IN THE SUPREME COURT OF IOWA 

No. 59 / 06-0191 

Filed June 15, 2007 

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF LYLE MARTIN 

HANSEN and DELORES LORENE HANSEN 

Upon the Petition of 

LYLE MARTIN HANSEN,

 Appellee, 

And Concerning 

DELORES LORENE HANSEN,

 Appellant. 

On review from the Iowa Court of Appeals. 

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Washington County, Dan F. 

Morrison, Judge. 

 Former husband seeks further review after court of appeals modified 

dissolution decree. DECISION OF THE COURT OF APPEALS AFFIRMED 

AS MODIFIED; DISTRICT COURT JUDGMENT AFFIRMED IN PART, 

REVERSED IN PART, AND CASE REMANDED WITH INSTRUCTIONS.

 Frank J. Nidey of Nidey Peterson Erdahl & Tindal, PLC, Cedar Rapids, 

for appellee. 

Constance Peschang Stannard of Johnston & Nathanson, P.L.C., Iowa 

City, for appellant. 
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APPEL, Justice. 

 In this case, we review physical care and property issues related to 

the parties’ dissolution of marriage. The district court granted joint legal 

custody and joint physical care of the two children to Lyle and Delores 

Hansen. The district court also distributed the property in the marital 

estate, ordered Lyle to pay alimony, and established child and medical 

support. Delores appealed. We transferred the case to the court of appeals. 

The court of appeals reversed the district court on the physical care issue, 

granting physical care of the children to Delores. The court of appeals 

decreased the amount Delores was required to pay Lyle as a result of the 

property distribution and increased the monthly amount and duration of 

Lyle’s alimony payments. The court of appeals further made corrections 

related to the amount of child and medical support, and awarded Delores 

$1,000 in attorneys’ fees. Lyle sought further review. 

 With respect to the holdings of the court of appeals, we affirm the 

holding as modified in this opinion on the physical care issue, order Delores 

to pay Lyle $22,263 as a result of the property distribution, affirm the 

increase in alimony, affirm the recalculation of child support and medical 

benefits, and affirm the award of appellate attorneys’ fees. The matter is 

remanded to the district court for further proceedings consistent with this 

opinion. 

I. FACTUAL BACKGROUND. 

 Lyle and Delores were married on September 4, 1987. The marriage 

lasted approximately eighteen years. At the time of trial, Lyle was forty-five 

years of age and Delores was forty-six. Two children were born of the 

marriage, Miranda, who was twelve years old at the time of the district court 

proceedings, and Ethan, who was eight. 
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 At all times prior to the filing of the divorce petition, Delores was the 

primary caregiver. Lyle, alternatively, was the main breadwinner. For 

example, during the course of the marriage Delores attended parent teacher 

conferences on a regular basis, while Lyle did not. The vast majority of the 

time, it was Delores who helped the children with their homework. Lyle 

admits that she was better at it, particularly math. During the marriage, 

Lyle missed important childhood events because of social activities or workrelated assignments. When the children were in infancy, Delores opened a 

day care center in their home. Later, when family finances became an 

issue, she held full-time employment outside the home. After the parties’ 

separation, however, Lyle has become more involved in the lives of the 

children. 

 The record developed at trial reveals serious marital stress. The 

record demonstrates a history of recurrent arguments, excessive 

consumption of alcohol, allegations of infidelity and sexual misconduct, and 

allegations of domestic abuse. Unfortunately, at least some of these 

contretemps were in front of the children. It was not a pleasant proceeding. 

As part of our de novo review, we have reviewed thoroughly all of these 

matters, which need not be described in detail here. 

 The record further reveals that Delores tended to acquiesce to Lyle 

when there were disagreements. For example, when Delores was pregnant 

with Miranda, she wanted to attend child-birthing classes, but Lyle stated 

that he had already undergone training and that, as a result, the classes 

were not needed. When Delores began operating a child care center out of 

their home, Lyle insisted on reviewing applicant backgrounds and controlled 

which children could utilize the service. He further demanded that parents 

or custodians pick up their children by 5:00 p.m. sharp. Delores did not 
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agree with these practices, but felt she had no choice but to acquiesce. In 

addition, Delores asked Lyle if he would participate in marital counseling, 

but he refused, stating that he did not believe in counseling. Delores 

testified that she agreed to temporary joint physical care prior to trial only 

because she did not feel she could stand up to her husband. Delores 

expressed concern that if she disagrees with Lyle, he becomes angry and 

intimidating. 

 The parties appear to have different approaches to child rearing. 

Delores wants the children to be active in the Methodist church and other 

extracurricular activities. While not being overtly resistant, during the 

course of the marriage, Lyle did not encourage these kinds of activities. The 

parties also have different approaches to discipline. Lyle claims to have 

been the disciplinarian in the marital home. The record reveals that there 

are occasions when Lyle believed that discipline needed to be more severe 

than Delores was willing to impose. Lyle acknowledged that, at times, he is 

overprotective. As Lyle admitted, there are some things that he might let 

the children do that Delores might not, and vice versa. 

 At trial, Lyle expressed concern that Delores will expose their children 

to her family, which he finds highly dysfunctional. Delores testified that her 

father abused her as a child, but they have reconciled sufficiently to 

maintain an ongoing relationship. Lyle’s concern, however, extends beyond 

the father, as other members of Delores’ family have been convicted of child 

endangerment and drug offenses. Delores counters that when the children 

visit her family, it is always under her supervision. 

 Prior to trial, the parties were apparently able to work out the 

scheduling issues inherent in a joint physical care arrangement. There was 

not always agreement, however, on matters related to the children. For 
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instance, when one child experienced unexpected academic difficulties, 

Delores believed professional counseling would be of help. Lyle disagreed, 

once again stating that he did not believe in professional counseling. 

Delores acquiesced, and counseling was not obtained. On another 

occasion, the kids called their mother and asked to be picked up because 

Lyle was angry that they had not cleaned their rooms, and had slammed the 

kitchen door, breaking its glass pane. Moreover, Delores testified that 

Miranda told her she desired a more stable living arrangement with a home 

base. 

 While much of the record in this case is unattractive, it is clear that 

both Lyle and Delores love their children. They are both capable of making 

substantial contributions to their lives. The record further reveals that the 

children are bright and generally well-adjusted. 

 With respect to financial matters, the record shows that at the time of 

trial, Lyle was earning $46,300 per year as a detective for the City of 

Washington Police Department. Delores was employed as a bank teller, 

earning $18,900 per year. Delores has only a high school education and 

little prospect in Washington, Iowa, for substantial increase in income. 

 The main asset accumulated by the parties was the marital residence. 

An appraisal obtained in 2001 stated that the value of the property was 

$112,000. Delores testified that a real estate agent had appraised the value 

of the residence at $130,000 in 2003 when the parties were seeking to 

refinance their mortgage. No documentary evidence of the appraisal was 

introduced at trial. 

 During the course of the marriage, the parties accumulated 

considerable debt, at one time rising to as much as $26,000 on numerous 

credit cards. There is no suggestion that the funds were improperly spent, 
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but only that Delores and Lyle were, for a period of time, living well beyond 

their means. Delores testified that she would get cash advances on credit 

cards so that she could supply her husband with cash when he requested 

it. She especially did this during times of marital stress hoping to smooth 

out the relationship. Lyle, however, came to the conclusion that the level of 

debt was unacceptable, and developed a plan to reduce it. The parties sold 

their boat and hot tub, and Lyle took an additional job at Hy-Vee. Delores 

closed the day care, and sought outside employment. As a result of these 

and other efforts, the debt load was substantially reduced by the time of 

trial. 

 The parties also borrowed money from their respective relatives prior 

to the dissolution of marriage. Delores and Lyle borrowed money from 

Delores’ parents during their marriage, and Lyle borrowed money from his 

sister, Leigh Wolf, after the separation. At the time of trial, the loans 

remained unpaid in the amount of $6,500 and $7,391 respectively. 

