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IN THE NEBRASKA COURT OF APPEALS

MEMORANDUM OPINION AND JUDGMENT ON APPEAL

(Memorandum Web Opinion)

GIBBS V. GIBBS

NOTICE: THIS OPINION IS NOT DESIGNATED FOR PERMANENT PUBLICATION

AND MAY NOT BE CITED EXCEPT AS PROVIDED BY NEB. CT. R. APP. P. § 2-102(E).

ELIZABETH A. GIBBS, APPELLEE,

V.

DONALD W. GIBBS, APPELLANT.

Filed July 3, 2018. No. A-17-681.

Appeal from the District Court for Douglas County: SHELLY R. STRATMAN, Judge. 

Affirmed.

Michael S. Kennedy, of Kennedy Law Firm, P.C., L.L.O., for appellant.

Ralph E. Peppard for appellee.

PIRTLE, RIEDMANN, and BISHOP, Judges.

BISHOP, Judge.

The Douglas County District Court dissolved the marriage between Elizabeth A. Gibbs and 

Donald W. Gibbs. A decree, as amended, was entered from which Donald has appealed and 

assigned numerous errors related to alimony, property, child custody, school-related expenses for 

the minor child, and attorney fees. We affirm.

BACKGROUND

Elizabeth and Donald were married in Chicago, Illinois, on November 11, 1989. Elizabeth, 

who had a bachelor’s and a master’s degree in nursing, was working as a clinical nurse at the time. 

Donald, who had a bachelor’s degree in philosophy and a bachelor’s degree in political science, 

was teaching. Three children were born of the marriage; however, only one child was still a minor 

at the time of divorce, namely, Emma Gibbs (born 2001). Elizabeth filed for dissolution of the 
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marriage in February 2015. In May, a temporary order was entered which awarded the parties joint 

legal custody of Emma, with physical custody awarded to Elizabeth. Donald was not ordered to 

pay child support due to his “‘underemployment’”; Elizabeth was ordered to pay temporary 

alimony of $1,100 per month (modified in June 2016 to $800 per month). The family residence 

was ordered to be readied and listed for sale, and Elizabeth was given sole use and possession of 

the home in the meantime. Each party was ordered to pay for certain obligations, and the order 

restrained the parties from removing, selling, transferring, auctioning, or otherwise disposing of 

any mutual property located in the residence, except for necessities of life. Donald was ordered to 

provide an accounting of the $15,000 he had removed from the parties’ line of credit. The parties 

were also ordered to not disturb each other’s peace during the pendency of the action.

Trial took place on September 20 and December 15, 2016, and a decree was entered on 

February 7, 2017. Following a hearing on Donald’s motion for new trial and motion to alter or 

amend judgment, the decree was amended on June 5. Elizabeth was awarded legal and physical 

custody of Emma, and Donald was ordered to pay child support of $332 per month. The evidence 

pertaining to the parties’ assets and liabilities and other issues raised by Donald on appeal will be 

addressed as necessary in our discussion below. Donald timely appeals from the district court’s 

June 5, 2017, order granting his motion to alter or amend in part, and denying his motion for new 

trial.

ASSIGNMENTS OF ERROR

Donald assigns, consolidated and restated, that the district court erred by (1) failing to 

award him alimony, (2) failing to credit his contributions to marital debt, (3) reducing his one-half 

share of the marital retirement accounts by wrongly making him responsible for one-half of the 

marital debt, (4) not abiding by its temporary order regarding repairs done to the marital home in 

preparation for its sale and the transfer of marital property to the new homeowners, (5) failing to 

order an equal split of marital money kept in a federal credit union account, (6) not awarding him 

attorney fees, (7) ordering him to pay a portion of the minor child’s expenses on top of child 

support, and (8) granting sole legal custody of the minor child to Elizabeth.

STANDARD OF REVIEW

In actions for dissolution of marriage, an appellate court reviews the case de novo on the 

record to determine whether there has been an abuse of discretion by the trial judge. Lorenzen v. 

Lorenzen, 294 Neb. 204, 883 N.W.2d 292 (2016). This standard of review applies to the trial 

court’s determinations regarding custody, child support, division of property, alimony, and 

attorney fees. Id.

In child custody cases, where the credible evidence is in conflict on a material issue of fact, 

the appellate court considers, and may give weight to, the fact that the trial judge heard and 

observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts rather than another. Robb v. Robb, 

268 Neb. 694, 687 N.W.2d 195 (2004).
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ANALYSIS

ALIMONY

In addressing whether to award alimony to Donald, the district court’s decree states:

The Court finds that [Donald] chose to quit his profession as a teacher. That the 

moving of the family during the marriage was at the insistence of [Donald] and did not 

contribute to [Elizabeth’s] career but was a detriment to her career. After the last two 

moves, [Elizabeth] was required to start anew as a nurse in an entry position. That the 

parties equally contributed to the care and education of the children. That [Donald] did not 

forego any employment opportunities in order to care for the children. That the children 

went to daycare while [Donald] worked from home on his business when the children were 

young. No child will be affected by [Donald] returning to full time gainful employment. 

