Illinois Official Reports

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Jameson v. Williams, 2020 IL App (3d) 200048

Appellate Court 

Caption

ERIC R. JAMESON, Petitioner-Appellee, v. COURTNEY R. 

WILLIAMS, Respondent-Appellant.

District & No. Third District 

No. 3-20-0048

Filed June 26, 2020

Decision Under 

Review

Appeal from the Circuit Court of McDonough County, No. 18-F-50; 

the Hon. Raymond A. Cavanaugh, Judge, presiding.

Judgment Affirmed.

Counsel on

Appeal

Joseph M. Borsberry, of Borsberry Law Offices, P.C., of Peoria, for 

appellant.

Elisa M. Nelson, of Law Office of Nelson & Associates LLC, of 

Galesburg, for appellee.

Panel JUSTICE McDADE delivered the judgment of the court, with opinion.

Justices O’Brien and Wright concurred in the judgment and opinion.
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OPINION

¶ 1 The circuit court entered an order allocating to the petitioner, Eric R. Jameson, primary 

parental decision-making authority for educational and healthcare decisions and the majority 

of parenting time. The respondent, Courtney R. Williams, appealed, arguing that the court’s 

rulings were against the manifest weight of the evidence. We affirm.

¶ 2 I. BACKGROUND

¶ 3 On October 22, 2018, Eric filed a petition to establish a parent-child relationship, parenting 

responsibilities, and parenting time with A.J. (born September 25, 2017), the child whom he 

had with Courtney. In the petition, Eric sought sole decision-making responsibilities and 

primary residential parent status with majority parenting time.

¶ 4 The parties entered into an agreed order on December 18, 2018, under which they would 

“have shared care, decision making, control and right to direct the secular and religious 

education of [A.J.] on a temporary basis.” They also temporarily agreed, inter alia, to follow 

the advice of the minor’s primary care physician if they could not agree on any healthcare 

decision. Regarding visitation, they agreed to alternate weeks with the minor. While Eric was 

working during the week, Courtney, who was unemployed, would have the minor between 8 

a.m. and 4 p.m. Additionally, they agreed that no right of first refusal would exist for the other 

parent if one parent was unable to exercise his or her scheduled parenting time. In addition, the 

parties also agreed to a mutual stay-away order.

¶ 5 One day later, Courtney filed a response to Eric’s petition, as well as a counterpetition, 

which sought, inter alia, sole decision-making responsibilities and a majority of the parenting 

time.

¶ 6 During the pendency of the petitions, the acrimonious nature of the dispute became evident. 

The parties filed for orders of protection against each other. At one point, the circuit court had 

ordered the parties not to communicate unless an emergency arose with the minor. The court 

also ordered exchanges to occur in the McDonough County Sheriff’s Department lobby. 

Courtney had relocated to Springfield, causing Eric to file a petition to contest that relocation. 

Additionally, in June 2019, Eric filed a petition to enforce the temporary order of December 

2018, alleging that Courtney had withheld the minor from Eric for scheduled visitations and 

failed to adhere to requirements for exchanges.

¶ 7 On October 9, 2019, Eric filed an emergency petition to modify parenting time and parental 

responsibilities. He alleged, inter alia, that Courtney was now living in a dry cleaning business 

in Macomb that did not have a bathtub, shower, or kitchen; that Courtney’s mother had 

expressed to Eric concerns about Courtney’s mental health “due to witnessing instances of 

verbal abuse and threats made against the child’s well-being”; and that Courtney had 

unilaterally decided to cancel an appointment for the minor with her primary care physician 

and scheduled an appointment with another doctor. Additionally, Eric expressed concern about 

the minor’s hygiene while in Courtney’s care, as Courtney had returned the minor to Eric after 

a six-hour visit in the same diaper that the minor was wearing at the initial exchange, in 

improper clothing, with permanent marker on the minor’s body, and with a full diaper with 

rash on multiple occasions.
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¶ 8 The circuit court held a hearing on Eric’s emergency motion and entered an order on 

November 5, 2019, in which Eric was “allocated significant decision-making authority” and a 

majority of the parenting time. Courtney was given parenting time during Eric’s work hours 

on Monday through Friday from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m., as well as alternating weekends on Saturday 

from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. and on Sunday from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. The court also ordered Courtney to 

obtain a mental health evaluation by December 2, 2019. Courtney did obtain that evaluation, 

which was unremarkable.