 II. PRIOR PROCEEDINGS. 

 On November 15, 2004, Lyle filed a petition for dissolution of 

marriage. The district court entered an order on December 30, 2004 which 

granted temporary physical care and legal custody to both parents. The 

temporary order did not establish a physical care schedule. Lyle suggested 

a pattern of alternating care on a weekly basis, to which Delores 

acquiesced. The matter came to trial on November 2, 2005. Each party 

requested physical care. Only Lyle sought joint physical care as a 

secondary alternative. The district court did not require the parties to 

submit a joint physical care plan, and, as a result, none was provided to the 

court. The district court heard testimony from each party and several 
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additional witnesses. On December 30, 2005, the district court entered 

findings of fact, conclusions of law, and a decree in the case. 

 The district court granted “joint legal custody” and “joint physical 

care” of the minor children to Lyle and Delores. The district court order, 

however, established a schedule where “physical care” would alternate 

between Lyle and Delores for six-month periods beginning on January 1, 

2006, with liberal visitation for the spouse not currently having physical 

care. 

 The district court order nevertheless, recognized the parties’ difficulty 

in making mutual decisions. For example, the court ordered that each 

parent “shall permit the child(ren) to continue the activities after a physical 

care change.” Because Delores was awarded physical care for the first sixmonth period, the effect of the court order was that her choices of 

extracurricular activities would be binding on Lyle. The district court 

additionally ordered that Delores “shall select the church affiliation for the 

children.” The district court ordered that Delores be present when the 

children visited her family. The court further ordered that if a party moved 

from the Washington School District, the nonmoving party shall become the 

physical custodian until further order of the court. 

 Lastly, the district court decision contained the following language in 

bold print: 

This custody arrangement is predicated on the court’s 

belief that the parties are able to communicate regarding 

the best interests of their children. Failure to 

communicate in a positive manner may constitute a basis 

for modification of this decree. 

 With respect to the disposition of the marital property, the district 

court presented its division of the assets and liabilities of the parties as 

follows: 
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 LYLE DELORES

 ASSETS

 NWML $17,189 Residence $130,000 

 Durango $13,700 

 Tools and Guns net 0 Appliances net 0 

 Bank Accounts net 0 Bank Accounts net 0 

 Personal Property net 0 Personal Property net 0 

 1⁄2 IPERS net 0 1⁄2 IPERS net 0 

 1⁄2 NWML Contract net 0 1⁄2 NWML Contract net 0 

 NWML $4,854 

 TOTAL ASSETS $17,189 $148,554

 LIABILITIES

 Mortgage $72,000 

 J.W. McGrath $541 

 Leigh A. Wolf $7,391 Parents $6,500 

 AT & T Credit Card $6,100 

 Capital One Card $8,600 

 Discover Card $1,030 

 TOTAL LIABILITIES $9,237 $94,230

 NET TOTALS $7,952 $54,324 

In light of the above disparity, the district court directed Delores to 

pay Lyle one half the difference in net assets, which the district court 

calculated as $23,186. The district court allowed Delores to make 
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payments on this amount over the next ten years, with interest running at a 

rate of five percent per annum. 

 While Delores was required to pay Lyle the above sum, the district 

court awarded her alimony in the amount of $300 per month for three 

years. The alimony payments of the district court totaled $10,800. 

 On appeal, Delores raises four issues. 

 First, she claims that the district court erred in awarding her and Lyle 

physical care on an alternating six-month basis. She claims that she 

should have been awarded physical care. Delores does not challenge, 

however, the award of joint legal custody. 

 Second, she challenges the district court’s order that she pay Lyle an 

equalization payment of $23,156 after the distribution of the marital 

property. With respect to this financial issue, Delores claims that the 

marital residence should have been valued at $112,000 instead of 

$130,000, as found by the district court. Delores further claims she was 

treated unfairly in the distribution of the parties’ assets. She generally 

claims that the debt load assigned to her is excessive and that the resulting 

debt service is beyond her means. Specifically, Delores asserts that the trial 

court made a scrivener’s error in its calculations by transposing the 

numbers for total liabilities and net total in Lyle’s column. She further 

asserts that the debt to Lyle’s sister should not be allowed in light of the 

absence of a legal obligation. 

 Third, Delores claims that the alimony awarded by the district court 

of $300 per month over a period of three years is too low under these facts 

and circumstances. Instead, she seeks an award of alimony of $600 per 

month until she reaches retirement at age sixty-five. 
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 Fourth, she claims that there were errors in the calculation of child 

and medical support. She claims the district court, in calculating child 

support, used an incorrect figure for Lyle’s income. She further claims that 

the district court’s award of medical support was too low and contrary to 

Iowa law. 

 The court of appeals agreed with Delores that the best interests of the 

children required that she should be awarded physical care. The court of 

appeals held that the alternating six-month schedule did not promote the 

legislature’s goal of frequent contact with both parents. Further, the court 

of appeals specifically found that Delores was the primary caretaker and 

that the children had thrived under her parenting and were comfortable 

with her care. Although not expressed in these terms, the court of appeals 

relied upon past history of caregiving and the desire for stability and 

continuity in awarding physical care to Delores. 

 With respect to financial issues, the court of appeals held that the 

marital residence should have been valued at $112,000. In addition, the 

court of appeals modified the amount of the equalization payment ordered 

by the district court to correct the scrivener’s error. The court of appeals 

made no further changes in the property distribution. As a result, the court 

of appeals held that Delores was required to pay Lyle an equalization 

amount of $13,543, instead of $23,156, over a ten-year period at five 

percent interest. 

 The court of appeals also found that the alimony established by the 

district court was insufficient to do equity. It increased the amount of 

alimony to $500 per month and extended the period of alimony payments 

from three years to ten years. 
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 With respect to child support and medical issues, the court of appeals 

held that the calculation of child support was flawed as a result of the 

miscalculation of Lyle’s income. Further, the court of appeals held that the 

amount of medical support provided by Lyle was to be increased to reflect 

the seventy percent/thirty percent difference in their respective incomes. 

 Finally, with respect to attorneys’ fees, the court of appeals granted 

Delores $1,000 in appellate attorneys’ fees. 

III. STANDARD OF REVIEW. 

The standard of review is de novo. In re Marriage of Sullins, 715 

N.W.2d 242, 247 (Iowa 2006). We give weight to the findings of the district 

court, especially to the extent credibility determinations are involved. Id. 

IV. ANALYSIS. 

A. Custody and Care Issues. 

1. Legal Framework. 

 On appeal, no party contests the district court’s award of joint legal 

custody. With respect to the children, Delores seeks to overturn the district 

court’s ruling awarding joint physical care to both parties. She seeks 

physical care. Lyle, however, seeks physical care, but in the event this does 

not occur, is willing to accept joint physical care in the alternative. 

 At the outset, it is important to discuss the differences between joint 

legal custody and joint physical care. In re Marriage of Hynick, 727 N.W.2d 

575, 579 (Iowa 2007). “Legal custody” carries with it certain rights and 

responsibilities, including but not limited to “decisionmaking affecting the 

child’s legal status, medical care, education, extracurricular activities, and 

religious instruction.” Iowa Code § 598.1(3), (5) (2005). When joint legal 

custody is awarded, “neither parent has legal custodial rights superior to 

those of the other parent.” Id. § 598.1(3). A parent who is awarded legal 
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custody has the ability to participate in fundamental decisions about the 

child’s life. 

 On the other hand, “physical care” involves “the right and 

responsibility to maintain a home for the minor child and provide for 

routine care of the child.” Id. § 598.1(7). If joint physical care is awarded, 

“both parents have rights to and responsibilities toward the child including, 

but not limited to, shared parenting time with the child, maintaining homes 

for the child, [and] providing routine care for the child . . .” Id. § 598.1(4). 

The parent awarded physical care maintains the primary residence and has 

the right to determine the myriad of details associated with routine living, 

including such things as what clothes the children wear, when they go to 

bed, with whom they associate or date, etc. 