[Elizabeth] has paid alimony in the temporary order. During this time, [Donald] has 

completed the necessary steps to obtain his teaching recertification. That given the general 

equities of this situation, alimony is not awarded.

Donald, age 58 at the time of trial, claims the district court’s decree “guarantees 

homelessness for [him] in his retirement years and life on the edge of poverty in the years prior to 

retirement.” Brief for appellant at 16. He claims Elizabeth has more than $3,600 “left over each 

month in disposable income” and “clearly has more than enough income to pay [him] at least 

$1,200 per month in alimony for ten years.” Id. at 35-36.

There is no question that a disparity in the income of the parties exists. Elizabeth is a 

director of a department at “CHI Health”; the child support worksheet attached to the decree shows 

her with a monthly net income of approximately $6,100, with Donald’s monthly net income at 

approximately $1,500. We would note that the worksheet adopted by the district court is the one 

offered by Donald at trial, and he testified that the income figure used for Elizabeth was his 

estimation of her income, including recent raises, and monthly income from her annuities. Notably, 

the $429 per month Elizabeth receives from annuities are derived from her inheritance and would 

be nonmarital. Regardless, a disparity in income exists.

Clearly, Donald has a greater earning capacity than he has in actual earnings over the more 

recent years. Donald has a bachelor’s degree in philosophy and a bachelor’s degree in political

science. He was also in graduate school at Loyola University-Chicago from 1990 to 1992, but did 

not “quite complete a masters of social work.” According to Donald, he was a class and internship 

shy of finishing. He was terminated from his internship “because I was a whistleblower on a school 

faculty member. And my prize for being honest, truthful, and a whistleblower was that they axed 

me out of that internship.”

Donald started teaching in 1986, and was doing so when the parties were married in 

November 1991 in Chicago. Elizabeth has a bachelor’s and a master’s degree in nursing, and was 

employed as a clinical nurse at Loyola University Medical Center in Chicago from 1989 to 1993. 

Since Donald wanted to move to Omaha, Nebraska, to be closer to family, and because he felt 

Chicago was not a great place to raise the children, they moved to Omaha in September 1993. 

Elizabeth had to “start over at a job” in Omaha, and Donald worked as a substitute teacher during 

the fall semester of 1993, and then he “changed careers into sales.” According to Elizabeth, the 
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family then moved to Florida in June 2004 because Donald “didn’t like the weather in Omaha.”

This move caused Elizabeth to “go back to the hospital setting” in Florida; there “were no jobs 

with a master’s degree, so I had to take a job at the hospital working nights.” “[I]t was a backwards 

move.” After a year in Florida, the family moved back to Omaha because the girls missed their 

friends in Nebraska. Elizabeth again had to start over and find a different job. She has worked with 

CHI Health (previously Alegent) since 2005.

After making his career change from teaching, Donald has had a “promotional products 

business” for over 22 years. He testified that business was good initially in the 1990s, with “very 

close to [$45,000-$50,000] net profit.” But the last several years have been “[t]errible.” According 

to Donald, business has been poor, “so that’s why I’m heading back into teaching.” In more recent 

years, the parties’ income tax returns show losses from Donald’s business, and Donald anticipated 

that for 2015, “It’ll be a loss. No doubt about it.”

After Elizabeth filed for divorce in February 2015, Donald enrolled in classes at the 

University of Nebraska at Omaha in order to get his teaching license recertified. He took two 

classes in the summer of 2015, two classes in the fall, and one class in the spring of 2016 (total of 

15 credit hours). Elizabeth was paying $1,100 per month in temporary alimony to Donald during 

this time. Donald sees his age as being a challenge to securing employment, as well as the number 

of years he has been away from the classroom. After receiving his certification in June 2016, 

Donald testified that he reached out to 25 to 30 school districts for jobs, but given the time of year 

(September), there were not many positions available because “[s]chools are going to be hiring in 

January, February, by the end of March schools are really going to be set.” Donald testified, “My 

chances are going to go much higher now that I’m done, you know, as I look at the [2017-18] 

school year.”

In the meantime, he applied to work as a substitute teacher at various school districts (where 

he can earn $140 per day), and was doing some sports officiating for basketball, girls fast-pitch 

softball, and volleyball, earning $300 to $400 per month officiating. He also continues to generate 

income from his business, from which he estimated a monthly net profit of “maybe [$]400.”

Although Donald had earned as much as $45,000-$50,000 net profit from his business in the past, 

given the poor performance of the past number of years, he felt returning to teaching was his best 

option. It was Elizabeth’s position that Donald could earn close to $50,000 as a teacher and doing 

“all the other stuff that he does.”

