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A.S.W. Appellant

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H.M.W. : : : : : : : : : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF

PENNSYLVANIA

No. 2267 MDA 2015 Appeal from the Order Entered November 25, 2015 in the Court of Common Pleas of Lancaster County Civil

Division at No(s): CI
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BEFORE: SHOGAN, LAZARUS, JENKINS, JJ. MEMORANDUM BY JENKINS, J.: FILED SEPTEMBER 27, 2016 A.S.W. (“Father”) appeals from the order entered on November 23, 2015, in the Court of Common Pleas of Lancaster County, awarding H.M.W. (“Mother”) primary physical custody of E.M.W. (“Child”) (born in March of 2012), awarding Father partial physical custody, and awarding Mother an d Father shared legal custody of Child pursuant to 23 Pa.C.S. § 5328(a). We affirm. The trial court set forth the extensive factual history of this case in its opinion accompanying the subject order, and the trial court’s recitation is supported by the te stimonial and documentary evidence. As such, we adopt it herein. See Trial Court Opinion, 1/22/16, at 2
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are high school teachers at different high schools. Mother teaches health and physical education. Father teaches career education, driver’s education, health, and physical education. Father is also the varsity soccer coach. In addition to coaching at the high school during the high school season, Fathe r is involved in off
- season and summer season soccer coaching. On May 28, 2015, Father filed a complaint for primary physical custody and shared legal custody of Child. Thereafter, Father changed his request from primary physical custody to shared physic al custody. On August 20, 2015, a custody conciliation conference was held, but no agreement was reached. On September 15, 2015, the trial court adopted the conciliation officer’s recommendation and entered a temporary order awarding shared legal custody of Child to Mother and Father. Mother was awarded primary physical custody, and Father was awarded partial physical custody of Child on alternating weekends. The trial court order also directed a further custody hearing to be held on October 30, 2015. The custody hearing was continued to November 12, 2015 to obtain the testimony of Child’s therapist to determine the best interest of Child. The trial court held a custody hearing on November 12, 2015 and November 19, 2015. At the hearing the trial court heard the testimony of Mother; Father; J.A., a parent whose child plays on Father’s soccer team; J.S., Child’s therapist; B.L., an aquatic instructor; S.W., Child’s paternal grandmother; and M.A.C., Child’s maternal grandmother. On November 23,J
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2015, th e trial court again awarded Mother primary physical custody, Father partial physical custody on alternating weekends, and shared legal custody of Child to both Mother and Father. On December 23, 2015, Father filed a notice of appeal and a concise statemen t of errors complained on appeal pursuant to Pa.R.A.P. 1925(a)(2)(i) and (b). On appeal, Father raises the following question for our review:
1. Whether the lower court erred in its application of the factors under 23 Pa.C.S.[] § 5328(a) in determining the best interest of the child? Father’s Brief at 7. In custody cases, our standard of review is as follows: In reviewing a custody order, our scope is of the broadest type and our standard is abuse of discretion. We must accept findings of the trial court that are supported by competent evidence of record, as our role does not include making independent factual determinations. In addition, with regard to issues of credibility and weight of the evidence, we must defer to the presiding trial judge who viewe d and assessed the witnesses first
- hand. However, we are not bound by the trial court’s deductions or inferences from its factual findings. Ultimately, the test is whether the trial court’s conclusions are unreasonable as shown by the evidence of record. We may reject the conclusions of the trial court only if they involve an error of law, or are unreasonable in light of the sustainable findings of the trial court. C.R.F., III v. S.E.F. , 45 A.3d 441, 443 (Pa.Super.2012) (citation omitted). With any cust ody case under the Child Custody Act, 23 Pa.C.S. §§ 5321
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applying the Custody Act, a trial court must determine a child’s best interests through consideration of the following sixteen fact ors: § 5328. Factors to consider when awarding custody (a) Factors.
— In ordering any form of custody, the court shall determine the best interest of the child by considering all relevant factors, giving weighted consideration to those factors which affect the safety of the child, including the following: (1) Which party is more likely to encourage and permit frequent and continuing contact between the child and another party. (2) The present and past abuse committed by a party or member of the party’s ho usehold, whether there is a continued risk of harm to the child or an abused party and which party can better provide adequate physical safeguards and supervision of the child. (2.1) The information set forth in section 5329.1(a) (relating to consideratio n of child abuse and involvement with protective services). (3) The parental duties performed by each party on behalf of the child. (4) The need for stability and continuity in the child’s education, family life and community life. (5) The availability of extended family. (6) The child’s sibling relationships. (7) The well
- reasoned preference of the child, based on the child’s maturity and judgment. (8) The attempts of a parent to turn the child against the other parent, except in cases of domestic v iolence where reasonable safety measures are necessary to protect the child from harm.J
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- (9) Which party is more likely to maintain a loving, stable, consistent and nurturing relationship with the child adequate for the child’s emotional needs. (10) Which party is more likely to attend to the daily physical, emotional, developmental, educational and special needs of the child. (11) The proximity of the residences of the parties. (12) Each party’s availability to care for the child or ability to make appro priate child
- care arrangements. (13) The level of conflict between the parties and the willingness and ability of the parties to cooperate with one another. A party’s effort to protect a child from abuse by another party is not evidence of unwillingness or inability to cooperate with that party. (14) The history of drug or alcohol abuse of a party or member of a party’s household. (15) The mental and physical condition of a party or member of a party’s household. (16) Any other relevant factor. 23 Pa.C .S. § 5328. Father argues that the trial court misapplied the factors for determining the best interest of Child pursuant to section 5328(a). Father’s Brief at 11. Specifically, Father contends that the trial court “erred in finding that Mother is more likely to enc ourage and permit frequent and continuing contact between Father and Child.” Id. at 13. Additionally, Father argues that the trial court erred in finding that “Father’s employment as varsityJ
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boys’ soccer coach prevents him from having sufficient [] time with [C]hild.” 1 Id. at 17. With regard to section 5328(a)(1), which party is more likely to encourage and permit frequent and continuing contact between the child and another party, the trial court found: Mother is more likely to encourage and permit fre quent and continuing contact between Father and [C]hild, than is Father. Despite a right of first refusal agreement between the parties, on a number of occasions Father called his mother to care for [Child] when he had a conflict, rather than Mother. Thi s breach of commitment made by him is a serious sign to the [trial] court that he does not appropriately value either his word or Mother’s relationship with [Child]. He has refused to permit [Child] to go on a vacation with Mother and her family despite a history of such events in the family. Mother has honored the agreement. Trial Court Opinion, 1/22/16, at 11. With regard to section 5328(a)(3), the trial court stated: While both parties perform parental duties, Mother has performed and continues to perform the majority of the parental duties for [C]hild. She has consistently had more available time in her schedule to spend with [C]hild and to attend to [C]hild’s needs. She can get [C]hild to day care at a later and more reasonable hour for [C]hild in the morning, and pick her up earlier in the afternoon, providing more parent time. Prior to the separation, Mother was for all intents and purposes, the parent who transported [C]hild to and from daycare. She was the major nurturing parent while the family was intact, and has continued that situation into separation. All of the testimony presented indicate[s] that Father is so involved in soccer that he is simply not available at significant time for [C]hild because he

