SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY

APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-3156-17T2

M.J.,

Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

K.J.,

Defendant-Respondent.

_________________________

Submitted February 14, 2019 – Decided

Before Judges Simonelli and Whipple. 

On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey, 

Chancery Division, Family Part, Hunterdon County, 

Docket No. FM-10-0276-18.

M.J., appellant pro se.

Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM 

NOT FOR PUBLICATION WITHOUT THE

APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION

This opinion shall not "constitute precedent or be binding upon any court." Although it is posted on the 

internet, this opinion is binding only on the parties in the case and its use in other cases is limited. R. 1:36-3.

March 28, 2019
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In this post-judgment matrimonial matter, plaintiff M.J.1appeals from the 

February 2, 2018 Family Part order, which denied her motion to vacate orders 

entered in 2013 and 2014 suspending defendant K.J.'s alimony obligation, and 

to reinstate alimony with arrears, modify alimony, and modify a final restraining 

order (FRO) entered against her. We affirm.

Plaintiff and defendant were married in 1989, and have three children,

born in 1989, 1992, and 2001, respectively. During the marriage, plaintiff 

suffered from mental health problems that worsened in 2008 when she became 

non-compliant with her medication. In February 2009, plaintiff attempted 

suicide and was admitted to a mental health facility. She was diagnosed with 

bipolar disorder and prescribed medication. She continued to be non-compliant 

with her medication and was hospitalized several more times in mental health 

facilities. 

Also in 2009, plaintiff became obsessed with her chiropractor and began 

stalking and harassing her. Plaintiff's conduct led to criminal charges and the 

entry of an order of protection. Plaintiff violated the order several times, was 

incarcerated, and received sentences of extensive probation. 

 

1 We use initials to protect the parties' privacy interests. See R. 1:38-3(d).
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Plaintiff filed a complaint for divorce in 2009. On August 13, 2009, the 

parties executed a consent order, which gave defendant and the children 

exclusive possession of the marital home. Plaintiff subsequently broke into the 

marital home and threatened defendant and the children. Plaintiff was arrested 

and admitted to a mental health facility. Defendant obtained a temporary 

restraining order (TRO) against plaintiff, which she violated by contacting him. 

Plaintiff continuously harassed defendant during the divorce proceeding. 

Plaintiff's behavior was interfering with defendant's ability to work and he 

became increasingly frightened about what plaintiff might do next. On March 

31, 2010, defendant obtained a FRO against plaintiff, which barred plaintiff 

from having contact with defendant and the children, but permitted plaintiff to 

have parenting time under the divorce matter. 

On January 3, 2011, the court entered an amended final judgment of 

divorce, which incorporated the parties' Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA). 

Under the MSA, defendant had sole legal and residential custody of the children 

and the right to make all decisions relating to their best interests, and plaintiff 

had supervised parenting time of two, one-hour visits per week with the parties' 

youngest child. The MSA provided that the parties' two older children would 
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make their own determinations as to when and under what circumstances they 

wished to see plaintiff. 

The MSA required defendant to pay alimony in the amount of $2000 per 

month until the earliest of plaintiff's or defendant's death, plaintiff's remarriage, 

defendant's good faith retirement, or plaintiff's cohabitation with an unrelated 

adult. Alimony was to increase to $2400 per month upon emancipation of the 

parties' second child, and to $2800 per month upon emancipation of their 

youngest child. 

Plaintiff violated the FRO and was incarcerated from February 2011 to 

April 2011. After her release, she again violated the FRO and was incarcerated

in May 2011. Plaintiff pled guilty to three instances of contempt of the FRO

and was sentenced in July 2011 to a 180-day jail term with credit for eighty-six 

days time served. 

On September 8, 2011, the court entered an order and statement of reasons 

retroactively suspending defendant's alimony obligation as of March 2011, and 

ordering the suspension to continue with no arrears to accrue "so long as plaintiff 

is incarcerated or institutionalized." The court found plaintiff's conduct was 

"deliberate fault directed toward [d]efendant[,]" and continuing defendant's

alimony obligation "while [p]laintiff remain[ed] incarcerated for having 
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committed criminal acts against him effect[ed] an inequitable result." The court

noted that plaintiff's incarceration since February 2011 arose from her criminal 

conduct toward defendant and directly related to violations of the FRO. The 

court ordered alimony to resume upon plaintiff's release from jail. 

