D.D.W.,

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Respondent, )

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v. ) No. SD36177

) Filed: February 13, 2020

M.F.A., )

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Appellant. )

APPEAL FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF BUTLER COUNTY

Honorable John H. Shock, Judge

AFFIRMED

M.F.A. (“Appellant”) appeals from the trial court’s “Judgment of the Full Order of 

Protection—Adult,” issued in favor of D.D.W. (“Respondent”), pursuant to the Adult Abuse Act.

See §§ 455.010-.090.2

 In three points on appeal, Appellant argues: (1) that there was insufficient 

evidence to support the trial court’s finding that his conduct amounted to “stalking,” (2) that there 

 1 In accord with the directives of section 595.226 and the principles underlying it, we use initials for the parties, and

exclude other identifying information as necessary.

2 All references to statutes are to RSMo (2016), unless otherwise indicated. All references to rules are to Missouri

Court Rules (2018).
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was insufficient evidence to support the trial court’s finding that his conduct amounted to 

“harassment,” and (3) that the trial court’s “grant[] [of] a full order of protection [was] without 

sufficient evidence or consideration of harm to Appellant.” Appellant fails to demonstrate 

reversible error in any of his three points. We therefore deny the same, and affirm the judgment 

of the trial court.

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Facts and Procedural Background

We recite the evidence and its reasonable available inferences in the light most favorable

to the judgment. Burke v. DeLay, 583 S.W.3d 97, 98 (Mo.App. S.D. 2019). We include other

information as necessary for clarity.

Appellant and Respondent were married for thirty-two years before divorcing on October

18, 2016. The record, as we must view it, reflects that the divorce decree designated that Appellant

was “not supposed to be annoying [Respondent], harassing [her], [or] troubling [her] in any

way[.]”4 The couple had an adult son who “moved away . . . to get away” from the negative fallout

from Appellant and Respondent’s acrimonious relationship. Respondent did not initiate any

contact with Appellant after the divorce decree was entered.

Respondent filed a “Petition for Order of Protection - Adult” against Appellant on May

10, 2019. The trial court entered an initial “Ex Parte Order of Protection - Adult” the same day,

and Appellant was served the ex parte order of protection on May 11, 2019. A bench-tried hearing

 3 Respondent did not submit a brief. While there is no penalty for that omission, this Court is nevertheless forced to

adjudicate Appellant’s claims of error without the benefit of whatever arguments Respondent might have raised. 

McClain v. Kelley, 247 S.W.3d 19, 23 n.4 (Mo.App. S.D. 2008).

4 The transcript reflects that the divorce decree was adduced as evidence at the underlying hearing in this matter. 

Appellant failed to include that document as part of the record in his instant appeal. It is the duty (and burden) of an

appellant—as the moving party—to provide the reviewing court with a record containing all materials “necessary for

determination of a question presented . . . for its review; and when an appellant fails to do so, the court will presume

that the [materials] would have been unfavorable to the appellant.” Main v. Fariss, 561 S.W.3d 104, 107 (Mo.App.

S.D. 2018) (internal quotations and citation omitted); see Rule 81.12(a).
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was held for a full order of protection on May 21, 2019, wherein Respondent appeared pro se and

Appellant with counsel. The following evidence (as relevant here) was adduced:

•Letters, Cards, Gifts, and Indirect Attempts at Contact: After the parties were

divorced, Appellant sent approximately six letters and cards (some to Respondent, some to

Respondent and her family), to which Respondent gave no answer. On December 23,

2017, Appellant sent a gift to Respondent’s home, which she immediately returned.

“[W]ithin the last few weeks [before the hearing], [Appellant] contacted two people that

[Respondent] kn[e]w, giving one of them a letter concerning [her].”

•December 22, 2017: At approximately 11:30 a.m., Respondent was at First Midwest

Bank when she looked behind her and saw

[Appellant]’s standing back, waiting on me. So he had stalked me into the

bank. . . . And I tried to ignore him, and he said, ‘Can we talk?’ And I said,

‘No.’ And I continued to walk away and he said, ‘Are you still mad at me?’

And I shook my head ‘No’ and I continued walking. He followed me out

of the bank, out to my vehicle. He had parked right next to my vehicle. 

And he stood in front of my vehicle with a paper and holding it. And . . .

did tell him, ‘Leave me alone,’ were my exact words. And I said, ‘or I am

going to call someone, the police.’ And I got into my vehicle and left.

