, devisees and legatees.

          6.  Notices.
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                 (a) General. Notices and all other communications contemplated
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by this Agreement shall be in writing and shall be deemed to have been duly
given when personally delivered or when mailed by U.S. registered or certified
mail, return receipt requested and postage prepaid. In the case of the Employee,
mailed notices shall be addressed to him at the home address which he most
recently communicated to the Company in writing. In the case of the Company,
mailed notices shall be addressed to its corporate headquarters, and all notices
shall be directed to the attention of its Secretary.

                 (b) Notice of Termination. Any termination by the Company or by
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the Employee shall be communicated by a notice of termination to the other party
hereto given in accordance with this Section.

          7.  Arbitration.
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                 (a) Any dispute or controversy arising out of, relating to, or
in connection with this Agreement, or the interpretation, validity,
construction, performance, breach, or termination thereof, shall be settled by
binding arbitration to be held in Santa Clara County, California, in accordance
with the National Rules for the Resolution of Employment Disputes then in effect
of the American Arbitration Association (the "Rules"). The arbitrator may grant
injunctions or other relief in such dispute or controversy. The decision of the
arbitrator shall be final, conclusive and binding on the parties to the
arbitration. Judgment may be entered on the arbitrator's decision in any court
having jurisdiction.

                 (b) The arbitrator(s) shall apply California law to the merits
of any dispute or claim, without reference to conflicts of law rules. The
arbitration proceedings shall be governed by federal

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arbitration law and by the Rules, without reference to state arbitration law.
Employee hereby consents to the personal jurisdiction of the state and federal
courts located in California for any action or proceeding arising from or
relating to this Agreement or relating to any arbitration in which the parties
are participants.

                 (c) Employee understands that nothing in this Section modifies
Employee's at-will employment status. Either Employee or the Company can
terminate the employment relationship at any time, with or without Cause.

                 (d) EMPLOYEE HAS READ AND UNDERSTANDS THIS SECTION, WHICH
DISCUSSES ARBITRATION. EMPLOYEE UNDERSTANDS THAT SUBMITTING ANY CLAIMS ARISING
OUT OF, RELATING TO, OR IN CONNECTION WITH THIS AGREEMENT, OR THE
INTERPRETATION, VALIDITY, CONSTRUCTION, PERFORMANCE, BREACH OR TERMINATION
THEREOF TO BINDING ARBITRATION, CONSTITUTES A WAIVER OF EMPLOYEE'S RIGHT TO A
JURY TRIAL AND RELATES TO THE RESOLUTION OF ALL DISPUTES RELATING TO ALL ASPECTS
OF THE EMPLOYER/EMPLOYEE RELATIONSHIP, INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO, THE
FOLLOWING CLAIMS:

                        (i) ANY AND ALL CLAIMS FOR WRONGFUL DISCHARGE OF
EMPLOYMENT; BREACH OF CONTRACT, BOTH EXPRESS AND IMPLIED; BREACH OF THE COVENANT
OF GOOD FAITH AND FAIR DEALING, BOTH EXPRESS AND IMPLIED; NEGLIGENT OR
INTENTIONAL INFLICTION OF EMOTIONAL DISTRESS; NEGLIGENT OR INTENTIONAL
MISREPRESENTATION; NEGLIGENT OR INTENTIONAL INTERFERENCE WITH CONTRACT OR
PROSPECTIVE ECONOMIC ADVANTAGE; AND DEFAMATION.

                        (ii) ANY AND ALL CLAIMS FOR VIOLATION OF ANY FEDERAL
STATE OR MUNICIPAL STATUTE, INCLUDING, BUT NOT LIMITED TO, TITLE VII OF THE
CIVIL RIGHTS ACT OF 1964, THE CIVIL RIGHTS ACT OF 1991, THE AGE DISCRIMINATION
IN EMPLOYMENT ACT OF 1967, THE AMERICANS WITH DISABILITIES ACT OF 1990, THE FAIR
LABOR STANDARDS ACT, THE CALIFORNIA FAIR EMPLOYMENT AND HOUSING ACT, AND LABOR
CODE SECTION 201, et seq;

                        (iii) ANY AND ALL CLAIMS ARISING OUT OF ANY OTHER LAWS
AND REGULATIONS RELATING TO EMPLOYMENT OR EMPLOYMENT DISCRIMINATION.

          8.  Miscellaneous Provisions.
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                 (a) No Duty to Mitigate. The Employee shall not be required to
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mitigate the amount of any payment contemplated by this Agreement, nor shall any
such payment be reduced by any earnings that the Employee may receive from any
other source.

                 (b) Waiver. No provision of this Agreement may be modified,
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waived or discharged unless the modification, waiver or discharge is agreed to
in writing and signed by the Employee and

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by an authorized officer of the Company (other than the Employee). No waiver by
either party of any breach of, or of compliance with, any condition or provision
of this Agreement by the other party shall be considered a waiver of any other
condition or provision or of the same condition or provision at another time.

                 (c) Integration. This Agreement represents the entire agreement
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and understanding between the parties as to the subject matter herein and
supersedes all prior or contemporaneous agreements, whether written or oral,
with respect to this Agreement.

                 (d) Choice of Law. The validity, interpretation, construction
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and performance of this Agreement shall be governed by the internal substantive
laws, but not the conflicts of law rules, of the State of California.

                 (e) Severability. The invalidity or unenforceability of any
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provision or provisions of this Agreement shall not affect the validity or
enforceability of any other provision hereof, which shall remain in full force
and effect.

                 (f) Employment Taxes. All payments made pursuant to this
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Agreement shall be subject to withholding of applicable income and employment
taxes. Employee shall be responsible for all applicable income and employment
taxes in connection with the forgiveness of any debt pursuant to this Agreement.

                 (g) Counterparts. This Agreement may be executed in
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counterparts, each of which shall be deemed an original, but all of which
together will constitute one and the same instrument.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, each of the parties has executed this Agreement, in the case
of the Company by its duly authorized officer, as of the day and year first
above written.

COMPANY:                               E-STAMP CORPORATION

                                       By:  /s/ Robert H. Ewald
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                                       Title:  President and CEO
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EMPLOYEE:                                  /s/ Edward Malysz
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                                       Signature

                                       Edward Malysz
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                                       Printed Name

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