Defendant resumed paying alimony in 2012, after plaintiff's release from 

jail. Plaintiff again violated the FRO after her release. The last violation 

occurred on January 16, 2013, when plaintiff approached defendant in the 

parking lot where he worked and pointed what he believed was a handgun at 

him. The handgun was later found to be an unloaded BB gun replicated to look 

like a semi-automatic gun. Defendant was "[p]etrified that [he] was about to be 

murdered [and] ran for [his] life, while calling 911." 

Plaintiff fled in her car, but the police found her with the BB gun and 

arrested her. She was transported to the Somerset Medical Center Hospital 

because she was suicidal. She was subsequently transported to the Somerset 

County jail, where she remained for ten months. 

A grand jury indicted plaintiff for second-degree possession of a weapon 

for an unlawful purpose, N.J.S.A. 2C:39-4(a); third-degree unlawful possession

of a weapon, N.J.S.A. 2C:39-5(b); and fourth-degree violation of a FRO, 

N.J.S.A. 2C:29-9(b). Plaintiff pled not guilty by reason of insanity. 
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On March 1, 2013, the court entered an order and statement of reasons 

retroactively suspending defendant's alimony obligation as of January 16, 2013, 

with arrears to accrue. The court ordered the suspension to continue, but no 

enforcement action to be taken, "so long as plaintiff is involved with the judicial 

system as a result of the January [16], 2013 incident." The court incorporated 

the findings made on September 8, 2011 that plaintiff's conduct was deliberate 

fault directed toward defendant and continuing defendant's alimony obligation 

while plaintiff remained incarcerated for having committed criminal acts against 

him effected an inequitable result. 

On September 24, 2013, the court entered a judgment of acquittal by 

reason of insanity and order for commitment in the criminal matter. The court

placed plaintiff on Krol2status and committed her to a State mental health

facility until further order of the court. On October 8, 2013, plaintiff was placed 

in Greystone Park Psychiatric Hospital (Greystone), where she remained until 

May 12, 2017. 

On January 28, 2014, the court entered an order and statement of reasons 

modifying the March 1, 2013 order to provide that defendant's alimony 

obligation was suspended with no arrears to accrue. The court found as follows:

 

2

 State v. Krol, 68 N.J. 236 (1975).
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In light of the court's earlier finding that plaintiff 

is mentally incompetent, and considering her 

involuntary hospitalization as a ward of the [S]tate, the 

court finds it appropriate, as a matter of fundamental 

fairness, to suspend defendant's alimony payments 

indefinitely. The court agrees with defendant that, as a 

matter of fundamental fairness, he should not be 

obligated to pay plaintiff alimony as long as she 

remains a ward of the [S]tate. The court is not 

terminating defendant's alimony obligation. The 

obligation is being suspended, temporarily without 

accrual of arrears. In view of the finding of insanity, 

plaintiff cannot be held legally responsible for her 

conduct back on January 16, 2013. The fact remains, 

however, that plaintiff's conduct on that occasion had 

an adverse impact upon defendant and, undoubtedly, 

the parties' children.

Alimony and support orders define only the 

present obligations of the former spouses. Those duties 

are always subject to review and modification on a 

showing of changed circumstances. . . . One of the main 

purposes of alimony is to assist the supported spouse in 

achieving a lifestyle that is reasonably comparable to 

the one enjoyed while living with the supporting spouse 

during the marriage. . . . All of plaintiff's day-to-day 

needs are currently being provided to her by the State 

of New Jersey. Consequently, she would be receiving 

something of a windfall were the court to impose upon 

defendant the obligation to continue to make alimony 

payments while plaintiff remains hospitalized. 

The court concluded that "[i]f and when plaintiff is released from her 

involuntary commitment, the alimony obligation will be reinstated. Defendant, 

at that time, may elect to petition the court to terminate his alimony obligation 
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or to reduce that obligation based upon a further balancing of the equities." The 

court also denied plaintiff's request to allow alimony arrears to accrue and to

modify the FRO to permit her to have communication with her children. 

On October 2, 2014, the court entered an order and statement of reasons 

denying plaintiff's motion to vacate the FRO and allow parenting time and 

contact with the parties' youngest child. The court analyzed the factors in 

Carfagno v. Carfagno, 288 N.J. Super. 424, 434-35 (Ch. Div. 1995), and found 

they strongly weighed against vacating the FRO. The court also denied 

plaintiff's motion to reinstate alimony, finding she had not been released from 

Greystone and had not provided concrete proof that she would be released at the 

next Krol hearing on October 8, 2014. The court also found there was no 

compelling reason to modify the January 28, 2014 order. 

Plaintiff was released from Greystone on May 12, 2017, but remained in 

a supervised program that provided her with an apartment. She was still under 

the court's jurisdiction on Krol status after her release and had to continue her 

psychiatric treatment and medication. 

