IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 21-1914

Filed April 13, 2022

IN THE INTEREST OF B.F.-C. and L.F.-C.,

Minor Children,

T.D., Mother,

Appellant,

B.C., Father,

Appellant.

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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Kimberly Ayotte Renze, 

District Associate Judge.

A mother and father separately appeal the termination of their parental 

rights. AFFIRMED ON BOTH APPEALS.

Nancy L. Pietz of Pietz Law Office, Des Moines, for appellant mother.

David V. Newkirk of Cunningham & Kelso, P.L.L.C., Urbandale, for 

appellant father.

Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, and Ellen Ramsey-Kacena, Assistant 

Attorney General, for appellee State.

Paul White of the Juvenile Public Defender’s Office, Des Moines, attorney 

and guardian ad litem for minor children.

Considered by Bower, C.J., and Vaitheswaran and Chicchelly, JJ.
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BOWER, Chief Judge.

A mother and father separately appeal the termination of their parental 

rights. Our review is de novo, giving weight to the juvenile court’s finding of facts. 

In re A.M., 843 N.W.2d 100, 110 (Iowa 2014). 

This case arises from violence by and between the parents, drug use, and

on-going danger to the children. In October 2018, the family came to the attention 

of the Iowa Department of Human Services (DHS) following a domestic abuse

incident involving weapons between the parents, T.D. and B.C., with the children

present. In the spring of 2019, a custody decree placed the children in the mother’s 

physical care. That fall, the mother allowed her romantic partner, A.C., a registered 

sex offender, to provide care for the children. Child-in-need-of-assistance (CINA) 

petitions were filed after the mother’s relationship with A.C. and A.C.’s caretaking 

role were reported to and witnessed by DHS. The court adjudicated the children

as CINA in December but did not remove them from the mother’s custody. The 

court ordered A.C. to not have unsupervised contact with the children.

In April 2020, the mother denied maintaining a relationship with A.C. 

However, in May, the children reported A.C. stayed in the family’s home and the 

mother and A.C. “whooped” them with hangers and phone cords. The children 

were removed from the mother’s custody and placed with the father. 

In September, the father assaulted and stabbed his girlfriend,

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resulted in his incarceration. The children were removed and placed in foster care. 

 

1 The children were sleeping upstairs in the home when the assault occurred.
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The mother made some progress towards reunification, including overnight 

visits, until spring 2021, when the children credibly reported drugs were being sold 

in the mother’s home and A.C. was around. Outside reports corroborated the 

mother was still in a relationship with A.C. Her visitation returned to fully 

supervised. 

In a May 2021 permanency hearing, the parties requested a six-month 

extension to continue reunification efforts. The juvenile court denied the request 

based on the lack of progress and ordered the State to file petitions for termination 

of both parents’ parental rights.

Following a hearing in October and November, the court terminated the 

mother’s parental rights under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(f) (2021), and the 

father’s rights under section 232.116(1)(e) and (f). The parents separately appeal.

In our review, we consider the three steps outlined in Iowa Code section 

232.116: (1) whether the State’s evidence supports a ground for termination; 

(2) whether termination is in the children’s best interests; and (3) whether any 

exceptions to termination apply. In re M.W., 876 N.W.2d 212, 219–20 (Iowa 2016). 

A. The mother. The mother seeks reversal on a number of grounds, 

asserting the State failed to make reasonable efforts to reunify the family due to 

the social worker’s COVID-19 absence and the failure to transport the children to 

their needed therapy sessions, the court erred by ordering the State file petitions 

to terminate the mother’s parental rights instead of granting a six-month extension 

under Iowa Code section 232.104(2)(b) or section 232.117(5), the court erred in 

terminating the mother’s rights under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(f), termination 
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is not in the children’s best interests, and the court should have found an exception 

to termination due to the closeness of the mother-child bond.

The district court held a hearing on the mother’s reasonable-efforts motion. 

The testimony established the social worker’s supervisor stepped in and provided 

services during the worker’s COVID-19 absence. Testimony from the mother and 

the social worker revealed only one of the missed therapy sessions was due to a 

miscommunication about the children’s transportation. The rest of the missed 

sessions were due to sickness of the mother, children, or therapist; a vacation for 

the children; and the mother missing her transportation or otherwise not attending. 

Considering all the relevant circumstances, the record belies the mother’s 

assertions, and we find the State engaged in reasonable efforts towards

reunification.

In arguing the court erred in terminating her parental rights under Iowa Code 

section 232.116(1)(f),

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the mother only contests the final element. She asserts the 

evidence was insufficient to establish the children could not be returned to her 

care. The mother struggled to make the changes necessary to provide a safe 

home for the children. For more than a year she continued a relationship with a 

man who abused her children—in direct violation of a court order. Moreover, the 

mother and children were still working to resolve her role in the abuse and 

instability in their lives. At the time of the hearing, the evidence supported a finding 

 

2 To terminate parental rights under section 232.116(1)(f), the court must find the 

child is four years old or older, the child has been adjudicated CINA, the child has 

been removed from the parent’s physical custody for at least twelve months, and 

clear and convincing evidence shows the child cannot be returned to the parent’s 

custody at the present time. “At the present time” means at the time of the 

termination proceeding. See A.M., 843 N.W.2d at 111.
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the mother was not able to safely parent her children. We find clear and convincing 

evidence supports termination of the mother’s parental rights under 

section 232.116(1)(f).

