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                                                                    Exhibit 10.3

                              EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT

      EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT dated as of January 30, 1998 between THE DIME SAVINGS
BANK OF NEW YORK, FSB (the "Bank"), a federal stock savings bank having its
principal executive offices at 589 Fifth Avenue, New York, New York 10017, and
ANTHONY BURRIESCI (the "Officer").

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      A. The Bank is desirous of employing the Officer upon the terms and
conditions set forth in this Agreement.

      B. The Officer is desirous of being employed by the Bank upon the terms
and conditions set forth in this Agreement.

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      Therefore, the Bank and the Officer, intending to be legally bound, agree
as follows:

      1. Employment. Subject to the terms and conditions of this Agreement, the
Bank hereby employs the Officer, and the Officer hereby accepts such employment.

      2. Term of Employment. (a) The initial term of the Officer's employment
under this Agreement shall be deemed to have commenced on the date of this
Agreement and shall continue until March 1, 2001. This Agreement shall be
renewed automatically for one additional year on March 1, 1999, and on each
March 1 thereafter, unless (x) the Officer or the Bank gives contrary written
notice to the other, at least 10 days prior to any such renewal date, or (y)
this Agreement has been otherwise terminated in accordance with its provisions.
During each calendar year of the term of this Agreement beginning with 1999
(unless notice of non-renewal of this Agreement shall have previously been given
by the Bank or the Officer pursuant to the immediately
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preceding sentence), the Board of Directors of the Bank (or a duly authorized
committee of the Board or subcommittee of such committee) shall, no later than
the last day in each such year on which the Bank may give the Officer notice of
non-renewal pursuant to the immediately preceding sentence, review and determine
whether the Bank shall give the Officer such notice of non-renewal with respect
to the March 1 renewal date in such year; provided, however, that nothing in
this sentence shall be construed as limiting the Bank's ability to give notice
of non-renewal pursuant to the immediately preceding sentence at any other time.
A determination by the Board of Directors of the Bank (or a duly authorized
committee of the Board or subcommittee of such committee) in any year that the
Bank shall not give notice of non-renewal with respect to the March 1 renewal
date in such year shall be deemed to be the Board's approval of the renewal of
this Agreement on such renewal date. Except as otherwise provided in Section
11(c)(iv) of this Agreement, neither the giving of notice of non-renewal
pursuant to clause (x) of the second sentence of this Section 2(a), nor the
subsequent expiration of the Term of this Agreement as a result of the giving of
such notice, shall be deemed to be a termination of the Officer's employment
under this Agreement. (As used in this Agreement, (i) "Term" shall mean the
initial term and any renewal term of this Agreement and (ii) "remaining Term"
shall mean the balance of the Term in effect at a specified time without regard
to potential future renewals under the renewal provision of this Section 2(a).)

            (b) The Officer's employment may be terminated during the Term of
this Agreement by the Bank or the Officer in the manner specified in this
Agreement. Any such termination of employment shall result in a termination of
this Agreement on the Effective Date of Termination (as defined in Section 13);
provided that, notwithstanding anything to the contrary in


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the foregoing, any right of the Officer to any payments or benefits as a result
of a termination of the Officer's employment (as provided in this Agreement)
shall survive the termination of this Agreement.

      3. Office. During the Term, the Officer shall serve as an officer of the
Bank and of Dime Bancorp, Inc. (the "Company"). In addition, during the Term,
the Officer shall serve, for the period for which the Officer may from time to
time be elected, as an officer or director of any subsidiary or affiliate of the
Bank or the Company.

      4. Duties. The Officer shall serve as Chief Financial Officer of the Bank
and of the Company, reporting directly to the Chief Executive Officer of the
Bank and the Company, respectively; provided, that the Officer shall hold
comparable or additional positions, and perform comparable or additional duties,
as may from time to time be assigned to the Officer. During the Term (except for
periods of illness and vacation), substantially all of the Officer's business
time, attention, skill and efforts shall be devoted to the performance of the
Officer's duties under this Agreement.

      5. Compensation. (a) The annualized salary of the Officer during the
period of the Term ending July 1, 2000 shall be at the rate of $375,000. Such
annual salary shall, subject to the provisions of Section 5(d), be payable in
installments in accordance with the prevailing general payroll practice of the
Bank as it may exist from time to time. Thereafter, the Board of Directors of
the Bank (or a duly authorized committee of the Board or subcommittee of such
committee) may increase or decrease (but not below the relevant level described
above) the Officer's annual salary from time to time; provided that, except for
otherwise permitted decreases that are applied generally to officers of
comparable rank, such annual salary shall not be decreased by more than


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25% in any one calendar year. As used in this Agreement, "annual salary" shall
mean, at any time, the annual rate of salary then payable to the Officer
pursuant to this Section 5(a) (before deduction of any amounts deferred under
any deferred compensation plan of the Bank, any voluntary contributions to the
Retirement 401(k) Investment Plan of Dime Bancorp, Inc., or any other similar
qualified plan or any other deductions from income) and shall be exclusive of
bonuses, incentive compensation, benefits pursuant to Section 5(c) hereunder, or
other compensation or benefits paid to or accrued for the Officer other than
pursuant to this Section 5(a).

            (b) The Officer shall not have or acquire by virtue of this
Agreement any rights to participate in, or receive benefits with respect to, any
compensation or benefit plan or program of the Bank, except (i) that while
employed by the Bank the Officer may participate in such plans or programs to
the extent provided in such plans and programs and on the same basis as if the
Officer's employment were not subject to the terms and conditions of this
Agreement, or (ii) as otherwise specifically provided in this Agreement.

