IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 16-1637

Filed August 16, 2017

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF EMILY DYVIG

AND BRANDON DYVIG

Upon the Petition of

EMILY DYVIG,

Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning

BRANDON DYVIG,

Respondent-Appellee.

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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Michael D. Huppert, 

Judge.

An ex-wife appeals the economic provisions of a dissolution decree. 

AFFIRMED.

Andrea M. Flanagan of Flanagan Law Group, P.L.L.C., Des Moines, for 

appellant.

James W. Thornton of Thornton & Coy, P.L.L.C., Ankeny, for appellee.

Considered by Vaitheswaran, P.J., and Tabor and Mullins, JJ.
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TABOR, Judge.

Emily Dyvig (now Emily Abbott) appeals economic provisions in the 

decree dissolving her marriage to Brandon Dyvig. She asserts the district court 

should have: (1) rejected the parties’ mediation agreement resolving financial 

issues, (2) awarded her alimony, (3) required Brandon to pay a larger share of 

uninsured medical expenses, and (4) ordered Brandon to pay her trial attorney 

fees. Both Emily and Brandon seek appellate attorney fees. Finding the district 

court properly adopted the mediation agreement and equitably resolved the 

remaining issues, we affirm. We decline to award appellate attorney fees.

I. Facts and Proceedings.

Emily and Brandon, both from Webster City, started dating when she was 

in eighth grade and he was in eleventh grade. They stopped dating while 

Brandon was in college but resumed their relationship in 2001. At that time, 

Brandon was working at Winnebago Industries, a recreational vehicle (RV) 

manufacturer, in Forrest City. Emily lived at home, attended community college, 

and worked as a licensed practical nurse. In 2003, Brandon transferred to 

Winnebago in Seattle. After several months, Emily left school and joined him in 

Seattle, where she found a full-time job at a hospital. 

Brandon and Emily married in September 2004, and had three children, 

who were born in 2005, 2007, and 2010.1 Before the birth of their oldest child, 

Emily had serious health concerns.2 After that child was born, Emily worked as a 

 

1 Each child has experienced various health problems, including seizures, asthma, and 

kidney issues. 

2 Emily’s health issues continued beyond her pregnancies, and by the time of trial, she 

had undergone more than twenty surgeries for different conditions. 
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nurse one day per week, and Brandon worked from home on those days. In the 

spring of 2007, they bought a house in Seattle. Because RV sales were good, 

Brandon earned as much as $140,000 a year. But the parties started 

experiencing financial trouble in the 2009 recession. House prices declined; and 

Brandon’s sales volume slowed considerably—in one of his last years in Seattle,

he earned only his $52,000 base pay. The parties could not afford their home.3 

Medical bills for Emily and the children also affected their finances. 

Brandon accepted a new position at Winnebago in Minneapolis shortly 

after the birth of their third child in October 2010, and the family moved in the 

spring of 2011. They were happy to be back in the Midwest where both sets of 

grandparents resided but lost more than $150,000 in a short sale of their Seattle 

house. In Minnesota, the parties rented a residence and tried to dig out of their 

financial problems. Emily was not employed, devoting her efforts to caring for 

the three young children. 

Brandon’s position with Winnebago in Minnesota required frequent travel. 

But in the fall of 2012, he accepted a new job with Mechdyne Corporation, a 

software developer, in Marshalltown, Iowa, where he worked more regular hours 

and was home on the weekends. Brandon’s base pay at Mechdyne was

$70,000, but his overall yearly income varied according to his commissions. The 

parties bought a home in Ankeny, and Brandon commuted to Marshalltown. In 

2013, Emily worked twelve-hour shifts as a nurse on the weekends for one year. 

But Emily’s nursing license was suspended for misconduct and she was unable 

 

3 Brandon explained: “We stopped payments on the house, our credit was hit, and we 

just washed our hands and moved on after that. There was just no other option for us.”
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to work as a nurse for the next year, which increased the family’s existing 

financial stress.

In August 2015, Emily was allowed to resume employment as a nurse. 