 If joint physical care is not warranted, the court must choose a 

primary caretaker who is solely responsible for decisions concerning the 

child’s routine care. Id. § 598.1(7). Visitation rights are ordinarily afforded 

a parent who is not the primary caretaker. Hynick, 727 N.W.2d at 579. 

2. Traditional Approach of Iowa Appellate Courts to 

Joint Physical Care. 

For decades, Iowa appellate courts have disfavored joint physical care 

arrangements in dissolution cases as not in the best interest of children. In 

In re Marriage of Burham, 283 N.W.2d 269 (Iowa 1979), this court outlined 

reasons against “divided custody.” Specifically, the court cited Iowa 

precedent for the proposition that divided custody is destructive of 

discipline, induces a feeling of not belonging to either parent, and in some 

instances can permit one parent to sow seeds of discontent concerning the 

other. Id. at 272. Although Burham referred to “divided custody,” later 

cases made it clear that the underlying rationale regarding the best interest 

of children applied to cases involving “joint physical care.” In re Marriage of 
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Roberts, 545 N.W.2d 340, 342 (Iowa Ct. App. 1996); In re Marriage of 

Brainard, 523 N.W.2d 611, 615 (Iowa Ct. App. 1994); In re Marriage of 

Coulter, 502 N.W.2d 168, 171 (Iowa Ct. App. 1993). 

These cases have generally emphasized that the best interest of 

children is promoted by stability and continuity. Although a child’s best 

interests will be served by associating with both parents, “an attempt to 

provide equal physical care may be harmfully disruptive in depriving a child 

of a necessary sense of stability.” In re Marriage of Muell, 408 N.W.2d 774, 

776 (Iowa Ct. App. 1987). As a result, Iowa appellate courts have stated 

divided physical care is “strongly disfavored” as not in the best interest of 

children except in the most unusual of circumstances. Roberts, 545 N.W.2d 

at 342; Brainard, 523 N.W.2d at 615; Coulter, 502 N.W.2d at 170-71. 

 3. Legislative Action Regarding Joint Physical Care. 

 The Iowa legislature has shown recent interest in joint physical care 

as a potential alternative in dissolution cases. In 1997 and again in 2004, 

the legislature amended the Iowa Code to mandate certain procedures 

regarding the request, award, and denial of joint physical care. 

 In 1997, the legislature for the first time defined “joint physical care.” 

The legislature further stated that a district court “may consider” joint 

physical care upon the application of either party. 1997 Iowa Acts ch. 175, 

§ 199 (previously codified at Iowa Code § 598.1(4) (2005)). The 1997 

legislation, however, did not contain any substantive standards for 

determining when joint physical care might be appropriate, but only stated 

that district courts “may consider” the alternative. As a result, the 

amendment was a restatement of existing law. 

 In 2004, the legislature again revisited the issue of joint physical care 

by amending Iowa Code section 598.41(5) to read, in relevant part: 
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If joint legal custody is awarded to both parents, the court may 

award joint physical care to both joint custodial parents upon 

the request of either parent. . . . If the court denies the request 

for joint physical care, the determination shall be accompanied 

by specific findings of fact and conclusions of law that the 

awarding of joint physical care is not in the best interest of the 

child. 

2004 Iowa Acts ch. 1169, § 1 (now codified at Iowa Code § 598.41(5) (2005)). 

 Like the 1997 amendment, the 2004 amendment did not contain a 

new standard to be employed by the courts in considering whether to award 

joint physical care. It simply provides that a party interested in joint 

physical care should request it from the court, and if the court denies joint 

physical care, it should make findings of fact and conclusions of law that 

such an alternative was not in the “best interest of the child,” which is the 

traditional standard in child custody matters. 

This court has not had occasion to consider the implication of the 

1997 and 2004 amendments. In In re Marriage of Ellis, 705 N.W.2d 96 

(Iowa Ct. App. 2005), however, the court of appeals considered the impact of 

the amendments on Iowa law. In that case, the court of appeals rejected 

the claim that the new statutory provisions created a presumption in favor of 

joint physical care. Id. at 101-02. On the other hand, the court of appeals 

came to the conclusion that the amendments had the effect of reversing the 

traditional disfavor against joint physical care by Iowa courts. Id. at 101. 

According to the court of appeals, while joint physical care is no longer 

disfavored, it is still not a “preferred” custodial arrangement. Id. at 101-02. 

 We agree with the court of appeals that the 1997 and 2004 legislation 

did not create a presumption in favor of joint physical care. There is simply 

nothing in the language of the amendments that supports such an 

assertion. Indeed, the Iowa legislative action in 1997 and 2004 is strikingly 
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different from action in other states where presumptions in favor of joint 

physical care were enacted into law. 

 Further, it is clear that the Iowa legislature knows how to enact 

substantive standards in family law matters. With respect to joint custody, 

the legislature has declared that if the court does not grant joint custody, it 

shall “cite clear and convincing evidence” that joint custody is unreasonable 

and not in the best interests of a child. Iowa Code § 598.41(2)(b). No 

similar language appears in the joint physical care provisions of Iowa law. 

 We disagree, however, with the court of appeals as to whether the 

1997 and 2004 amendments have affected any change in substantive law. 

While the amendments clearly require that courts consider joint physical 

care at the request of any party and that it make specific findings when 

joint physical care is rejected, the legislation reiterates the traditional 

standard—the best interest of the child—which appellate courts in the past 

have found rarely served by joint physical care. The amendments only 

require the courts to consider and explain the basis of decisions to deny 

physical care. Scott v. Scott, 579 S.E.2d 620, 623-24 (S.C. 2003) (legislation 

authorizing consideration of divided custody, when court finds it in best 

interest of the child, does not overrule prior case law disfavoring 

arrangement). 

 4. Review of the Traditional Approach to Joint Physical 

Care.

 While we find that the Iowa legislature has not overridden prior case 

law regarding joint physical care, we nonetheless believe that the notion 

that joint physical care is strongly disfavored except in exceptional 

circumstances is subject to reexamination in light of changing social 

conditions and ongoing legal and research developments. Increasingly in 

Iowa and across the nation, our family structures have become more 
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diverse. While some families function along traditional lines with a primary 

breadwinner and primary caregiver, other families employ a more 

undifferentiated role for spouses or even reverse “traditional” roles. A onesize-fits-all approach in which joint physical care is universally disfavored is 

thus subject to serious question given current social realities. 

 In addition, the social science research related to child custody issues 

is now richer and more varied than it was in the past. In the past, many 

scholars and courts rejected joint physical care based on the influential 

writings of Joseph Goldstein, Anna Freud, and Albert J. Solnit. These 

scholars utilized attachment theory to emphasize the need to place children 

with a single “psychological parent” with whom the children had bonded. 

Joseph Goldstein, Anna Freud, & Albert J. Solnit, Beyond the Best Interests 

of the Child 98 (1979). Although the research upon which the 

“psychological parent” attachment theory was based rested upon studies of 

infants, it was also thought to apply throughout the life cycle of a child. 

Shelley A. Riggs, Is the Approximation Rule in the Child’s Best Interests?, 43 

Fam. Ct. Rev. 481, 484 (2005). 

 The psychological parent approach stressed the important role of a 

strong, caring parent-child dyad and embraced what is sometimes termed a 

monotropic view of infant-child bonding. Robert F. Kelley and Shawn L. 

Ward, Social Science Research and the American Law Institute’s 

Approximation Rule, 40 Fam. Ct. Rev. 350, 355-59 (2002); Peggy Cooper 

Davis, The Good Mother: A New Look at Psychological Parent Theory, 22 

N.Y.U. Rev. L. & Soc. Change 347, 360 (1996). The “psychological parent” 

approach based on attachment theory seems to have influenced a number 

of courts. Pikula v. Pikula, 374 N.W.2d 705, 711 (Minn. 1985), superseded 

by statute, Minn. Stat. § 248.2 (1989), as stated in Maxfield v. Maxfield, 452 
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N.W.2d 219 (Minn. 1990); In re Custody of D.G., 246 N.W.2d 892, 895-96 

(N.D. 1976). 