            (c) To the extent vested, the Bank shall provide the Officer with a
supplemental retirement benefit in respect of the period beginning on July 1,
1997 and ending on July 1, 2007 equal in value to two times the sum of the
Officer's accruals under the Retirement Plan of Dime Bancorp, Inc. (the
"Retirement Plan") and the provisions of the Bank's Benefit Restoration Plan
(solely to the extent the Bank's Benefit Restoration Plan supplements benefits
under the Retirement Plan) during such period; provided that such benefit
(stated in the form of a single life annuity or such other normal form of
benefit as may be provided on an unreduced basis under the Retirement Plan)
shall be offset by the benefit, if any, payable to the Officer and the


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Officer's beneficiaries (stated in the form of a single life annuity or such
other normal form of benefit as may be provided on an unreduced basis) and
accrued in respect of the same period under each of the Retirement Plan (without
regard to benefit reductions in that plan on account of benefits payable under
qualified defined contribution plans, if any), and the Bank's Benefit
Restoration Plan (solely to the extent the Benefit Restoration Plan supplements
benefits under the Retirement Plan). The Officer shall become vested in the
supplemental retirement benefit described in the immediately preceding sentence
after completion of a Period of Service (as determined under the Retirement
Plan) of three full years. The supplemental retirement benefit described in this
Section 5(c), to the extent vested, shall be payable at the same time and in the
same form (and valued in the same manner) as benefits are payable to the Officer
and the Officer's beneficiaries under provisions of the Bank's Benefit
Restoration Plan supplementing benefits under the Retirement Plan, except that,
in the event no benefits are then payable under the Bank's Benefit Restoration
Plan, the supplemental retirement benefit described in this Section 5(c) shall
be payable in the form of a single lump sum as soon as practicable after the
termination of the Officer's employment with the Bank, with the amount of such
lump sum payment determined in the same manner, and reflecting the same level of
reduction for early commencement as would apply based on the Officer's attained
age and Period of Service under the Retirement Plan, that lump sum equivalent
benefits are determined with respect to a benefit of the same amount under the
Retirement Plan. The Officer shall participate in the Company's Supplemental
Executive Retirement Plan (the "SERP") with a "Pension Goal" under such plan of
not less than 50% of "Average Compensation" (with each such term as defined in
the SERP), but subject to the vesting provisions under such plan or, solely as
applicable, Section 11(g)(i). The benefits otherwise


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provided pursuant to this Section 5(c) shall offset and reduce the benefits to
be provided, if any, under the SERP (with the offset of the other Section 5(c)
benefits based upon such benefits as if they were payable in the form of a
single life annuity, or as otherwise provided under the SERP).

            (d) Notwithstanding anything to the contrary in the foregoing
provisions, the payment of any amounts that would otherwise be payable to the
Officer but which would be in excess of the amount which the Company or the Bank
could deduct for federal income tax purposes if then paid, on account of the
operation of Section 162(m) of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended
(the "Code"), shall be deferred to the extent such deferral is required pursuant
to a policy adopted by the Compensation Committee or the Board of Directors of
the Company or the Bank and, to the extent so deferred, shall be payable
pursuant to the relevant terms of the Dime Bancorp, Inc. Voluntary Deferred
Compensation Plan; provided, however, that, if a Change in Control (as defined
in Section 11(a)) has occurred, deferral of amounts payable hereunder to the
Officer on or after the date of such Change in Control will only be required if
and to the extent such policy in effect immediately prior to the Change in
Control (without taking into consideration any changes therein made in
contemplation of the occurrence of the Change in Control) requires or would have
required such deferral.

      6. Disability. (a) The Bank may terminate the Officer's employment under
this Agreement for "permanent disability" if (i) the Officer shall become
physically or mentally disabled or incapacitated to the extent that the Officer
has been absent from the Officer's duties with the Bank on account of such
disabilities or incapacitation as determined in a manner consistent with the
policy which applies generally to employees of the Bank on a full-time basis for
a period of six consecutive months, and (ii) within 30 days after written notice
of proposed termination for


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permanent disability is given by the Bank to the Officer, the Officer shall not
have returned to full-time performance of the Officer's duties.

            (b) In the event of termination for "permanent disability," the Bank
shall continue to pay the Officer an amount equal to the Officer's then annual
salary described in Section 5(a) (less any benefits that would have been payable
to the Officer had the Officer elected the maximum available amount of
disability insurance coverage available from the Bank) for a period commencing
on the Effective Date of Termination and ending on the first anniversary thereof
(or the end of the remaining Term in effect immediately prior to the Effective
Date of Termination, if earlier). Notwithstanding the first sentence of this
Section 6(b), any such payment shall terminate upon the earliest to occur of (A)
the date the Officer returns to full-time employment with the Bank; (B) the
Officer's full-time employment by another employer; or (C) the Officer's death.
In the event of termination for "permanent disability," the Bank also shall
continue to provide until the end of the remaining Term in effect immediately
prior to the Effective Date of Termination (or the Officer's earlier death) all
life, medical and dental insurance coverage as is otherwise maintained by the
Bank for full-time employees, provided that the Officer shall continue to pay
all amounts in respect of such coverage that an employee receiving the same
level of coverage is or would be required to pay. In the event of a termination
of the Officer's employment for "permanent disability" at any time during the
remaining Term in effect at the time of a Change in Control (as defined in
Section 11(a)), the provisions of Section 11 shall apply in lieu of the
provisions of this Section 6(b).


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            (c) There shall be no reduction in the compensation payable to the
Officer or the Officer's other rights under this Agreement during any period
when the Officer is incapable of performing some or all of the Officer's duties
by reason of temporary or partial disability.

      7. Death. In the event of the Officer's death during the Term, this
Agreement and all of the Bank's obligations under this Agreement shall
terminate.

