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                                                                   EXHIBIT 4.19


                        AMENDMENT TO SENIOR SUBORDINATED
                         SECURED NOTE PURCHASE AGREEMENT


         This Amendment to Senior Subordinated Secured Note Purchase Agreement,
dated as of December 23, 2000 (this "AMENDMENT"), is entered into among National
Record Mart, Inc., a Delaware corporation (the "ISSUER"), NRM Investments, Inc.,
a Delaware corporation (the "GUARANTOR" and, collectively with the Issuer, the
"OBLIGORS"), and The Chase Manhattan Bank (as successor in interest to Robert
Fleming Inc., the "AGENT"), in its capacity as agent for the Holders under that
certain Senior Subordinated Secured Note Purchase Agreement dated as of April
16, 1998, (including all annexes, exhibits and schedules thereto, the "SECURED
NOTE PURCHASE AGREEMENT"). Capitalized terms used and not otherwise defined
herein shall have the meaning ascribed to such terms in the Secured Note
Purchase Agreement.

                              W I T N E S S E T H:

         WHEREAS, the Obligors, the Purchaser, and the Agent each have entered
into the Secured Note Purchase Agreement; and

         WHEREAS, the Obligors are also parties to that certain Senior
Subordinated Note Purchase Agreement dated as of April 16, 1998 (including all
annexes, exhibits and schedules thereto, the "UNSECURED NOTE PURCHASE
AGREEMENT"); and

         WHEREAS, the Issuer has requested that the Agent and the Holders amend
the covenant set forth in Section 7.16 of the Secured Note Purchase Agreement;
and

         WHEREAS, the Obligors have indicated that they will amend a similar
covenant in the Unsecured Note Purchase Agreement; and

         WHEREAS, the Required Holders have consented to this Amendment as
required by the Secured Note Purchase Agreement; and

         WHEREAS, the Agent is willing to enter into this Amendment on the terms
and conditions set forth herein;

         NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the above premises the Obligors and
the Agent, on behalf of itself and the Holders, each agrees as follows:

         1. Amendments to Secured Note Purchase Agreement. Effective as of the
Amendment Effective Date (as defined below), the Secured Note Purchase Agreement
shall be amended as follows:

                  Section 1.01 of the Secured Note Purchase Agreement shall be
amended by adding the following:

                  "FINANCIAL ADVISOR" means an investment banking firm or other
                  financial advisor selected by the Issuer and


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                  reasonably acceptable to the Agent which shall have knowledge
                  and experience in the music retailing industry.

                  Section 7.16 of the Secured Note Purchase Agreement shall be
amended in its entirety to read as follows:

                  Issuer shall not permit its Cash Flow to be less than $250,000
                  for the aggregate of any fiscal quarter and the preceding
                  three fiscal quarters, except that with respect to the fiscal
                  quarter ending December 23, 2000 and the preceding three
                  fiscal quarters, Issuer shall not permit its Cash Flow to be
                  less than the amount set forth in that certain letter, dated
                  February 6, 2001, from the Issuer to the Agent.

                  Section 8.01 of the Secured Note Purchase Agreement shall be
amended by adding each of the following as an "Event of Default" under the
Secured Note Purchase Agreement:

                  (t) after February 6, 2001, the Issuer shall fail to continue
                  to engage the Financial Advisor or the Financial Advisor shall
                  no longer be providing services or serving as financial
                  advisor to the Issuer and a replacement Financial Advisor has
                  not been engaged or retained within ten (10) Business Days
                  thereafter.

                  (u) after February 6, 2001, the Issuer shall fail to use all
                  commercially reasonable efforts to promote and pursue
                  strategic alternatives for the Issuer as described in Section
                  8.01(x) hereof.

                  (v) beginning on February 12, 2001, the Issuer and, to the
                  extent available, the Issuer's advisors, including, without
                  limitation, the Financial Advisor, shall fail to participate
                  in any material respect in telephonically conducted meetings
                  requested by the Agent to be convened not less frequently than
                  twice during each calendar month on or about the first and
                  fifteenth day of each calendar month (or the first Business
                  Day thereafter), or such other date and time as (i) the Agent
                  may reasonably request or (ii) the Agent and the Issuer shall
                  agree upon request of the Issuer.