Elizabeth testified the only way she was “making ends meet” was by withdrawing money 

from her inheritance to cover bills and living expenses. (Elizabeth inherited approximately 

$460,000; the nonmarital status of the inheritance is not at issue.) At the time of separation, 

Elizabeth testified that they had a marital debt totaling $146,592. Of this total, $112,332 

(subsequently amended to $101,623), was for parent loans for their two older daughters’ college 

education, $26,514 was for a debt consolidation loan, $6,774 was for a bank line of credit, and 

$1,371 was for a replacement furnace. All balances were determined as of the date of separation 

(February 2015). Elizabeth was ordered to pay and be solely responsible for all of these debts. 

Donald was initially ordered to pay and be responsible for $12,845.68 of the parties’ bank line of 

credit; this was money he borrowed postseparation. However, in the order amending the decree, 

Donald’s $12,845.68 debt was ordered to be paid by Elizabeth.
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Having set forth the financial circumstances of the parties, we now consider the legal 

principles governing a court’s decision with regard to alimony.

In dividing property and considering alimony upon a dissolution of marriage, a 

court should consider four factors: (1) the circumstances of the parties, (2) the duration of 

the marriage, (3) the history of contributions to the marriage, and (4) the ability of the 

supported party to engage in gainful employment without interfering with the interests of 

any minor children in the custody of each party. In addition, a court should consider the 

income and earning capacity of each party and the general equities of the situation.

The purpose of alimony is to provide for the continued maintenance or support of 

one party by the other when the relative economic circumstances make it appropriate. In 

reviewing an alimony award, an appellate court does not determine whether it would have 

awarded the same amount of alimony as did the trial court, but whether the trial court’s 

award is untenable such as to deprive a party of a substantial right or just result. The 

ultimate criterion is one of reasonableness. An appellate court is not inclined to disturb the 

trial court’s award of alimony unless it is patently unfair on the record.

Wiedel v. Wiedel, 300 Neb. 13, 20-21, 911 N.W.2d 582, 588-89 (2018). See, also, Neb. Rev. Stat. 

§ 42-365 (Reissue 2016) (setting forth factors to consider and purpose of alimony award). The 

primary purpose of alimony is to assist an ex-spouse for a period of time necessary for that 

individual to secure his or her own means of support. Bergmeier v. Bergmeier, 296 Neb. 440, 894 

N.W.2d 266 (2017). Disparity in income or potential income may partially justify an award of 

alimony. Hosack v. Hosack, 267 Neb. 934, 678 N.W.2d 746 (2004).

However, while disparity of income may result in an alimony award, sometimes it does 

not. See Becker v. Becker, 20 Neb. App. 922, 934 N.W.2d 620 (2013) (22-year marriage, wife 

earned approximately $200,000 more than husband; husband did not forgo any employment or 

educational opportunities and did not need alimony to meet his monthly expenses; nevertheless, 

$2,000 per month alimony for 84 months awarded to husband not abuse of discretion). But see 

Brozek v. Brozek, 292 Neb. 681, 874 N.W.2d 17 (2016) (court did not abuse its discretion by 

declining to award wife alimony; 20-year marriage and disparity of incomes favored award, but 

marriage did not interrupt wife’s career or education, and no childcare duties hampered wife’s 

career or educational pursuits after marriage).

In these types of cases we are limited by our standard of review. As previously stated, an 

appellate court does not consider whether it would have handled the alimony decision differently; 

rather, an appellate court should not disturb the trial court’s alimony decision unless it is patently 

unfair on the record. See Wiedel v. Wiedel, supra. Based on the record before us, we cannot say 

the district court’s decision on this issue was patently unfair.

As noted by the district court, Donald made the decision to change his career from teaching 

to sales early in the parties’ marriage. He caused Elizabeth to interrupt her career by the moves to 

Nebraska, then Florida, and then back to Nebraska. There is evidence that Donald was able to net 

$45,000-$50,000 through his business in its earlier years, and with 22 years of sales experience, 

Donald should have opportunities for employment in this area should he decide to stay in sales. 

Further, he is also able to explore teaching opportunities since he completed his recertification in 

June 2016, and even Donald testified that his chances were going “to go much higher now that I’m 
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done, you know, as I look at the [2017-18] school year.” Donald can also supplement his income 

with sports officiating, and while seeking full-time employment can earn $140 per day by 

substitute teaching.

Meanwhile, Elizabeth must take sole responsibility for nearly $150,000 in marital debt. 

And while Donald will contribute an almost equal share towards that debt through the equalization 

of the assets, as discussed later, this does not change the fact that Elizabeth must meet the 

month-to-month obligations due on that significant marital debt. This gives Donald the benefit of 

being able to move forward debt free. Further, there was no evidence of anything that would hinder 

Donald’s ability to work on a full-time basis in sales and/or education, or to continue 

supplementing his income with sports officiating as desired or needed.