¶ 9 The circuit court held a bench trial in December 2019 at which Eric had representation, but 

Courtney proceeded pro se. Eric called several witnesses whom he knew personally through 

his job as a funeral director and his role as the McDonough County coroner. Generally, these 

witnesses testified that Eric’s residence was clean and appropriate and that he was a good 

parent. None of these witnesses had seen any inappropriate parenting by Courtney. One of 

these witnesses, a business partner at one of the funeral homes that Eric owned, testified that 

he and Eric did not have a regular schedule and would have to answer calls to remove remains 

at irregular hours.

¶ 10 The remaining witnesses were as follows. Eric testified on his own behalf, and he also 

called the minor’s primary care physician. Courtney testified on her behalf, and she also called 

her friend, Candace Bainter. For continuity, the testimony of these witnesses will appear 

mostly in relation to particular topics, rather than strict chronological order.

¶ 11 Eric testified that he lived in Macomb in a three-bedroom house and was 49% owner of a 

company that ran funeral homes in Macomb and Bushnell. He was also in his third term as the 

McDonough County coroner. In that role, he was involved in approximately 250 cases per year 

in which investigations were performed into the circumstances surrounding deaths. 

Approximately 100 of those cases required him to be at the scene. Depending on the 

circumstances, he could be on the scene for as little as 20 minutes or as long as 8 hours or 

more. In his role as county coroner, Eric had nine deputies working for him who have been 

able to take late night calls.

¶ 12 In his role as funeral director for the two funeral homes, his usual hours were weekdays 

from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. Visitations could also occur on weeknights, but he would typically be 

home by 8:15 p.m. on those nights. Visitations and funerals would also be held on weekends. 

Eric did not work all of the visitations. Another employee had been taking most of the calls 

about deaths during weeks that he had the minor. When he has had to take late night calls, he 

had been able to secure a sitter—he would call his mother or sister—and the minor would 

continue to sleep through the night uninterrupted. Since October 23, 2019, Eric had two calls 

that he had to attend to at night. On both of those occasions, Eric’s mother came over to watch 

the minor, who did not wake.

¶ 13 Eric stated that early on in the life of the case (Eric and Courtney split up in September 

2018), Courtney had demanded a right of first refusal when he had to take late night calls. He 

tried accommodating that request, doing so on four or five occasions. However, doing so 

required waking the minor and transporting her to Courtney.

¶ 14 At times, Eric would bring the minor to work with him, including times when Courtney 

did not show up for the morning exchange and instead dropped her off with Eric at his 

workplace. Going forward, he expressed a desire to have the minor attend daycare while he 

was at work. He had also contemplated using an au pair or live-in nanny to help with times 

that he would have to take calls at night. Alternatively, he would continue to use family 
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members to care for the minor at those times. In addition, he testified that he also had several 

babysitters that he used at other times.

¶ 15 Regarding Courtney’s living situation post-breakup, Eric testified:

“Initially, she had moved or was staying at her former stepfather, Scott Collins’ 

place here in Macomb, and then from there, she went and moved in with her friend, 

Mercedes Seitz. Mercedes and her [sic] had a falling out of some sort, and she was 

asked to leave there. Then she went to an apartment, I believe, on Maple Avenue here 

in Macomb. From there, she went and stayed in a hotel for a period and then with her 

friend, Anna, at a trailer park here in Macomb, and then she went and lived in 

Springfield with her mom. Before she went with her mom, she stayed at—she rented a 

house on Dudley Street. Stayed there for just a couple days and then left and went to 

Springfield and then came back and was with her friend, Anna. She lived at her former 

business at the dry cleaner, and then now *** she has an apartment now somewhere 

here in town.”

Eric stated that his concerns with the places in which Courtney had lived were due to there not 

being any dedicated space for the minor, including the dry cleaning business, which lacked 

kitchen and bath facilities and had just one room at the back in which Courtney stayed with 

her son and the minor. On cross-examination, Eric acquiesced that the hotel stay occurred 

before the residence on Maple Avenue. When Courtney testified, she stated that she had four 

residences, not eight, as she did not actually move into four of the aforementioned places. The 

circuit court noted that, at the hearing on Eric’s emergency petition, Courtney had said that she 

had eight residences post-breakup.

¶ 16 Eric also testified that Courtney had withheld the minor from him on numerous occasions. 