____________________________________________ 1 While n ot specified in his brief, Father appears to challenge section 5328(a)(3), the parental duties performed by each party on behalf of the child.J
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must attend various games, prac tices, training, and other sport
related activities. Id. at 11
- 12. Moreover, the trial court stated it had “some problems with Father’s credibility.” Id. at 16. The trial court stated that, “Father blamed Mother for some of his problems” and “raise d negative issues about the relationship between Mother and [Child].” The trial court found that Father’s “hostility colors those perceptions and makes it difficult to know the degree of their accuracy.” Id. The trial court further found that Father “in accurately minimized the problems posed by his schedule and that much of his testimony was confusingly difficult if not contradictory because of a variety of inconsistencies contained therein.” Id. Consequently, the trial court found that “an examination of the listed aspects of [C]hild’s life and her relationship with her parents indicated that Mother as the primary custodial parent would better serve [C]hild’s best interest.” Id. Father’s issue on appeal seeks review of the trial court’s findings of fact and credibility determinations. Our standard of review, however, does not permit this Court to re
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- weigh the evidence, or to impeach the credibility determinations of the trial court. We may only reject the trial court’s conclusions if they involve an error of law, or are unreasonable in light of the sustainable findings of the trial court. See C.R.F., III, 45 A.3d at 443. Furthermore, the trial court analyzed each factor regarding custody andJ
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found that, as stated above, the factors weighed in Mother’s favor. See Trial Court Opinion, 1/22/16, at 11
- 16. We find no abuse of discretion. For the foregoing reasons, we affirm the order of the trial court awarding primary physical custody to Mother, partial physical custody to Father, a nd shared legal custody to both Mother and Father. Order affirmed.