                  (w) the Issuer shall have failed to deliver to the Agent a
                  copy of any of the following, in each case in form and
                  substance satisfactory to the Agent in its sole discretion:
                  (i) as soon as available but no later than February 28, 2001,
                  a cash flow forecast and income statement through April 30,
                  2001, as prepared by the Issuer and reviewed by the Financial
                  Advisor, (ii) as soon as available but no later than February
                  28, 2001, a work plan including strategic alternatives being
                  considered by the Issuer, (iii) as and when delivered to
                  Fleet, the monthly statements described in Section 6.01(b) of
                  this Agreement, (iv) promptly but no later


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                  than five (5) Business Days after delivery to the Board of
                  Directors, the Board Reports described in Section 6.01(d) of
                  this Agreement, (v) promptly but no later than five (5)
                  Business Days after preparation by either the Issuer or the
                  Financial Advisor, all business plans, operating projections
                  or other forward looking financial statements (collectively
                  "PROJECTIONS") produced or developed by or on behalf of the
                  Issuer after February 6, 2001, including, without limitation,
                  any and all material updates of Projections whenever produced
                  or developed, and (vi) as and when delivered to Fleet, a copy
                  of the borrowing base certificate provided by the Issuer to
                  Fleet in connection with the Fleet Facility for the prior
                  calendar week.

                  (x) subject solely to any contractual limitations with respect
                  to confidentiality, the Issuer shall have failed to deliver to
                  the Agent a copy of any of the following promptly but no later
                  than five (5) Business Days after receipt of same by the
                  Issuer or the Financial Advisor: any letter of intent, bid,
                  purchase offer, expression of interest, proposal, or similar
                  document received by the Issuer or the Financial Advisor,
                  concerning or regarding substantially all of the assets or
                  stock of the Issuer, including, the acquisition of same, or a
                  refinancing of the Secured Notes; provided however, that the
                  Issuer shall use its reasonable best efforts to exclude from
                  any contractual limitations with respect to confidentiality
                  disclosure of any of the foregoing to the Agent.

         2. Amendment Effective Date. This Amendment shall be effective as of
the date first written above (the "AMENDMENT EFFECTIVE DATE") subject to the
satisfaction of each of the following conditions precedent:

                  2.1 The Agent shall have received, in form and substance
satisfactory to the Agent in its sole discretion, duly executed original
counterparts of this Amendment from each of the Issuer and the Guarantor.

                  2.2 The Agent shall have received from the Issuer
reimbursement for all reasonable costs and expenses incurred by the Agent
through and including February 5, 2001, including, without limitation, the
reasonable fees and expenses of counsel to the Agent.

                  2.3 The Issuer shall have engaged the Financial Advisor on
terms reasonably acceptable to the Agent and the Issuer.

                  2.4 The Issuer shall have obtained from Fleet with respect to
the Fleet Facility a waiver or amendment, similar in form and substance to this
Amendment, and the Agent shall have received a fully executed copy of same.

                  2.5 The Issuer shall have obtained from the Holders under the
Unsecured Note Purchase Agreement an amendment with respect to the Unsecured
Note Purchase Agreement, similar in form and substance to this Amendment,
relating to the Cash Flow covenant in Section 7.16 of the Unsecured Note
Purchase Agreement as such is applied to


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the period ending December 23, 2000, and the Agent shall have received a fully
executed copy of same.

                  2.6 All corporate and other proceedings, and all documents,
instruments and other legal matters in connection with the transactions
described in this Amendment shall be satisfactory in all respects in form and
substance to the Agent.

         3. Representations and Warranties of the Obligors. The Obligors each
represent and warrant to the Agent and the Holders that, as of the Amendment
Effective Date and after giving effect to this Amendment:

                  3.1 All of the representations and warranties of the Issuer
and the Guarantor contained in this Amendment, the Secured Note Purchase
Agreement, and the other Note Documents are true and correct on and as of the
Amendment Effective Date, as if then made (other than representations and
warranties which expressly related to an earlier date and except for changes
therein expressly permitted by the Secured Note Purchase Agreement).

                  3.2 No Default or Event of Default has occurred or is
continuing or will result after giving effect to this Amendment.

                  3.3 The Issuer is not and will not be in breach of any
financial covenant tested as of the Amendment Effective Date or as of February
5, 2001.