Plaintiff filed a motion to vacate the March 1, 2013 and January 28, 2014 

orders pursuant to Rule 4:50-1(e) and (f); retroactively reinstate alimony as of

November 1, 2017 with arrears in the amount of $122,800; and grant an upward 
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modification of alimony. Plaintiff argued the court should reinstate alimony 

because she was released from Greystone, and there was a change in 

circumstances warranting an upward modification of alimony because she was 

no longer involuntarily committed. She also argued the MSA barred a 

modification of alimony and she was not legally responsible for the January 16, 

2013 incident. Plaintiff also sought a modification of the FRO to permit contact 

with her children.

On February 2, 2018, the court entered an order and statement of reasons 

denying plaintiff's motion to reinstate alimony and for an upward modification 

of alimony without prejudice. The court found plaintiff had not satisfied the 

requirements of the March 1, 2013 and January 28, 2014 orders because she 

remained involved with the judicial system on Level III Krol status and was still 

a ward of the State and under the State's supervision and control. 

The court also found that plaintiff failed to demonstrate a change in 

circumstances warranting an upward modification of alimony, as she was still

under the State's care and the State was meeting her day-to-day needs.3 The 

 

3

 In addition to the State meeting her day-to-day needs, plaintiff was receiving 

Social Security disability benefits. 
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court further found that plaintiff failed to file a Case Information Statement or 

other documentation to demonstrate she had a need for alimony at that time. 

The court determined that plaintiff failed to demonstrate entitlement to 

relief under Rule 4:50-1(e). The court found there was no significant change in 

circumstances after entry of the last order on October 2, 2014, and plaintiff 

failed to show continued enforcement would result in extreme or unexpected 

hardship, as the State was meeting her needs. The court concluded that "[i]n the 

future, when that is not the case, [p]laintiff's spousal support may be reinstated. 

At this time, not receiving spousal support does not cause her hardship." 

The court also determined that plaintiff failed to demonstrate entitlement

to relief under Rule 4:50-1(f). The court reasoned that the suspension of 

plaintiff's spousal support while she remained under the State's custody and 

control was not "unjust, oppressive or inequitable[,]" but rather, "[i]t would be 

unjust, oppressive or inequitable to [d]efendant to require him to pay support 

while [p]laintiff remains in custody for her behavior against him." The court 

emphasized that plaintiff could seek reinstatement of her spousal support when 

she is released from Krol status. Lastly, the court declined to modify the FRO 

to allow plaintiff to have contact with the children. This appeal followed.
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As a threshold matter, we note that plaintiff's notice of appeal states she 

is appealing only from the February 2, 2018 order and only as to the alimony 

issues. "[I]t is only the judgments or orders or parts thereof designated in the 

notice of appeal which are subject to the appeal process and review." Pressler 

& Verniero, Current N.J. Court Rules, cmt. 6.1 on R. 2:5-1(e)(1) (2019); see 

also 1266 Apt. Corp. v. New Horizon Deli, Inc., 368 N.J. Super. 456, 459 (App. 

Div. 2004). Thus, plaintiff's challenges to the FRO and all other orders 

mentioned in this opinion are not properly before us. See W.H. Indus., Inc. v. 

Fundicao Balancins, Ltda, 397 N.J. Super. 455, 458 (App. Div. 2008). 

Accordingly, we focus on that part of the February 2, 2018 order denying 

plaintiff's motion to vacate the March 1, 2013, and January 28, 2014 orders 

pursuant to Rule 4:50-1(e) and (f), retroactively reinstate alimony with arrears,

and grant an upward modification of alimony.

We review the trial court's denial of a motion to vacate a final judgment 

or order for abuse of discretion. Deutsche Bank Nat'l Tr. Co. v. Russo, 429 N.J. 

Super. 91, 98 (App. Div. 2012). "'The trial court's determination under [Rule

4:50-1] warrants substantial deference,' and the abuse of discretion must be clear 

to warrant reversal." Ibid. (alteration in original) (quoting U.S. Bank v. Nat'l 

Ass'n v. Guillaume, 209 N.J. 449, 467 (2012)). An "abuse of discretion only 
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arises on demonstration of 'manifest error or injustice[,]'" Hisenaj v. Kuehner, 

194 N.J. 6, 20 (2008) (quoting State v. Torres, 183 N.J. 554, 572 (2005)), and 

occurs when the trial court's "decision is 'made without a rational explanation, 

inexplicably departed from established policies, or rested on an impermissible 

basis.'" Milne v. Goldenberg, 428 N.J. Super. 184, 197 (App. Div. 2012) 

(quoting Flagg v. Essex Cty. Prosecutor, 171 N.J. 561, 571 (2002)). We discern 

no abuse of discretion here.

