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                                                                 Exhibit (10)(u)

                                 March 31, 1999

Mr. Gordon A. Wilber
3335 Hummingbird Drive
Poland, OH  44514

Dear Gordon:

This letter agreement sets forth the terms and conditions of your separation
from employment with Cold Metal Products, Inc. (the "Company"). We agree as
follows:

         1. RESIGNATION DATE. Your resignation as an officer and director of the
Company and all of its related corporations, and your termination of employment
with the Company will be effective March 31, 1999, sometimes referred to herein
as the "termination date". The period of 24 months beginning on the termination
date, ending on March 31, 2001, is referred to herein as the "severance period".

         2. OBLIGATIONS OF THE COMPANY. In consideration of the agreements,
releases and representations made by you in this Agreement:

         (a) You will receive a lump sum severance payment in the amount of
$525,408, less lawful withholdings, within thirty (30) days after the date of
this letter.

         (b) During the severance period you will continue to participate in
those employee benefit plans and fringe benefit arrangements identified in
Schedule A on a post-employment basis, subject to the Company's right to modify,
amend or terminate any such plan or arrangement.

         (c) You will receive all amounts credited to your account under the
Company's Special Incentive Compensation Plan, including investment earnings, as
if you had "Retired", within the meaning of such plan, on the termination date.
Payment will be made to you within 30 days after the date of this Agreement.

         (d) The Company will transfer title to your Company vehicle to you,
within 30 days after the date of this Agreement.

         (e) Within thirty (30) days after this Agreement becomes effective, the
Company will pay an allowance of $20,000 for financial services and legal fees
relating to this Agreement.

         (f) Your resignation on the termination date will be considered a
"Normal Termination" for purposes of the Company's 1994 Incentive Program, so
that your currently exercisable options to purchase 56,250 shares of Company
stock will not expire until five (5) years after the termination date. You agree
that your performance of duties as an independent contractor after the
termination date will not defer or affect the effective date of your Normal
Termination for purposes of this program.

         (g) You may retain your laptop computer.





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March 31, 1999
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         (h) The Company will pay for fourteen (14) days of vacation earned but
unused as of the date on which this Agreement becomes effective.

         (i) The Company will pay the cost of the balance of your term as
president of the Cold Rolled Strip Association (approximately $5,000).

         (j) The Company will transfer your Wall Street Journal subscription to
your home and will send the American Metal Market to your home shortly after it
arrives at the Company's headquarters.

         3. PURCHASE OF STOCK.

         (a) You shall have the right to require the Company to purchase 155,800
shares of the Company's common stock owned by you at any time during the period
beginning on the date of this letter and ending on May 13, 1999, but only to the
extent permitted by applicable law, at a price equal to the lower of:

                  (i) the average of the closing prices of such stock on the New
York Stock Exchange over the 20 trading days preceding the date of your written
notice (described below), or

                  (ii) $3 13/16 per share.

         (b) You may exercise this right by delivering written notice to the
Company on or before May 13, 1999. At the closing of such purchase, which shall
be held on such date as we agree, but not later than 30 days after receipt by
the Company of such written notice, the Company will deliver payment for the
shares, by wire transfer to an account designated by you or as you otherwise
reasonably instruct, subject to your delivery to the Company of certificates
representing all shares, endorsed for transfer or with duly executed stock
powers attached.

         4. YOUR OBLIGATIONS: GENERAL RELEASE.

         (a) In consideration of your receipt of the payments and benefits
described in paragraphs 2 and 3 above:




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March 31, 1999
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               (i)You release and agree not to sue the Company, Aarque
         Securities Corporation or any of their affiliates, or any of the
         officers, agents or employees thereof, with respect to any claim,
         whether known or unknown, which you have, or may have, related to your
         employment with the Company or termination of such employment (the
         "Claims"), including all Claims of unlawful discrimination on account
         of sex, race, age, disability, veteran's status, national origin or
         religion; all Claims based upon any federal, state or local equal
         employment opportunity law, including the Civil Rights Act of 1964, as
         amended, the Age Discrimination in Employment Act, as amended by the
         Older Workers Benefit Protection Act, the Americans With Disabilities
         Act of 1990, the Civil Rights Act of 1991, all Claims for violations of
         the Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974; all Claims for
         violation of any agreement or representation, express or implied, made
         prior to or simultaneously with this Agreement; and all Claims based
         upon wrongful termination of employment and similar or related Claims.