As in Brozek v. Brozek, supra, where no alimony was awarded to the wife despite the length 

of the marriage and the disparity of incomes, the district court in the present case focused similarly 

on the fact that the parties’ marriage did not interrupt the husband’s career or education, and 

further, given the age of the one remaining minor child, no childcare duties would hamper any 

career or educational pursuits for Donald after the divorce. Although the two years of temporary 

alimony was appropriate to allow Donald to take classes and be recertified in teaching, we cannot 

say that the district court abused its discretion in declining to award alimony to Donald at the time 

the decree was entered.

DONALD’S CONTRIBUTIONS TO MARITAL DEBT

Donald alleges the district court credited Elizabeth for her contribution to the marital debt, 

but “completely ignored [his] contribution to said debt.” Brief for appellant at 26. He claims he 

paid $6,157.37 towards the amended marital debt of $136,282.52. He claims the household bills 

($1,812.37) were paid during the initial days after their separation and the bank payments ($4,345) 

were made in accordance with the temporary order. Therefore, he claims $6,157.37 “should be 

added to [his] portion of the retirement accounts.” Id. at 27.

The amended marital debt figure of $136,282.52 was based upon the balances of the 

consolidation loan ($26,514), parent loans ($101,523), bank line of credit ($6,774.32), and debt on 

a replacement furnace ($1,371.20)--all determined at the time of the parties’ separation in February 

2015. The payments for which Donald is claiming credit were all made after the parties separated 

and are not relevant to the marital debt balances as of the date of separation. The allocation of 

assets was based on the debt existing as of the date of separation, not the debt that accrued or was 

paid for by the parties after separation. There was no error by the district court in disregarding 

postseparation debt payments or other expenses when determining the allocation of the marital 

assets and liabilities of the parties.

RETIREMENT ACCOUNTS AND HANDLING OF MARITAL DEBT

We have consolidated several of Donald’s assigned errors since they all relate to the way 

the district court handled allocating the marital debt. Donald asserts that each party is entitled to 

one-half of the marital retirement accounts, the total of which is $201,361.01. Therefore, he claims 

he should receive $100,680.50, without any reduction for his share of the marital debts. Donald

says he “is 59 years old and would be virtually destitute without having at least half of the 
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retirement accounts,” and his “age, income, and earning capacity prevent him from ‘catching up’

his retirement savings in order to retire in a few short years.” Brief for appellant at 29.

Donald claims the “legal principles of reasonableness, fairness and the general equities of 

this case were not upheld by the district court,” because the court assigned one-half the marital 

debt to him even though his income “is less than one-fifth” of Elizabeth’s income. Brief for 

appellant at 28 (emphasis in original). He argues that since he does not have the money to pay half 

of the marital debt, the district court made him pay one-half “by subtracting that one[-]half from 

his portion of the marital retirement accounts,” and by doing so, “the district court set in motion 

the inevitability of homelessness for [Donald] in his retirement years.” Id. Donald asserts that 

ordering Elizabeth to be responsible for all of the children’s student loan debt “would have been 

equitable due to her overall assets.” Reply brief for appellant at 5. He claims it is wrong to force 

him to pay one-half the marital debt “by taking it from his portion of the marital retirement 

accounts.” Id. at 30. He believes he is entitled to $100,680.50, plus all income accumulated from 

the time the complaint was filed.

Dissolution of marriage cases are equitable in nature, and the purpose of a property division 

is to distribute the marital assets equitably between the parties. See Marshall v. Marshall, 298 Neb. 

1, 902 N.W.2d 223 (2017). The ultimate test for determining the appropriateness of the division 

of property is fairness and reasonableness as determined by the facts of each case. Id. There is no 

mathematical formula by which property awards can be precisely determined. Id. In equity, there 

is rarely one tidy answer that fits every size and type of problem that courts are called upon to 

resolve. Id.

We agree with Elizabeth’s response that Donald appears to be seeking “half of the marital 

assets but not be responsible for the marital debts.” Brief for appellee at 21. Donald expects 

Elizabeth to be responsible for paying the entirety of the $136,282.52 in marital debts owed as of 

the date of separation, plus the $12,845.68 of additional line of credit debt Donald incurred after 

the separation (which included fees paid to his attorney), and then still give him one-half of the 

marital pension accounts. Based on Donald’s trial testimony and arguments on appeal, it is evident 

that Donald is of the opinion that since Elizabeth has inherited substantial money and earns 

considerably more than him, then she should be responsible for absorbing the entirety of the debt 

incurred by the marriage as of the date of separation, as well as his personal postseparation debt, 

while equally sharing the pensions primarily earned through Elizabeth’s employment. Notably, the 

district court only attributed to Donald the marital debt amount of $68,141.26, which is one-half 

of the marital debt up to the point of separation. No reduction was taken from Donald’s share of 

the retirement funds for the additional $12,845.68 which Donald accrued postseparation through 

the line of credit, but which Elizabeth was ordered to pay when the decree was modified. In other 

words, Elizabeth was ordered to pay this amount without receiving any credit in the marital 

equalization, even though this debt included approximately $5,000 Donald paid towards his 

attorney fees and Donald’s postseparation living expenses.

