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                                                                Exhibit 10.12e2

                     AMENDMENT NO. 2 TO EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT

      AMENDMENT NO. 2, dated as of March 1, 2003, among SELECTIVE INSURANCE
GROUP, INC., a New Jersey corporation ("Selective"), having an office at 40
Wantage Avenue, Branchville, New Jersey 07826, SELECTIVE INSURANCE COMPANY OF
AMERICA, a New Jersey corporation ("SICA"), having an office at 40 Wantage
Avenue, Branchville, New Jersey 07826, and JAMES W. COLEMAN JR., having an
address at 5035 Windward Avenue, Sarasota, Florida (the "Executive"), to
Employment Agreement dated as of May 1, 1997 among Selective, SICA and the
Executive, (as so amended, the "Employment Agreement").

      WHEREAS, Selective, SICA and the Executive have executed and delivered the
Employment Agreement, and Selective has guaranteed all of the obligations of
SICA as the Employer under the Employment Agreement; and

      WHEREAS, the parties hereto desire to further amend the Employment
Agreement to extend the term thereof and to modify the description of the duties
of the Executive, as set forth in Section 4(a) of the Employment Agreement, and
to modify the Salary (as defined in Section 3 of the Employment Agreement)
provided for therein.

      THEREFORE, in consideration of the premises and the mutual covenants
hereinafter set forth, the parties hereto agree as follows:

            1. The term of employment under the Employment Agreement is hereby
extended for a period of three (3) years commencing March 1, 2003 (the "Renewal
Term"), and all references in the Agreement to the term thereof or the
Executive's term of employment thereunder shall include the Renewal Term.

            2. The Salary, as defined and provided for in Section 3 of the
Employment Agreement, shall be paid to the Executive at a rate of not less than
Two Hundred Ninety-Four Thousand and 06/100 ($294,000.06) Dollars per year
during the Renewal Term.

            3. The Executive is presently serving as an Executive Vice
President-Diversified Insurance Services of SICA and Selective, and all
reference to the Employment Agreement to Executive serving as Senior Vice
President of the Company (as defined in the Employment Agreement) are hereby
amended to refer to the Executive as an Executive Vice President-Diversified
Insurance Services of the Company (as defined in the Employment Agreement) and
Selective.
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            4. Selective reaffirms that it guarantees to the Executive the full
performance by SICA of all of its obligations under the Employment Agreement as
amended herein.

            5. Except as amended herein, the Employment Agreement shall continue
in full force and effect on and after the date hereof.

            IN WITNESS WHEREOF, this Amendment has been duly executed by the
Executive and on behalf of Selective and SICA by their duly authorized officers
as of the date and year first above written.


                                        SELECTIVE INSURANCE GROUP, INC.


                                        By:  /s/  Gregory E. Murphy
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                                              Name:  Gregory E. Murphy
                                              Title: President and Chief
                                                     Executive Officer


                                        SELECTIVE INSURANCE COMPANY
                                        OF AMERICA


                                        By:  /s/  Gregory E. Murphy
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                                              Name:  Gregory E. Murphy
                                              Title: President and Chief
                                                     Executive Officer


                                        By:  /s/  James W. Coleman, Jr.
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                                                Executive