                  (ii) You will not at any time disclose any Confidential
         Information in whole or in part to any person, firm or corporation for
         any reason or purpose whatsoever, or use such information in any way or
         in any capacity. The term "Confidential Information" shall mean secret
         or confidential information relating to the Company, its affiliates and
         customers or clients and their affiliates, and their respective
         businesses (including, but not limited to, selling strategies, prices,
         know-how, research and development, and strategic planning information)
         disclosed to or known by you as a consequence of or through your
         employment with the Company (including information conceived,
         originated, discovered or developed by you), which information is not
         otherwise generally known in the relevant trade or industry or public
         knowledge.

         (b) It is agreed that the general release set forth in this paragraph
4: (i) does not release the Company of its obligations under this Agreement; and
(ii) shall not adversely affect such benefits, if any, to which you may be
entitled under the Pension Plan for Salaried Non-Bargaining Employees of Cold
Metal Products, Inc. (the "Pension Plan"), the Cold Metal Products, Inc. Thrift
Plan (the "Thrift Plan"), the Cold Metal Products, Inc. Special Incentive
Compensation Plan, the Cold Metal Products, Inc. Group Benefit Plan for Salaried
Employees and the Cold Metal Products, Inc. 1994 Incentive Plans (to the extent
rights thereunder are preserved hereunder), as such plans may be amended from
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March 31, 1999
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         (c) Upon termination of the Consulting Agreement referred to at Section
6(d) hereof, you will return to the Company any literature, manuals, documents,
data, information, order forms, price lists, memoranda, correspondence, computer
disks or tapes, customer or prospective customer lists, customers' orders or
records, whether compiled by you, a customer or the Company, or coming to your
knowledge or custody in connection with your activities as an employee of the
Company, or any machines, parts, equipment, or other materials received by you
from the Company or from any of its customers in connection with such
activities, excluding publicly available documents and information.

         5. ACKNOWLEDGMENTS. By signing this Agreement, you expressly
acknowledge and agree that:

         (a) You have read and fully understand the terms of this Agreement;

         (b) YOU UNDERSTAND THAT THIS AGREEMENT CONSTITUTES A FULL, FINAL AND
BINDING SETTLEMENT OF ALL MATTERS COVERED BY THIS AGREEMENT AND THAT THIS
AGREEMENT CONSTITUTES A RELEASE OF ALL CLAIMS, KNOWN AND UNKNOWN, WHICH RELATE
TO YOUR EMPLOYMENT OR SEPARATION FROM EMPLOYMENT INCLUDING, WITHOUT LIMITATION,
CLAIMS UNDER THE AGE DISCRIMINATION IN EMPLOYMENT ACT;

         (c) You understand that this Agreement does not waive any rights or
claims arising after this Agreement goes into effect;

         (d) The payments and benefits described above are significantly more
valuable than any payments or benefits you would be entitled to receive under
the Company's normal termination policies;

         (e) You have had the opportunity to consult with an attorney and have
in fact consulted an attorney, namely, Terry Lardakis of the firm of Brouse &
McDowell, prior to signing this Agreement;

         (f) YOU HAVE HAD ADEQUATE OPPORTUNITY TO REQUEST AND HAVE RECEIVED ALL
INFORMATION YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THIS AGREEMENT AND HAVE BEEN OFFERED
SUFFICIENT TIME, THAT IS, AT LEAST FORTY-FIVE (45) DAYS TO CONSIDER WHETHER TO
SIGN THIS AGREEMENT;

         (g) YOU HAVE KNOWINGLY AND VOLUNTARILY ENTERED THIS AGREEMENT WITHOUT
ANY DURESS, COERCION OR UNDUE INFLUENCE BY ANYONE.



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March 31, 1999
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         6. MISCELLANEOUS.

         (a) You and the Company agree that this Agreement contains the complete
agreement between you and the Company and that there are no other agreements or
representations relating in any way to the subject matter of this Agreement.

         (b) This Agreement will become effective on the 7th day after you sign
it. During the seven (7) days after you sign this Agreement, you may revoke it
by giving written notice to the Company, in which event this agreement will not
go into effect.

         (c) The offers set forth in paragraphs 2 and 3 are integrated,
dependent offers, and none may be accepted separately.

         (d) Contemporaneously with the execution and effectiveness of this
Agreement, you and the Company shall enter into a consulting agreement in the
form of Exhibit I attached hereto.

         If you agree with the foregoing, please indicate by signing below.


                                                   COLD METAL PRODUCTS, INC.

                                                   /s/ Raymond P. Torok
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                                                   Raymond P. Torok
                                                   President


ACCEPTED AND AGREED TO IN FULL:


/S/ Gordon A. Wilber
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Gordon A. Wilber
Date:  April 9, 1999
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