      8. Termination by the Bank. (a) The Bank may terminate the Officer's
employment under this Agreement at any time by giving the Officer written notice
of such termination, provided that, except where termination is for "cause" (as
defined in Section 8(b)), such notice shall be provided at least 30 days prior
to the Effective Date of Termination. In the event of a termination of the
Officer's employment by the Bank, other than a termination for "cause" (as
defined in Section 8(b)), the Bank shall (subject to the provisions of Section
8(c)) continue, from the Effective Date of Termination through the period, if
any, remaining until March 1, 1999, to pay the Officer the portion of his annual
salary that would otherwise be payable through such date (had his employment
continued), plus any guaranteed minimum incentive awards otherwise payable
through such date. In addition, in such event, for a period of eighteen months
from the Officers's Effective Date of Termination, the Bank shall (subject to
the provisions of Section 8(c)) (1) pay the Officer's annual salary at the rate
in effect immediately prior to the Effective Date of Termination to the Officer,
and (2) maintain (for the Officer, and, during such period but prior to the
Officer's death, for the Officer's spouse and dependents, as applicable) all
life, medical and dental insurance coverage as is otherwise maintained by the
Bank for full-time employees, provided that the Officer shall continue to pay
any amounts in respect of such coverage that an employee receiving the same
level of coverage is or would be required to pay. In the event of a


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termination of the Officer's employment by the Bank at any time during the
remaining Term in effect at the time of a Change in Control, the provisions of
Section 11 shall apply in lieu of the provisions of the two immediately
preceding sentences of this Section 8(a).

            (b) The Officer shall have no right to receive compensation or other
benefits under this Agreement for any period after the Effective Date of
Termination if the Officer's employment is terminated for cause. As used in this
Agreement, "cause" shall mean the Officer's personal dishonesty, incompetence,
willful misconduct, breach of fiduciary duty involving personal profit,
intentional failure to perform assigned duties (which failure continues after
written demand is delivered by the Bank to the Officer that specifically
identifies the manner in which the Bank believes the Officer is intentionally
failing to perform his assigned duties), willful violation of any law, rule or
regulation (other than traffic violations or similar offenses) or final cease
and desist order or material breach of any provision of this Agreement.

            (c)(i)Notwithstanding any other provision of this Section 8 or of
Section 11, if at the Effective Date of Termination any statute, regulation,
order, agreement, or regulatory interpretation thereof that is valid and binding
upon the Bank (a "Regulatory Restriction") shall restrict, prohibit or limit the
amount of any payment or the provision of any benefit that the Bank would
otherwise be liable for under this Section 8 or under Section 11, then the
amount that the Bank shall pay to the Officer hereunder shall not exceed the
maximum amount permissible under such Regulatory Restriction; provided, that if
such Regulatory Restriction shall subsequently be rescinded, superseded, amended
or otherwise determined not to restrict, limit or prohibit payment by the Bank
of amounts otherwise due the Officer hereunder, then the Bank shall promptly


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thereafter pay to such Officer any amounts (or the value of any benefit)
previously withheld from such Officer as a result of such Regulatory
Restriction.

            (ii) Notwithstanding any other provision of this Section 8 or of
Section 11, in the event that any amount otherwise payable hereunder, other than
on account of events described in Sections 11(c)(i) or 11(c)(ii) following a
Change in Control (as hereinafter defined), would be deemed to constitute a
parachute payment (a "Parachute Payment") within the meaning of Section 280G of
the Code, and if any such Parachute Payment, when added to any other payments
which are deemed to constitute Parachute Payments, would otherwise result in the
imposition of an excise tax under Section 4999 of the Code, the amounts payable
hereunder (other than amounts payable under the SERP or otherwise payable on
account of events described in Sections 11(c)(i) or 11(c)(ii) following a Change
in Control) shall be reduced by the smallest amount necessary to avoid the
imposition of such excise tax. Any such limitation shall be applied to such
compensation and benefit amounts, and in such order, as the Bank shall determine
in its sole discretion. References to the Code in this Agreement shall be to the
Code as presently in effect or to the corresponding provisions of any succeeding
law.

      9. Voluntary Termination by the Officer. The Officer shall have the right
to terminate the Officer's employment under this Agreement at any time upon at
least 30 but not more than 60 days' prior written notice to the Bank. If this
Agreement is terminated pursuant to the immediately preceding sentence, all of
the Bank's obligations under this Agreement shall terminate and the Officer
shall not be entitled to any compensation or benefits after the Effective Date
of Termination, except to the extent provided in Section 5(c) (to the extent
vested) or provided in Section 11, and except to the extent that certain other
benefits have vested.


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      10. Additional Termination and Suspension Provisions. (a) If the Officer
is removed and/or permanently prohibited from participating in the conduct of
the Bank's affairs by an order issued under Section 8(e)(3) or (g)(1) of the
Federal Deposit Insurance Act (12 U.S.C. 1818(e)(3) or (g)(1)), all obligations
of the Bank under this Agreement shall terminate as of the effective date of the
order, but vested rights of the parties shall not be affected.

            (b) If the Bank is in default (as defined in Section 3(x)(1) of the
Federal Deposit Insurance Act), all obligations under this Agreement shall
terminate as of the date of default, but this paragraph shall not affect any
vested rights of the parties.

            (c) All obligations under this Agreement shall be terminated, except
to the extent determined that continuation of this Agreement is necessary for
the continued operation of the Bank, (i) by the Director of Thrift Supervision
or his or her designee (the "Director"), at the time the Federal Deposit
Insurance Corporation enters into an agreement to provide assistance to or on
behalf of the Bank under the authority contained in Section 13(c) of the Federal
Deposit Insurance Act; or (ii) by the Director, at the time the Director
approves a supervisory merger to resolve problems related to operation of the
Bank or when the Bank is determined by the Director to be in an unsafe or
unsound condition. Any rights of the parties that have already vested, however,
shall not be affected by such action.