Also that month, Emily filed a petition to dissolve the eleven-year marriage, and 

the parties separated. Emily remained in the family home, and Brandon 

eventually moved into a duplex in Ankeny. 

In September 2015, Emily made plans to return to work. Also that month, 

the parties filed a stipulation on temporary matters, which the court adopted.

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The parties agreed to file a joint chapter 7 bankruptcy. In the dissolution case, 

both parties filed an affidavit of financial status in December 2015. Emily’s 

conclusory affidavit did not list any IRA retirement accounts. Brandon’s affidavit 

listed $2500 in Scottrade IRAs and $95,000 in his Mechdyne 401(k) account. 

Emily planned to move with the children to Webster City in the summer of 

2016 and live with her parents. Emily’s father advanced mortgage payments for 

their Ankeny home, and the sale closed on June 1, 2016. Emily believed her 

father would buy or rent a house in Webster City for Emily and the children. 

Emily also told the custody evaluator “she was unsure how much longer she 

would be working because she was unsure if her income would be needed after 

the divorce.” Emily continued: “[T]he amount of child support would determine 

her decision about future employment.” 

 

4 The parties agreed to Brandon paying $1300 temporary monthly child support and 

providing the children’s health insurance. He also paid all uncovered medical expenses 

after Emily paid the first $250 per year per child. While Brandon did not pay temporary 

spousal support, he paid “the water bill, electric bill, and Mediacom bill for the marital 

home until Emily commences full-time employment or December 31, 2015, whichever 

first occurs.” Brandon also paid the Lexus payment and car insurance for the Lexus 

during the dissolution action. 
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The parties later abandoned their plan to file bankruptcy and instead 

agreed to mediate their financial issues. After a successful mediation, they 

entered into a “final agreement relative to financial matters” on March 28, 2016. 

Noting approximate net proceeds of $40,000 from their pending home sale, they 

agreed to first repay $17,920.72 owed to Emily’s father and then use excess 

proceeds to pay down other marital debts as follows:

a. Brandon will take out a loan on his 401(k) to pay the 

remaining balance of this debt.

b. Half of the amount of this indebtedness shall be taken 

from Emily’s share of the 401(k).

c. Additionally, Emily’s portion shall be reduced by $10,000 

for the offset of the vehicles.

[5]

 

The April 5, 2016 uniform trial scheduling order instructed the parties to 

file current financial statements ten days before trial. Brandon complied, 

submitting a July 17, 2016 affidavit that showed the house sale had closed and 

$25,000 remained in escrow for disbursement toward credit card debts. 

Brandon’s affidavit also showed his 401(k) balance remained at $95,000 and his 

Scottrade IRA was now $97.80. Emily did not file a new financial affidavit. 

A two-day trial was held in late July 2016.

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 At the start of trial, Emily 

sought to have the parties’ mediation agreement set aside. The court declined. 

 

5 Emily’s Lexis had a net value of $10,000. Brandon’s car was leased, had no net value, 

and carried debt of $16,500.

6 At the time of trial, Emily was thirty-two and Brandon was thirty-six years old. 
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On August 15, 2016, the court entered its decree, granting joint legal 

custody and physical care to Emily with visitation for Brandon.

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In calculating 

child support, the court used Brandon’s base pay of $70,000, a “known quantity.” 

For three children, the court ordered Brandon to pay $1139.65 per month, based 

on Emily’s $33,828 and Brandon’s $51,551 net annual incomes.

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 The court also 

adopted Brandon’s proposal that he pay Emily a percentage of each commission 

he receives for child support by ordering Brandon to pay 26.5% within seven 

days “while there are three minor children to support.” The court declined Emily’s 

request for $24,000 annual alimony for four years. Finally, the court ordered 

each party to pay their own attorney fees and split court costs. 

Emily retained new counsel and now appeals.

II. Standard of Review

We review equity actions, including dissolutions of marriage, de novo. 

See In re Marriage of McDermott, 827 N.W.2d 671, 676 (Iowa 2013). De novo 

review means we examine the entire record and adjudicate the issues anew. 

See id. While not binding, we give weight to the district court’s factual findings, 

particularly concerning witness credibility. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g). We

will disturb the district court’s rulings only when they fail to provide an equitable 

resolution. See McDermott, 827 N.W.2d at 676.