Judgment Entered.

Joseph D. Seletyn, Esq. Prothonotary

Date: 9/27/20161

ongoing pa rt icipati on i n therapy and by agreement continued the matter until November 12, 2015 in order to allow 

### both parents time to confer with the child 's therapist. The 2015. On October 30, the Court and the attorneys for the parties discuss e d the child's Officer's recommended order and scheduled a hearing before the court for October 30, waiver of custody case time requirements was fired on July 20, 2015 and approved by the Court on July 21, 2015. The conference was held on August 20, 2015, and no ag reement was reached

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. 15) 1 That position involves his coaching, monitoring Both parents are high school teachers at different schools. Father teaches Career Education, Drive r's Education, Health and Physical Educati on.(N.T. 13) Mother teaches Health and Physical Education. (N.T. 173) Father is also the head varsity 18) separation, Mother has had primary physical custody of the child and Father has had partial physical custody on alternate weekends and specific weekday evenings. (N.T. . I ( biological daughter. The child lived with both parents from her birth to her parents' date of separation in June of 2015 when Mother left the marital residence. {N.T. 14) Since is their FACTUAL HISTORY . 

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# and•••• a Concise Statement of Errors Complafned of On Appeal. On December 23, 2015, Father filed a notice of Appeal of the November 20 Order to the Pennsylvania Superior Court. Said Notice was served upon the Court with to Father on alternating weekends and every Tuesday and Thursday evening. written report to be sent to the attorneys. A hearing was begun but not completed on November 12, 2015, and was continued to November 19th, 2015 for the purpose of completing the testimony. On November 20, 2015, the Court issued a Custody Order giving shared legal custody bf 

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.testimony was deemed to be necessary, was directed to prepare a )3 2Futsal is an indoor soccer game with a small ball that doesn't bounce. lt is a form of indoor soccer. N.T. 16. (swimming), 195 (dance)). Father informed the Court that he can make himself more 64 (pickup from daycare), 85 {tumbling), 118-119 (library concert), 131 (therapist), 193 parents testified to a number of occasions when his contact with his daughter had to be changed, or he missed one of her activities because 

### of a soccer event. (See, e.g., N.T. gets closer to the season, it becomes more intense and more invo lved." (N.T. 193) Both attend for one of his soccer players. (N.T. 218) She also testified that "his socce r schedule started in January and continues all the way up through summer. And as it school and 

### soccer league then begin. Mother mentioned other events that intruded on Father's time with his daughter. For instance, he had to change their custody schedule for the weekend before the hearing, because there was an all-star game he had to 

### . . , continuing for the rest of the month; there are pickup games. When the pickup sessions end, Futsal league starts on Saturdays. The Futsal Saturday games continue until school ends in June and Futsal 2 is then scheduled for Tuesday and Thursday,

. running from8 to 10 a.m. until the beginning of the season in August. (N.T

. 70-73). On the first "teen" Monday of August, "two a day" practices begin, 

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### p.m. and last for one week, Monday through Friday. (NT 16 -17) Thereafter, coaching duties