            (d) If the Officer is suspended and/or temporarily prohibited from
participating in the conduct of the Bank's affairs by a notice served under
Section 8(e)(3) or (g)(1) of the Federal Deposit Insurance Act (12 U.S.C.
1818(e)(3) and (g)(1)), the Bank's obligations under this Agreement shall be
suspended as of the date of service unless stayed by appropriate proceedings. If
the charges in the notice are dismissed, the Bank may in its discretion (a) pay
the Officer all or


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part of the compensation withheld while its contract obligations were suspended
and (b) reinstate (in whole or in part) any of its obligations which were
suspended.

            (e) The provisions of paragraphs (a) through (d) of this Section 10
are required to be set forth in this Agreement by regulations applicable to the
Bank on the date of this Agreement. If any such regulation shall hereafter be
amended or modified, or if any new regulation applicable to the Bank and
effective after the date of this Agreement shall require the inclusion in this
Agreement of a provision not presently included in this Agreement, then the
foregoing provisions of paragraphs (a) through (d) of this Section 10 shall be
deemed amended to the extent necessary to give effect in this Agreement to any
such amended, modified or new regulation.

      11. Change in Control. (a) As used in this Agreement, a "Change in
Control" shall be deemed to have occurred if the event set forth in any one of
the following paragraphs shall have occurred:

            (I) any Person is or becomes the Beneficial Owner, directly or
      indirectly, of securities of the Company (not including in the securities
      beneficially owned by such Person any securities acquired directly from
      the Company or its Affiliates) representing 35% or more of the combined
      voting power of the Company's then outstanding securities; or

            (II) the following individuals cease for any reason to constitute a
      majority of the number of directors then serving as directors of the
      Company: individuals who, on July 24, 1997, constitute the Board of
      Directors of the Company and any new director (other than a director whose
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      settlement of an actual or threatened election contest, including but not
      limited to a consent solicitation, relating to the election of directors
      of the Company) whose appointment or election by the Board of Directors of
      the Company or nomination for election by the Company's stockholders was
      approved or recommended by a vote of at least two-thirds (2/3) of the
      directors then still in office who either were directors on July 24, 1997
      or whose appointment, election or nomination for election was previously
      so approved or recommended; or

            (III) there is consummated a merger or consolidation of the Company
      or any direct or indirect subsidiary of the Company with any other
      corporation or entity, other than (i) a merger or consolidation which
      would result in the voting securities of the Company outstanding
      immediately prior to such merger or consolidation continuing to represent
      (either by remaining outstanding or by being converted into voting
      securities of the surviving entity or any Parent thereof), in combination
      with the ownership of any trustee or other fiduciary holding securities
      under an employee benefit plan of the Company or any subsidiary of the
      Company, at least 65% of the combined voting power of the securities of
      the Company, such surviving entity or any Parent thereof outstanding
      immediately after such merger or consolidation or (ii) a merger or
      consolidation effected solely to implement a recapitalization of the
      Company or the Bank (or similar transaction) in which no Person is or
      becomes the Beneficial Owner, directly or indirectly, of securities of the
      Company or the Bank (not including in the securities beneficially owned by
      such Person any securities acquired directly from the Company or its
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      representing 35% or more of the combined voting power of the Company's or
      the Bank's then outstanding securities; or

            (IV) the stockholders of the Company or the Bank approve a plan of
      complete liquidation or dissolution of the Company or the Bank,
      respectively, or there is consummated a sale or disposition by the Company
      or any of its subsidiaries of any assets which individually or as part of
      a series of related transactions constitute all or substantially all of
      the Company's consolidated assets (provided that, for these purposes, a
      sale of all or substantially all of the voting securities of the Bank or a
      Parent of the Bank shall be deemed to constitute a sale of substantially
      all of the Company's consolidated assets), other than any such sale or
      disposition to an entity at least 65% of the combined voting power of the
      voting securities of which are owned by stockholders of the Company in
      substantially the same proportions as their ownership of the voting
      securities of the Company immediately prior to such sale or disposition;
      or

            (V) the execution of a binding agreement that if consummated would
      result in a Change in Control of a type specified in clause (I) or (III)
      of this Section 11(a) (an "Acquisition Agreement") or of a binding
      agreement for the sale or disposition of assets that, if consummated,
      would result in a Change in Control of a type specified in clause (IV) of
      this Section 11(a) (an "Asset Sale Agreement") or the adoption by the
      Board of Directors of the Company or the Bank of a plan of complete
      liquidation or dissolution of the Company or the Bank that, if
      consummated, would result in a Change in Control of a type specified in
      clause (IV) of this Section 11(a) (a "Plan of Liquidation"), provided
      however, that a Change in Control of the type specified in this clause (V)
      shall not be deemed to exist or have


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occurred as a result of the execution of such Acquisition Agreement or Asset
Sale Agreement, or the adoption of such a Plan of Liquidation, from and after
the Abandonment Date if the Effective Date of Termination of the Officer's
employment has not occurred on or prior to the Abandonment Date. As used in this
Section, the term "Abandonment Date" shall mean the date on which (A) an
Acquisition Agreement, Asset Sale Agreement or Plan of Liquidation is terminated
(pursuant to its terms or otherwise) without having been consummated, (B) the
parties to an Acquisition Agreement or Asset Sale Agreement abandon the
transactions contemplated thereby, (C) the Bank or the Company abandons a Plan
of Liquidation or (D) a court or regulatory body having competent jurisdiction
enjoins or issues a cease and desist or stop order with respect to or otherwise
prevents the consummation of, or a regulatory body notifies the Bank or the
Company that it will not approve, an Acquisition Agreement, Asset Sale Agreement
or Plan of Liquidation or the transactions contemplated thereby and such
injunction, order or notice has become final and not subject to appeal.