 Attachment theory that emphasizes primary relationships continues 

to have strong advocates. Riggs, 43 Fam. Ct. Rev. at 482-90; James G. 

Dwyer, A Taxonomy of Children’s Existing Rights in State Decision Making 

About Their Relationship, 11 Wm. & Mary Bill Rts. J. 845, 913 (2003); Mary 

Ann Mason, The Custody Wars: Why Children are Losing the Legal Battle, 

and What We Can Do About It 116 (1999). The validity of the parent-child 

dyad or monotropic view of attachments, however, has been subject to 

substantial question. Many scholars now view infants as capable of 

attaching to multiple caregivers and not simply one “psychological parent.” 

Michael E. Lamb, Placing Children’s Interest First: Developmentally 

Appropriate Parenting Plans, 10 Va. J. Soc. Pol’y and L. 98, 109-13 (2002). 

Further, a growing body of scholarship suggests that the continued 

presence and involvement of both parents is often beneficial to the lives of 

children and not necessarily detrimental as believed by many adherents of 

the “psychological parent” theory. Id. at 100 (citing disadvantages of 

children growing up in fatherless families, including psychological 

adjustment, behavior and achievement at school, educational attainment, 

employment trajectories, and income generation); Michael T. Flannery, Is 

“Bird Nesting” in the Best Interest of Children?, 57 S.M.U. L. Rev. 295, 302 

(2004) (most commentators agree that, generally, children benefit from 

continued contact with both parents after a divorce). 

 As a result, a substantial body of scholarly commentary now 

challenges the blanket application of the monotropic psychological parent 

attachment theory to avoid joint physical care. For example, reputable 

scholars have stated that, 
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despite literature that suggests moderate correlations between 

conditions of early rearing and classes of later outcomes—for 

example, with respect to attachment and parental bonding—

experts’ ability to make specific predictions, given specific 

conditions (let alone ambiguous ones!) is weak to negligible. 

Thomas M. Horner & Melvin J. Guyer, Prediction, Prevention, and Clinical 

Expertise in Child Custody Cases in Which Allegations of Child Sexual Abuse 

Have Been Made, 25 Fam. L. Q. 217, 248 (1991). Some academic observers 

suggest that joint physical care may be a way to encourage continued 

involvement of both spouses in the lives of the children. Matthew A. Kipp, 

Maximizing Custody Options: Abolishing the Presumption against Joint 

Physical Custody, 79 N.D. L. Rev. 59 (2003); Stephanie N. Barnes, 

Strengthening the Father-Child Relationship through a Joint Custody 

Presumption, 35 Willamette L. Rev. 601 (1999). They cite a wide range of 

studies to suggest that children may be better off with joint physical care 

than other arrangements. 

 The current social science research cited by advocates of joint custody 

or joint physical care, however, is not definitive on many key questions. To 

begin with, there are substantial questions of definition and methodology. 

Such criticisms include: samples that only examine parents who voluntarily 

choose joint custody, the use of small and homogenous groups, the skewing 

of samples toward middle class parents with higher incomes and education, 

the lack of control groups, and the lack of distinction between “joint 

custody” arrangements and traditional sole custody with visitation, and the 

failure to differentiate the effects of preexisting parental characteristics from 

the effects of custody type. Jana B. Singer & William L. Reynolds, A Dissent 

on Joint Custody, 47 Md. L. Rev. 497, 507 (1988); see also Diane N. Lye, 

What the Experts Say: Scholarly Research on Post-Divorce Parenting and Child 

Wellbeing, Report to the Washington State Gender and Justice Commission 
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and Domestic Relations Commission 4-2 (1999) (research fraught with 

methodological difficulties and severe limitations) [hereinafter Lye, Report]; 

Daniel A. Krauss & Bruce D. Sales, Legal Standards, Expertise, and Experts 

in the Resolution of Contested Child Custody Cases, 6 Psychol. Pub. Pol’y & 

L. 843, 850 (2000) (noting myriad of conceptual and methodological 

problems). 

 Further, the data is conflicting or ambiguous. As noted by one recent 

academic observer, the research to date on the benefits of joint physical 

care is inconclusive and has produced mixed results. Stephen Gilmore, 

Contact/Shared Residence and Child Well-Being: Research Evidence and its 

Implications for Legal Decision Making, 20 Int’l J. L. & Pol’y & Fam. 344, 

352-53 (2006); see also Krauss & Sales, 6 Psychol. Pub. Pol’y & L. at 857-58 

(recent empirical studies of joint custody have not been able to demonstrate 

a substantial positive effect on postdivorce child adjustment when joint 

physical care is compared with other custodial arrangements). 

 An exhaustive review commissioned by the Washington State 

Supreme Court Gender and Justice Commission and the Domestic 

Relations Commission examined the many studies related to child custody 

issues. The review concluded that the available research did not reveal any 

particular post-divorce residential schedule to be most beneficial to 

children. While the review concluded that the research did not demonstrate 

significant advantages to children of joint physical care, the research also 

did not show significant disadvantages. Lye, Report at Summary. 

 While it seems clear that children often benefit from a continuing 

relationship with both parents after divorce, the research has not 

established the amount of contact necessary to maintain a “close 

relationship.” Preeminent scholars have noted that “surprisingly, even a 
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fairly small amount of close contact seemed sufficient to maintain close 

relationships, at least as these relationships were seen from the 

adolescents’ perspective.” Eleanor E. Maccoby, et al., Postdivorce Roles of 

Mothers and Fathers in the Lives of Their Children, 7 J. Fam. Psychol. 24, 24 

(1993); see also Michael E. Lamb, Noncustodial Fathers and Their Impact on 

the Children of Divorce in The Postdivorce Family: Children, Parenting, and 

Society 105, 111 (Ross A. Thompson & Paul R. Amato eds., 1999) (causal 

link between frequency of father-child contact and child’s adjustment to 

parental divorce “much weaker than one might expect”); Valarie King, 

Variation in the Consequences of Nonresident Father Involvement for 

Children’s Well-Being, 56 J. of Marriage & Fam. 963, 970-71 (1994) (benefit 

to child not related to quantity of visits), as cited in American Law Institute, 

Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution § 2.02 cmt. f. (2000) [hereinafter 

Principles]; Gilmore, 20 Int’l J. L. & Pol’y & Fam. at 358 (not contact per se 

but the nature and quality of contact that are important to children’s 

adjustment). 

 There is thus growing support for the notion that the quality, and not 

the quantity, of contacts with the non-custodial parent are the key to the 

wellbeing of children. Quality interaction with children can, of course, 

occur within the framework of traditional visitation and does not occur 

solely in situations involving joint physical care. 

 At present, the available empirical studies do not provide a firm basis 

for a dramatic shift that would endorse joint physical care as the norm in 

child custody cases. Nonetheless, in light of the changing nature of the 

structure of families and challenges to the sweeping application of 

psychological parent attachment theory, we believe the joint physical care 

issue must be examined in each case on the unique facts and not subject to 
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cursory rejection based on a nearly irrebuttable presumption found in our 

prior cases. Gilmore, 20 Int’l J. L. & Pol’y & Fam. at 360-61 (the law should 

eschew the use of presumptions in the process of deciding post-separation 

parenting regimes); Krauss & Sales, 6 Psychol. Pub. Pol’y & L. at 857 

(empirical research does not support presumptions to resolve custody 

disputes); Lye, Report at 4-1 (circumstances of each family are unique, 

recognition of unique circumstances central to good post-divorce parenting 

choices). 

 Any consideration of joint physical care, however, must still be based 

on Iowa’s traditional and statutorily required child custody standard—the 

best interest of the child. See Iowa Code § 598.41(5)(a). Physical care 

issues are not to be resolved based upon perceived fairness to the spouses, 

but primarily upon what is best for the child. The objective of a physical 

care determination is to place the children in the environment most likely to 

bring them to health, both physically and mentally, and to social maturity. 