. Outside of his school coaching, Father is also involved in off-season and summer soccer (N.T. 17) The beginning of soccer season is the first "teen" Monday in August. The season ends the second week in October, though it can go beyond that 

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.starting sometime in March and and supervising the players as they play, and. his schedule is dominated by his soccer

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activities such as gymnastics, dance and the like, for which the parents serve as Post separation, when each party had custody of the child alone, both engaged

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## •• ,. • ._a. . their separation he d i d not spend much time with , his reason being that 

## 6.M.W•· Mother did not permit him to. He said she was rigid and kep on a tight schedule which excluded him. (N.T. 60) Although April of 2015 was the first time he had ever watched the child overnight, he explained to the court that he had been given only limited opportunity to do so by Mother. (N.T. 128) Regarding medical appointments, he explained that he only had made them for the child a few times, but If he had been allowed by Mother he would have done so every time it was necessary

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_(N.T. 195-196) Mother has a full time teaching job during the school

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· online course during the summer with a one hour a week commitment for five weeks. (N.T. 174) Testimony was uncontradicted that when Mother is not working h~attentt.

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# . and concern was directed toward her daughter. Before separation she and•••• available than his schedule indicates , because during the soccer season he has assistants who can lead the practice. (N.T. 80) Mother said that he told her the same thing throughqut their marriage, but never followed through. (N

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that he has trouble arranging dates with friends because he finds it diffi cult to ascerta i n the identities of appropriate neighborhood or school friends. (N.T. 79) For Halloween Father also arranges play dates for her with her cousins from his family. He testified (N

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. . 189) Only Mother took her to gymnastics. (N

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. 194-95) f\,'1other arranges play dates •• ,, • .,.,. i~- .. for with friends from school and with neighborhood children. (N:T. 1 187) bath. She scheduled medical appointments and did 'the estab l ished bedtime routine. (N

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. 188) During much of their life prior to separation, Father wasn't at home. His school duties , particularly soccer, kept him away sometimes until well after dinner. twice when she had something she couldn't miss. (N.T. 179) Father agreed, saying that he occasionally took the child to day care, but in summer he could not pick her up because of soccer practice. (N.T. 25, 64) Mother got the child ready for ~hool. She I - , .,,. ,,.,. made her breakfast and cooked d i nner. The majority of times,

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. She has continuing swimming lessons, in which the parents are permitted to parti cipate in the water with her

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attend his soccer games with him, saying that at the Futsal games there is space for her to play while he is involved with the game and that at practices, she could interact Father at first requested primary custody, but has now changed that request to 50/50 shared physical custody. He told the court that he was concerned at first that Mother would remove the child from Pennsylvania, and that if he had primary custody
re could keep her here. HE:! acknowledged at the hearing that he had spoken out of f'gar an~no longer would ask for sole custody. (N.T. 140) He minimized his busy



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### 3 7( could not go. (N.T. him. to accompany them in her neighborhood, he decided not to participate. (N. T. 187) Father has extended family in Lancaster County and the child interacts with them of 2015, Father-asked to trick and treat 

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the application. (N.T. 91, 202) Defending his action, he told the-Ccurt that he would not expect Mother to tell him if she changed the child"s religion. (N.T. 88) Second, after the child told her that she didn't like the way Mr. Ashley washed her hair, Mother asked and enrolled her in Sunday School, although she never actually attended. (N.T. 33-34, 87) He not only did not discuss this with Mother; but did not put her contact information on They had agreed to raise the child Catholic and did attend a Catholic Church on occasion although Father has a Lutheran background. (N.T. 87) However, after

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### 158, make mistakes with him, he· doesn 't get angry when the house is messy like Mother· . 