            As used in connection with the foregoing definition of Change in
Control, "Affiliate" shall have the meaning set forth in Rule 12b-2 promulgated
under Section 12 of the Exchange Act; "Beneficial Owner" shall have the meaning
set forth in Rule 13d-3 under the Exchange Act; "Exchange Act" shall mean the
Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended from time to time; "Parent" shall
mean any entity that becomes the Beneficial Owner of at least 80% of the voting
power of the outstanding voting securities of the Company or of an entity that
survives any merger or consolidation of the Company or any direct or indirect
subsidiary of the Company; and "Person" shall have the meaning given in Section
3(a)(9) of the Exchange Act, as modified and used in Sections 13(d) and 14(d)
thereof, except that such term shall not include (i)


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the Company or any of its subsidiaries, (ii) a trustee or other fiduciary
holding securities under an employee benefit plan of the Company or any of its
Affiliates, (iii) an underwriter temporarily holding securities pursuant to an
offering of such securities, or (iv) a corporation or entity owned, directly or
indirectly, by the stockholders of the Company in substantially the same
proportions as their ownership of stock of the Company.

            (b) If the Bank or the Company shall relocate its principal
executive offices after a Change in Control, and if the Officer shall, as a
result, change the Officer's principal residence, the Bank shall (i) promptly
pay (or reimburse the Officer for) all reasonable moving expenses incurred by
the Officer as a result of such change in the Officer's principal residence, and
(ii) indemnify the Officer against, and reimburse the Officer for, any loss
incurred as the result of the sale of the Officer's principal residence (which
loss shall be computed for the purpose of this Agreement as the difference
between the actual sales price (net of closing costs and brokerage fees) of such
residence and the fair market value of such residence (computed as of the time
the Bank or the Company relocates its principal executive offices) as determined
by an independent real estate appraiser designated and paid by the Bank or the
Company and acceptable to the Officer), provided that such sale of the Officer's
principal residence occurs within six months after the Bank or the Company
relocates its principal executive offices.

            (c)(i) If a Change in Control shall occur, the Officer shall be
entitled to the compensation and benefits provided in paragraphs (d), (e), (f)
and (g) of this Section 11 upon the


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subsequent termination of the Officer's employment, at any time during the
remaining Term in effect at the time of the Change in Control, by the Bank
(including, without limitation, a termination for permanent disability), other
than a termination for cause, provided that the rights to any such compensation
and benefits shall be subject to the limitations and provisions set forth in
Section 8(c).

            (ii) If (A) a Change in Control shall occur, and thereafter the Bank
(notwithstanding its right to do so under Section 4 or Section 5) either (B)
makes a material change in the Officer's functions, duties or responsibilities,
which change would cause the Officer's position with the Bank to become one of
lesser responsibility, importance or scope from that in effect immediately prior
to the time of the Change in Control, or (C) reduces the Officer's annual salary
to a level below that in effect immediately prior to the Change in Control (an
event specified in clause (B) or (C) is hereafter referred to as a "Material
Change"), the Officer shall be entitled to the compensation and benefits
provided in paragraphs (d), (e), (f) and (g) of this Section 11 (subject to the
limitations and provisions set forth in Section 8(c)) upon the subsequent
termination of the Officer's employment, at any time during the remaining Term
in effect at the time of the Change in Control, by the Officer.

            (iii) If the Officer's employment is terminated by the Bank or by
reason of the Officer's permanent disability during the Term but after the
expiration of the remaining Term in effect at the time of the Change in Control,
then the provisions of Section 6 or 8 (as the case may


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be) shall apply in lieu of the provisions of paragraphs (d), (e), (f) and (g) of
this Section 11. If the Officer's employment is terminated by the Officer during
the Term but after the expiration of the remaining Term in effect at the time of
the Change in Control (or if the Officer's employment is terminated by the
Officer during the remaining Term in effect at the time of the Change in Control
and no Material Change shall have occurred), then the provisions of Section 9
shall apply in lieu of the provisions of paragraphs (d), (e), (f) and (g) of
this Section 11.

            (iv) Only for purposes of determining whether there has been a
termination of the Officer's employment during the remaining Term in effect at
the time of a Change in Control (as specified in paragraphs (c)(i) and (c)(ii)
of this Section 11, as the case may be) so as to entitle the Officer to the
compensation and benefits provided in paragraphs (d), (e), (f) and (g) of this
Section 11, a termination of the Officer's employment following such a Change in
Control shall be deemed to have occurred on such date during the remaining Term
that (A) notice of termination is given by the Bank or the Officer to the other
(regardless of the Effective Date of Termination specified in such notice) or
(B) notice of non-renewal pursuant to Section 2(a) is given by the Bank to the
Officer (regardless of the date on which the Term expires). In the event that
notice of non-renewal pursuant to Section 2(a) is given by the Bank to the
Officer during the remaining Term in effect at the time of a Change in Control,
the termination of employment in connection with such notice of non-renewal
shall, for purposes of Sections 8(c) and 11(h), be treated as a termination of
employment described by paragraph (c)(i) of this Section 11. Notwithstanding the
immediately preceding sentences, the Officer shall continue to be employed by
the Bank pursuant to this Agreement until (1) the Effective Date of Termination
specified in the notice of termination


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or (2) the end of the remaining Term in effect when notice of non-renewal is
given pursuant to Section 2 of this Agreement.

            (d)(i) Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control followed by any
termination of the Officer's employment pursuant to Section 11(c)(i) or (c)(ii),
to the extent not otherwise limited pursuant to Section 8(c), the Bank shall pay
the Officer, as a severance payment for services previously rendered to the
Bank, a lump sum equal to three times the Officer's Annual Compensation, as in
effect immediately prior to the Effective Date of Termination (without regard to
any decrease in the Officer's Annual Compensation made after the Change in
Control). As used in this Section 11(d)(i), the term "Annual Compensation" shall
mean, at any time, an amount equal to the sum of (A) the Officer's annual salary
(as defined in Section 5(a)) at such time, plus (B) 100% of the target bonus or
other cash incentive that the Officer is eligible to earn in such year pursuant
to each plan or program (whether or not such plan or program has been formalized
or is in written form) of the Bank in effect for such year that provides for
bonuses or other cash incentives, or if no such plan or program has been adopted
with respect to such year, 100% of the target bonus or other cash incentive that
the Officer was eligible to earn in the most recent year in which such a plan or
program was in effect.