Phillips v. Davis-Spurling, 541 N.W.2d 846, 847 (Iowa 1995); In re Marriage 

of Courtade, 560 N.W.2d 36, 38 (Iowa Ct. App. 1996). 

 We recognize that the “best interest” standard is subject to attack on 

the ground that it is no standard at all, that it has the potential of allowing 

gender bias to affect child custody determinations, and that its very 

unpredictability increases family law litigation. See Robert H. Mnookin, 

Child-Custody Adjudication: Judicial Functions in the Face of Indeterminacy, 

39 Law & Contemp. Probs. 226, 256-60 (1975); Carl E. Schneider, 

Discretion, Rules and Law: Child Custody and the UMDA’s Best-Interest 

Standard, 89 Mich L. Rev. 2215, 2220-25 (1991). On the other hand, the 

advantage of the standard is that it provides the flexibility necessary to 

consider unique custody issues on a case-by-case basis. Katharine T. 
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Bartlett, Child Custody in the 21st Century: How the American Law Institute 

Proposes to Achieve Predictability and Still Protect the Individual Child’s Best 

Interests, 35 Willamette L. Rev. 467, 470 (1999). We believe the best 

approach to determining difficult child custody matters involves a 

framework with some spine, but the sufficient flexibility to allow 

consideration of each case’s unique facts. 

 In Iowa, the basic framework for determining the best interest of the 

child has long been in place. In the context of custody decisions, the 

legislature has established a nonexclusive list of factors to be considered. 

Iowa Code § 598.41(3) (citing nonexclusive factors including suitability of 

parents, whether psychological and emotional needs and development of 

child will suffer from lack of contact with and attention from both parents, 

quality of parental communication, the previous pattern of caregiving, each 

parent’s support of the other, wishes of the child, agreement of the parents, 

geographic proximity, and safety). Although Iowa Code section 598.41(3) 

does not directly apply to physical care decisions, we have held that the 

factors listed here as well as other facts and circumstances are relevant in 

determining whether joint physical care is in the best interest of the child. 

In re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166-67 (Iowa 1974). 

 In considering whether to award joint physical care where there are 

two suitable parents, stability and continuity of caregiving have traditionally 

been primary factors. In re Marriage of Bevers, 326 N.W.2d 896, 898 (Iowa 

1982) (noting who during the marriage provided routine care and 

questioning desirability of the children’s nomadic existence for sake of 

parents); In re Marriage of Decker, 666 N.W.2d 175, 178-80 (Iowa Ct. App. 

2003) (past primary caregiving a factor given heavy weight in custody 

matters); In re Marriage of Williams, 589 N.W.2d 759, 762 (Iowa Ct. App. 
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1998) (great emphasis placed on achieving emotional stability for children); 

Roberts, 545 N.W.2d at 343 (though not controlling, due consideration to 

historical primary caregiver); Coulter, 502 N.W.2d at 171 (stability “cannot 

be overemphasized”). Stability and continuity factors tend to favor a spouse 

who, prior to divorce, was primarily responsible for physical care. See Iowa 

Code § 598.41(3)(d). 

 We continue to believe that stability and continuity of caregiving are 

important factors that must be considered in custody and care decisions. 

As noted by a leading scholar, “past caretaking patterns likely are a fairly 

reliable proxy of the intangible qualities such as parental abilities and 

emotional bonds that are so difficult for courts to ascertain.” Bartlett, 35 

Willamette L. Rev. at 480. While no post-divorce physical care arrangement 

will be identical to predissolution experience, preservation of the greatest 

amount of stability possible is a desirable goal. In contrast, imposing a new 

physical care arrangement on children that significantly contrasts from 

their past experience can be unsettling, cause serious emotional harm, and 

thus not be in the child’s best interest. 

 As a result, the successful caregiving by one spouse in the past is a 

strong predictor that future care of the children will be of the same quality. 

In re Marriage of Walton, 577 N.W.2d 869, 871 (Iowa Ct. App. 1998). 

Conversely, however, long-term, successful, joint care is a significant factor 

in considering the viability of joint physical care after divorce. Ellis, 705 

N.W.2d at 103. 

 Stability and continuity concepts have been refined in the recent 

literature and expressed in terms of an approximation rule, namely, that 

the caregiving of parents in the post-divorce world should be in rough 

proportion to that which predated the dissolution. Elizabeth S. Scott, 
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Pluralism, Parental Preference, and Child Custody, 80 Cal. L. Rev. 615, 617 

(1992). Recently, the American Law Institute’s Principles of Family Law, 

published in 2000, adopted the general rule that custodial responsibility 

should be allocated “so that the proportion of custodial time the child 

spends with each parent approximates the proportion of time each parent 

spent performing caretaking functions for the child prior to the parents’ 

separation . . . .” Principles § 2:08, at 178. A reporter of the ALI Project on 

Family Dissolution that produced Principles suggests that the ALI 

approximation rule is gender neutral, focuses on historical facts rather than 

subjective judgments, and is, in most cases, likely to provide an 

environment that is in the best interest of the child. Bartlett, 35 Willamette 

L. Rev. at 480-82. 

 We do not, however, adopt the ALI approximation rule in its entirety. 

Iowa Code section 598.41(3) and our case law requires a multi-factored test 

where no one criterion is determinative. Any wholesale adoption of the 

approximation rule would require legislative action. See W. Va. Code Ann. § 

48-9-206(a) (2007). 

 Nonetheless, we believe that the approximation principle is a factor to 

be considered by courts in determining whether to grant joint physical care. 

By focusing on historic patterns of caregiving, the approximation rule 

provides a relatively objective factor for the court to consider. The principle 

of approximation also rejects a “one-size-fits-all” approach and recognizes 

the diversity of family life. Finally, it tends to ensure that any decision to 

grant joint physical care is firmly rooted in the past practices of the 

individual family. 

 There may be circumstances, of course, that outweigh considerations 

of stability, continuity, and approximation. For example, if a primary 
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caregiver has abandoned responsibilities or had not been adequately 

performing his or her responsibilities because of alcohol or substance 

abuse, there may be a strong case for changing the physical care 

relationship. In re Marriage of Ford, 563 N.W.2d 629, 633 (Iowa 1997) 

(absence from home and less personal stability of former primary caregiver); 

see also Principles § 2.08(1)(a)-(h). In addition, the quality of the parentchild relationship is not always determined by hours spent together or 

solely upon past experience. Gary Crippen, Stumbling Beyond the Best 

Interests of the Child: Reexamining Child Custody Standard-Setting in the 

Wake of Minnesota’s Four Year Experiment with Primary Caretaker 

Preference, 75 Minn. L. Rev. 427, 489-92 (1990); Schneider, 89 Mich. L. 

Rev. at 2283-87. 

 All other things being equal, however, we believe that joint physical 

care is most likely to be in the best interest of the child where both parents 

have historically contributed to physical care in roughly the same 

proportion. Ellis, 705 N.W.2d at 103; Singer & Reynolds, 47 Md. L. Rev. at 

521-22. Conversely, where one spouse has been the primary caregiver, the 

likelihood that joint physical care may be disruptive on the emotional 

development of the children increases. Coulter, 502 N.W.2d at 171; Muell, 

408 N.W.2d at 777. 

 A second important factor to consider in determining whether joint 

physical care is in the child’s best interest is the ability of spouses to 

communicate and show mutual respect. Hynick, 727 N.W.2d at 580; Ellis, 

705 N.W.2d at 101; Iowa Code § 598.41(3)(c). A lack of trust poses a 

significant impediment to effective co-parenting. Eleanor E. Maccoby & 

Robert H. Mnookin, Dividing the Child: Social Costs and Legal Dilemmas of 

Custody 276 (1992) [hereinafter Maccoby & Mnookin]. Evidence of 
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controlling behavior by a spouse may be an indicator of potential problems. 

