COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA 

Present: Judges Alston, Chafin and Senior Judge Haley 

LISA M. ROESSELL 

 MEMORANDUM OPINION*

v. Record No. 0742-17-2 PER CURIAM 

 SEPTEMBER 19, 2017 

DAVID L. BOWLES AND 

 SHERRI J. BOWLES 

 FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF PRINCE GEORGE COUNTY 

James F. D’Alton, Jr., Judge 

 (Jessica V. Bailey, on brief), for appellant. Appellant submitting on 

brief. 

 (Joan M. O’Donnell; Linda M.H. Tomlin, Guardian ad litem for the 

minor child; Old Towne Lawyers, LLP; Tomlin & McKeen, P.C., on 

brief), for appellee. Appellee and Guardian ad litem submitting on 

brief. 

 Lisa Roessell (mother) appeals an order of adoption. Mother argues that the trial court erred 

by finding that her consent to the adoption was withheld contrary to the best interests of the child 

because the trial court “arbitrarily disregarded evidence that her efforts to assert her parental rights 

were thwarted by other people and that [she] and the child previously had a quality parent-child 

relationship.” Upon reviewing the record and briefs of the parties, we conclude that the trial 

court did not err. Accordingly, we affirm the decision of the trial court. 

BACKGROUND1

 Mother and Troy Lee Brinkley (father) are the biological parents to a child born in 

August 2008. In April 2015, mother and the child were living with mother’s 

 *

 Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication. 

1

 Pursuant to Rule 5A:8, the record contains a written statement of facts, but no transcript. 

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then-nineteen-year-old son, Michael, and her adopted mother, who also was her biological 

grandmother. Mother testified that in April 2015, she was “‘forced’ to leave the home and had 

nowhere to go,” so she left the child with Michael. In May 2015, David and Sherri Bowles (the 

Bowleses) were asked to help Michael with the child. Mrs. Bowles helped Michael enroll the 

child in daycare for the summer and take the child to a pediatrician for medication. The child 

started to stay with the Bowleses periodically. By November 7, 2015, the child was living with 

the Bowleses permanently because Michael was no longer able to care for the child. 

 On January 7, 2016, the Prince George County Juvenile and Domestic Relations District 

Court (the JDR court) awarded legal and physical custody of the child to the Bowleses. The JDR 

court’s order indicated that mother was represented by counsel and father was present in person 

at the hearing. Both mother and father agreed to the custody arrangement. 

On March 29, 2016, mother pled guilty to two felonies. As a result, she was incarcerated 

from December 2015 until October 2016. 

On July 5, 2016, the Bowleses filed a petition for adoption. On December 6, 2016, the 

trial court entered an order finding that father had not visited or contacted the child for a period 

of six months immediately prior to the Bowleses filing their petition for adoption. The trial court 

held that father’s consent was not necessary pursuant to Code § 63.2-1202(H). However, there 

was evidence that mother attempted to speak with the child when she called Mr. Bowles on June 

29, 2016. Mr. Bowles was at work at the time, and the child was not present. The trial court 

scheduled a hearing for January 9, 2017 to decide whether mother’s consent to the adoption was 

being withheld contrary to the child’s best interests. 

On January 9, 2017, the parties appeared before the trial court for a hearing on the merits. 

There was conflicting evidence about whether mother had contact with the child after she left in 

April 2015. Mother testified that she was “in constant contact” with the child; however, her 
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biological mother testified that mother did not return for the child after she left. In August 2015, 

mother went to the child’s daycare, but had no identification and was unable to see the child. 

Mrs. Bowles testified that mother had not attempted to contact the child except for the one phone 

call to Mr. Bowles on June 29, 2016. Mother testified that she had tried to call the Bowleses 

from jail, but her calls were unanswered. 

The trial court also heard evidence about the child’s condition and behavior prior to 

living with the Bowleses and since living with the Bowleses. Prior to the child living with the 

Bowleses, he had numerous absences from school and was doing poorly in school. The child 

was underweight and had vision and dental issues. Since living with the Bowleses, the child 

regularly sees a pediatrician, dentist, psychiatrist, and licensed clinical social worker. He is 

healthy, and the Bowleses obtained eyeglasses for him. The child receives medication for 

ADHD. The child regularly attends school and is doing better academically. Mrs. Bowles goes 

to the child’s school weekly to meet with his teachers and check on the child’s progress and 

behavior, which has improved since he started living with the Bowleses. He is now less anxious 

and more verbal. 

The child’s counselor testified that the child has bonded with the Bowleses and has told 

the counselor that he does not wish to see his mother. The counselor opined that contact with 

mother “would do irreparable harm and cause significant regression for the child.” 

Mother testified that she had a close relationship with her child prior to her incarceration. 

She stated that she met with the child’s teacher and took him to a doctor. She was not aware that 

he had any problems with his vision. At the time of the hearing, she was not employed. She was 

living in a four-bedroom home with Michael and two other friends. She signed up for parenting 

classes, which were expected to begin on April 18, 2017. Mother explained that she did “not 

want to remove the child from the Bowles’ care currently, but desire[d] a relationship with him 
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going forward.” She admitted that she had not paid any support to the Bowleses since the child 

has been living with them. 

Father also testified in support of mother. He said that mother was a “good” mother to 

the child and that the child had been doing well in her care. 