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.. doesn't push her the way Mother does, so that she is more. relaxed and is not afraid to with the players and their parents, which would-enaole her to gain social skills (N.T. 32,· 138-139) He asserted that he did have flexibility in his schedule to allow time for his child. Mother's opinion of that assertion is that he had repeatedly told her the same thing, but never exhibited the ability to change his schedule to spend more time with the child. He JJ.a~proposed a 4/3/3/4 day schedule- '(N. T,ii.,43) He believes that being with 

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himself said that he heard from one of the teachers that the child was always chewing
on something unless she was very busy. (N.T. 45) Because of the early stages of 8 And during Father's testimony, he said he saw her chewing at his house, but thought it 

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i Father testified that Mother hasn't notified him of all of the child 's developmental milestones, although ~a was unable to remember a specific insta_nq,e. (N.T. 130)



# , ..... .,. The child's therapy is another point of contention.-has a habit of residence, that said the child was being transferred to a different class. Father did not Inform Mother. Mother said she lets father know what is going on with the child. the bathtub because Father had to finish chairing a meeting dealing with soccer. The


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. with Father, Father sometimes exhibits hostility toward mother in his testimony and communications with the child, Father failed to inform mother of substantial events in spend with the child than does Father, is more likely to foster the child's relationship been the primary nurturing parent since the child's birth, has substantially more time to Whether the Court erred in granting primary physical custody of a three year old child when, although both parents love and parent the child appropriately, Mother has ISSUE him. (N. T. 203) When Mother moved out, Father walked the child around the home, pointing out expressly everything that Mother had taken with her or left for them. (N.T. 209) He did not always honor her right of first refusal if he had a conflict. (N.T. 212) He tried to limit his daughter's contact with Mother's family. when withher Mot~. (N.T. 38) When he missed an open house for preschool 

# . ........ . , . parents, he told - that the reason for his absence was that Mother didn't remind

J 1 ! (N.T. 35-36) He told the Court also that the child exhibited negative body language Father's testimony and actions contained a great deal of hostility towards, and criticism of Mother, sometimes subtle and sometimes 

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. Q.R,ing on. (N.T. 103) •,t " therapy, Jennifer Smoker, the therapist was unable to characterize the behavior in any meaningful way. The parents agreed that it should continue until the therap ist had a 

### )10 ANALYSIS The Court's paramount decision in a child custody case Is to decide what is in the best interest of the child. Costello v. Costello, 666 A 2d 1096, 446 Pa. Super 371 (1995). A determination of what is in the best interests of the child is made on a case-by-case

. basis and must be premised

..upon consideration of all factors which legitimately have
an effect upon a child's physical, intellection, moral and spiritual well-being. Alfred v. Braxton, 659 A.2d 1040, 442 Pa. Super 381 (1995) A shared custody arrangement may be ordered by the Court if both parents are 1) capable of making reasonable child rearing decisions. and willing and able to provide love and care for their children: 2) both parents evidence a continuing desire

. for active involvement in the child's life; 3) both parents are recognized by the child as a source of security and love; 4) and a minimal degree of cooperation between the parents are possible; Hill 

### v. Hi!/, 619 A.2d 1086, 422 Pa: Super 533 (1993); In re Wes/eyJ.K, 445 A.2d 1243, 299 Pa. Super 504 (1982) Additionally, the Superior Court has directed that in making its decision, the trial court must consider the factors set out in Section 5328 of the Pennsylvania Custody Statute. This Court included its §5328 conclusions in its order of November 20, 2015. An expanded discussion of these items is as follows: §5328. Factors to consider when awarding custody


### a. Factors - . child's life, Father took action to interfere with contact between mother's family and the child, and Mother seems to be more aware ofthe child's needs and environment.



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about the lack of supervision during those times. (3) The parental duties performed by each party on behalf of the child. While both parties perform parental duties, Mother has performed and continues to perform the majority of the parental duties for the child. She has consistently had more available time in her schedule to spend with the child and to attend to the child 's alone, without an assigned caretaker. The Court can appreciate Mother's concern somewhat taken aback by Father's belief that his 3 year old child's best interest will be served 

### by attending frequent high school soccer games and practices with him when his attention is taken up with the players and the action, and the child is left to play There was no past or present abuse by either parent. There has been no involvement with the Children and Youth Social Service Agency. However, the Court is (2) The present and past abuse committed by 

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. or member of the party's household, whether there is a continued risk of harm to the child or an abused party and wh i ch party can better provide adequate physical safeguards and supervision of the child. events in the family. Mother has honored the agreement. a commitment made by him is a serious sign to the court that he does not appropriately

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. continuing contact between Father and child, than Is Father. Despite a right of first refusal agreement.Jletween the parties, on a number of occasions Father called his 

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number of yearly vislts back and forth and long vacation visits and it seems that these New Jersey and her sisters live in Virginia. However, prior to separation there were a Father has a close relationship with his family, who live in the Lancaster area.