 

7 The parties do not challenge the custody or child-support provisions of the decree.

8 Emily works thirty-six hours per week as a pediatric intensive care home nurse for Iowa 

Home Care. The district court determined her yearly salary was $40,694. When child 

support is added to Emily’s net annual income, her annual income is $47,503. When 

child support is deducted from Brandon’s net annual income, he has $37,875 “base” 

income without commissions.
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III. Analysis

A. Mediation Agreement

On appeal, Emily challenges the court’s denial of her request the 

mediation agreement be set aside. 

“A stipulation and settlement” in dissolution proceedings is “enforceable 

like any other contract, and a party may not withdraw or repudiate the stipulation 

prior to entry of judgment by the court.” In re Marriage of Jones, 653 N.W.2d 

589, 593 (Iowa 2002); In re Marriage of Ask, 551 N.W.2d 643, 646 (Iowa 1996) 

(same). But the parties’ stipulation is not binding on the court because it must 

still determine whether the stipulation “is unfair or contrary to law.” Ask, 551 

N.W.2d at 646 (noting “court retains the power to reject the stipulation”). It is not 

required that the parties’ solution be the solution the court itself would have 

adopted if it were adjudicating the controversy. Id. 

To resolve Emily’s claim, we turn to the trial transcript. Emily’s counsel 

told the court: “Pursuant to the terms of the mediation agreement, the parties did 

reach a resolution on all financial matters on a permanent basis.” Counsel then 

noted the agreement was contingent “upon three things occurring” and argued 

Brandon met two conditions but not the paragraph stating: “Emily is awarded her 

Roth IRA (Scottrade ****52). Brandon shall provide the log-in information on this 

Scottrade Account to Emily.” Emily’s counsel argued Brandon did not provide 

the log-in, and Emily, by guessing passwords, accessed the account and 

“discovered that there was no money in it. Her understanding, obviously, is that 

it would not have even made sense for her to agree to the awarding of the Roth 
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IRA had she known that it had a zero balance in it.” Based on this alleged 

discrepancy, counsel asked the court to invalidate the mediation agreement. 

Upon questioning by the court, Emily’s counsel clarified she had no other 

objections to the agreement and also stated: 

The terms of the agreement speak for themselves. She does have 

concerns about where significant monies have gone during the 

course of the relationship, but, no, the other terms—if it’s found that 

[Brandon] met his obligations, the terms were agreed to, and both 

parties were present and represented by counsel.

Brandon’s attorney asserted Brandon had complied with the agreement, 

claiming Brandon was “never asked separately for the log-in to the Scottrade 

account.” Also, Brandon’s December 2015 financial affidavit showed “$2500 at 

the time of mediation in the Scottrade accounts,” but counsel did not know 

Emily’s balance. “But we would agree at this point the value of all the accounts 

has been diminished, and that’s shown on our most recent financial affidavit.” 

The court asked each attorney to explain his understanding of activity in 

the Scottrade accounts between the March mediation and Brandon’s July 

financial affidavit. Brandon’s attorney stated there was no activity in Brandon’s 

accounts and information as to Brandon’s accounts was provided to Emily’s 

counsel. “We weren’t able to provide hers because they said that she needed to 

call in and get those statements because it was her accounts, not [Brandon’s].” 

The following exchange occurred between the court and Emily’s attorney: 

EMILY’S COUNSEL: [M]y understanding is that [Brandon]

had a separate IRA account that had a balance of $2500 on the 

date of the mediation in this matter. Subsequent to that date, the 

funds were in an exchange traded fund, to the best of my 

knowledge, that just sort of goes down over time given the nature of 

the financial vehicle. It’s my understanding as we sit here today 

that there is no money in any Scottrade accounts.
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THE COURT: And so do I take that to mean . . . that 

whatever occurred between March and July, it’s not a question of 

[Brandon] actively dealing in that account in a way that caused that 

asset to be dissipated. It just dissipated itself because of the nature 

of the vehicle?