After hearing all of the evidence, the trial court made the following findings: 

that the birth mother made no effort to obtain or maintain legal and 

physical custody of the child since June 2015, other than filing 

certain Petitions seeking custody and visitation (which are now

pending in the Juvenile & Domestic Relations District Court of 

Prince George) after this proceeding commenced; that the birth 

mother is currently willing but not able to assume full custody of 

the child due to her lack of independent housing and stable 

employment; that the birth mother’s efforts to assert parental rights 

were not thwarted by other people; that the birth mother has failed 

to demonstrate an ability to care for the child; that the birth mother 

abandoned the child before the child came to reside with the 

Petitioners; that the birth mother did not maintain custody of her 

other children throughout their minority; that the child has been 

continuously in the Petitioners’ care since November 2015 and has 

improved in health, behavior and academics; and that a change in 

physical custody of the child may have an irreparable harmful 

effect on his overall development and well-being. 

The trial court then held that father’s consent to the adoption was not required and that 

mother’s consent was withheld contrary to the best interests of the child. The trial court granted 

the Bowleses’ petition for adoption, and this appeal followed. 

ANALYSIS 

 “Where, as here, the court hears the evidence ore tenus, its finding is entitled to great weight 

and will not be disturbed on appeal unless plainly wrong or without evidence to support it.” Martin 

v. Pittsylvania Cty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 3 Va. App. 15, 20, 348 S.E.2d 13, 16 (1986) (citations 

omitted). 

Mother argues that the trial court erred by finding that her consent to the adoption was 

withheld contrary to the best interests of the child. Mother argues that the trial court disregarded 
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evidence that the Bowleses thwarted her efforts to assert her parental rights and that she and the 

child had a “high quality parent-child relationship.” 

 “We have consistently held that to grant a petition for adoption over a birth parent’s 

objection, there must be more than a mere finding that the adoption would promote the child’s best 

interests.” Copeland v. Todd, 282 Va. 183, 197, 715 S.E.2d 11, 19 (2011) (citing Malpass v. 

Morgan, 213 Va. 393, 398-99, 192 S.E.2d 794, 798-99 (1972)). “Virginia’s statutory scheme for 

adoption, including Code §§ 63.2-1205 and -1208, defines the best interests of the child in terms 

that require more expansive analysis than when the contest is between two biological parents.” Id. 

at 199, 715 S.E.2d at 20. 

 Code § 63.2-1205 states: 

In determining whether the valid consent of any person whose 

consent is required is withheld contrary to the best interests of the 

child, . . . the circuit court . . . shall consider whether granting the 

petition pending before it would be in the best interest of the child. 

The circuit court . . . shall consider all relevant factors, including 

the birth parent(s)’ efforts to obtain or maintain legal and physical 

custody of the child; whether the birth parent(s) are currently

willing and able to assume full custody of the child; whether the 

birth parent(s)’ efforts to assert parental rights were thwarted by 

other people; the birth parent(s)’ ability to care for the child; the 

age of the child; the quality of any previous relationship between 

the birth parent(s) and the child and between the birth parent(s) and 

any other minor children; the duration and suitability of the child’s 

present custodial environment; and the effect of a change of 

physical custody on the child. 

 The Bowleses presented evidence regarding the factors in Code § 63.2-1205. Mother 

admitted that, at the time of the hearing, she was unable to assume custody of the child, and she did 

not want to remove the child from the Bowleses’ care. 

Mother argues that the Bowleses thwarted her efforts to see the child, yet the evidence 

proved that she was the one who left the child with her teenage son and did not return for the child. 

She made one attempt to see her child at daycare over the summer in August 2015, but was unable 
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to do so because she did not have any identification. The JDR custody order from January 2016 

indicated that mother agreed for the Bowleses to have custody of the child. Mother did not appeal 

that order. Mother testified that she tried calling the Bowleses from jail, but there was no further 

information about how often she tried to call and whether she left messages. Although mother 

testified that she “continued to call and text message the Bowles but her attempts were 

unanswered,” Mrs. Bowles testified that, aside from the one telephone call to Mr. Bowles, they had 

not received any communication from mother. The trial court had the opportunity to see and hear 

the witnesses. The trial court accepted Mrs. Bowles’ testimony, since it found that mother’s efforts 

to assert her parental rights were not thwarted by other people. “It is well established that the trier 

of fact ascertains a witness’ credibility, determines the weight to be given to their testimony, and 

has the discretion to accept or reject any of the witness’ testimony.” Street v. Street, 25 Va. App. 

380, 387, 488 S.E.2d 665, 668 (1997) (en banc) (citation omitted). 

 Mother also argues that she had a “high quality” relationship with the child prior to him 

living with the Bowleses. Father corroborated mother’s testimony that she was a “good” mother. 

However, the child’s counselor, the child’s physical education teacher, and the child’s biological 

grandmother all testified that the child has improved since being in the care of the Bowleses. The 

child’s counselor testified that the child “has made significant progress.” The child told the 

counselor that mother was “mean” and he did not want to see her. The child’s physical education 

teacher talked about the improvement in the child’s appearance and behavior since living with the 

Bowleses. The child’s biological grandmother testified that while under mother’s care, “the child 

had obvious vision and dental issues that [mother] did not resolve and he was perceived as 

unhappy;” however after living with the Bowleses, the child is “happier, healthier, and cleaner.” 

The evidence further showed that the child has bonded well with the Bowleses and that a change in 

custody could cause “irreparable harm” to the child. 
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Based on all of the evidence, the trial court did not err in finding that mother was 

withholding her consent to the adoption contrary to the child’s best interests. 

CONCLUSION 

 For the foregoing reasons, the trial court’s ruling is affirmed. 

Affirmed.