He alleged that he saw the minor only for a few hours on Christmas in 2018, that Courtney 

withheld the minor from him on Easter in 2019, and that he did not see the minor at all on July 

4, 2019. On Memorial Day weekend in 2019, Eric’s sister came to town from Chicago, and 

Courtney did not show up for the regularly scheduled exchange on that Friday. Courtney did 

not respond to Eric’s attempts to contact her. In the Spring of 2019, Eric’s family was having 

a weekend reunion approximately eight hours away. He asked if she would be willing to allow 

him to take the minor on Thursday instead of Friday so he could break up the long drive 

because the minor had not been on a car ride that long. Courtney did not respond to Eric’s 

attempts to contact her. She also did not show up on Friday to the regularly scheduled 

exchange.

¶ 17 During cross-examination, Courtney asked Eric whether he withheld the minor from her 

between June 10 and 14, 2019. Eric admitted that he had secured other childcare at that time, 

which was his week, because Courtney had been withholding the minor or showing up late for 

exchanges, the latter of which had been causing Eric to be late for work (at that time, Courtney 

had what Eric described as the option to watch the minor during his weeks while he was at 

work). He also claimed that he had told Courtney he would be arranging for alternate childcare. 

Courtney indicated that she had withheld the minor from Eric following that incident “[t]o

make up my time from the time he took her from the 10th to the 14th.” Eric then stated that 

following that time period, Courtney had the minor for three weeks straight—two of her regular 

weeks plus one of Eric’s weeks.

¶ 18 The minor’s primary care physician testified that the minor had not been brought in for her 

routine well-child checkups between 10 days after her birth in September 2017 and October 
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2018. Three appointments had been canceled, and one appointment was a no-show. The 

October 2018 appointment was not a routine well-child checkup. The minor was behind on 

vaccinations.

¶ 19 Eric testified about an incident that occurred on November 26, 2019, at an appointment 

with the minor’s primary care physician. The minor was due for immunization shots. While in 

the room, the minor woke up and was upset. Courtney began to breastfeed the minor to soothe 

her. Eric asked when breastfeeding was going to stop, and Courtney “immediately got 

defensive.” Eric said he was just asking, as Courtney had indicated to him that after two years, 

there was no nutritional benefit to breastfeeding. Courtney said Eric was stupid and did not 

understand breastfeeding. She stood up and yelled at Eric. He took his iPad from Courtney, 

which upset her even more. Eric said that the doctor’s office was not the place to argue, and 

Courtney took the minor and left. Later, Courtney testified that Eric had taken the iPad from 

her and then threw it. She also claimed that Eric had threatened to get the minor’s primary care 

physician to state that Courtney was no longer allowed to come to the minor’s appointments.

¶ 20 Based on testimony elicited during cross-examination of Eric, paternity had not been 

established yet, such that he did not try to make medical appointments for the minor. He also 

expressed that “if I went to the Courts and asked for something, I don’t think that would have 

been good for our relationship so *** I guess I never considered that. I begged and asked you 

many of [sic] times to take her and you adamantly refused.” He believed that Courtney did not 

take the minor to the doctor because she did not want her to be vaccinated. Courtney later 

testified that the minor had been vaccinated by the time of the hearing.

¶ 21 Regarding the minor lacking timely immunizations, Eric testified that during the months 

Courtney was living in Springfield, she had taken the minor to see a different doctor. The 

minor’s primary care physician had asked Eric if they were changing doctors. When Eric asked 

Courtney about it, “she said she can do whatever she wants.” Eric stated that Courtney had 

taken the minor to another doctor in Springfield at another time as well. As a result of the 

confusion, the two practices in Springfield “decided they were going to halt until they had 

some legal direction on where to go with her treatment.”

¶ 22 Eric stated that he had concerns about Courtney’s mental health, claiming that “[w]hen 

[she] gets upset about something, it seems as if she’s unable to control her emotions and what 

she’ll say, and she’ll say anything and do anything to hurt whoever it is she’s upset with and 

say things that are completely untrue to anybody.” He stated he was still seeing, on an 

individual basis, the counselor that he and Courtney had been scheduled to see for couples 

counseling. He admitted on cross-examination that he originally went for anger management, 

as both Courtney and his sister had told him that he should seek help with managing his temper, 

but that the counselor had stated it appeared his issues were between him and Courtney. Thus, 

Eric made the appointment for a couple’s session, but Courtney refused to go.

¶ 23 Eric further stated that he knew several members of Courtney’s family and that he has 

granted the maternal grandmother’s requests to see the minor. He said he had never denied any 

such requests by her family. He also “always allowed” Courtney’s requests to have additional 

time with the minor, with the exception of one last-minute request Courtney made that 

conflicted with plans Eric had already made.

