IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 15-2192

Filed October 26, 2016

Upon the Petition of

CORY WANE FEES,

Petitioner-Appellee,

And Concerning

AMANDA LEIGH COOK,

Respondent-Appellant.

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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Mary Pat Gunderson, 

Judge.

Amanda Cook appeals the physical-care provisions of the district court’s 

order establishing custody, visitation, and support for her children with Cory 

Fees. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED. 

Alexandra D. Frazier of R.J. Hudson Law Firm, P.C., West Des Moines, 

for appellant.

Kodi A. Brotherson of Becker & Brotherson Law Offices, Sac City, and 

Todd E. Babich of Babich Goldman, P.C., Des Moines, for appellee.

Considered by Potterfield, P.J., and Mullins and McDonald, JJ.
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MULLINS, Judge.

Amanda Cook appeals the physical-care provisions of the district court’s 

order establishing custody, visitation, and support for her two minor children with 

Cory Fees. Amanda contends she should have been granted physical care of 

the parties’ minor children. She also argues the district court abused its 

discretion by admitting a journal Cory submitted that contained information 

regarding Amanda’s attendance at her appointments with mental-health 

providers. Alternatively, she argues if we affirm the court’s grant of physical care 

to Cory, the court incorrectly ordered her to split the costs of the children’s 

extracurricular activities; Cory concedes this point. Cory requests an award of 

appellate attorney fees. Upon our de novo review of the record, we affirm as 

modified. 

I. Background Facts and Proceedings

Amanda and Cory are the unmarried parents of two children: C.F. and 

K.F. At the time of trial, Cory was thirty-four years old, and Amanda was twentyeight. Cory holds a bachelor’s degree in electrical engineering. At the time of 

trial in November 2015, Cory had been employed as a senior controls engineer 

with the same company since 2012. Cory owns the home where he and Amanda 

lived with the children since late 2010. Amanda has a bachelor’s degree in 

nursing. At the time of trial, she had been employed as a registered nurse in a

pediatric intensive care unit since 2013. 

Cory and Amanda met in July 2007. They dated off and on until 

December 2009, when Amanda learned she was pregnant with their first child. 

In February 2010, Cory introduced Amanda to his friends as a “friend” rather than 
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his girlfriend. Amanda became upset and refused to communicate with Cory for 

several months. 

After the parties reconciled in May 2010, Cory attended birthing classes 

with Amanda as well as her prenatal medical appointments. Cory was present 

for C.F.’s birth in July 2010. After C.F.’s birth, Amanda and C.F. lived with 

Amanda’s parents. Soon after her release from the hospital, Amanda developed 

complications and was admitted to the hospital for surgery. Cory took two weeks 

off of work to care for C.F. with assistance from Amanda’s parents. After 

Amanda recovered, she and Cory shared in the responsibilities of caring for C.F. 

and transporting him to daycare with the help of both parties’ parents. At the 

time, Amanda was attending nursing school full time and working at a grocery 

store. Cory continued to provide care for C.F. in the evenings after he returned 

to work and often stayed at Amanda’s parents’ home to assist in providing

overnight care for C.F. until Amanda and C.F. moved into his home in December 

2010. 

In May 2011, Amanda obtained employment as a registered nurse. She 

had a sporadic schedule, working twelve-hour shifts that often extended past her 

scheduled shift end, rotating days and nights, and working every third weekend. 

Amanda also often picked up extra shifts. The parties kept track of her random 

schedule by entering the days she worked into a shared online calendar. 

Amanda cared for C.F. on the days she was not working, and Cory provided care 

for C.F. in the early mornings, evenings, and on weekends. In November 2012, 

Cory obtained new employment and began providing most of the transportation 

to and from daycare. 
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In February 2013, the parties learned they were pregnant with their 

second child. That same month, Cory proposed marriage to Amanda. In April, 

Cory started keeping an online journal describing incidents in which Amanda 

threatened to take the children away from him.

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 In September, the parties’ 

second child, K.F., was born. Cory attended all prenatal appointments for K.F. 

and again took time off from work to care for the new baby with Amanda. 

Cory and Amanda’s relationship started to deteriorate soon after. In early 

2014, the parties split, and Amanda moved back in with her parents. The parties 

shared parenting time with the children and agreed to attend couples counseling. 