EMILY’S COUNSEL: That’s correct . . . [t]here’s no claim of 

dissipation of assets from the date of mediation agreement to 

present.

The court ruled there was no “viable basis” to void the parties’ mediation 

agreement, finding there was “sufficient disclosure and an obvious concerted 

effort by both parties” to resolve the “significant financial issues arising out of the 

marriage” and their mediation agreement provided “a reasonable approach to 

resolving these issues.” The court then accepted the mediation agreement and 

directed: “[T]here will be no other issues under the category of property and 

debts that will remain contested for trial.”

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On appeal, Emily asserts the “district court erred by failing to make an 

equitable division of the parties’ assets and debts” because the record shows “an 

unexplained disappearance of the parties’ retirement accounts.” She claims 

Brandon failed to account for $20,000 disappearing from her Scottrade account. 

We reject her assertion. Emily did not submit a financial affidavit showing 

she held $20,000 in a Scottrade account. Neither did Brandon. Recognizing she 

needs support for her appellate argument, Emily cites the “Capital Gains and 

Losses” forms for the parties’ 2012, 2013, and 2014 joint tax returns. But Emily 

 

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Later in the trial, when Emily’s counsel asked if she was requesting the court “just 

simply provide that the retirement accounts are both awarded to each of you 

individually,” the court interrupted to ask whether that matter had been addressed in the 

mediation agreement. When counsel admitted it was, the court stated: “I’ve already 

approved that, so that’s not a contested issue.” 
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does not explain how these exhibits, which do not mention either Scottrade or 

$20,000, advance her argument.10 Emily fails to support her position.

In a single unsourced paragraph, Emily contends the district court “failed 

to value the dissipated or concealed assets identified in Exhibit 50.” That trial 

exhibit is a cryptic spreadsheet entitled “Distributions and Losses by Year,” 

containing a right-hand column listing years 2012 through 2015, a middle column 

labelling each year as either distribution or loss, and a left-hand column 

identifying the amount of distribution or loss for each year. A 35% tax rate and a 

10% early withdrawal penalty are applied to the subtotal, for a total of $72,938. 

Neither at trial nor on appeal does Emily explain the source for any amount in the 

spreadsheet. Yet Emily claims her spreadsheet demonstrates dissipation and 

argues: “Inclusion of one-half [of] the dissipated or concealed assets should be 

awarded to Emily in a cash settlement [in] a $36,469 judgment against Brandon.” 

First, while it is unclear what the spreadsheet is intended to show, it does 

not show dissipation. Second, Emily’s attorney told the court “the parties did 

reach a resolution on all financial matters on a permanent basis.” Third, Emily’s 

attorney stated, other than the dispute regarding the Scottrade account, Emily 

had “no other objections to the agreement” and is not claiming “dissipation of 

assets from the date of mediation agreement to [trial].” On de novo review, we 

 

10 Specifically, the capital loss exhibits Emily cites on appeal show the parties took a 

$37,678 loss on their sale of Purespectrum, Inc. in 2012. The parties then applied 

$3000 of that loss each year in 2012, 2013, and 2014 to shelter and reduce their 

income. The other exhibits cited by Emily are also irrelevant to her argument. One 

shows the loss on the sale of their Seattle home, and the other shows Brandon owed 

over $9000 in student loan debt in 2006. 
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affirm the district court.11 See Jones, 653 N.W.2d at 593; Ask, 551 N.W.2d at 

646.

B. Spousal Support

Alimony, or more formally spousal support, “is a stipend to a spouse in lieu 

of the other spouse’s legal obligation for support.” In re Marriage of 

Tzortzoudakis, 507 N.W.2d 183, 186 (Iowa Ct. App. 1993). The ability of one 

spouse to pay alimony must be balanced against the needs of the other spouse. 

Id. We measure “need” objectively by what is required for a “spouse to become 

self-sufficient at a standard of living reasonably comparable to that enjoyed 

during the marriage.” In re Marriage of Gust, 858 N.W.2d 402, 411 (Iowa 2015). 

Here, both parties will be required to observe a lower standard of living because 

they lived beyond their means during the marriage. We also consider the 

property settlement in evaluating the alimony award. See In re Marriage of 

Hettinga, 574 N.W.2d 920, 922 (Iowa Ct. App. 1997). 