With the adjustments made in the amended decree, Donald’s one-half interest 

($100,680.50) of the total marital retirement accounts ($201,361.01) was reduced by his one-half 

share ($68,141.26) of the marital debt ($136,282.52 at the time of separation), leaving $32,539.24 

owed to him as an equalization amount. According to the decree, this amount, plus all accumulated 

income or losses from March 1, 2016, will be allocated to him in Elizabeth’s Edward Jones 
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Retirement Account. The retirement accounts were the only marital assets available to equalize 

the marital estate, other than the remaining contested proceeds from the sale of the house, which 

is discussed next. We find no abuse of discretion by the district court in determining the marital 

assets and liabilities should be equally shared, and by concluding that the most equitable way to 

apportion Donald’s responsibility for his one-half share of the marital liabilities was by reducing 

his share of the assets in this manner.

TEMPORARY ORDER REGARDING MARITAL HOME

When the family home was sold, there were proceeds of $29,808.07, of which $15,421.41 

was equally distributed to the parties, and $14,386.66 was held in escrow due to a dispute between 

the parties on how it should be apportioned. Elizabeth claimed entitlement to slightly over $11,000 

for repairs made to the house to ready it for sale, plus she claimed $3,250 should be deducted from 

Donald’s share since his refusal to accept an initial house offer caused this amount of loss upon 

accepting the next offer. Donald claimed Elizabeth should not be reimbursed for the house repair 

costs because she failed to consult with him prior to having the work done. Regarding his rejection 

of the first offer on the house, he explained that it was “humanly impossible to address it” on such 

short notice, and also, he was expecting multiple bids to get the price higher.

The court ordered $11,137.51 for repairs and improvements to the family home to be paid 

over to Elizabeth from the contested funds, with the balance then distributed equally between the 

parties. The court found Elizabeth did not violate the temporary order, as alleged by Donald; no 

deduction was made with regard to the $3,250 loss. We therefore address only Donald’s argument 

related to the $11,137.51 allocated to Elizabeth before the equal distribution of the remaining 

house proceeds.

The temporary order entered on May 14, 2015, gave Elizabeth exclusive use and possession 

of the marital residence, and directed that the house be readied and listed for sale. The temporary 

order stated:

All repairs or improvements needed for the house to be placed for sale shall be 

made by [Elizabeth] and she shall be reimbursed for all expenses she has incurred at the 

time of closing. [Elizabeth] shall consult with [Donald] and provide information on the 

improvements she intends to make but the final decision of the improvements shall be that 

of [Elizabeth]. [Elizabeth] shall provide receipts for said expenses.

Donald claims “[t]he court ignored [Elizabeth’s] breaches of the Temporary Order” and 

“wrongfully” awarded her $11,137.51 of that amount. Brief for appellant at 31. Donald argues that 

the temporary order required Elizabeth to consult with him prior to making expenditures on the 

house, and that she did not do that; rather, she notified him after the work was completed. Donald 

testified, “Everything was on the aftermath. . . . No consultation, no reimbursement.” He also 

claims Elizabeth only submitted receipts totaling $4,947.51, not $11,137.51 as she claimed, 

although he does not provide any point of reference in the record to support this argument. Exhibit 

12 contains an itemization of repairs and costs dating from April 18 to June 29, 2015, totaling 

$11,137.51. Individual receipts/invoices are attached to the itemization.

According to Elizabeth, Donald knew what improvements needed to be made, and he 

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Donald was the one occupying the family home at the time the first realtor came over and had 

workers look at the house to put bids on the repair work needed to be done. But Donald said to put 

work on hold. According to Donald, the realtor “brought his people in. They were not my people. 

The bids . . . were not my bids.” The realtor was “way too hands-on. He was telling me what colors 

to paint the walls of my house without any input from me.”

The temporary order gave Elizabeth the final decisionmaking authority with regard to 

necessary repairs or improvements for the sale of the house. The language that Elizabeth was to 

consult with and provide information to Donald on intended improvements was satisfied by the 

information given to Donald by the initial realtor as to recommended repairs and improvements. 

The fact that Donald thought the realtor was “way too hands-on” is of no consequence. Elizabeth 

did not need to wait for Donald’s consent in order to move forward with getting the house ready 

for sale. The temporary order authorized her to get the work done.