¶ 24 Regarding parenting time, Eric alleged that since October 23, 2019, Courtney had declined 

to exercise parenting time with the minor five or six times on weekdays, had not exercised any 

parenting time on weekends, and tended to inform him at the last minute about it. During those 
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times, Eric had obtained babysitters, including his mother and sister, to watch the minor while 

he worked. He also alleged that exchanges had been going well the past couple months, but 

prior to that, Courtney tended to arrive when she wanted to, which was “never usually right on 

time.” She had also allegedly refused to meet at the police station for exchanges. After the 

circuit court sustained a foundation objection, Eric gave an example of a time when he had an 

important meeting and had requested her to meet at 7:30 a.m. rather than at 8 a.m. Courtney 

declined, and Eric said he “needed to know the night before whether she could be there at eight 

or not *** and if she wanted [the minor].” Courtney did not respond. Eric texted her that if she 

was not going to be there, he had to find childcare. The next morning, Courtney came to the 

funeral home and asked for the minor—“[s]he indicated to me that she had right of first refusal 

and had until eight o’clock each morning to make that right of refusal.” Eric had already 

arranged for a sitter because he had not heard from Courtney. In response, Courtney called the 

police and then the Federal Bureau of Investigation.

¶ 25 Eric then gave a second example of an issue with exchanges—an incident that occurred 

outside his workplace during the winter of 2018. Courtney had left Eric’s workplace with the 

minor, who vomited while in her car seat during the ride. Courtney returned to Eric’s 

workplace and “demanded that I change out her car seat for my car seat.” He told her that he 

had to meet with a family that morning, so he did not have time to take care of the situation. 

Courtney demanded again that Eric swap out the car seats and threatened to call the police. 

She did in fact call the police. Eric stated that the end result was him “coming out and taking 

[the minor] from Courtney and changing her clothes in the funeral home keeping her the rest 

of the day. I just took the day off of work.”

¶ 26 Regarding the car seat incident, Courtney testified that the minor had been sick all week 

during Eric’s week. She had gone to Eric’s residence to help take care of the minor on Saturday. 

On Monday, she had a work function to attend, so Eric kept the minor with him at work for 

the first few hours of the workday. Courtney arrived and breastfed the minor at Eric’s work 

and then placed the minor in the car seat in her car. Courtney then drove to a Verizon store 

because her phone was not working. The minor vomited when Courtney arrived at the Verizon 

store, so she immediately returned to Eric’s work and asked him to swap car seats. Eric refused, 

stating that he did not want Courtney ruining the car seat he had. She then told Eric he had to 

take the minor, then, because she needed to go get her phone fixed. Eric refused, saying that 

he had to meet with a family at work, and he walked away. She then said she did not want to 

exercise her right of first refusal at that time.

¶ 27 Eric commented that “there’s instances where she doesn’t show up, there’s incidents where 

she just brings her in the middle of the workday without notification, and she’s constantly 

calling the police on me because I’m not doing whatever it is she’s asking me to do at that 

time.” Eric later admitted on cross-examination that he had initiated more than two dozen 

police reports himself related to issues with exchanges.

¶ 28 Regarding schooling, Eric stated that he would like the minor to attend preschool at age 

three at St. Paul’s; however, Courtney was “not too keen on that” so he would ask her if she 

had an opinion on where she wanted the minor to go. Eric had also inquired with a multi-child 

daycare in Macomb, as he wanted the minor to be able to interact with other children. On crossexamination, Courtney stated, “So you testified that you want her to go to a paid daycare. So 

you think it’s better for her to be watched by a paid stranger than her mother all day?” Eric 
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responded, “[i]n this situation, yes.” He clarified by stating that he believed daycare was a 

better option for the minor “[b]ecause of the instability she has with you.”

¶ 29 On cross-examination, Eric admitted that, in January 2018, he had an argument with 

Courtney in his residence. Courtney, who was holding the minor, went into the bathroom and 

shut and locked the door. Courtney asked if Eric kicked the door down,1 and he said no, that 

he pushed the door. The door had been broken for years and the frame, which had been glued, 

broke when he pushed the door. He said that “[i]t did not take much for me to push that door 

in.” He also admitted that he broke a plastic toy gun in September 2018 in the room of 

Courtney’s son. He had asked the children numerous times to stop playing with the toy gun, 

and when they retrieved it again, Eric broke the toy gun in two and cut his hand.

¶ 30 Eric also admitted on cross-examination that he had bruised Courtney’s leg in November 

2016. Regarding the bruising, Eric was interviewed by the state police two years after the 

incident took place, although Courtney had intimated to the police that the incident had recently 

occurred. When the bruising occurred, Eric and Courtney were having a discussion about some 

checks that Courtney had bounced at places in Macomb that were owned by friends of Eric. 