Amanda also started attending individual counseling. Eventually, the parties 

reconciled and Amanda moved back in with Cory; however, their relationship 

continued to decline. Disagreements between the parties would often end with 

Amanda putting the children in the car and driving away, threatening Cory he 

would never see their children again. 

In late November 2014, the parties had a disagreement that again resulted 

in Amanda moving out of Cory’s home. On December 4, Cory filed a petition for 

custody, visitation, and child support. On December 16, Amanda served Cory 

with a temporary no-contact order, prohibiting contact between the parties and 

between Cory and the children.2 On December 31, the parties agreed to the 

 

1 The journal also contained information regarding Amanda’s scheduled appointments 

with mental-health providers, the parties’ scheduled couples counseling sessions, when 

and where the children stayed overnight or traveled, descriptions of incidents that 

occurred between the parties, and a schedule of various court dates set for the paternity 

action. 

2 The temporary no-contact order was in place for twenty-one days. Cory testified at trial 

he saw the children once during that time on December 26 to celebrate the holiday. 
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entry of a protective order by consent. The district court did not expressly find 

that either party had committed a domestic abuse assault.3 

On February 16, 2015, the district court entered a temporary custody 

order granting joint legal custody and joint physical care and incorporating the 

no-contact order.4 The parties continued to struggle with communication issues 

regarding the children and their activities. The matter came on for trial on 

November 17–19, 2015. 

Cory testified that throughout the parties’ relationship he was responsible 

for maintaining the home, including preparing meals for the children; cleaning;

and doing laundry, yard work, and other household tasks. He testified he also 

paid the couple’s shared bills, except the daycare expenses, for which Amanda 

agreed to pay.

5 Cory testified he had a stable home in a good neighborhood and 

a job that allowed him flexibility to care for the children. He also testified he did 

not believe Amanda would support his relationship with their children. 

 

3 At trial, Amanda testified Cory had verbally and physically abused her on several 

occasions. She testified Cory shut doors on her, pushed her into walls, dragged her 

across the room by her arm, yelled and screamed at her, and called her names. Cory 

denied Amanda’s allegations. Cory testified Amanda slapped him on the face on two 

separate occasions; Amanda denied she slapped Cory on one occasion but admitted 

she slapped Cory during a second incident. 

Cory testified at trial he consented to the protective order because he believed it 

was a mutual no-contact order that would provide him relief as well and include a 

schedule allowing him visitation time with the children. He testified that, otherwise, he 

was not guaranteed to see the children until late the next month, when a hearing on the 

temporary no-contact order was scheduled. Cory testified he obtained new counsel as a 

result of him being misinformed of the consequences of the entry of the protective order 

by consent. 

4 On March 24, 2015, the court entered an order dismissing the previous no-contact 

order. 

5 Following entry of the temporary custody order in February 2015, the parties split the 

children’s daycare expenses. 
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Amanda testified she was the primary caregiver for the children. She 

testified she was in charge of coordinating schedules and figuring out who was 

picking up the children from daycare. She also testified she was in charge of 

making the children’s medical appointments and taking them to well- and sickchild appointments; however, she also acknowledged Cory attended the 

children’s well-child checkups and specialty doctor appointments. At the time of 

trial, Amanda had switched her schedule at the hospital to only overnight shifts 

and shifts on every other weekend in order to maximize her time spent with the 

children. 

The children’s daycare provider volunteered to serve as the intermediary 

for the parties’ physical care exchanges. Both parties testified they were 

satisfied with the provider’s care of their children and believed she provided highquality care for them. The provider testified at trial Cory was “a great dad,” who 

always put the children first and tried to make the exchanges easy for them. In 

contrast, she testified Amanda sought confrontation with Cory, showing up late to 

the exchanges, dragging out her goodbyes with the children, and making 

inappropriate comments about Cory to the children, including “Your daddy has 

you dressed inappropriately,” “Daddy was wrong. We are going to the police 

station now. He is in violation of the order,” and “I see your daddy has you 

dressed in the same filthy clothes I brought you in.” She also testified Amanda 

became upset if she thought Cory parked too close to the provider’s house and 

once yelled to the provider with the children in the car to “tell him to get the hell 

out of here before I drop these kids off.” She further testified Amanda often 

yelled in front of the children and would leave the exchanges upset, saying she 
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was going to contact her lawyer. The provider described this type of behavior as 

typical for Amanda if Cory was present when she was picking up or dropping the 

children off at daycare. 