•May 3, 2019: Appellant sent a letter to Respondent’s home address. The same day,

Respondent was putting gas in her car when she

felt the presence of a vehicle right next to mine, on the driver’s side. It was

[Appellant]. So I went back out to 67, went back around, turned back in off

of PP, back in the Mansion Mall. He was coming that way. He veered his

vehicle over to try to get me to stop and I shook my head ‘No’ waved my

hand ‘No’ and went past him to get gas.

•May 11, 2019: Respondent took her car to “Swafford’s and was told she needed a new

water pump:

[I]t was going to take some time to install it and I walked over to Starbucks

and I was going to get something to eat and I saw his vehicle headed north

on 67. And I thought, well, that was kind of odd, but I thought that’s just

coincidence, maybe. And then I saw his vehicle go in front of Starbucks,

and I moved down from where I was sitting and moved to the interior of the

building, because I thought he might be going through the drive-through

and I didn’t want him to see me. And so, I just stayed inside the building. 

And in a little bit of time, he came inside the building and approached me

immediately, got down and started pleading with me. And I told him, Isaid,

‘I have a restraining order against you and you’re not supposed to be here.’

I said, ‘I’m going to call the sheriff,’ and he just stayed there.
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And so, I called the sheriff immediately. And he hadn’t received his

restraining order yet, because I had just done that on Friday and this was

Saturday. And so, anyway, I was very scared. And the dispatcher hung up

with me, and then I called her back and said to please hurry, because he was

right there at my feet. And he -- he said, ‘I went next door and paid your

bill over at Swafford’s.’ So he interfered with my business over there before

coming to Starbucks looking for me.

And then he kept pleading and just -- just wanted me to talk to him. 

And the dispatcher asked me what he was wearing, et cetera. And then the

deputies got there and the police got there -- there were three of them -- and

the deputy gave him the restraining order papers there and went over what

he was to do and not do. And two of the deputies left when we thought he

left. Deputy Miles stayed behind with me for a while. And as Deputy Miles

and I got ready to leave and exit Starbucks, I asked Deputy Miles, I said,

‘Do you think you might should walk over to Swafford’s with me and get

the story of what happened over there with him interfering?’ And then I

looked ahead to the north and Isaw his white Cadillac Escalade parked there

still in the parking lot. And I said to Deputy Miles, I said, ‘That looks like

his vehicle there.’

And so, Deputy Miles walked ahead of me and we were both looking

north, and as Deputy Miles got a little bit closer to the vehicle, [Appellant]

walked up behind me and said, ‘You don’t have to ever worry about me

bothering you again.’ And I got kind of loud and I said, ‘Leave me alone.’

And Deputy Miles turned around and saw what was happening and he

arrested him for breaking the order within 10 minutes.

•Appellant’s Past Threatening Behavior Toward Others: In the past, Appellant had

been fired from his job at a car dealership. Respondent’s credited testimony reflected that

she

sat and listened to [Appellant] talk about his homicidal ideations concerning

two men that worked up there[.] But he didn’t like those two guys. And he

actually talked about two ways of killing those two men. . . . [O]ne was to

drive his car through the plate glass window and then get the guns out of

the safe up there and shoot those two men. And then the other idea he had

was to be a sniper and literally pick those two men off from the parking lot

when they were out there. . . . [H]e does have a restraining order . . . from

[the car dealership].

On another occasion, Appellant told Respondent about “how he could do the most damage

to [the] company” at which he was then employed: “And to do the damage he said what

he could do would be to fly an airplane into their boiler room[.]”

•Effect of Appellant’s Actions on Respondent: During their marriage, Respondent’s

doctor approved her absence from work for “approximately two and a half to three months
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. . . to keep [her] away” from Appellant “because of [Appellant’s behavior] and his

craziness and his homicidal ideations[.]”

Respondent’s credited testimony was that she was scared to even mow her lawn in fear of

Appellant being “out there ready to pick me off[.]” She testified that she had started

“pack[ing] a gun on me wherever I’m at just to keep safe[,]” and that she did not understand

why Appellant “won’t just leave me alone” and “not come around me.”

•Appellant’s Mental Health: Credited testimony was adduced that Appellant had “been

in the psychiatric ward in St. Louis, in Cape[,]” and that he suffered from “major depression

and anxiety.”

Appellant testified in his own defense. He admitted he wrote a letter to Respondent telling

her she had divorced him for “no cause,” “[t]here was no infidelity on my part[,]” and that the

“Bible says that you can be divorced under and she needs to know she did not follow that, that she

divorced me without cause.”