During the discussion, he poked her leg five times with his finger while saying “you can’t do 

this s***.” Eric admitted that his behavior was inappropriate. He also stated that he had 

apologized for it and regretted it. Courtney testified that she was lying in bed and Eric was 

standing over her during the argument, which she thought was about a basement remodel as 

opposed to bounced checks. She then stated:

“[H]e just started banging on my leg, and it was violent. It was not—I remember it, 

literally, made me freeze where I was at. It hurt so bad. Like, I was just frozen and then 

I got up, and it was so deep in my muscle that I physically felt the bruise. Like, when I 

walked, when my muscle moved, and it was stinging, it stung. I couldn’t lay on that 

side. And he came up and said he apologized, like, an hour later.”

She also claimed that she told other people about the incident, even though Eric had alleged 

that she did not tell anyone else.

¶ 31 Eric also admitted that in March 2017 he pushed over a shelf out of frustration during an 

argument with Courtney in her son’s room. He had asked her to leave several times, but she 

refused and “was threatening me and taunting me.” When he pushed the shelf, it fell over and 

broke numerous items. Neither of the children was in the home at the time.

¶ 32 Courtney presented the testimony of her friend, Candace Bainter, who testified that 

Courtney was a good parent to both her children. She also believed the dry cleaner at which 

Courtney had been living was appropriate for children, as it had beds, a refrigerator, and a 

bathroom. When asked on cross-examination about the living space at the dry cleaner, Bainter 

stated that she could not recall if the bathroom had a shower or if there was a full kitchen.

¶ 33 Bainter also testified regarding an incident at a pool that occurred in July 2019. Eric showed 

up to pick up the minor, and he was upset because the minor was wet from swimming. Eric 

was angry and screaming at Courtney, which caused a scene. Courtney did not yell at Eric 

during the incident. On rebuttal, Eric denied yelling at Courtney at the pool.

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Courtney testified later that she had closed and locked the door and that Eric had kicked the door 

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¶ 34 Bainter further testified that in August 2019, she heard Eric yelling and using profanity at 

Courtney over the phone from across the room. In addition, Bainter stated that during the 

summer months of Courtney’s pregnancy, she observed a bruise on Courtney’s arm that 

appeared to be in the shape of finger marks.

¶ 35 Courtney testified that she had been living in a four-bedroom apartment since November 

8, 2019. Her lease was for one year. Her son from another relationship was 11 years old at the 

time of the hearing. Regarding Eric’s allegations of her tardiness, Courtney claimed that Eric 

had a “Type A personality” that predisposed him to controlling behavior and frustration with 

time schedules. Courtney believed Eric was “greatly exaggerating” her tardiness, as he would 

get extremely frustrated even if she were one minute late. She stated that she had worked hard 

to put the minor first and that Eric’s claims of tardiness and instability were inaccurate.

¶ 36 Courtney claimed Eric was abusive from the very beginning of their relationship and that 

everything had to be done his way. He got upset quickly, had a bad temper, and yelled to the 

point of getting red-faced, including while in the minor’s presence. She emphasized that his 

sister had told him that his temper was “over the top.” His temper showed improvement for 

about a month-and-a-half after he addressed it in therapy, but he stopped going so it got bad 

again. She further alleged that in September 2018, during a day on which she was breastfeeding 

the minor while sitting on the ground, Eric became mad and kicked at her face to the point 

where his shoe was an inch or two from her face.

¶ 37 Courtney also alleged that in March 2017, while she was pregnant, she and Eric had an 

argument about which last name to give the minor. She said that “[h]e grabbed me from both 

arms and pushed me toward the door, like, sort of, like, get out of my house, and—but it was 

a violent push. It made me physically go into the door, and the door handle hit my stomach.” 

He also “clean swiped” items from a shelf. She introduced into evidence two pictures of bruises 

to her arms2 and a picture of her son’s belongings on the floor next to two bookshelves. On 

rebuttal, Eric stated that he knocked a shelf down. He denied throwing Courtney into a door.

¶ 38 Courtney also attempted to introduce pictures of a jewelry organizer that she alleged Eric 

had broken in July 2016. The circuit court did not allow them into evidence, however, because 

they predated her pregnancy and did not show an act of domestic violence, but only a potential 

“act of domestic criminal damage of some kind.”

¶ 39 Courtney claimed that Eric smoked marijuana multiple times per day, every day, for three 

years. She believed he did it to ease anxiety. She also testified that she had witnessed him use 

opioids recreationally on several occasions. On rebuttal, Eric denied using marijuana three 

times per day—he stated he used it approximately once per week when he mowed his lawn. 