At trial, Emily sought spousal support in the amount of $2000 per month 

for four years. She explained how she arrived at her request: “We’ve been 

married for twelve [years]. I was a stay-at-home mom, and I didn’t work. I was 

not able to get any retirement for myself while I was a stay-at-home mom. I feel 

a stay-at-home mom is a full-time job, and I feel that that’s not asking for much.” 

Emily also based her request on Brandon’s current pay stub that showed his 

income was about $75,000 for the first half of 2016. 

 

11 We decline to address the issue of fraudulent inducement that Emily raises for the first 

time in her reply brief as a ground for setting aside the mediation agreement. See Figley 

v. W.S. Indus., 801 N.W.2d 602, 608 (Iowa Ct. App. 2011) (citing Young v. Gregg, 480 

N.W.2d 75, 78 (Iowa 1992) (“[W]e have long held that an issue cannot be asserted for 

the first time in a reply brief.”)).
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Brandon resisted, pointing out his income for 2016 could be close to 

$150,000 with commissions but that amount was “not guaranteed.” Brandon 

explained: “If I can make [$150,000, it] would be the best year I’ve ever had in my 

entire career.” Brandon noted his annual income varies widely; he earned 

$71,000 in 2015 and $94,700 in 2014. Thus, in “any given year” his income 

could be between his $70,000 base salary and $150,000.12 Although Brandon 

offered to pay $7600 ($334/month) to extinguish the debt on Emily’s Lexus as a 

contribution to her spousal support, he asserted he could not pay $2000 a month 

from his $4296 net monthly “base income” after he pays his own monthly 

expenses ($4445) and child support ($1140). Brandon also noted, while his 

expenses included $1550 monthly rent, Emily will not pay either rent or child 

care. Their youngest child is in kindergarten, and Emily’s mother quit her job to 

provide child care. Emily’s parents testified to remodeling their home to provide 

more bedrooms, stating Emily and the children were welcome to live there as 

long as they wanted. 

Brandon pointed out Emily is leaving the marriage with the same 

retirement that he has—one-half of his 401(k). Specifically, the parties had very 

little cash—there are no savings accounts and no retirement accounts other than 

his 401(k) “that we’ve split,” so he has no accounts from which to pull spousal 

support. Also, his company does not allow him to take a draw against future 

commissions. As to the parties’ credit card marital debt,

13 Brandon testified, after 

using the $25,000 house proceeds to pay it down, he is “going to negotiate debt 

 

12 Brandon’s highest annual income was $140,000, while working in Seattle, in contrast 

to the fifteen months in Seattle when he earned only his base pay of $52,000. 

13 Brandon’s July 2016 financial affidavit listed credit card debt totaling $44,500. 
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with the four credit card companies. It depends on what we’re able to negotiate, 

but generally it’s a lot lower . . . . The remaining would be a loan out of the 

401(k), but [it] is approximately [$95,000], so it wouldn’t wipe that out.” 

The district court found Emily was “requesting what appears to be 

rehabilitative alimony, presumably to assist in whatever efforts she will be 

undertaking to further her professional education” as Emily desired “to obtain her 

bachelor’s degree in nursing.” The court was not convinced spousal support was

appropriate. Observing the purpose of rehabilitative alimony is to create

incentive and opportunity for the receiving spouse to become self-supporting, the 

court noted Emily was “currently employed within her chosen field and has 

expressed confidence in her ability to maintain that employment.” The court also 

considered that Brandon would be “paying a considerable amount in child 

support”—as well as 26.5% of any commissions he will earn—during the four 

years for which Emily sought alimony. “Looking at the parties’ respective 

budgets,” the court concluded Brandon was “not in a position” to pay alimony to 

Emily and “she has not established the need for that support.” 

