Exhibit 10.9

FORM OF STANCORP FINANCIAL GROUP, INC.

2002 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

NON-STATUTORY STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT

THIS AGREEMENT
is made between StanCorp Financial Group, Inc., an Oregon corporation (the Company), and  (the
Optionee), pursuant to the Companys 2002 Stock Incentive Plan (the Plan). The Company and the Optionee agree as follows:



|1. | The Company hereby grants to the Optionee on the terms and conditions of this Agreement, the right and option (the Option) to purchase all or any part of
 shares (the Shares) of the Companys common stock at a purchase price of
$ per share. The Option is not intended to be an incentive stock option, as defined in Section 422 of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended, and therefore is
a Non-Statutory Stock Option.
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|2. | The terms and conditions of the Plan, a copy of which is attached hereto, are hereby incorporated into and made a part of this Agreement.
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|3. | The Vesting Reference Date for this Option is . Until this Option expires or is earlier terminated as
provided in the Plan, the Option may be exercised from time to time to purchase shares as to which it has become exercisable. This Option shall become exercisable in four equal installments on the first four anniversaries of the Vesting Reference
Date.
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|4. | The Grant Date for this Option is .Unless earlier terminated as provided in the Plan, this Option
shall continue in effect for ten (10) years from the Grant Date, and therefore shall expire if not exercised on or before .
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|5. | The Option may not be assigned or transferred by the Optionee, either voluntarily or by operation of law, except by will or by the laws of descent and distribution of the state or
country of the Optionees domicile at the time of death.
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|6. | No rights or privileges of a stockholder in the Company are conferred by reason of the granting of this Option. Optionee will not become a stockholder in the Company with respect to
the Shares unless and until the Option has been properly exercised and the option price fully paid with respect to the portion of the Option exercised.
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|7. | This Agreement, together with the Plan, constitutes the complete and entire agreement concerning this Option between the parties.
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Grant
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The parties have executed this Agreement in duplicate as of the Grant Date.

STANCORP FINANCIAL GROUP, INC.



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ACCEPTANCE AND ACKNOWLEDGMENT



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Please return one signed original to Human Resources, P2B, no later than
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