He also said he had not used it since around Halloween and never used it around the minor. He 

also denied taking opioids recreationally.

¶ 40 In addition, Courtney testified that Eric talked her into signing the temporary parenting 

time agreement (which set up the week on, week off schedule) by telling her that he would 

voluntarily give her the minor every night. She claimed that Eric only wanted a 50/50 split on 

paper, and not in practice, because he knew the more overnights he had, the less child support 

he would have to pay. She stated, “[h]e only wanted her in the evenings. He’d let me have her 

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Courtney stated that these bruises were the ones Bainter had referred to in her testimony.
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all night from eight until four p.m. the next day, and then a lot of times, when he had visitations 

or that wasn’t even—and then sometimes I had her just 24 hours a day for months.”

¶ 41 Courtney also alleged that Eric had threatened to kill her in August 2018. They were in the 

middle of an argument, and while Eric was holding the minor,

“he just put his forehead against mine and was, like, shaking and said I’ll kill you, and 

I think he whispered it because I think [my son] was in the other room, and he said—

we were talking about breaking up, and he said I’ll kill you and they’ll never find your 

bones because I’m—I don’t think he said because I’m the coroner, but he said 

something going into that that’s what he does for a living, and that was that.”

¶ 42 At the close of the hearing, the circuit court ruled that, based on credibility, it was in the 

minor’s best interest to grant Eric primary decision-making and the majority of parenting time. 

In so ruling, the court briefly discussed the applicable statutory factors and found, inter alia, 

that (1) the parties were both physically healthy enough to parent the minor, (2) the allegation 

of physical abuse related to Courtney’s bruised arms took place before the minor was born, 

(3) the parties both needed to do a better job of fostering a relationship between the minor and 

the other parent, (4) it was bothersome that Eric smoked marijuana, but doing so was going to 

be legal in a few days anyway, (5) there was no corroboration of the specific allegations of 

drug use by Eric that Courtney had alleged, and (6) Courtney’s housing situation was unstable.

¶ 43 The circuit court issued a written order on December 30, 2019. The court allocated to Eric 

the right to make significant educational and healthcare decisions for the minor. Joint decisionmaking was ordered for religion and extracurricular activities. Daily and emergency decisions 

were to be made by the parent having physical possession of the minor at that time. Regarding 

parenting time, Eric was named the majority parent and was given all parenting time not 

allocated to Courtney, who was given alternating weekends from Friday at 6 p.m. through 

Sunday at 6 p.m. and alternating weekdays from Wednesday at 6 p.m. through Friday at 6 p.m. 

Specific provisions were also made for holidays and the summer. In addition, a right of first 

refusal was ordered if one parent wanted to leave the minor overnight with a substitute 

childcare provider. However, no right of first refusal was ordered if Eric chose “to utilize one 

of his parenting time weeks to allow the minor child to visit with his family, even if he [did] 

not accompany the minor child for that week.”

¶ 44 Courtney appealed.

¶ 45 II. ANALYSIS

¶ 46 Courtney’s first argument on appeal is that the circuit court’s allocation of parental 

responsibilities was erroneous. Specifically, she argues that the evidence overwhelmingly 

favored her regarding significant decision-making responsibilities for school designation and 

healthcare decisions.

¶ 47 A circuit court “shall allocate decision-making responsibilities according to the child’s best 

interests.” 750 ILCS 5/602.5(a) (West 2018). In arriving at that decision, the court must 

consider all relevant factors, including:

“(1) the wishes of the child, taking into account the child’s maturity and ability to 

express reasoned and independent preferences as to decision-making;

(2) the child’s adjustment to his or her home, school, and community;

(3) the mental and physical health of all individuals involved;
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(4) the ability of the parents to cooperate to make decisions, or the level of conflict 

between the parties that may affect their ability to share decision-making;

(5) the level of each parent’s participation in past significant decision-making with 

respect to the child;

(6) any prior agreement or course of conduct between the parents relating to 

decision-making with respect to the child;

(7) the wishes of the parents;

(8) the child’s needs;

(9) the distance between the parents’ residences, the cost and difficulty of 

transporting the child, each parent’s and the child’s daily schedules, and the ability of 

the parents to cooperate in the arrangement;

(10) whether a restriction on decision-making is appropriate under Section 603.10;

(11) the willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage a close 

and continuing relationship between the other parent and the child;

(12) the physical violence or threat of physical violence by the child’s parent 

directed against the child;

(13) the occurrence of abuse against the child or other member of the child’s 

household;

(14) whether one of the parents is a sex offender, and if so, the exact nature of the 

offense and what, if any, treatment in which the parent has successfully participated; 

and

(15) any other factor that the court expressly finds to be relevant.” Id. § 602.5(c).