The mother asserts the juvenile court should have granted a permanency 

extension under Iowa Code section 232.104(2)(b) or section 232.117(5).3“[O]ur 

legislature has carefully constructed a time frame to provide a balance between 

the parent’s efforts and the child[ren]’s long-term best interests.” In re D.W., 791 

N.W.2d 703, 707 (Iowa 2010). In its May 2021 order denying an extension, the 

court observed no real progress had been made over eighteen months. The 

mother briefly moved to overnight visits with the children in early 2021, but then 

police reports showed the mother in the company of A.C. during a fight involving a 

gun, and A.C.’s calls to her from jail indicated an ongoing relationship. After more 

than three years of services and two years of court proceedings, these children 

need permanency, and an extension would not be in their best interests. The

 

3 Section 232.104(2)(b) provides, 

After a permanency hearing the court shall . . . [e]nter an order 

. . . to continue placement of the child for an additional six months at 

which time the court shall hold a hearing to consider modification of 

its permanency order. An order entered under this paragraph shall 

enumerate the specific factors, conditions, or expected behavioral 

changes which comprise the basis for the determination that the 

need for removal of the child from the child’s home will no longer 

exist at the end of the additional six-month period.

Section 232.117(5) states, 

If after a hearing the court does not order the termination of 

parental rights but finds that there is clear and convincing evidence 

that the child is a child in need of assistance, under section 232.2, 

subsection 6, due to the acts or omissions of one or both of the child’s 

parents the court may adjudicate the child to be a child in need of 

assistance and may enter an order . . . .
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juvenile court stated it could not make a finding that reunification was likely to occur

in the requisite period, and we agree. A six-month extension was unwarranted.

The mother asserts termination is not in the children’s best interests. When 

considering a child’s best interests, we “give primary consideration to the child’s 

safety, to the best placement for furthering the long-term nurturing and growth of 

the child, and to the physical, mental, and emotional condition and needs of the 

child.” Iowa Code § 232.116(2). Parenting “must be constant, responsible, and 

reliable.” In re A.B., 815 N.W.2d 764, 777 (Iowa 2012) (citation omitted). “It is 

well-settled law that we cannot deprive a child of permanency after the State has 

proved a ground for termination under section 232.116(1) by hoping someday a 

parent will learn to be a parent and be able to provide a stable home for the child.” 

In re P.L., 778 N.W.2d 33, 41 (Iowa 2010). We find it telling that the mother 

continued a relationship with the children’s abuser for a year after their removal

and purposely deceived DHS and the court about the relationship. The mother’s 

lack of consistency with visits, therapy, and phone calls caused the children 

emotional distress. One child’s therapist testified the child was in “survival mode” 

and had anxiety relating to the uncertainty in his life. After years of turmoil, these 

children need a safe and stable home and have found that safety and stability with 

the foster family. See Iowa Code § 232.116(2)(b) (including the foster family 

placement as part of the best-interests analysis). Termination is in their best 

interests.

The mother asserts the court should have declined to terminate her rights 

because it would be detrimental to the children based on their close bond. The 

parent seeking to apply an exception to termination bears the burden of proof to 
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establish the exception. In re A.S., 906 N.W.2d 467, 476 (Iowa 2018). In support, 

the mother cites testimony from one child’s therapist that the child needs to 

maintain a relationship with parents, siblings, and half-siblings. But, the therapist 

also testified the child needed an environment with sufficient housing, food, 

support, education, and consistency so the child can “focus on the appropriate 

developmental skills.” Reviewing the evidence, the inconsistencies of the mother’s 

actions and the uncertainty of her level of care are more detrimental to the 

children’s well-being than termination of the mother’s parental rights. The mother 

has failed to carry her burden to establish the exception.

We affirm the termination of the mother’s parental rights.

B. The father. The father contests the grounds for termination under Iowa 

Code section 232.116(1)(e) and (f). He also asserts termination is not in the best 

interests of the children and the parent-child bond statutory exception applies.

“When the juvenile court terminates parental rights on more than one 

statutory ground, we may affirm the juvenile court’s order on any ground we find 

supported by the record.” A.B., 815 N.W.2d at 774. We find termination was 

proper under section 232.116(1)(f). The children are both more than four years 

old and have been adjudicated CINA. Iowa Code § 232.116(1)(f)(1)–(2). The 

children have been out of the father’s physical custody for more than twelve 

months and cannot be returned to his care at this time due to the father’s assault 

of his girlfriend and subsequent arrest, conviction, and imprisonment. See id.

§ 232.116(1)(f)(3)–(4). His claims the children could be returned to the mother or 

placed in his fiancé’s custody for the years until his release from prison is 

unavailing, as neither would be a return to the father’s custody. See In re D.G., 
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704 N.W.2d 454, 460 (Iowa Ct. App. 2005) (noting each parent is considered 

separately as to their own parental rights). The ground for termination was

established by clear and convincing evidence.

The father asserts he has “very close and strong bonds” with the children. 

Iowa Code section 232.116(3)(c) allows a court to avoid termination where “[t]here

is clear and convincing evidence that the termination would be detrimental to the 

child at the time due to the closeness of the parent-child relationship.” The father 

has not been able to see his children in more than a year because he is 

incarcerated. He has been unable to even speak with the children in many months 

due to phone and mail restrictions related to his prison disciplinary issues. The 

father has failed to carry his burden to establish his bond with the children should 

preclude termination of his parental rights. See A.S., 906 N.W.2d at 476. We 

affirm the termination of the father’s parental rights.

AFFIRMED ON BOTH APPEALS.