The trial court took the matter under advisement and issued its “Judgment of the Full Order

of Protection - Adult” on the afternoon of May 21, 2019.

Appellant filed a “Motion to Re-Open or Amend Judgment or in the Alternative, for a New

Trial,” asserting that due to suffering from severe depression, he was unable to fully testify at the

hearing, and in lieu thereof attached an affidavit. On June 25, 2019, after hearing argument, the

trial court overruled Appellant’s motion. This appeal follows.

Appellant challenges the trial court’s judgment in three points[5] on appeal, to wit:

POINT I

THE TRIAL COURT ERRED IN GRANTING A FULL ORDER OF

PROTECTION BECAUSE [APPELLANT]’S ALLEGED CONDUCT OF

“STALKING” DOES NOT MEET THE DEFINITION UNDER THE ADULT

ABUSE ACT.

 5We note there are numerous Rule 84.04 deficiencies in Appellant’s brief, including 84.04(c) and 84.04(d). 

Specifically, we note that Appellant’s points relied are deficient in their failure to “explain in summary fashion why,

in the context of the case, those legal reasons support the claim of reversible error” as required by Rule 84.04(d)(1)(C). 

Compliance with Rule 84.04 is mandatory, and “[l]ack of compliance with requirements of Rule 84.04 amounts to

failure to preserve issues for appellate review.” State v. Gray, 230 S.W.3d 613, 620 (Mo.App. S.D. 2007) (internal

quotation and citation omitted). We grant review ex gratia, but appellate counsel is cautioned to review Rule 84.04

before filing another appeal with this Court.
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POINT II

THE TRIAL COURT ERRED IN GRANTING A FULL ORDER OF

PROTECTION BECAUSE [APPELLANT’S] ALLEGED CONDUCT OF

“HARRASSMENT” [sic] DOES NOT MEET THE DEFINITION UNDER

THE ADULT ABUSE ACT.

POINT III

THE TRIAL COURT ERRED IN GRANTING A FULL ORDER OF

PROTECTION WITHOUT SUFFICIENT EVIDENCE OR

CONSIDERATION OF HARM TO APPELLANT[.]

(Underscore omitted).

Standard of Review

“We review an order of protection the same as in any other court-tried case.” N.J.D. v.

R.O.D., 582 S.W.3d 116, 120 (Mo.App. E.D. 2019) (internal quotation and citation omitted). 

“[T]hat is, this Court will uphold the trial court’s judgment as long as it is supported by substantial

evidence, it is not against the weight of the evidence, and it does not erroneously declare or apply

the law.” Austin v. Jarred, 578 S.W.3d 847, 849 (Mo.App. S.D. 2019) (internal quotation and

citation omitted). “In reviewing the trial court’s judgment, we consider the evidence in [the] light

most favorable to the judgment and defer to the trial court’s determination of credibility.” Burke,

583 S.W.3d at 98 (internal quotation and citation omitted). “It is appellant’s burden (as the moving

party) to overcome our presumption that the judgment of the trial court is correct.” TracFone

Wireless v. City of Springfield, 557 S.W.3d 439, 445 (Mo.App. S.D. 2018).

Analysis

Point I: Substantial Evidence as to “Stalking”

In his first point, Appellant claims that “the trial court erred in granting a full order of

protection because [Appellant]’s alleged conduct of ‘stalking’ does not meet the definition under

the Adult Abuse Act.”
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Appellant summarizes his argument as follows:

[Respondent] alleges that five letters, a postcard, a birthday card and a box of

strawberries constitutes harassment. She further alleges that two face to face

encounters within a fifteen-month span, constitutes stalking. Two meetings in a

fifteen-month time period, in the town where [Appellant] resides could easily be

happenstance. . . . As such, no allegation of stalking could be sustained.

Ex gratia, we curatively interpret this as a challenge that the trial court’s full order of

protection was not supported by substantial evidence. Nevertheless, this gratuity cannot salvage

Appellant’s first point, as fundamental defects doom his underling arguments in this vein. An

appellant challenging that the trial court’s judgment was not supported by substantial evidence

must successfully complete the following distinct analytical steps:

(1) identify a challenged factual proposition, the existence of which is necessary to 

sustain the judgment;

(2) identify all of the favorable evidence in the record supporting the existence of 

that proposition; and,

(3) demonstrate why that favorable evidence, when considered along with the 

reasonable inferences drawn from that evidence, does not have probative force 

upon the proposition such that the trier of fact could not reasonably decide the 

existence of the proposition.

Houston v. Crider, 317 S.W.3d 178, 187 (Mo.App. S.D. 2010).