Donald also claims Elizabeth transferred marital property totaling $777 to the new 

homeowners, and this “breached the Temporary Order.” Id. at 32. Donald “seeks restitution of the 

$777.” Id. Elizabeth argues that “[n]owhere in the trial was this mentioned.” Brief for appellee at 

24. We agree that there is no mention in the record of $777 in property being transferred to the 

new homeowners. The first time it is referenced is in Donald’s affidavit in support of his motion 

for new trial and motion to alter or amend; however, the affidavit does not refer to any testimony 

from trial, nor was such evidence located in this court’s review of the record. An appellate court 

will not consider an issue on appeal that was not presented to or passed upon by the trial court, 

because a trial court cannot commit error in resolving an issue never presented and submitted to it 

for disposition. Brown v. Jacobsen Land & Cattle Co., 297 Neb. 541, 900 N.W.2d 765 (2017).

FEDERAL CREDIT UNION ACCOUNT

Donald alleges Elizabeth had $2,409.65 in a federal credit union account, which she 

claimed was “all hers” since the account was only in her name. Donald asserts this is marital money 

and that the district court “failed to rule on this matter.” Brief for appellant at 33. He says he is 

entitled to one-half that amount. Elizabeth claims this issue was not raised at trial, and therefore, 

there is no evidence in the record for this court to review.

However, Elizabeth was asked at trial how much money she had at a federal credit union 

at the time of separation. Her response was, “A couple thousand dollars maybe.” She did not think 

she needed to divide that with Donald because “[i]t was in [her] name.” She agreed that if the court 

decided to divide that account in half, she would abide by that decision.

The decree provides at paragraph 14 that “each party is awarded all right[,] title and interest 

to any cash, bank accounts, 401k’s, or pensions funds that may be in their own names free and 

clear of any interest of the other, subject to the equalization provisions below.” This provision 

would include Elizabeth being awarded her federal credit union account with “[a] couple thousand 

dollars maybe.” Although it was not included in the marital equalization calculation, which would 

have increased Donald’s share of the retirement funds by about $1,000, we also note that the 

district court did not include in the marital equalization the $12,845.68 debt Elizabeth was ordered 

to pay for Donald’s postseparation debt. This would have reduced Donald’s share of the retirement 

funds by more than $6,000. The district court did not abuse its discretion by awarding this account 

to Elizabeth and not factoring it into the marital equalization.
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ATTORNEY FEES

Donald claims the district court abused its discretion by not awarding him attorney fees. 

He argues: Elizabeth filed for divorce “[o]ut of the blue,” leaving him with “close to no funds”;

Elizabeth’s income is “at least five times greater” than his; and Elizabeth has significant resources, 

marital and nonmarital. Brief for appellant at 33-34. Donald suggests he will have to draw from 

“the miniscule portion of the retirement funds” to pay attorney fees, and that this court should 

award him $8,525 in attorney fees. Id. at 34. Donald testified at trial that the “grand total” of his 

attorney fees was $8,525, and the present balance due was $3,525.

Elizabeth argues that when the court amended the decree, she was ordered to pay a line of 

credit debt of $12,845.68, an amount which she claims includes $5,528.60 of Donald’s attorney 

fees. Donald acknowledged taking these funds from the parties’ line of credit, and using the money 

to pay $5,000 to his attorney and to cover his personal living expenses. The $5,000 payment is 

consistent with his testimony that of the $8,525 owed to his attorney, only $3,525 remained due. 

Therefore, Elizabeth is paying for $5,000 of Donald’s attorney fees.

In an action for dissolution of marriage, the award of attorney fees is discretionary, is 

reviewed de novo on the record, and will be affirmed in the absence of an abuse of discretion. 

Gangwish v. Gangwish, 267 Neb. 901, 678 N.W.2d 503 (2004). In light of the amended order 

requiring Elizabeth to pay the additional line of credit debt which was incurred entirely by Donald, 

including the $5,000 payment made to his attorney, we cannot say the district court abused its 

discretion by declining to award additional attorney fees to Donald.

MINOR CHILD’S EXPENSES

Donald claims the district court should not have ordered him to “pay a portion of other 

expenses” for Emma outside medical and dental expenses “as a Worksheet 3 was not used by the 

court.” Brief for appellant at 34. He says these “other expenses” are noted in paragraph 5 of the 

original decree. Id. That is the extent of Donald’s argument.

Paragraph 5 of the decree states, in relevant part:

That the parties shall divide any extracurricular activities or school fees incurred by 

the minor child. School fees shall include lunches, fees, school pictures, field trip fees, or 

any other expense reasonably necessary to the child’s education. [Elizabeth] is responsible 

for 80%, [Donald] is responsible for 20%.