            (ii) Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control followed by any
termination of the Officer's employment pursuant to Section 11(c)(i) or (c)(ii),
to the extent not otherwise limited pursuant to Section 8(c): (A) each
Non-Accelerated Stock Option held by the Officer shall


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(to the extent permitted by the plan under which such Non-Accelerated Stock
Option was granted), notwithstanding anything to the contrary in the grant
letter or option agreement related to such Non-Accelerated Stock Option and
regardless of the actual Effective Date of Termination, vest and become
exercisable in accordance with the provisions of, and remain exercisable for the
term specified in, such grant letter or option agreement as if there had been no
termination of the Officer's employment and the Officer remained in the
employment of the Bank for the entire term of such Non-Accelerated Stock Option
and (B) each Vested Stock Option held by the Officer shall (to the extent
permitted by the plan under which such Vested Stock Option was granted),
notwithstanding anything to the contrary in the grant letter or option agreement
related to such Vested Stock Option and regardless of the actual Effective Date
of Termination, remain exercisable for the term specified in such grant letter
or option agreement as if there had been no termination of the Officer's
employment and the Officer remained in the employment of the Bank for the entire
term of such Vested Stock Option. As used in this Section 11(d)(ii), the term
(I) "Non-Accelerated Stock Option" shall mean any stock option (including any
tandem stock appreciation right) previously or hereafter granted to the Officer
under a stock incentive or stock option plan of the Company that has not,
pursuant to the provisions of such stock incentive or stock option plan or the
grant letter or option agreement pursuant to which such stock option was granted
to the Officer, vested and become exercisable prior to the Effective Date of
Termination and (II) "Vested Stock Option" shall mean any stock option
(including any tandem stock appreciation right) previously or hereafter granted
to the Officer under a stock incentive or stock option plan of the Company that
vests and becomes exercisable prior to the Effective Date of Termination.


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            (e) Any payment pursuant to Section 11(d)(i) or 11(g)(ii) shall be
made to the Officer within 30 days after the Effective Date of Termination.

            (f) Upon the occurrence of a Change in Control followed by any
termination of the Officer's employment pursuant to Section 11(c)(i) or (c)(ii),
to the extent not otherwise limited pursuant to Section 8(c), the Bank shall
cause to be continued until the end of the remaining Term in effect immediately
prior to the giving of notice of termination or non-renewal (or the Officer's
earlier death) life, disability, medical and dental insurance coverage as is
otherwise maintained by the Bank for full-time employees, provided that the
Officer shall continue to pay all amounts in respect of such coverage that an
employee receiving the same level of coverage is or would be required to pay.

            (g)(i)(A) On and after any Change in Control, to the extent not
otherwise limited pursuant to Section 8(c)(i), the Officer shall be eligible to
be paid, under the SERP, a SERP benefit, to the extent vested (and subject to
additional vesting in accordance with the terms of the SERP as such plan
provided immediately prior to the Change in Control, or if it results in a
greater vested percentage, with vesting determined otherwise pursuant to this
Section 11(g)(i)), that is not less than a benefit calculated based upon the
amount of the Officer's "Pension Goal" and "Average Compensation" and the
otherwise applicable terms of the SERP, each as determined immediately prior to
the Change in Control. The rights of the Officer and the obligations of the Bank
with respect to the benefits described under this Section 11(g)(i)(A) shall
survive the termination of this Agreement.

            (B) In the event of termination of the Officer's employment pursuant
to Section 11(c)(i) or (c)(ii), to the extent not otherwise limited pursuant to
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any vesting provisions that would in other circumstances require further service
under the SERP, the Officer shall be fully vested in the Officer's SERP benefit,
which shall otherwise be payable in accordance with the terms of the SERP and,
as applicable, Section 11(g)(i)(A).

            (ii) In the event of termination of the Officer's employment
pursuant to Section 11(c)(i) or (c)(ii), to the extent not otherwise limited
pursuant to Section 8(c), the Officer shall be entitled to receive in a lump sum
payment an amount equal to any amounts forfeited by the Officer under the
Company's qualified defined contribution plan(s) and under the Bank's Benefit
Restoration Plan (solely to the extent such Benefit Restoration Plan supplements
benefits under a defined contribution plan) as in effect immediately prior to
the Change in Control (or, if more favorable to the Officer, as in effect
immediately prior to the Effective Date of Termination).

            (h)(i) If, on account of events described in Sections 11(c)(i) or
11(c)(ii) following a Change in Control, any payment or other benefit paid or to
be paid or any property transferred or to be transferred (collectively, a
"Severance Payment") with respect to one or more calendar years by or on behalf
of the Bank (or any affiliate of the Bank) to the Officer pursuant to this
Agreement in connection with such Change in Control shall constitute an "excess
parachute payment" within the meaning of Section 280G(b) of the Code subject to
the tax imposed by Section 4999 of the Code (the "Excise Tax"), then the Bank
shall pay to the Officer an additional amount (the "Gross Up Payment") such that
the amount paid or transferred to the Officer, after deduction of any Excise Tax
on the Severance Payment, and any federal, state and local income tax,
employment tax and Excise Tax upon the Gross Up Payment, shall be equal to the
Severance Payment. In addition, if, absent a Change in Control or in other
circumstances following a Change in Control, notwithstanding the reductions
mandated by Section 8(c), the SERP benefits


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otherwise payable to the Officer shall constitute an "excess parachute payment"
within the meaning of Section 280G(b) of the Code subject to the Excise Tax,
then the Bank shall pay to the Officer one or more Gross Up Payments such that
the amount of such Gross Up Payments, when combined with such SERP benefits,
after deduction of any Excise Tax on the SERP benefits, and any federal, state
and local income tax, employment tax and Excise Tax upon the Gross Up Payments,
shall be equal to such SERP benefits.