Cory’s neighbor also testified at trial. She testified she heard Amanda 

yelling at Cory and the children so frequently it became an uncomfortable joke 

among her family members and the neighbors. She described observing Cory 

playing with the children outdoors and calmly providing them with redirection 

when necessary. 

In an oral ruling from the bench, the district court noted both parents 

clearly loved their children but neither demonstrated the high level of maturity or 

ability to communicate to be able to focus on the best interests of the children 

and share physical care. The court also noted it was dismayed by the hostility 

the parties had exhibited toward each other in front of the children. 

The court weighed the credibility of both parties’ witnesses and found 

Cory’s neighbor and the children’s daycare provider to be particularly credible 

and compelling. The court also noted several witnesses had “testified and

described a pattern of behavior between Cory and Amanda.” The court found 

“[d]uring any kind of conflict Amanda would escalate and ultimately threaten Cory 

that he would never see his children again. She would then frequently take the 

children from the home and withhold contact from Cory.” The court described 

two specific incidents demonstrating this type of behavior by Amanda. One 

incident involved a disagreement between the parties that escalated until 

Amanda took the children upstairs and shut herself and the children into a closet 

and refused to let the children out until her mother and brother arrived and were 
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able to eventually coax her out. Another incident occurred when Amanda moved 

out for the final time. Amanda brought the two children to Cory’s home but

insisted they remain in their car seats in her vehicle over a period of at least two 

hours while she and her parents removed her belongings.6 The children 

witnessed Amanda screaming profanities at Cory and his family and threatening 

they would never see the children again. Cory’s parents eventually called the 

police to supervise the move. The court also noted that throughout the trial 

Amanda exhibited histrionic behavior by audibly whispering or writing furiously to 

her attorney, while Cory remained calm throughout the proceeding. 

The court also acknowledged Amanda’s desire to move to Kansas City 

with the children to be closer to her family and was concerned about the 

increased instability such a move would bring to the children’s lives. 

The district court awarded the parties joint legal custody of their children 

and granted physical care of the children to Cory and reasonable and liberal 

visitation to Amanda, including parenting time every Thursday afternoon until 

Friday morning and alternating weekends from Friday afternoon until Monday 

morning. The court also ordered the parties to split the expenses for the 

children’s future extracurricular activities, with Cory being responsible for fiftyeight percent and Amanda being responsible for forty-two percent of these costs. 

 

6 Prior to Amanda moving out, the parties, along with their respective parents, gathered 

at Amanda’s parents’ home to discuss the parties’ relationship and the best interests of 

the children, including a shared parenting time schedule. All involved decided it was 

best for Cory and Amanda to end their relationship. They scheduled a date for Amanda 

to move out of Cory’s home and arranged for Cory’s sister to care for the children during 

that time; however, on the scheduled move-out date, Amanda refused to allow the 

children to leave with Cory’s sister. 
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On December 9, 2015, the district court entered a written ruling 

memorializing the court’s oral custody, visitation, and child-support order. 

Amanda appeals. 

II. Analysis

A. Physical Care

We employ the same legal analysis in resolving questions concerning the 

custody of a child born to unmarried parents as we do in the case of divorcing 

parents. Lambert v. Everist, 418 N.W.2d 40, 42 (Iowa 1988). Issues ancillary to 

a determination of paternity, such as custody, visitation, and child support, are 

reviewed de novo. See Markey v. Carney, 705 N.W.2d 13, 19 (Iowa 2005); see 

also Iowa R. App. P. 6.907. Although we give weight to the factual findings of the 

district court, especially when considering the credibility of witnesses, we are not 

bound by them. Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g). “Precedent is of little value as our 

determination must depend upon the facts of the particular case.” In re Marriage 

of Fennelly, 737 N.W.2d 97, 100 (Iowa 2007) (citation omitted). 

When physical care is at issue in a paternity action, the primary 

consideration is the best interests of the children. Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(o). 