A reviewing court will not disturb a circuit court’s ruling on the allocation of decision-making 

responsibilities unless that decision is against the manifest weight of the evidence. Young v. 

Herman, 2018 IL App (4th) 170001, ¶ 64. “A decision is against the manifest weight of the 

evidence when an opposite conclusion is apparent or when the court’s findings appear to be 

unreasonable, arbitrary, or not based on evidence.” In re Marriage of Verhines, 2018 IL App 

(2d) 171034, ¶ 51. The circuit court is not required to make explicit findings on each factor, 

nor is it required to refer to every factor. In re Marriage of Diehl, 221 Ill. App. 3d 410, 424 

(1991).

¶ 48 In arguing that the circuit court’s decision was against the manifest weight of the evidence, 

Courtney emphasizes that (1) she was a full-time stay-at-home mother, which rendered her 

better equipped to address the minor’s needs given the nature of Eric’s jobs, (2) the minor 

would get upset when Eric would scream at Courtney, (3) she was still breastfeeding the minor,

(4) her housing situation was stable, (5) Eric’s witnesses had nothing negative to say about her 

parenting, (6) Eric used drugs, (7) her mental health examination was unremarkable, (8) the 

court failed to properly account for the threat of domestic violence from Eric, (9) historically, 

she took care of the significant decisions related to the minor, (10) Eric preferred substitute 

care for the minor over Courtney, and (11) she had another child whom she was parenting 

successfully.

¶ 49 The evidence in this case clearly showed that the parties had a toxic relationship and that 

both Eric and Courtney were responsible for some questionable decision-making. 

Nevertheless, as the court noted, both parents appeared fit to care for the minor. Significantly, 

most of the testimony presented by one side was contested by the other, including whether Eric 
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had substance abuse issues and the extent of Eric’s temper. Moreover, while we in no way 

intend to minimize the importance of the allegations of physical abuse by Eric, we note that 

most of the evidence in this regard was also conflicting. The only portion of that evidence that 

was not in dispute was the incident in which Eric poked Courtney’s leg and caused bruising. 

However, that incident occurred before Courtney was even pregnant, Eric had shown remorse 

for his actions, and Courtney apparently attempted to portray that incident to the police as 

occurring two years later than it actually occurred. Further, we see no error in the circuit court’s 

finding that Courtney’s housing situation was still unstable, as she had only been in her new 

apartment for just over a month at the time of the hearing. Additionally, we note that there was 

no dispute that Courtney had borne the bulk of responsibility for failing to secure routine 

wellness checkups for the minor or that Eric had been able to secure adequate childcare for the 

minor during times when he was needed for work.

¶ 50 It is no small burden to show that a circuit court’s ruling on decision-making 

responsibilities is against the manifest weight of the evidence. In re Marriage of Agers, 2013 

IL App (5th) 120375, ¶ 25 (holding that in this type of case, “there is a strong and compelling 

presumption in favor of the result reached by the trial court because it is in a superior position 

to evaluate the evidence and determine the best interests of the child”). Significantly, in this 

case, the circuit court found that Eric was more credible than Courtney. We note that the circuit 

court is in the best position to evaluate the credibility of witnesses (Young, 2018 IL App (4th) 

170001, ¶ 64) and that Courtney has not provided a compelling argument to show that the 

court’s credibility determination was erroneous.

¶ 51 It is well settled that a reviewing court’s function is not to reweigh the evidence or assess 

witness credibility and set aside the circuit court’s decision simply because a different 

conclusion may have been drawn from the evidence. In re Marriage of Pfeiffer, 237 Ill. App. 

3d 510, 513 (1992). Courtney’s argument on this issue is more in the nature of an attempt to 

force this court to reweigh the evidence and reassess witness credibility, which we will not do. 

It is clear that the circuit court in this case thoroughly reviewed the applicable statutory factors 

in assessing the evidence. Under these circumstances, we hold that the circuit court’s ruling on 

decision-making responsibilities is not against the manifest weight of the evidence.

¶ 52 Courtney’s second argument is that the circuit court’s allocation of parenting time was 

erroneous. Specifically, she argues that the applicable statutory factors weighed in favor of her 

receiving the majority of the parenting time.

