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                                                                    EXHIBIT 10.3

                                                                    CONFIDENTIAL


                        AMENDMENT TO EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT

            This AMENDMENT dated as of December 28, 1998 is made to the
EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT dated as of September 11, 1996 (the "Agreement"), by and
between On Command Corporation, a Delaware corporation (the "Company"), and
Robert M. Kavner, a resident of the State of California (the "Executive").

            WHEREAS, the Company and the Executive desire to change the terms
and conditions of the Company's employment of the Executive to the terms and
conditions set forth herein;

            NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the premises and the mutual
agreements made herein, and intending to be legally bound hereby, the Company
and the Executive agree as follows:

      1. Change of Employment; Consulting Period. Effective December 31, 1998
(the "Effective Date"), the Executive shall resign as President, Chief Executive
Officer and a director of the Company, and as an officer or director of all of
the Company's subsidiaries. The Company shall retain the Executive as a
non-exclusive consultant for a period commencing on the Effective Date and
ending on December 31, 1999 (the "Consulting Period").

      2. Compensation and Fringe Benefits. (a) Base Compensation. As
compensation for his consulting services, the Company shall pay the Executive
base compensation of $350,000 for the Consulting Period, with payments to be
made ratably in installments in accordance with the Company's regular practice
for compensating executive personnel.

            (b) Bonus Compensation. As compensation for his service to the
Company during 1998, the Executive will receive a bonus of $350,000 to be paid
in the first week in January 1999.

            (c) Fringe Benefits. During the Consulting Period, the Executive
also shall be entitled to participate in group health, dental and disability
insurance programs, and any group profit sharing, deferred compensation, life
insurance or other benefit plans as are generally made available by the Company
to the senior executives of the Company. Such benefits in all events shall
include payment or reimbursement of (i) documented expenses reasonably incurred
in connection with travel and entertainment related to the Company's business
and affairs and performed at the request of a director or senior executive of
the Company, and (ii) Executive's reasonable legal fees and costs incurred in
connection with the drafting, negotiation and execution of this Amendment. All
benefits described in the foregoing (i) and (ii) that are reported by the
Company as earned or unearned income will be "grossed up" by the Company in
connection with federal
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and state tax obligations to provide Executive with appropriate net tax coverage
so that the benefits received by the Executive from the foregoing clauses (i)
and (ii). The Company reserves the right to modify or terminate from time to
time the fringe benefits provided to the senior management group, provided that
the fringe benefits provided to the Executive shall not be materially reduced on
an overall basis during the Consulting Period and provided further that the
benefits provided in clauses (i) and (ii) above shall not be reduced at all.

            (d) Stock Options. As of the Effective Date, the Executive agrees to
the cancellation of any and all options ("Options") previously granted to him to
purchase shares of the Company's common stock, par value $0.01 per share,
whether vested or unvested, and the Executive shall surrender his original stock
option agreements representing the Options upon execution of this Amendment.

      3. Continuing Provisions. During the Consulting Period, Sections 3, 4, 6,
9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 and 15 of the Agreement shall remain in full force and
effect, and any references therein to the "Employment Period" shall be deemed
references to the Consulting Period, and all other sections of the Agreement
shall have no further force or effect after the execution of this Amendment.

      4. Non-Competition. (a) As an inducement for the Company to enter into
this Amendment, the Executive agrees that during the Consulting Period, the
Executive shall not, without the prior written consent of the Board, undertake
employment or services for a company engaged in a business which is or has
publicly announced its intention to become directly competitive with the
business then being primarily conducted by the Company, with respect to any
geographic area in which the Company then engages in such business, if the loyal
and complete fulfillment of the duties of the competitive employment or services
would call upon Executive to reveal, to make judgments on or otherwise to use
Trade Secrets of the Company (as defined in Section 3 of the Agreement) to which
Executive had access by reason of his employment by the Company.