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Appellant’s argument runs afoul in steps two and three. His argument fails to account for 

all of the evidence in the record supporting his challenged factual proposition, relies on evidence 

and inferences in his favor (which we disregard), and ignores evidence and inferences supporting 

the judgment (which we credit). In other words, Appellant fails to complete the:

most fundamental task in a [substantial] evidence challenge: to account for all of 

the favorable evidence in the record, and all the reasonable available inferences 

therefrom, that could support its challenged factual proposition, and then confront 

 6 See Martinelli v. Mitchell, 386 S.W.3d 148, 150 (Mo.App. S.D. 2012) (applying Houston to appeal from trial court’s

grant of order of protection).
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and dispel the probative value attending the same supportive evidence and 

inferences.[7]

Appellant leaves this mandatory task undone, depriving his argument of any persuasive or 

analytical value. See Houston, 317 S.W.3d at 189.

“Finality of judgments is favored[.]” Bate v. Greenwich Insurance Company, 464 S.W.3d 

515, 517 (Mo. banc 2015). The principles governing appellate review are consistent with this 

policy interest:

(1) we presume the challenged judgment is correct; (2) we presume the trial court 

knows and applies the law; (3) we will affirm the outcome on any basis supported 

by the record; and (4) it is appellant’s burden to dislodge us from the presumption 

that the outcome below was correct.

Marck Indus., Inc. v. Lowe, 587 S.W.3d 737, 743 (Mo.App. S.D. 2019) (internal quotations and 

citation omitted). Where, as here, the reviewing court must “sift through the record” to ascertain 

the merits (or not) of an appellant’s arguments, the “effect” is that appellant’s success depends on 

the reviewing court “assum[ing] the role of advocate.” Smith v. City of St. Louis, 395 S.W.3d 20, 

29 (Mo. banc 2013). This resort is prohibited, and we will not utilize it here. Parker v. Doe Run 

Company, 553 S.W.3d 356, 360 (Mo.App. S.D. 2018). 

Appellant’s first point fails to demonstrate that the trial court committed prejudicial error, 

and Point I is therefore denied. 

Point II: Substantial Evidence as to “Harassment”

In his second point, Appellant argues that “the trial court erred in granting a full order of

protection because [Appellant]’s alleged conduct of ‘harrassment’ [sic] does not meet the

definition under the Adult Abuse Act.”

 7 State v. Hooper, 552 S.W.3d 123, 137 (Mo.App. S.D. 2018) (emphasis in original).
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We observe that the corpus of the argument attendant to this point comprises a little over

half a page (double-spaced), the substance of which reflects the following:

[Respondent] never alleges that she ever gave [Appellant] an official request to

discontinue communication. She states that she shredded the first 4 letters sent in

2016 and then kept the others. She never sent them back, “Return to Sender[.]”

Repeated communication typically does not rise to the level of harassment and such

conduct would not cause substantial emotional distress in a reasonable person.

No abuse or emotional harm was proven. The Order should be reversed and

the case dismissed.

(internal transcript citations and case citations omitted).

This argument shares the same fatal defects as Appellant’s Point I argument (discussed

supra), and must likewise fail for the same reasons. Point II is denied.

Point III: Sufficiency of the Evidence and Alleged Lack

of “Consideration of Harm to Appellant”

In his third point, Appellant argues that “the trial court erred in granting a full order of

protection without sufficient evidence or consideration of harm to Appellant.”

Again, the argument attendant to this point comprises a little over half a page (doublespaced). The underlying substance of this argument is as follows:

This punitive measure [the challenged judgment] is inappropriate as [Appellant]

did in no way, cause harm or threaten [Respondent] in any way. [Respondent]

contends that ‘Stalking is threatening.’ Her definition of stalking is two chance

encounters in a fifteen month time span. She further asserts that ‘He should not be

bothering me anyway.’ [Respondent] never states in the record, that [Appellant]

ever harmed her, or anyone else. She never stated that he threatened her. [She]

never claimed he caused her emotional distress of any degree.

(internal transcript citations omitted).

In essence, this argument presents a generalized recitation of the same unavailing premises 

underlying Appellant’s first and second points. For the same reasons we designate in our analysis 

of Appellant’s Point I, his Point III must fail and is accordingly denied. 
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The judgment of the trial court is affirmed. 

WILLIAM W. FRANCIS, JR., J. – OPINION AUTHOR

GARY W. LYNCH, P.J. – CONCURS

NANCY STEFFEN RAHMEYER, J. – CONCURS