Rule 4:50-1(e) provides for relief from a judgment or order where "it is 

no longer equitable" because of changed legal or factual circumstances. DEG, 

LLC v. Twp. of Fairfield, 198 N.J. 242, 265 (2009) (quoting R. 4:50-1(e)). Our 

Supreme Court has looked to federal jurisprudence to ascertain the meaning of 

Rule 4:50-1(e), and observed that under the federal counterpart to our rule, "[t]he 

party seeking relief bears the burden of proving that events have occurred 

subsequent to the entry of a judgment that, absent the relief requested, will result 

in 'extreme' and 'unexpected' hardship[.]" Id. at 266 (alteration in original) 

(quoting Hous. Auth. of Morristown v. Little, 135 N.J. 274, 285 (1994)). 

Nevertheless, the Court observed that the United States Supreme Court has 

"moved towards a more flexible standard" than that provided in Little, that is, 

one "that does not require the additional showing of grievous hardship evoked 
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by new and unforeseen conditions." Id. at 267. However, even with the more 

flexible standard, modification of a judgment is not appropriate in every 

instance, and it would not be appropriate simply "because 'it is no longer 

convenient to live with the terms of [the] decree.'" Ibid. (quoting Rufo v. 

Inmates of Suffolk Cty. Jail, 502 U.S. 367, 383 (1992)).

Under the relaxed standard, "[a] party seeking modification . . . may meet 

its initial burden by showing a significant change either in factual conditions or 

in law." Ibid. (quoting Rufo, 502 U.S. at 384). Under either the Little standard

or the more relaxed Rufo standard, 

relief from judgment should ordinarily not be granted 

where the so-called changed circumstances were 

actually anticipated [at the time of the decree]. In such 

a case, a party seeking relief has the 'heavy' burden of 

establishing . . . that [he or she] made a reasonable 

effort to comply with the judgment.

[Id. at 268 (quoting Rufo, 502 U.S. at 385).]

Rule 4:50-1(f) provides for relief from a judgment or order for "any other 

reason justifying relief from the operation of the judgment or order." Relief 

pursuant to Rule 4:50-1(f) "is available only when 'truly exceptional 

circumstances are present.'" Little, 135 N.J. at 286 (quoting Baumann v. 

Marinaro, 95 N.J. 380, 395 (1984)). "[I]n order to obtain relief under this 

subsection, the movant must ordinarily show that the circumstances are 
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exceptional and that enforcement of the order or judgment would be unjust, 

oppressive or inequitable." Pressler & Verniero, Current N.J. Court Rules, cmt. 

5.6.1 on R. 4:50-1(f) (2019). As our Supreme Court stated:

No categorization can be made of the situations which 

would warrant redress under subsection (f) . . . . [T]he 

very essence of (f) is its capacity for relief in 

exceptional situations. And in such exceptional cases 

its boundaries are as expansive as the need to achieve 

equity and justice. 

[DEG, 198 N.J. at 269-70 (alteration in original) 

(quoting Court Inv. Co. v. Perillo, 48 N.J. 334, 341 

(1966)).]

Here, the court correctly determined that plaintiff failed to demonstrate

entitlement to relief under Rule 4:50-1(e) or (f). There was no significant 

change in circumstances since the entry of the March 1, 2013 and January 28, 

2014 orders. Plaintiff remained involved with the judicial system on Krol status,

was under the supervision and control of the State, and was living in an 

apartment provided by her supervised program with the State meeting her dayto-day needs. Plaintiff also failed to show that the denial of her motion to vacate 

the orders and reinstate alimony would result in extreme and unexpected 

hardship, or that the circumstances were exceptional and enforcement of the 

orders would be unjust, oppressive or inequitable. As the court found, plaintiff 

provided no CIS or financial documentation showing her need for alimony at 
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the time of her motion to vacate, nor did she provide evidence that her financial 

needs were not being met. 

We have considered plaintiff's contentions on appeal in light of the record 

and applicable legal principles and conclude they are without sufficient merit to 

warrant discussion in a written opinion. R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E). We affirm 

substantially for the reasons the court expressed in its February 2, 2018 

statement of reasons. Plaintiff may re-apply for reinstatement of alimony in the 

event she is released from Krol status and is no longer under the State's 

supervision and control, and defendant may re-apply to terminate or reduce his 

alimony obligation. We express no view on the merits of such applications.

Affirmed.