We assume that Donald’s reference to “Worksheet 3” means the worksheet used for joint physical 

custody child support calculations and that he is suggesting that since this is not a joint physical 

custody case, the “other expenses” were not permissible. However, Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-364.17 

(Reissue 2016) provides:

A decree of dissolution, legal separation, or order establishing paternity shall incorporate 

financial arrangements for each party’s responsibility for reasonable and necessary 

medical, dental, and eye care, medical reimbursements, day care, extracurricular activity, 

education, and other extraordinary expenses of the child and calculation of child support 

obligations.
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While monthly child support payments are one incident of support for minor children, the 

Nebraska Child Support Guidelines recognize other incidents of support “that are wholly or partly 

outside of the monthly installment.” Caniglia v. Caniglia, 285 Neb. 930, 934, 830 N.W.2d 207, 

211 (2013). “The expenses stated in § 42-364.17--including, among others, extracurricular, 

education, and other extraordinary expenses--merely represent other incidents of ‘support’ to be 

addressed in a dissolution decree.” Caniglia v. Caniglia, 285 Neb. at 934, 830 N.W.2d at 211. We 

find no abuse of discretion by the district court in dividing Emma’s school-related expenses in 

proportion to the parties’ incomes.

LEGAL CUSTODY

At the time of trial, Emma was a freshman in high school. The court awarded Elizabeth 

sole legal and physical custody of Emma. The decree states, in relevant part:

Both [Elizabeth] and [Donald] are fit and proper persons to have the care, custody 

and control of the minor child. It is evident from the trial that the parties cannot effectively 

communicate with each other and it is in the best interests of the minor child for her legal 

and physical custody to be awarded to [Elizabeth], with [Donald] having parenting time as 

provided in the Parenting Plan, . . . [Donald’s] claim of alienation by [Elizabeth] is 

unfounded. Any alienation of the child is a direct result of [Donald’s] own behavior. 

[Donald’s] controlling nature and repeated actions of refusal to [compromise] show 

[Donald] will not effectively participate in communication that considers the best interests 

of Emma.

The district court further stated the custody decision was “in the best interest of Emma who is a 

bright, mature fifteen year old.”

When deciding custody issues, the court’s paramount concern is the child’s best interests. 

Citta v. Facka, 19 Neb. App. 736, 812 N.W.2d 917 (2012). The best interests inquiry has its 

foundation in both statutory and case law.

Neb. Rev. Stat. 43-2923(6) (Reissue 2016) provides that in determining custody and 

parenting arrangements:

[T]he court shall consider the best interests of the minor child, which shall include, but not 

be limited to, consideration of . . . :

(a) The relationship of the minor child to each parent prior to the commencement 

of the action or any subsequent hearing;

(b) The desires and wishes of the minor child, if of an age of comprehension but 

regardless of chronological age, when such desires and wishes are based on sound 

reasoning;

(c) The general health, welfare, and social behavior of the minor child;

(d) Credible evidence of abuse inflicted on any family or household member . . . ; 

and

(e) Credible evidence of child abuse or neglect or domestic intimate partner 

abuse. . . .
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Other pertinent factors include the moral fitness of the child’s parents, including sexual 

conduct; respective environments offered by each parent; the age, sex, and health of the child and 

parents; the effect on the child as a result of continuing or disrupting an existing relationship; the 

attitude and stability of each parent’s character; and parental capacity to provide physical care and 

satisfy educational needs of the child. Robb v. Robb, 268 Neb. 694, 687 N.W.2d 195 (2004).

Donald only challenges the award of sole legal custody to Elizabeth, arguing that the 

evidence supports joint legal custody. Donald’s argument for joint legal custody is contained in 

four paragraphs, in which he asserts: he was the primary caretaker of the children; he was fully 

devoted to and involved in their lives; Elizabeth testified he was a good parent, and that he had 

been an active and involved parent; the temporary order granted joint legal custody; Elizabeth 

admitted to “breaking the Temporary Order regarding the legal custody issue of religious 

formation”; Elizabeth made decisions unilaterally without communicating with Donald; Elizabeth 

“testified to being incompetent as to what legal custody is”; the “court rewarded [Elizabeth] for 

multiple breaches of the Temporary Order by granting sole legal custody to [her],” Elizabeth 

testified that she and Donald “have had no conflict” such as schools, universities, and medical 

decisions; the “only significant legal custody issue” has involved religious formation for Emma; 

and “[d]espite [Donald’s] deep concerns regarding the prejudicial stances of the church which the 

minor child attends, [he] has been powerless in prohibiting the minor child from attending that 

church.” Brief for appellant at 34-35.

With regard to the religious disagreement that had developed, Donald testified about 

Emma’s in camera statements to the judge on that issue. We note that Emma’s in camera testimony 

was not offered into evidence, and that there was a stipulated protective order filed August 23, 

2016, which states that a copy of the transcript of the minor child’s in camera interview with the 

judge will not be given to either party, but that the details of the transcript may be shared with 

them. However, when Donald’s attorney mentioned that Emma had talked with the judge, “and 

you’ve read the testimony,” Donald’s response was, “Yes.” We take this to mean there must have 

been further agreement regarding the parents’ access to the transcript of Emma’s in camera 

testimony.

Donald explained that Emma likely mentioned the long arguments she was having with 

him at that time because her meeting with the judge was “quite recent to that time that I had long 

conversations with Emma about her radical new religious beliefs.” Donald did go meet with 

members of Emma’s church after finding out about her “radical new religious beliefs.” He 

concluded that “it’s not totally bad . . . but there’s underlying stuff.”