            (ii) For purposes of determining under Section 11(h)(i) whether any
portion of a Severance Payment or SERP benefit will be subject to the Excise Tax
and the amount of such Excise Tax, (A) the Severance Payment or SERP benefit and
payment provided for in Section 11(h)(i) shall be treated as "parachute
payments" within the meaning of Section 280G(b)(2) of the Code, and all "excess
parachute payments" within the meaning of Section 280(G)(b)(1) of the Code shall
be treated as subject to the Excise Tax, unless and to the extent that tax
counsel selected by the Bank's independent auditors and acceptable to the
Officer is of the opinion that the Severance Payment or SERP benefit (in whole
or in part) does not constitute a "parachute payment" or such "excess parachute
payment" (in whole or in part) represents reasonable compensation for services
actually rendered within the meaning of Section 280G(b)(4) of the Code in excess
of the allocable base amount within the meaning of Section 280G(b)(3) of the
Code, or the Severance Payment or SERP benefit is otherwise not subject to the
Excise Tax, (B) the amount of the Severance Payment or SERP benefit that is
treated as subject to the Excise Tax shall be equal to the lesser of (X) the
total amount of the Severance Payment or SERP benefit, as applicable, and (Y)
the amount of "excess parachute payments" within the meaning of Section
280G(b)(1) of the Code (after applying clause (A) above), (C) any Gross Up
Payment pursuant to


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Section 11(h)(i) shall be treated as subject to the Excise Tax in its entirety
and (D) the value of any non-cash benefits or any deferred payment or benefit
shall be determined by the Bank's independent auditors in accordance with the
principles of Sections 280G(d)(3) and (4) of the Code.

            (iii) If in circumstances described in Section 11(h)(i), by reason
of the filing by the Officer of an amended tax return, an audit by the Internal
Revenue Service or other taxing authority, or a final determination by a court
of competent jurisdiction, it is determined that "excess parachute payments"
exceeding those previously reported in the Officer's tax returns were received
by the Officer and as a result an additional Excise Tax (the "Additional Excise
Tax") shall become due, the Bank shall pay the Officer an additional amount (the
"Subsequent Gross Up Payment") such that the amount paid or transferred to the
Officer, after deduction of (A) any Additional Excise Tax and (B) on an after
tax basis, any interest, additions and penalties with respect to the Additional
Excise Tax and (C) any federal, state and local income tax, employment tax and
Excise Tax upon the Subsequent Gross up Payment and (D) the payments provided
for in Section 11(h)(i), shall be equal to the Severance Payment or SERP
benefits, as appropriate.

            (iv) Any Gross Up Payment required hereunder shall be made at least
ten days prior to the due date (without regard to extensions) of the Officer's
federal income tax return for the year with respect to which the "excess
parachute payment" is deemed made under the Code. Any Subsequent Gross Up
Payment required hereunder shall be made to the Officer within 30 days after the
amount thereof is determined. Notwithstanding the two immediately preceding


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sentences, the Bank shall pay any federal, state and local tax or taxes and
employment taxes required to be withheld from the Officer's wages (within the
meaning of Section 3121 and 3402 of the Code) with respect to the "excess
parachute payment" and any such tax or taxes paid by the Company or the Bank to
the Internal Revenue Service or state or local taxing authority shall constitute
payment to the Officer.

            (v) If the Excise Tax is finally determined (whether by the filing
of an amended tax return by the Officer by audit of the Internal Revenue Service
or other taxing authority, or by a final determination of a court of competent
jurisdiction) to be less than the amount paid to or on behalf of the Officer
under the provisions of Sections 11(h)(i)-(iv) and the overpayment is refunded
to the Officer, the Officer shall repay to the Bank, promptly following the
receipt of the refund, the portion of the Gross Up Payment (and/or Subsequent
Gross Up Payment) attributable to such reduction of the Excise Tax (plus the
portion attributable to federal, state and local income tax and employment taxes
imposed on the portion being repaid by the Officer but only to the extent that
the repayment may result in a tax benefit to the Officer under Section 1341 of
the Code and similar provisions of applicable state and local law).

            (vi) The provisions of this Section 11(h) shall inure to the benefit
of the Officer during the Term of this Agreement regardless of whether or not
the Officer's employment is terminated, and if the Officer's employment is
terminated, the rights and obligations of the Officer and the Bank under this
Section 11(h) shall survive the termination of this Agreement.

      12. Post-Termination Obligations of the Officer. (a) Upon any termination
of the Officer's employment during the Term of this Agreement or upon
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employment after the expiration of the Term of this Agreement or upon
retirement, the Officer agrees (i) not to make any disclosure in violation of
Section 12(b), (ii) to return to the Bank all material documents relating to the
business of the Bank that are in the Officer's possession or under the Officer's
control, and (iii) except if the termination or retirement occurs after a Change
in Control, not to solicit (directly or indirectly), for one year following the
Effective Date of Termination (or date of termination after the expiration of
the Term) or retirement, the employment of any person who is an employee of the
Bank on the Effective Date of Termination (or date of termination after the
expiration of the Term) or retirement or who, within six months prior to the
Effective Date of Termination (or date of termination after the expiration of
the Term) or retirement, was an employee of the Bank, unless the Officer
receives written permission from the Bank to engage in the activities proscribed
by this Section 12(a) or by Section 12(b) or to be relieved of any obligation
under Section 12(a)(ii).