                  3.4 Since April 16, 1998, except for information previously
publicly disclosed or disclosed in writing by the Issuer to the Agent, (i) no
event or condition has occurred or is existing which could reasonably be
expected to have a Material Adverse Effect, (ii) no litigation has been
commenced which, if successful, would have a Material Adverse Effect or could
challenge any of the transactions contemplated by the Secured Note Purchase
Agreement, this Amendment, or the Note Documents, and (iii) there has been no
material increase in liabilities, liquidated or contingent, and no material
decrease in assets of either the Issuer or the Guarantor.

                  3.5 The Obligors have received with respect to the Fleet
Facility the executed amendment or waiver referred to in section 2.4 hereof, and
such amendment or waiver is binding and in full force and effect.

                  3.6 The Obligors have received with respect to the Unsecured
Note Purchase Agreement the executed amendment referred to in section 2.5
hereof, and such amendment is binding and in full force and effect.

                  3.7 The execution and delivery of this Amendment and related
documents by the Issuer and the Guarantor, and the performance of the
transactions contemplated hereby and thereby, (a) are within each such Person's
corporate power, (b) have been duly authorized by all necessary or proper
corporate and shareholder action, and (c) do not conflict with or violate any
contract or agreement to which the Issuer or the Guarantor may be a party; this
Amendment and such documents have been duly executed and delivered by, and each
constitutes a legal, valid, and binding obligation of, the Issuer and the
Guarantor, enforceable against each in accordance with its respective terms.


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         4. Reference to and Effect on the Note Documents.

                  4.1 Upon the Amendment Effective Date, each reference in the
Secured Note Purchase Agreement to "this Agreement", "hereunder", "hereof' or
words of like import, and each reference in the Note Documents to the Secured
Note Purchase Agreement, shall mean and be a reference to the Secured Note
Purchase Agreement as amended hereby.

                  4.2 This Amendment shall constitute a part of and be included
in the definition of Note Documents in the Secured Note Purchase Agreement.

                  4.3 This Amendment shall be limited solely to the matters
expressly set forth herein and shall not (i) constitute a waiver or amendment of
any other term or condition of the Secured Note Purchase Agreement or any other
Note Documents, (ii) prejudice any rights or remedies which Holders may now have
or may have in the future under or in connection with the Secured Note Purchase
Agreement or any other Note Documents, as amended hereby, (iii) require the
Holders to agree through the Agent or the consent of the Required Holders to a
similar amendment on a future occasion, or (iv) create any rights herein to any
other Person or other beneficiary or otherwise, except to the extent
specifically provided herein.

                  4.4 Except to the extent specifically consented to herein, the
respective provisions of the Secured Note Purchase Agreement and the other Note
Documents shall not be amended, modified, waived, impaired or otherwise affected
hereby, and such documents and the Obligations under each of them are hereby
confirmed as being in full force and effect.

         5. Time of the Essence. Each of the Obligors acknowledges and agrees
that time is of the essence with respect to each and every term of this
Amendment.

         6. Miscellaneous.

                  6.1 Counterparts. This Amendment may be executed in any number
of counterparts, each of which shall be an original but all of which together
shall constitute one instrument. Each counterpart may consist of a number of
copies hereof, each signed by less than all, but together signed by all, of the
parties hereto.

                  6.2 GOVERNING LAW. THIS AMENDMENT, AND ALL MATTERS OF
CONSTRUCTION, VALIDITY AND PERFORMANCE HEREOF, SHALL BE GOVERNED BY, AND
CONSTRUED AND ENFORCED IN ACCORDANCE WITH, THE LAWS OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK
APPLICABLE TO CONTRACTS MADE AND PERFORMED IN THAT STATE AND ANY APPLICABLE LAWS
OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.

                  6.3 Payments and Transfers of Funds. All payments or other
transfers of funds to the Agent under this Amendment shall be made in the lawful
currency of the United States by wire transfer of immediately available funds to
the Agent in accordance with the wire instructions specified in Schedule A
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                  IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the Issuer, the Guarantor, and the Agent
have caused this Amendment to be executed by their respective duly authorized
officers as of the date first above written.

NATIONAL RECORD MART, INC.

By: /s/ Theresa Carlise
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    Name: Theresa Carlise
    Title: Senior Vice President & CFO


NRM INVESTMENTS, INC.

By: /s/ Theresa Carlise
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    Name: Theresa Carlise
    Title: President


THE CHASE MANHATTAN BANK, SUCCESSOR
IN INTEREST TO ROBERT FLEMING, INC., AS THE AGENT

By: /s/ Michael Lancia
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    Name: Michael Lancia
    Title: Vice President


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