On appeal, Emily requests “at least $780 monthly alimony.” She 

recognizes she has more net monthly income than Brandon after he pays child 

support. But Emily argues the “district court appears to have over-emphasized 

the property settlement” and “placed too much emphasis on Brandon’s inability to 

pay the requested rehabilitative alimony.” Based on yearly earnings of $150,000, 

Emily calculates Brandon would have more than $1500 per month in commission 

income with which to pay alimony, even after paying a percentage of his 

commission income toward child support. 
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After our de novo review, we agree with the district court. Contrary to 

Emily’s position, we conclude the district court achieved equity between the 

parties. “Alimony is not an absolute right; an award depends upon the 

circumstances of each particular case.” In re Marriage of Miller, 532 N.W.2d 160, 

162 (Iowa Ct. App. 1995). The parties leave this marriage with no home equity, 

$10,000 in equity in Emily’s Lexus, and one major asset—Brandon’s 401(k), 

which they split equally after accounting for the Lexus’s equity and paying off 

credit card debt with a loan on their only significant asset. Brandon’s total 

monthly outlays with child support are $5585, a sum exceeding his $4296 net 

monthly “base income” by $1289. Thus, Brandon will need to earn more than 

$15,000 in annual net14 commission income to meet his obligations. In addition,

when Brandon has good sales and good commissions, he will pay 26.5% of that 

commission within seven days for additional child support. Based on the specific 

circumstances of the parties, we agree with the district court’s determination.

C. Unreimbursed Medical Expenses 

Emily notes the district court used Brandon’s base income to determine 

the division of unreimbursed medical expenses at Brandon 60% and Emily 40%. 

Emily asks that we incorporate Brandon’s commission income in setting the 

percentages and order Brandon to pay 75% of these expenses. Brandon 

responds Emily’s suggestion would “punish” him in the years in which he has no 

commission income. Brandon asserts the court properly used “base” incomes in 

determining both child support and unreimbursed medical expenses. 

 

14 Net in this instance means after paying a share in child support and after paying taxes 

on commission income.
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Because Brandon’s income varies widely and because Brandon will pay a 

portion of his commission income in child support, we deny Emily’s request. 

D. Trial Attorney Fees

On appeal, Emily seeks to have Brandon pay $23,995, all of her trial 

attorney fees and costs. She asserts Brandon receives large commission 

payments and has “far more annual income than Emily even after child support is 

deducted.” 

The district court’s award of trial attorney fees is discretionary. In re 

Marriage of Applegate, 567 N.W.2d 671, 675 (Iowa Ct. App. 1997). Any attorney 

fee award must be “fair and reasonable in light of the parties’ financial positions.” 

In re Marriage of Grady-Woods, 577 N.W.2d 851, 854 (Iowa Ct. App. 1998). 

After analyzing the appropriate factors, the district court concluded: “Based on 

the information supplied,” Brandon is not in a position to pay toward Emily’s 

attorney fees. Specifically, the “agreed-to property division has taken what little 

liquidity that may have existed and applied it to marital debt, such that [Brandon] 

is not in a position to contribute to [Emily’s] fees.”

Emily must show an abuse of the district court’s discretion before we will 

interfere. See id. Emily benefits from Brandon’s commissions through increased 

child-support payments. We find no abuse of discretion. 

E. Appellate Attorney Fees. 

Finally, both parties request appellate attorney fees—Emily asks for 

$10,000, and Brandon seeks $5000. Although we do not award appellate 

attorney fees as a matter of right, we may do so as a matter of discretion. See In 

re Marriage of Hoffman, 891 N.W.2d 849, 852 (Iowa Ct. App. 2016). In 
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exercising our discretion, “we consider the needs of the party making the 

request, the ability of the other party to pay, and whether the party making the 

request was obligated to defend the decision of the trial court on appeal.” Id.

Here, neither party has home equity or other significant assets; indeed, 

the parties’ temporary agreement contemplated a joint bankruptcy, and the

mediated financial agreement required Brandon to take out a loan against his 

401(k), the parties’ only significant marital asset, to pay off credit card debt. 

While Brandon was required to defend the decree, he also earns more annual 

income than Emily and has no alimony obligation. After considering these 

factors, we decline to award appellate attorney fees. 

The dissolution decree is affirmed in its entirety. Costs on appeal are 

assessed one-half to each party.

AFFIRMED.