We look to the factors listed in Iowa Code section 598.41(3) (2013),

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Iowa Code section 598.41(3) provides “the court shall consider the following factors” in 

making a physical-care determination: 

a. Whether each parent would be a suitable custodian for the child.

b. Whether the psychological and emotional needs and development of 

the child will suffer due to lack of active contact with and attention 

from both parents.

c. Whether the parents can communicate with each other regarding the 

child’s needs.

d. Whether both parents have actively cared for the child before and 

since the separation. 
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Code § 600B.40, and In re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166–67 (Iowa 

1974),8in making a physical-care determination. Also relevant to this decision

are the factors of continuity, stability, communication, and approximation. See In 

re Marriage of Hansen, 733 N.W.2d 683, 700 (Iowa 2007). Not all factors are 

 

e. Whether each parent can support the other parent’s relationship with 

the child.

f. Whether the custody arrangement is in accord with the child’s wishes 

or whether the child has strong opposition, taking into consideration 

the child’s age and maturity.

g. Whether one or both the parents agree or are opposed to joint 

custody. 

h. The geographic proximity of the parents.

i. Whether the safety of the child, other children, or other parent will be 

jeopardized by the awarding of joint custody or by unsupervised or 

unrestricted visitation.

j. Whether a history of domestic violence, as defined in section 236.2, 

exists. . . . 

k. Whether a parent has allowed a person custody or control of, or 

unsupervised access to a child after knowing the person is required to 

register or is on the sex offender registry as a sex offender under 

chapter 692A. 

8 Additional factors the court should consider include: 

(1) The characteristics of each child, including age, maturity, 

mental and physical health. 

(2) The emotional, social, moral, material, and educational needs 

of the child. 

(3) The characteristics of each parent, including age, character, 

stability, mental and physical health.

(4) The capacity and interest of each parent to provide for the 

emotional, social, moral, material, and educational needs of the child.

(5) The interpersonal relationship between the child and each 

parent.

(6) The interpersonal relationship between the child and its 

siblings.

(7) The effect on the child of continuing or disrupting an existing 

custodial status.

(8) The nature of each proposed environment, including its 

stability or wholesomeness.

(9) The preference of the child, if the child is of sufficient age and 

maturity.

(10) The report and recommendation of the attorney for the child 

or other independent investigator.

(11) Available alternatives.

(12) Any other relevant matter the evidence in a particular case 

may disclose.

In re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d at 166–67.
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given equal consideration, and the weight attributed to each factor depends on 

the specific facts and circumstances of each case. See In re Marriage of 

Williams, 589 N.W.2d 759, 761 (Iowa Ct. App. 1998). Our objective is to place 

the children in an environment likely to promote a healthy physical, mental, and 

social maturity. Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at 695. 

Amanda claims the district court improperly weighed various factors in 

determining which party should have physical care of the children. Our review of 

the record shows both parties actively cared for the children before and after their 

relationship ended. On our de novo review, we find no reason not to give 

deference to the district court’s credibility determinations and its decision to give 

greater weight to the testimony of the children’s daycare provider and Cory’s 

neighbor rather than either of the party’s family members or close friends. See

Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g). Furthermore, in both its oral and written ruling, the 

district court noted both parties had exhibited hostility toward one another but 

ultimately concluded Cory had shown he was better able to support Amanda’s 

relationship with their children. 

Amanda also contends the district court failed to consider issues of 

domestic abuse in making its physical-care determination.9 The record shows 

Amanda has failed to present any evidence other than her own testimony to 

show a “history of domestic abuse.” See Iowa Code § 598.41(3)(j); see also In re 

Marriage of Forbes, 570 N.W.2d 757, 759–60 (Iowa 1997) (holding “a ‘history’ is 

 

9 The court failed to address Amanda’s allegations of domestic abuse in either its oral or 

written rulings. Amanda did not file a motion pursuant to Iowa Rule of Civil Procedure 

1.904(2) asking the court to enlarge or amend its findings of fact and conclusions of law. 

Due to the serious nature of this factual issue, on our de novo review we nevertheless 

address the merits of Amanda’s claim. 
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not necessarily established by a single documented incident . . . [n]or does more 

than one minor incident automatically establish a ‘history of domestic abuse.’”). 

Amanda failed to produce any documented evidence of even a single incident of 

domestic abuse perpetrated against her by Cory other than the protective order 

the parties entered into by consent, in which the court did not find Cory had 

committed a domestic abuse assault against Amanda. At trial, Cory denied 

Amanda’s allegations of domestic abuse. He testified he consented to the 

protective order because he believed it would be mutual and provide a specified 

visitation schedule that would enable him to see the children. In contrast, 

Amanda admitted she slapped Cory during a disagreement with him. Further, 

several witnesses testified they had observed Amanda yelling at both Cory and 

the children on numerous occasions. Thus, we do not find this factor weighs in 

favor of placing the children in Amanda’s physical care. 

Upon our de novo review of the record, we find no reason to disagree with 

the district court’s decision to award physical care of the parties’ children to Cory. 