McGee v. McGee, 224 A.D.2d 832, 835 (N.Y. App. Div. 1996) (citing 

domineering attitude); Kline v. Kline, 686 S.W.2d 13, 15-16 (Mo. Ct. App. 

1984) (citing power struggles and hostility). Evidence of untreated domestic 

battering should be given considerable weight in determining custody and 

gives rise to a presumption against joint physical care. Iowa Code 

§ 598.41(2)(c); Hynick, 727 N.W.2d at 579; In re Marriage of Daniels, 568 

N.W.2d 51, 55 (Iowa Ct. App. 1997). 

 Third, the degree of conflict between parents is an important factor in 

determining whether joint physical care is appropriate. Joint physical care 

requires substantial and regular interaction between divorced parents on a 

myriad of issues. Where the parties’ marriage is stormy and has a history 

of charge and countercharge, the likelihood that joint physical care will 

provide a workable arrangement diminishes. It is, of course, possible that 

spouses may be able to put aside their past, strong differences in the 

interest of the children. Reality suggests, however, that this may not be the 

case. Maccoby & Mnookin at 284 (expressing deep concern in cases where 

there is substantial parental conflict); The Wingspread Report and Action 

Plan, High-Conflict Custody Cases, 39 Fam. Ct. Rev. 146, 146 (2001) 

(“[h]igh-conflict custody cases seriously harm the children involved”). 

 In short, a stormy marriage and divorce presents a significant risk 

factor that must be considered in determining whether joint physical care is 

in the best interest of the children. The prospect for successful joint 

physical care is reduced when there is a bitter parental relationship and one 

party objects to the shared arrangement. Burkhart v. Burkhart, 876 S.W.2d 

675, 680 (Mo. Ct. App. 1994) (allegations of infidelity and breach of trust); 

Braiman v. Braiman, 378 N.E.2d 1019, 1021 (N.Y. 1978) (court ordered joint 
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custody involving embattled and embittered parents, accusing one another 

of vices and wrongs, can only enhance familial chaos). As noted in the 

Washington state review, there is evidence that high levels of child contact 

with a nonresidential father are beneficial to children in low conflict 

families, but harmful to children in high conflict families. Lye, Report at 4-

17; see also Kelly & Ward, 40 Fam. Ct. Rev. at 364 (“much of the research 

on shared parenting that finds positive effects finds them in the context of 

postdivorce parental relationships in which high levels of conflict are 

absent”). 

 Conflict, of course, is a continuum, but expressions of anger between 

parents can negatively affect children’s emotions and behaviors. Hildy 

Mauzerall, Patricia Young, & Debra Alsaker-Burke, Protecting of the Children 

of High Conflict Divorce: An Analysis of the Idaho Bench/Bar Committee to 

Protect Children of High Conflict Divorce’s Report to the Idaho Supreme Court, 

33 Idaho L. Rev. 291, 305 (1997). Even a low level of conflict can have 

significant repercussions for children. Robert E. Shepherd, Jr., Legal 

Dispute Resolution in Child Custody: Comments on Robert H. Mnookin’s 

“Resolving Child Custody Disputes” Conference Presentation, 10 Va. J. Soc. 

Pol’y 89, 91 (2002). Courts must balance the marginal benefits obtained 

from the institution of a joint physical care regime as compared to other 

alternatives against the possibility that interparental conflict will be 

exacerbated by the arrangement, to the detriment of the children. Elizabeth 

Scott & Andre Derdeyn, Rethinking Joint Custody, 45 Ohio St. L. J. 455, 457 

(1984). 

 Because of the perceived detrimental impact of parental conflict on 

children, some commentators have urged that joint physical care should be 

encouraged only where both parents voluntarily agree to it. Frank F. 
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Furstenberg, Jr. & Andrew J. Cherlin, Divided Families: What Happens to 

Children When Parents Part 75-76 (1991); see Or. Rev. Stat. § 107.169(3) 

(2007) (joint custody only upon agreement of parents); Vt. Stat. Ann. tit 15, 

§ 665(a) (2007) (“When parents cannot agree to divide or share parental 

rights and responsibilities, the court shall award parental rights and 

responsibilities primarily or solely to one parent.”). Iowa Code section 

598.41(5)(a), however, requires the court to consider joint physical care 

upon the request of either party. While we, therefore, reject the notion that 

one spouse has absolute veto power over whether the court grants joint 

physical custody, In re Marriage of Bolin, 336 N.W.2d 441, 446 (Iowa 1983), 

the lack of mutual acceptance can be an indicator of instability in the 

relationship that may impair the successful exercise of joint physical care. 

See Iowa Code § 598.41(3)(g) (court should consider whether one or both 

spouses agree or are opposed). 

 A fourth important factor in determining whether joint physical care 

is in the best interest of the children, particularly when there is a turbulent 

past relationship, is the degree to which the parents are in general 

agreement about their approach to daily matters. Burham, 283 N.W.2d at 

275 (citing Dodd v. Dodd, 93 Misc.2d 641, 647 (N.Y. Sup. Ct. 1978) for the 

proposition that even joint legal custody assumes “agreement about child 

rearing practices”); Burkhart, 876 S.W.2d at 680 (where record does not 

show commonality of ideas about child rearing, joint physical care 

inappropriate); Horton v. Horton, 891 A.2d 885, 892 (R.I. 2006) (lack of 

agreement on discipline a factor). It would be unrealistic, of course, to 

suggest that parents must agree on all issues all of the time, but in order 

for joint physical care to work, the parents must generally be operating from 

the same page on a wide variety of routine matters. The greater the amount 
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of agreement between the parents on child rearing issues, the lower the 

likelihood that ongoing bitterness will create a situation in which children 

are at risk of becoming pawns in continued post-dissolution marital strife. 

 While the above factors are often significant in determining the 

appropriateness of joint physical care, we do not mean to suggest that they 

are the exclusive factors or that these factors will always be determinative. 

This court has stated, despite application of a multi-factored test, that 

district courts must consider the total setting presented by each unique 

case. In re Weidner, 338 N.W.2d 351, 356 (Iowa 1983) (each case to be 

considered upon its peculiar circumstances). The above factors present 

important considerations, but no iron clad formula or inflexible system of 

legal presumptions. 

 Once it is decided that joint physical care is not in the best interest of 

the children, the court must next choose which caregiver should be 

awarded physical care. Iowa Code § 598.41(1)(a), (5). The parent awarded 

physical care is required to support the other parent’s relationship with the 

child. Id. § 598.41(5)(b). In making this decision, the factors of continuity, 

stability, and approximation are entitled to considerable weight. The court 

should be alert, however, to situations where the emotional bonds between 

children and a parent who has not been the primary caregiver are stronger 

than the bonds with the other parent. 

 In making decisions regarding joint physical care and, if joint physical 

care is not appropriate, in choosing a spouse for physical care, courts must 

avoid gender bias. In re Marriage of Tresnak, 297 N.W.2d 109, 112-13 (Iowa 

1980). There is no preference for mothers over fathers, or vice versa. The 

preference is to advance gender neutral goals of stability and continuity 
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with an eye toward providing the children with the best environment 

possible for their continued development and growth. 

 In summary, we believe that statements in the case law indicating 

that joint physical care is strongly disfavored are overbroad. Factors often 

of importance in determining the viability of joint physical care include an 

overriding interest in stability and continuity, the degree of communication 

and mutual respect, the degree of discord and conflict prior to dissolution, 

and the extent to which the parties agree on matters involving routine care. 

While we believe that in many contested cases, the best interests of the 

child will not be advanced by joint physical care, the courts must examine 

each case based on the unique facts and circumstances presented to arrive 

at the best decision. 