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# ,. Prior to separation, his parents visited with Father an~~ther and••• every Sunday · afternoon. Father's mother would baby-sit at various times. He now



# ,. sees his parents often and the children of family members are 

## W 7 's only playmates when she is in his custody. Mother's family is not local. Her parents live in (5) The availability of extended family. schedule. separation, and has fewer extraneous distractions to interfere with her parenting the schedule of time and activities which the child experienced. prior to the parties' Both parents evidence a stability and Father continues to live in the marital residence in which the child resided for all of her life. However, Mother has continued . practices. training, and other sports-related activities: (4) The n · eed for stability and continuity in the child's education,

_family life and community life. · · testimony presented indicate tha1.,Father is so involved in soccer that he is simply not

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. .· available at significant times for-because he must attend various games, ., 

## '• family was intact, and has continued that situation into the separation. All of the transported the child to and from daycare. She was the major nurturing parent while the . . child in the morning, and pick her up earlier in the afternoon, providing more parent time. Prior to the separation, Mother was for all intents and purposes, the parent who 

### ') needs. She can get the child to day care at a later and more reasonable hour for the )13

complex 50/50 custody arrangement and expressed satisfaction that such would keep



# . e_•. Mother from taking the child on long visits with her family. As she grows, 

# 'illlll will symptoms of great concern to~ •he has breached a right of first refusal agr~eme . ~t: and. seems to prefer to have watched by his parents; h~ h!=IS requested a



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### , , , Catholic child in a Lutheran Sunday School without telling Mother-; he failed to tell



# ,r. Mother in a reasonable time about -s hurting her head and exhibiting physical Mother about several important and basic aspects of the child's life: he enrolled this child against Mother, some of his attitudes and behavior have that potential. He exhibited anger in nts demeanor on the witness stand that was very obvious to the court. Along with that anger, he expr4';d hostile and negative views of Mother, such
as when he failed to attend one of 

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## 2 's activities and expressly blamed it on Mother to the child, saying that "Mommy forgot to tell me." He has failed to confer with This is a troublesome area. While Father has not explicitly attempted to turn the ' 1,


### .. (7) The well-reasoned preference of the child, based on the chHd's maturity and judgment. The child Is only three years 

### of age and cannot express a preference. (8) The attempts of a parent to turn the child against the other parent, except in cases of domestic violence where reasonable safety measures are necessary to protect the child from harm. There are no siblings. (6) The child's sibling relationships. will continue since Mother has a close relationship with her family. While••• would see father's parents more often, she clearly is connected to and will continue to
see mother's family. · , .14 

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## ·• _., (11) The proximity of the residences of the parties

. prefere'e~ a three year eld little ,.girl. Mother appears to the Court to be more in sync with -·s needs and preferences. him full time and attending his soccer activities also concerns the court. Attendance at the games every now and then wjth appr(¥>riate supervision will undoubtedly benefit the child. But for more than that, we must remember that soccer is father's thing, not the mother's rigidity as a "drill sergeant". It appears 

### to the court that Father is allowing his hostility toward Mother to interfere with his pae1~ decision making, and he must learn to curtail this tendency. Father's belief that-will be benefi tted by being with ) Again, both parties can parent according to this child's nee,.~ut the Court sees