            (b) Non-Solicitation of Employees. During the Consulting Period, the
Executive will not (for his own benefit or for the benefit of any person or
entity other than the Company) solicit, or assist any person or entity other
than the Company to solicit, any officer, director, executive or employee (other
than an administrative or clerical employee) of the Company to leave his or her
employment.

            (c) Reasonableness; Interpretation. The Executive


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acknowledges and agrees, solely for purposes of determining the enforceability
of this Section 4 (and not for purposes of determining the amount of money
damages or for any other reason), that (i) the markets served by the Company are
national and international and are not dependent on the geographic location of
executive personnel or the businesses by which they are employed; (ii) the
length of the non-competition period is equal to the term of the Consulting
Period; and (iii) the above covenants are manifestly reasonable on their face,
and the parties expressly agree that such restrictions have been designed to be
reasonable and no greater than is required for the protection of the Company. In
the event that the covenants in this Section 4 shall be determined by any court
of competent jurisdiction in any action to be unenforceable by reason of their
extending for too great a period of time or over too great a geographical area
or by reason of their being too extensive in any other respect, they shall be
interpreted to extend only over the maximum period of time for which they may be
enforceable, and/or over the maximum geographical area as to which they may be
enforceable and/or to the maximum extent in all other respects as to which they
may be enforceable, all as determined by such court in such action.

            (d) Investment. Nothing in this Amendment shall be deemed to
prohibit the Executive from owning equity or debt investments in any
corporation, partnership or other entity which is competitive with the Company,
provided that such investments (i) are passive investments and constitute five
percent (5%) or less of the outstanding equity securities of such an entity the
equity securities of which are traded on a national securities exchange or other
public market, or (ii) are approved by the Board.

      5. Mutual Release. (a) In consideration for the Company entering into this
Amendment and for the benefits described herein, the Executive and his
successors and assigns release and absolutely discharge the Company, its
affiliates and their respective shareholders, directors, employees, agents,
attorneys, legal successors and assigns (the "Company Released Parties") of and
from any and all claims, actions, and causes of actions whether now known or
unknown, which the Executive now has, or at any other time had, or shall or may
have against the Company Released Parties based upon or arising out of any
matter, cause, fact, thing, act or omission whatsoever occurring or existing at
any time to and including the Effective Date, including but not limited to, any
claims under the Agreement or of breach of contract, wrongful termination or
national origin, race, age, sex, sexual orientation, disability or other
discrimination under the Civil Rights Act of 1964, the Age Discrimination in
Employment Act of 1967, the American with Disabilities Act, the Fair Employment
and Housing Act or any other applicable law, all


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as they have or may be amended.

      (b) In consideration for the Executive entering into this Amendment and
for the benefits to the Company described herein, the Company and its successors
and assigns release and absolutely discharge the Executive and his successors
and assigns (the "Executive Released Parties") of and from any and all claims,
actions, and causes of actions whether now known or unknown, which the Company
now has, or at any other time had, or shall or may have against the Executive
Released Parties based upon or arising out of any matter, cause, fact, thing,
act or omission whatsoever occurring or existing at any time to and including
the Effective Date, including but not limited to, any claims under the Agreement
or of breach of contract.

      (c) Each party acknowledges that he or it has read Section 1542 of the
Civil Code of the State of California which states:

    A general release does not extend to claims which the creditor does not know
    or suspect to exist in his favor at the time of executing the release, which
    if known by him must have materially affected his settlement with the
    debtor.

Each hereby waives any right or benefit which he or it has or may have under
Section 1542 of the Civil Code of the State of California to the full extent
that he or it may lawfully waive such rights and benefits pertaining to the
subject matter of this general release of claims.

      6. Press Release. Public announcements to be made by the Company
announcing the changes in the Executive's offices and responsibilities reflected
in this Amendment shall be subject to the mutual approval of the parties,
subject to the Company's compliance with applicable laws and regulations.

      IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this Amendment on
December 28, 1998.


                                       /s/ 
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                                           Robert M. Kavner, Executive


                                       ON COMMAND CORPORATION


                                       By:
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