We believe placement of the children in Cory’s care is in their best interests. 

B. Cory’s Journal

We generally review evidentiary rulings for an abuse of discretion. See 

Gamerdinger v. Schaefer, 603 N.W.2d 590, 594 (Iowa 1999). In doing so, we 

give wide latitude to the district court in ruling on the admissibility of evidence. 

Kalvik ex rel. Kalvik v. Seidl, 595 N.W.2d 136, 140 (Iowa Ct. App. 1999). We 

refrain from disturbing the district court’s evidentiary rulings “unless there is a 

clear and prejudicial abuse of discretion.” Carter v. Wiese Corp., 360 N.W.2d 

122, 130–31 (Iowa Ct. App. 1984) (citation omitted). We review the questions of 
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statutory interpretation for correction of errors at law. See Ashenfelter v. 

Mulligan, 792 N.W.2d 665, 668–69 (Iowa 2010). 

Amanda contends the district court should have excluded Cory’s journal 

because the journal (1) contained privileged information, (2) was unnecessarily 

duplicative and cumulative when viewed in combination with Cory’s testimony, 

(3) contained inadmissible hearsay, and (4) contained inadmissible offers of 

compromise or communications in an effort to resolve these proceedings out of 

court. 

Amanda claims the references Cory made in the journal regarding her 

seeking mental-health therapy and the parties’ couples counseling are

confidential and privileged information under Iowa Code section 622.10 because 

they constitute medical records. We have reviewed the admitted exhibit and 

determine the journal does not contain any mental-health or medical-professional 

records or privileged communications; rather it contains Cory’s personal 

knowledge of appointments Amanda had scheduled with various mental-health 

providers. See Iowa Code § 622.10(1) (providing a “mental health professional 

. . . shall not be allowed, in giving testimony, to disclose any confidential 

communication properly entrusted to the person in the person’s professional 

capacity”); id. § 622.10(6)(e)(1) (defining medical records as “containing a 

patient’s health or billing information”); see also McMaster v. Iowa Bd. of 

Psychology Exam’rs, 509 N.W.2d 754, 757 (Iowa 1993) (“The privilege in section 

622.10 is limited to disclosure of confidential communications by the giving of 

testimony.”). 
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Furthermore, we do not find the journal is needlessly cumulative when 

viewed in combination with Cory’s testimony such that its admission unfairly 

prejudiced Amanda. See Iowa R. Evid. 5.403. We also do not find the 

information contained within the journal served to harass or unduly embarrass 

Amanda. See Iowa R. Evid. 5.611(a). Additionally, Amanda has failed to show 

the district court relied on any alleged inadmissible part of the exhibit in making 

its physical-care determination; thus we find no error in admitting it. 

Accordingly, we conclude the district did not abuse its discretion in 

admitting Cory’s journal. 

C. Extracurricular Expenses 

Cory concedes the district court should not have ordered Amanda to pay a 

portion of the children’s extracurricular activities expenses because he has 

physical care of the children. We agree. See Iowa Ct. R. 9.11. Because we 

affirm the district court’s grant of physical care of the children to Cory, we modify

the district court’s order as to this issue. 

D. Appellate Attorney Fees

Cory requests appellate attorney fees. In a paternity action, “the court 

may award the prevailing party reasonable attorney fees.” Iowa Code § 600B.26. 

An award of appellate attorney fees rests within this court’s sole discretion. 

Markey, 705 N.W.2d at 26. In determining whether to award attorney fees, we 

consider “the needs of the party making the request, the ability of the other party 

to pay, and whether the party making the request was obligated to defend the 

trial court’s decision on appeal.” Id. (citation omitted). Having considered these 
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factors, we determine Amanda shall pay $3000 of Cory’s appellate attorney fees. 

Costs shall be assessed eighty percent to Amanda and twenty percent to Cory. 

III. Conclusion

Upon our de novo review of the record, we affirm the district court’s grant 

of physical care of the parties’ two minor children to Cory. We find the court did 

not abuse its discretion in admitting Cory’s journal. Cory concedes the court 

should not have ordered Amanda to pay a portion of the children’s extracurricular 

activities expenses because Cory has physical care of the children; thus we 

modify the court’s decision as to this issue. We award Cory $3000 in appellate 

attorney fees. Costs shall be assessed eighty percent to Amanda and twenty 

percent to Cory. 

AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED.