IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 14

- 1182 Filed May 6, 2015

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF BRIAN WALTER PRUIN AND LAURA M. PRUIN
Upon the Petition of BRIAN WALTER PRUIN , Petitioner

- Appell ee , And Concerning LAURA M. PRUIN , Respondent

- Appell ant

.

________________________________________________________________ Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Bremer County, Gregg Rosenbladt
, Judge.

Laura Pruin appeals from the district court ’ s ruling on her application to
modify the physical care provisions of the parties ’ dissolution decree.

AFFIRMED.

Andrew B. Ho wi e of Hudson, Mallaney, Shindler & Anderson, P.C., West
Des Moines, and Karen L. Thalacker of Gallagher, Langlas & Gallagher, P.C

. , Waverly , for appellant.

Shanna Chevalier and Lana L. Luhring of Laird & Luhring
, Waverly , for
appellee.

Considered by Danilson, C.J., Potterfield, J., and Miller, S.J.*

* Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206 (2015).2

D ANILSON, C.J.

Laura Pruin and Brian Pruin were married in September 1998 and had
four children together. A dissolution decree was entered in August 2011 in which

t he court ordered shared physical car e of the four minor c hildren. Laura filed a
petition to modify the decree on April 10, 2013, seeking to end the shared care
arrangement and have the children placed in her physical care. Following a May

2014 trial, the district court ruled Laura had failed to meet her burden to prove a
substantial change of circumstances warranted modification of the decree and
she failed to prove she was a better parent. See Melchior v

. Kooi , 644 N.W.2d
365, 369 (Iowa 2002) (recognizing that an initial shared care arrangement

resulted from a finding that b oth parents are capable parents and that in those
circumstances to prove a modification is warranted, the petitioner must show
both a change of circumstances and that the petitioner is a better parent). The
court wrote in part:

Laura and Brian do have different styles and outlooks on parenting. However, both are very invested in spending time with the children, and contributing to their growth and development. Laura is clearly the more “ intense ” of the two parents. She believes it is im portant to have the children involved in services, and believes it is very important that all appointments be kept and that the children receive all appropriate treatment for their diagnoses. B rian is the more “ laid

- back ” of the two parents. He does not seem opposed to the children being involved in counseling or medication management, but he seems to have more interest, for example, in having the children engage in exercise or other outdoor activities to help handle some of their hyperactive behaviors. After hearing the testimony of both parties, the Court finds that while their parenting styles and theories are somewhat different, the parents ’ outlooks
are complementary to each other, and both contribute toward the well

- being of the children.

. . . . At the conclusion of trial, Laura requested that she be granted primary physical care of the children. Brian requested that3

the Court not modify disposition at all, and that the Court keep the original visitation schedule as contained in the 2011 decree. Brian noted that due to a continued “ upward trend ” in communication between himself and Laura, and because this “ upward trend ” also applied to the children ’ s situation (as supported by the testimony of [special education teacher] Peggy Martin

- H o ldiman and [teacher] Katie Johnston) that the shared care arrangement was working remarkably well. The Court concurs with that thought. The parties are attempting to co

- parent four younger children with special needs, in two different households. The scheduli ng and the transitions are understandably challenging. However, it seems to the Court that things are going as well as or better than could be expected under the circumstances. The Court will comment as well on the test of “ better ” parenting. If a subst antial change in circumstances had been found, the Court would need to analyze in more detail who could provide the “ better ” parenting for the four children. The Court has indirectly discussed this issue above. Each parent has a slightly different outloo k on the children, and each parent obviously has strengths and weaknesses. Those qualities are discussed above. Both Laura and Brian are credible, they are both clearly interested in the children ’ s well

- being, and their parenting styles and strengths and weaknesses complement each other in certain respects. The Court cannot find and does not find that either parent provides

“ better ” parenting than the other at this time.

Laura a ppeals, contending the district court erred in failing to grant her

modifica tion petition

. Upon our de novo review, see Iowa R. App. P. 6.907 ( stating we r eview an
equity action de novo ), we find no reason to modify the district court ’ s ruling. The
district court wrote a thoughtful and consider ed ruling, accurately stating the legal
principles at play . Its factual findings are fully supported by the record. We
acknowledge the situation with the children sleeping at their grandmother’s
house is not an ideal joint physical care arrangement, and we hope that it is only

temporary. Brian’s abuse of one of the children is troubling
, but he accepted
responsibility for the incident
, and it has been fully dealt with by the Iowa4

Department of Human Services , which is no longer involved. And for now, as t he
district court stated, “ [T] hings are going as well as or better than could be
expected .” The parents undoubtedly will have many new challenges to face in

the future and
, in time, the joint physical care arrangement may prove to be
unworkable or they ma y succeed notwithstanding the challenges. At this
juncture, we agree the change in circumstances since the entry of the decree

do es not support modification of the physical care arrangement. Further

discussion would be of little value
, and we therefore a ffirm without further
opinion. See Iowa Ct. R. 21.26(1) (b), (d), (e).
Brian requests an award of appellate attorney fees

. An award

of appellate attorney fees is not a matter of right, but rests within our sound

discretion. In re Marriage of Okland
, 699 N.W.2d 260, 270 (Iowa 2005). “ We
consider the needs of the party making the request, the ability of the other party

to pay, ” and the relative merits of the appeal. In re Marriage of Berning
, 745
N.W.2d 90, 94 (Iowa Ct. App. 2007). While Brian has p revailed, we note he

makes about twice as much as Laura, who has a limited income. We do not
award appellate fees. Costs are assessed to Laura.

AFFIRMED.