Mother as having the edge. For instance, her requirement that-go to bed on time was based on a reading of her child's crankiness when tired; Father attributed it to welfare. However, the court is concerned about the possibility that stress has created
nervous habits for the child, and is not convinced by Father's negative attitude toward giving the child help in the form of therapy. The Court also has concerns about Father's conveying negative attitudes to the child about Mother and Mother's family. (10) Which party lsmore likely to attend to the daily physical, emotional, developmental, educational and special needs of the child. with Mother .and Mother's family. (9) Which party is more likely to maintain a loving, stable, consistent and nurturing relationship with the child adequate for the child's emotional needs. Both of these parties can maintain a loving stable nurturing relationship with th~

. child. It was clear to the court that both parents love the child and are dedicated to her certainly learn from such behavior that Father does not value her continued relationship · 

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physical custody In Mother would serve Elizabeth's best interest. Mother is more likely Consideration of the above factors have convinced this Court that primary with care of the child.

. . . ,,., Neither party has a problematic mental or physical condition that will interfere •. (15) The mental and physical condition of a party or member of a party's household. There i s no drug or alcohol abuse in either party's household. than blame others for any problems he has with the custody matter

. (14) The history of drug or alcohol abuse of 

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.Gr member of a party's household. 

### • and behavior toward Mother, andhis tendency to blame her for his shcrtcomlngs in 

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. The Court is· concerned that this approach will grow worse as the child grows older, and cautions Father to examine his own behavior and beliefs rather There is a certain level of conflict here, mostly seen in Father's hostile attitude (13) The level of conflict between the parties and the willingness of the parties to cooperate with one another

.... appropriate child
- care arrangements, in that they have each other and Father's mother available. (12) Each party's availability

.to care for the child or ability to make appropriate child-care arrangements. Mother is more available to care for the

.child, since she does not have the equivalent of Father's extra- curricular soccer activities

. Both can certainly make for the child. The parents live ten to twenty minutes from each otlier. "They can use the same day care provider and are close enough 

# to make alternate appropriate arrangements ) 

# .16 Based on the abov~.cuk1~' the Court finds that Mother is the appropriate primary custodian of and that Father has not provided the facts CONCLUSION parent would better serve the child's best interests. and her relationship with her parents indicates that Mother as the primary custodial

• Father's credibility. This does not mean that the Court denies that Father is not a loving and nurturing father; it is just that an examination of the listed aspects of the child's life of his testimony was confusingly difficult if not contradictory because of a variety of inconsistencies contai ned therein. The Court therefore has some problems with finds that he inaccurately minimized the problems posed by his schedule and that much perceptions and makes it difficult to know the degree of their accuracy. The Court also when with Mother. ( N.T

. 35-38) However, the Court finds that his hostility colors those Mother believes that the child is doi

. ng fine under the current schedu l e, and the Court accepts 

### her opinion. (N. 'T. 242) At the hearing, Father blamed Mother for some of

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# . ' his problems, such as when he asserted to 

# •s athat he missed a school meeting because Mother hadn't reminded hi~~ather also raised negative issues about the relationship between Mother and~ , such as his perception of Mother's rigidity and negativity in scheduling and interaction and the child's negative body language devote to the child, she has less hostility toward father than he has toward her, which will maintain the custody arrangement without unnecessary difficulties. to promote the child's relationship with Father, she has continued into separation her provision of the parenting duties connected with the child, she has more free time to 

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### ) )17 ,jl NOTI C E Of ENTRY OF OROF:B OR DECREE

PURSUANTTO PA. B.C.P. NO: zse NOTIFJCATION • THE ATif.\CHED DOCUMENT HJ\$ BEEM Ffl..ED IN 

## nus CASE P ROTHONOTARY OF L-'\N Ct\STER CO., PA DATE: 

# /-ad..-{ <t, BY THE COURT: 

## '~ LESLIE GORBEY, JUDGE 

### Attest/rd/.) 

# J. '1 

### ",_A~ 

# a.J 

# ~t~ Copies 

### to: · · Michael E. 

### McHale, "Esqui"re ../ Lisa J. McCoy, Esquire../ remain in effect. supportinga shared custody arrangement. The Order of November 20, 2015 shall } . ·· t ·1 ).