Elizabeth acknowledged that during the marriage, both she and Donald had been able to 

agree on some important decisions, such as sending their older daughters to expensive colleges, 

but it became “difficult to make decisions now that [they’re] separated.” In support of the court’s 

decision to award her sole legal custody, Elizabeth points out that Donald’s “controlling nature”

and “unwillingness to compromise” is evident by the following: (1) Donald moved the family from 

Chicago to Omaha in 1993 because he wanted to be close to his family, and then Donald moved 

the family to Florida in 2004 because he did not like Omaha weather, but he moved the family 

back to Omaha by 2005 because the children missed their friends--all of these moves caused 

Elizabeth to lose benefits and seniority in her work; (2) the temporary order authorized Elizabeth 

to make repairs and improvements needed to sell the family home, but upon receiving the list of 
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such needs identified by the realtor, Donald said these required his authorization; (3) Donald 

refused to accept a full-price offer on the family home, claiming the 4- to 5- hour window to accept 

the offer was “impossible to meet,” and when the acceptance time was extended to the next day, 

Donald again refused to accept the offer, saying it was “humanly impossible to accept”--Donald 

expected multiple offers to generate a bidding war for his property; (4) Donald’s emails about or 

to his children “demonstrates the viciousness he responds to his own children when he does not 

get his way”; and (5) Donald testified he would not have deposited tax refunds and a university 

refund into the parties’ joint account if he had known Elizabeth was filing for divorce--he would 

have put the funds into a different account so she “would not even know about the money.” Brief 

for appellee at 28-30. Elizabeth claims Donald “only cares about himself,” and “[h]e must be in 

control or he viciously attacks anyone that challenges his control.” Id. at 30.

During trial, Elizabeth acknowledged that she had agreed to joint legal custody for the 

temporary order, but she now wanted sole legal custody “[b]ecause it is so difficult to make 

decisions” with Donald. “It’s just very difficult to communicate with him. And even in minor 

issues with Emma, we can’t find agreement.” For example, Elizabeth testified that Donald said no 

to Emma going to Baltimore with Elizabeth to visit Elizabeth’s brother, and he said no to Emma 

going to her youth group on Wednesdays. “[I]t’s very difficult to get at small things so that’s why 

I would prefer to have custody.”

Exhibits of emails sent by Donald to Elizabeth, as well as their older daughters, were 

received without objection. Elizabeth characterized the emails as argumentative, and when it came 

to discussing the children, Donald was argumentative “[m]any times.” Our review of the record 

supports Elizabeth’s assertions, and also reveals Donald’s angry emotional state and his attempt 

to influence his children against their mother and other family members. As an example, an email 

Donald sent to the oldest daughter in August 2015 criticizes Elizabeth, questioning why she has 

not paid off the daughter’s student loans with her inheritance and stating that “it is utterly foolish 

and incredibly damaging to your future if your loans still exist today!” In the same email, Donald 

also cautions his oldest daughter that as she interacts with her grandparents, she “should be aware 

of the following[.]” What follows are pages of segmented thoughts apparently directed at Donald’s 

parents; they reveal Donald’s state of mind regarding the divorce and his family, and they offer a 

glimpse of Donald’s anger and attitude.

Elizabeth did testify that she gets along well with Donald’s parents and sees them on “a 

fairly regular basis.” They live in the Omaha area and continue to see Elizabeth and Emma. On 

the other hand, according to Elizabeth, there was an incident in November 2007 which caused 

Donald “to cut off contact with his family,” and “in general he prefers not to have any contact with 

his family.” Elizabeth has a good relationship with Donald’s family and intends to continue having 

Emma spend time with Donald’s parents, as well as his other relatives.

It is unfortunate that Donald views his family as choosing sides, and the emails, along with 

the other evidence pointed out by Elizabeth, show that Donald was not in a state of mind to be able 

to share legal custody of Emma with Elizabeth. It is understandable that divorce can bring out the 

worst emotions in people, and it is also understandable that recovering from the termination of a 

lengthy marriage will take time. The evidence shows that both parents participated in raising their 

three daughters, and Elizabeth admits that Donald has been a good parent. However, the separation 

and divorce have been very difficult for Donald, and the record demonstrates that he and Elizabeth 
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would not be able to effectively communicate in making decisions regarding Emma. And where 

the parties are unable to communicate and trust one another, joint decisionmaking by the parents 

is not in the child’s best interests. Schmeidler v. Schmeidler, 25 Neb. App. 802, ___ N.W.2d ___

(2018). Therefore, on this record, we cannot say the district court abused its discretion in awarding 

sole legal custody to Elizabeth.

CONCLUSION

For the reasons set forth above, the district court’s decree, as amended, is affirmed.

AFFIRMED.