 5. Best Interests of Children in this Case. 

 In light of the above principles, and after our de novo review of the 

entire record, we agree with the court of appeals that joint physical care is 

not in the best interest of the children under the unique facts presented in 

this case. For most of the marriage, Delores has been the primary 

caregiver. The concepts of continuity, stability, and approximation thus cut 

strongly against joint physical care as a quality alternative least disruptive 

to the children and most likely to promote their long-term physical and 

emotional health. Decker, 666 N.W.2d at 178; Walton, 577 N.W.2d at 870; 

Bevers, 326 N.W.2d at 898. 

 The record also shows that the parties have significant difficulties in 

communication. Lyle has strong beliefs, and Delores tends to attempt to 

avoid conflicts with him by simply acquiescing. Further, the divorce 

proceedings demonstrated considerable mutual distrust and a high level of 

conflict between the parties, complete with allegations of sexual 
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improprieties and domestic abuse. It is noteworthy that while Lyle disputed 

most of the alleged incidents of physical abuse, he admitted that he and 

Delores engaged in “pushing matches.” Furthermore, there was substantial 

evidence in the record that Lyle has a controlling personality that could 

extend into the post-divorce world. In light of this record, there is a distinct 

danger that flare-ups in the relationship could disrupt the children’s lives in 

a joint physical care context. Hynick, 727 N.W.2d at 580. 

 The record also demonstrates differences in parenting styles. Lyle 

admits to being “overly protective.” Their discipline styles are also different, 

with Lyle recognizing that there are some things that he would allow, but 

Delores would not, and vice versa. Additionally, Lyle and Delores have 

different views on the potential role of counseling in helping the children 

through the difficulties created by divorce. While the parties were able to 

handle the logistics of joint physical care pursuant to the district court’s 

temporary order, this factor is not dispositive. Over the long haul, we 

believe there is a high potential for conflict if joint physical care were to 

continue. 

 The district court recognized the problems in the relationship and 

attempted to address them in its order. For example, the court found it 

necessary to decide who would determine the children’s religious affiliation 

and to include pointed language ensuring that extracurricular choices of 

each spouse would be honored. These are the kind of decisions that inhere 

in joint custody, not joint physical care. See Iowa Code § 598.41(5)(b). The 

fact that the district court found it necessary to include such provisions, 

and thereby raise the possibility of contempt in the event of violation, does 

not reflect a high degree of confidence in the ability of the parties to have a 
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smooth, working relationship which is a prerequisite to a successful joint 

physical care arrangement. 

 The district court’s order alternating physical custody on six-month 

intervals may have also been designed to lessen potential friction between 

the parties. There was no evidence in the record to suggest that the 

alternate six-month arrangement was designed to accommodate work 

schedules of the parties or was based on some other logistical factor. Like 

the court of appeals in this case, a number of appellate courts have 

invalidated similar arrangements. Ireland v. Ireland, 914 S.W.2d 426, 429 

(Mo. Ct. App. 1996) (invalidating change of custody every two months); In re 

Custody of D.M.G., 951 P.2d 1377, 1387 (Mont. 1998) (reversing two-year 

alternating custody order); Reavis v. Reavis, 955 P.2d 428, 432-33 (Wyo. 

1998) (reversing two-month alternate custody). As noted by the Washington 

Supreme Court, orders which provide for alternating residence of the child 

for substantially equal intervals can result when the parties and the courts 

are searching to avoid underlying disputes. In re Marriage of Littlefield, 940 

P.2d 1362, 1369 (Wash. 1997), superseded by statute, Wash. Rev. Code 

§ 26.09.405-560 (2000); but see Kaloupek v. Burfening, 440 N.W.2d 496, 

498-99 (N. D. 1989) (affirming trial court order alternating custody on sixmonth basis); Drewry v. Drewry, 622 S.W.2d 206, 209 (Ark. Ct. App. 1981) 

(same). 

 It is not necessary, however, for us to consider the validity of such an 

alternating physical care arrangement. Having examined the entire record, 

we hold that this is not a case where joint physical care is in the best 

interest of the children in light of the primary caregiving responsibilities of 

Delores, the communication and respect issues, the contentiousness of the 

marriage, and the lack of agreement on daily matters. We conclude that the 
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best interest of the children will be advanced by awarding physical care to 

Delores rather than to award joint physical care.1

 At the same time, Lyle has an important role to play in his children’s 

lives. No one questions his devotion to them and their need for his 

guidance and support. A responsible, committed, nonresident parent, with 

good parenting skills, has the potential to engage in a high-quality 

relationship with his or her child and to positively impact the child’s 

adjustment. Gilmore, 20 Int’l J. L. & Pol’y & Fam. at 352. 

 Because the district court ordered the parties to share joint legal 

custody, Lyle will continue to be involved in major decisionmaking for his 

children. In order to promote the desirable level of physical contact, on 

remand, the district court should establish liberal visitation for Lyle, which 

includes visitation every other weekend, commencing at 6:00 p.m. on Friday 

night and concluding at 6:00 p.m. Sunday evening and every Wednesday 

night commencing at 6:00 p.m. and ending at 8:00 a.m. Thursday morning. 

Lyle shall have visitation on his birthday and Father’s Day every year. 

Delores, conversely, shall have physical custody of the children on her 

birthday and Mother’s Day each year. In addition, Lyle shall have visitation 

on every other holiday including New Year’s Day, Easter, Memorial Day, 

Fourth of July, Labor Day, Thanksgiving Day, Christmas Eve, Christmas, 

New Year’s Eve. Holiday visitation shall be from 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. 

Lyle shall have visitation on the children’s birthdays on odd numbered 

years, while Delores shall have even numbered years. In addition, Lyle 

shall have visitation of the children in the summer for a total of four weeks 

 1Lyle claims the court of appeals did not make specific findings of fact and 

conclusions of law as required by Iowa Code section 598.41(5)(a). The court of appeals, 

however, did find that Delores was the primary caregiver, had been a good mother, that the 

children had thrived in her care, and that the best interest of the children would be served 

by awarding Delores physical care. We find that the court of appeals adequately explained 

its reasoning to meet the requirement of section 598.41(5)(a). 
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at two two-week intervals. These two-week intervals shall be separated by 

at least one week. Lyle shall give Delores written notice no later than April 

15 of each year of the times at which he wishes to exercise these vacation 

periods. During one of those two-week intervals, Lyle shall have 

uninterrupted visitation. Delores is also entitled to exercise one two-week 

period of visitation exclusive of Lyle’s rights each summer. Delores shall 

provide Lyle written notice no later than April 30 of each year of the weeks 

she has selected. Each party is further entitled to uninterrupted visitation 

during alternating spring breaks. Delores shall have visitation in even 

numbered years and Lyle shall have visitation in odd numbered years. 

Finally, the parties shall alternate visitation during Christmas break. In 

odd numbered years, Delores shall have visitation the first half and Lyle the 

second. The reverse is true in even numbered years. Lyle is further entitled 

to any additional visitation that can be agreed upon by the parties. 

 We expect Delores to support Lyle’s relationship with the children as 

required by Iowa Code section 598.41(5)(b). Through liberal visitation and 

the exercise of joint legal custody, the children can realize the benefits of 

Lyle’s continued involvement in their lives. 

B. Property and Alimony Issues. 

1. Legal Framework for Property and Alimony Issues. 

 In dissolution-of-marriage cases, marital property is to be divided 

equitably, considering the factors outlined in Iowa Code section 598.21(1). 

Equitable distribution depends upon the circumstances of each case. In re 

Marriage of Schriner, 695 N.W.2d 493, 496 (Iowa 2005). An equitable 

division is not necessarily an equal division. In re Marriage of Anliker, 694 

N.W.2d 535, 542 (Iowa 2005). 
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 Alimony may also be awarded to a spouse in addition to the 

distribution of property. “Alimony ‘is a stipend to a spouse in lieu of the 

other spouse’s legal obligation for support.’ ” In re Marriage of Probasco, 676 

N.W.2d 179, 184 (Iowa 2004) (quoting In re Marriage of Francis, 442 N.W.2d 

59, 62 (Iowa 1989)). Whether alimony is awarded depends on the particular 

circumstances of each case. In re Marriage of Spiegel, 553 N.W.2d 309, 319 

(Iowa 1996). Factors to be considered in awarding alimony are set forth in 

Iowa Code section 598.21A(1). 