            (b) The Officer recognizes and acknowledges that the confidential
business activities and plans for business activities of the Bank and its
subsidiaries and affiliates, as they may exist from time to time, are valuable,
special and unique assets of the Bank. The Officer shall not, during or at any
time after the Officer's employment, disclose any knowledge of the past, present
or planned business activities of the Bank or its subsidiaries or affiliates
that are of a confidential nature (collectively, the "Bank's Confidential
Activities") to any person, firm, corporation, bank, thrift institution or other
entity for any reason or purposes whatsoever. Notwithstanding anything in this
Section 12(b) to the contrary, the Officer (i) may disclose any knowledge of
banking, financial and/or economic principles, concepts or ideas that are not
derived from the Bank's Confidential Activities, and (ii) shall not be precluded
from disclosures respecting


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the Bank's Confidential Activities that are (A) made pursuant to compulsory
legal process or when required by an appropriate governmental agency; (B) public
knowledge or become public without the Officer's breach of this Section 12(b);
(C) already known to the party to whom the Officer makes such disclosures; or
(D) approved by the Bank for disclosure.

            (c) The parties, recognizing that irreparable injury will result to
the Bank, its business and property in the event of the Officer's breach or
threatened breach of Section 12(a) or (b), agree that in the event of such
breach or threatened breach by the Officer, the Bank will be entitled, in
addition to any other remedies and damages that may be available, to seek and
obtain an injunction to restrain the violation of Section 12(a) or (b) by the
Officer.

      13. Notices. All notices under this Agreement shall be in writing and
shall be delivered personally or sent by registered or certified mail, return
receipt requested, (a) to the Bank, at its address set forth above (to the
attention of its Chief Executive Officer), and (b) to the Officer, at the
Officer's residence address as appearing in the records of the Bank, or to such
other address as either party may hereafter designate in writing in the manner
provided in this Section 13. All notices under this Agreement shall be deemed
given (i) upon receipt if delivered personally or (ii) two days after deposit in
a facility of the U.S. Postal Service with postage prepaid. As used in this
Agreement, the term "Effective Date of Termination" shall mean (A) the date
specified in a notice hereunder on which such Officer's employment is to
terminate, provided, however, that no such notice shall specify an Effective
Date of Termination that is prior to the date on which any such notice is given
or (B) for purposes of Section 11 only, the date on which the Term is to expire
as a result of a notice of non-renewal given by the Bank to the Officer pursuant
to Section 2 of this Agreement.


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      14. Complete Understanding. This Agreement, together with the Agreement
Regarding Initial Employment Terms attached hereto as Exhibit A, constitute the
complete understanding between the parties with respect to the subject matter
hereof and thereof and merge and supersede all prior oral and written agreements
and understandings and all contemporaneous oral agreements and understandings
with respect to the subject matter hereof and thereof, including without
limitation any other employment agreement heretofore executed by the Officer and
the Bank or any of its subsidiaries or affiliates. In the event of any conflict
between the express provisions of this Agreement and such Agreement Regarding
Initial Employment Terms, the express provisions of this Agreement shall be
controlling. This Agreement may not be amended, terminated or rescinded except
in a writing signed by the party to be charged.

      15. No Duty to Mitigate. Except as otherwise expressly provided herein, if
the Officer shall continue to receive compensation or benefits or severance pay
pursuant to this Agreement after its termination, (a) the Officer shall have no
duty to mitigate such payments by seeking or obtaining other employment or
otherwise, and (b) in the event the Officer does obtain other employment, such
payments from the Bank shall not be reduced by compensation received from such
other employment.

      16. No Waiver. The failure of either party at any time to require
performance by the other party of a provision of this Agreement or to resort to
a remedy at law or in equity or otherwise shall in no way affect the right of
such party to require full performance or to resort to such remedy at any time
thereafter nor shall a waiver by either party of the breach of any provision of
this Agreement be taken or held to be a waiver of any subsequent breach of such


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provision unless expressly so stated in writing. No waiver of any of the
provisions of this Agreement shall be effective unless in writing and signed by
the party to be charged.

      17. Governing Law. This Agreement shall be governed by the laws of the
State of New York, without regard to conflict of laws principles applied in the
State of New York.

      18. Headings. The headings to the Sections of this Agreement are for
convenience of reference only and shall not be given any effect in the
construction or interpretation of this Agreement.

      19. Severability. If any provision of this Agreement is held by a court or
other authority having competent jurisdiction to be invalid, void or otherwise
unenforceable, in whole or in part, by reason of any applicable law, statute or
regulation or any interpretation thereof, then (a) the remainder of the
provisions of this Agreement shall remain in full force and effect and in no way
be affected, impaired or invalidated and (b) the provision so held to be
invalid, void or otherwise unenforceable shall be deemed modified in amount,
duration, scope or otherwise to the minimum extent necessary so that such
provision shall not be invalid, void or otherwise unenforceable by reason of
such law, statute, regulation or interpretation and such provision, as so
modified, shall remain in full force and effect.

      20. Payment of Legal Fees. If, following a Change in Control, any legal
action or proceeding is commenced to enforce or interpret the provisions of this
Agreement, or to recover damages for its breach, all reasonable legal fees,
disbursements and court costs paid or incurred by the Officer arising out of or
resulting from such action or proceeding shall be paid or reimbursed to the
Officer by the Bank, provided the Officer shall be the prevailing party in such
action or proceeding.


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      21. Assumption by Company. This Agreement shall be assumable by the
Company at its election. Following any such election, the obligations of the
Bank under this Agreement shall become the obligations of the Company.

      22. Taxes. Any payments due to the Officer pursuant to this Agreement
shall be reduced by all applicable federal, state, city or other taxes required
by law to be withheld with respect to such payments.

      23. Limitation on Payments. Any payments made to the Officer pursuant to
this Agreement, or otherwise, are subject to and conditioned upon their
compliance with 12 USC ss. 1828(k) and any regulations promulgated thereunder.

                        THE DIME SAVINGS BANK OF NEW YORK, FSB


                              By: /s/LAWRENCE J. TOAL
                                  ------------------------------
                                    Lawrence J. Toal
                                    Chief Executive Officer


Dated: February 5, 1998           /s/ANTHONY BURRIESCI
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                                   ANTHONY BURRIESCI


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