¶ 53 A circuit court must allocate parenting time according to the best interests of the child. 750 

ILCS 5/602.7(a) (West 2018). In arriving at that decision, the court must consider all relevant 

factors, including:

“(1) the wishes of each parent seeking parenting time;

(2) the wishes of the child, taking into account the child’s maturity and ability to 

express reasoned and independent preferences as to parenting time;

(3) the amount of time each parent spent performing caretaking functions with 

respect to the child in the 24 months preceding the filing of any petition for allocation 

of parental responsibilities or, if the child is under 2 years of age, since the child’s birth;

(4) any prior agreement or course of conduct between the parents relating to 

caretaking functions with respect to the child;
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(5) the interaction and interrelationship of the child with his or her parents and 

siblings and with any other person who may significantly affect the child’s best 

interests;

(6) the child’s adjustment to his or her home, school, and community;

(7) the mental and physical health of all individuals involved;

(8) the child’s needs;

(9) the distance between the parents’ residences, the cost and difficulty of 

transporting the child, each parent’s and the child’s daily schedules, and the ability of 

the parents to cooperate in the arrangement;

(10) whether a restriction on parenting time is appropriate;

(11) the physical violence or threat of physical violence by the child’s parent 

directed against the child or other member of the child’s household;

(12) the willingness and ability of each parent to place the needs of the child ahead 

of his or her own needs;

(13) the willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage a close 

and continuing relationship between the other parent and the child;

(14) the occurrence of abuse against the child or other member of the child’s 

household;

(15) whether one of the parents is a convicted sex offender or lives with a convicted 

sex offender and, if so, the exact nature of the offense and what if any treatment the 

offender has successfully participated in; the parties are entitled to a hearing on the 

issues raised in this paragraph (15);

(16) the terms of a parent’s military family-care plan that a parent must complete 

before deployment if a parent is a member of the United States Armed Forces who is 

being deployed; and

(17) any other factor that the court expressly finds to be relevant.” Id. § 602.7(b).

A reviewing court will disturb a circuit court’s ruling on parenting time “only if it is against 

the manifest weight of the evidence, is manifestly unjust, or is the result of an abuse of 

discretion.” In re Marriage of Whitehead, 2018 IL App (5th) 170380, ¶ 21.

¶ 54 In arguing that the circuit court’s decision regarding parenting time was against the 

manifest weight of the evidence, Courtney emphasizes that she had been the minor’s primary 

caretaker and essentially repeats the same points she emphasized in her argument regarding 

decision-making responsibilities.

¶ 55 Again, the majority of the testimony presented by one side in this case was disputed by the 

other, and we find no reason in the record to disturb the circuit court’s credibility 

determinations. See Young, 2018 IL App (4th) 170001, ¶ 64. The evidence indicated that the 

parties were both fit to parent but had extreme difficulties communicating with each other 

effectively and adhering to the court order regarding parenting time and exchanges. As in the 

previous issue, Courtney’s argument essentially asks this court to reweigh the evidence and 

witness credibility. We decline to do so. See Pfeiffer, 237 Ill. App. 3d at 513. There is no 

indication from the record that the circuit court failed to consider any of the relevant statutory 

factors, or the evidence presented on those factors, in reaching its decision on parenting time.
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¶ 56 Lastly, we note that Courtney also contests the circuit court’s decision to order a right of 

first refusal only when one parent wanted to leave the minor overnight with a substitute 

childcare provider.

¶ 57 Section 602.3(a) of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (750 ILCS 

5/602.3(a) (West 2018)) provides:

“If the court awards parenting time to both parents under Section 602.7 or 602.8, 

the court may consider, consistent with the best interests of the child as defined in 

Section 602.7, whether to award to one or both of the parties the right of first refusal to 

provide child care for the minor child or children during the other parent’s normal 

parenting time, unless the need for child care is attributable to an emergency.”

¶ 58 Again, the record reflects no failure of the circuit court to consider the evidence presented 

on the applicability of the right of first refusal. The evidence clearly showed that the parties 

struggled with exchanges, especially when Courtney would care for the minor during Eric’s 

parenting time while he was at work. Under these circumstances, we hold that the court did 

not err when it ordered a right of first refusal only when one parent wanted to leave the minor 

overnight with a substitute childcare provider.

¶ 59 For the foregoing reasons, we hold that the circuit court’s parenting-time decision is not 

against the manifest weight of the evidence.

¶ 60 III. CONCLUSION

¶ 61 The judgment of the circuit court of McDonough County is affirmed.

¶ 62 Affirmed.