 2. Value of Marital Residence. 

 Ordinarily, a trial court’s valuation will not be disturbed when it is 

within the range of permissible evidence. In re Marriage of Wiedemann, 402 

N.W.2d 744, 748 (Iowa 1987). In ascertaining the value of property, its 

owner is a competent witness to testify to its market value. Holcomb v. 

Hoffschneider, 297 N.W.2d 210, 213 (Iowa 1980). Although our review is de 

novo, we ordinarily defer to the trial court when valuations are accompanied 

by supporting credibility findings or corroborating evidence. In re Marriage 

of Vieth, 591 N.W.2d 639, 640 (Iowa Ct. App. 1999). 

 In this case, the district court accepted the valuation of $130,000 

offered by Delores in her financial affidavit and in trial testimony. She 

testified that the figure was based upon an appraisal by a real estate agent. 

Lyle testified that the marital residence was worth $112,000 based upon a 

December 31, 2001 valuation performed by a certified appraiser. 

 While the court of appeals held that the district court erred in 

valuating the house at $130,000, we find that the district court’s valuation 

of the marital residence was within the range of the evidence and, as a 

result, should not be disturbed. 
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 3. Distribution of Marital Assets and Debts. 

 The second property issue is whether the trial court properly 

distributed marital assets and debts. The court of appeals found that the 

district court made a scrivener’s error in its distribution table when it 

erroneously entered the figure $9,237 for Lyle’s total liabilities and $7,952 

for Lyle’s net assets under the distribution plan. In fact, the numbers were 

transposed: the figure of $9,237 should have been entered as Lyle’s net 

assets and $7,952 as Lyle’s total liabilities. We agree with the court of 

appeals that this error should be corrected. When this error is corrected, 

the payment required by Delores to equalize the distribution of assets is 

reduced from $23,186 to $22,543. 

Both the district court and the court of appeals granted Lyle a $541 

deduction for an outstanding debt to J.W. McGrath. Mr. McGrath served as 

Lyle’s initial counsel in these dissolution proceedings. This allowance is 

illogical considering that Delores was not given reciprocal credit for her 

litigation expenses. Attorneys’ fees incurred in dissolution proceedings are 

not marital debt. See Rodvik v. Rodvik, 151 P.3d 338, 346 (Alaska 2006). It 

was, therefore, error to characterize the debt to J.W. McGrath as marital 

debt—it is Lyle’s personal liability. The court, however, does have the 

discretion to make an award of attorneys’ fees when equitable. In re 

Marriage of Rosenfeld, 668 N.W.2d 840, 849 (Iowa 2003). Such was the 

case here where Delores was awarded both trial and appellate attorneys’ 

fees. To then allow Lyle a credit for his fees would thus be unequitable. 

While this debt is relatively minor it does affect Delores’ equalization 

payment. The payment required by Delores to equalize the distribution of 

assets is reduced from $22,543 to $22,263. 
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 With respect to the district court’s distribution of credit card debt, we 

note that the Capital One credit card finances the Durango which Delores 

has been awarded. Further, the Discover credit card represents debt 

accumulated after the parties’ separation. We see no basis for disturbing 

the trial court’s disposition of these liabilities. While the AT&T credit card 

debt was marital debt, we believe it is equitable to require Delores to 

assume this liability as the level of debt was incurred without Lyle’s 

knowledge and without his consent. 

 In determining the total assets retained by each party in the property 

division, both Lyle and Delores received deductions for obligations owed to 

relatives. The net value of Lyle’s assets was reduced by $7,391 as a result 

of loans by Lyle’s sister, Leigh A. Wolf, which were incurred after the parties 

separated. The net value of assets retained by Delores was reduced by 

$6,500 as a result of a loan obtained during the course of the marriage from 

Delores’ parents. The loan Lyle obtained from his sister is not documented 

by a promissory note or other debt instrument. The loan from Delores’ 

parents is documented, but payments on the loan have not been made over 

the past several years. 

 Delores claims that the trial court erred in assigning to Lyle a liability 

for an undocumented loan that may or may not be enforced. A similiar 

argument, however, can be made with respect to the loan from Delores’ 

parents. Loans from family members are not the same as indebtedness to 

disinterested third parties. There is nothing fundamentally unfair with the 

district court’s treatment of these liabilities, and we decline to disturb it on 

appeal. 
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 4. Alimony. 

 Under Iowa law, alimony is not a matter of absolute right, but 

depends upon the circumstances of each particular case. Anliker, 694 

N.W.2d at 540. Factors to be considered in awarding alimony are provided 

in Iowa Code section 598.21A(1). These factors include: (1) the length of 

the marriage, (2) the age and physical and emotional health of the parties, 

(3) the property distribution, (4) the educational level of the parties at the 

time of the marriage and at the time the dissolution action is commenced, 

(5) the earning capacity of the party seeking alimony, and (6) the feasibility 

of the party seeking alimony becoming self-supporting at a standard of 

living reasonably comparable to that enjoyed during the marriage. Iowa 

Code § 598.21A(1)(a)-(f). 

 Upon our de novo review of the record, we affirm the court of appeals’ 

alimony award—$500 per month for a period of ten years. Factors which 

support the increase in amount and duration of alimony include the 

comparative income of the parties ($46,300 vs. $18,900), the lack of upward 

mobility for Delores, and the nature of the property division in which 

Delores assumes most of the marriage’s high interest liabilities. In re 

Marriage of Friedman, 466 N.W.2d 689, 693 (Iowa 1991) (length of marriage, 

disparity of earning capacity); In re Marriage of Hitchcock, 309 N.W.2d 432, 

436-37 (Iowa 1981) (earning capacity, present standard of living balanced 

against relative need of other spouse). 

5. Child and Medical Support. 

The record demonstrates that both child and medical support were 

improperly calculated in this case. The undisputed facts are that Lyle’s 

income is $46,300, not the $43,000 used in determining child support 

payments. As a result, the court of appeals correctly ordered remand to the 
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district court for recalculation of the child support payment. In addition, on 

remand, the district court shall determine whether the proper level of child 

support has been impacted by the disposition of the joint physical care and 

visitation issues in this opinion. 

 With respect to medical support, the court of appeals correctly ruled 

that under Iowa Court Rule 9.12, after the first $250 per child is paid by the 

custodial parent, the remainder of uncovered medical expenses is to be split 

in proportion to the parents’ incomes. On remand, the district court should 

correct this error. 

 6. Attorneys’ Fees and Costs. 

 Delores seeks an award of appellate attorneys’ fees. The court of 

appeals granted Delores $1,000 in attorneys’ fees, with costs assessed to 

Lyle. In the exercise of discretion, we affirm the court of appeals, but do not 

award additional attorneys’ fees and costs as a result of this further review. 

V. CONCLUSION. 

 The decision of the court of appeals is affirmed as modified. The 

decision of the district court is affirmed in part and reversed in part. The 

decision of the district court ordering joint physical care is reversed. 

Physical care of the children shall be awarded to Delores, with liberal 

visitation awarded to Lyle as described in this opinion. The decision of the 

district court to require Delores to pay Lyle $23,186 is reduced to $22,263. 

The district court’s award of alimony at $300 per month for three years is 

reversed and increased to $500 per month, payable over a period of ten 

years unless Delores dies or remarries. The decision of the district court 

regarding child and medical support is reversed and remanded for 
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recalculation consistent with this opinion. No further award of attorneys’ 

fees is made on this appeal. 

 DECISION OF THE COURT OF APPEALS AFFIRMED AS 

MODIFIED; DISTRICT COURT JUDGMENT AFFIRMED IN PART, 

REVERSED IN PART, AND CASE REMANDED WITH INSTRUCTIONS.