IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 17-2002

Filed August 1, 2018

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF MICHAEL CLIFFORD ANDERSON

AND ABBY LEA ANDERSON

Upon the Petition of

MICHAEL CLIFFORD ANDERSON,

Petitioner-Appellee/Cross-Appellant,

And Concerning

ABBY LEA ANDERSON,

Respondent-Appellant/Cross-Appellee.

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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Story County, John J. Haney, Judge.

Abby Anderson appeals, and Michael Anderson cross-appeals, from the 

decree dissolving their marriage. AFFIRMED ON BOTH APPEALS.

Ryan D. Babich of Babich Goldman, P.C., Des Moines, for appellant.

Dorothy L. Dakin of Kruse & Dakin, L.L.P., Boone, for appellee.

Considered by Vaitheswaran, P.J., and Potterfield and Tabor, JJ.
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VAITHESWARAN, Presiding Judge.

Michael and Abby Anderson married in 2004, had three children, and 

divorced in 2017. In pertinent part, the district court (1) granted the parents joint 

physical care of their children; (2) declined Abby’s request for spousal support; and

(3) concluded Michael should pay Abby $337.92 per month in child support.

On appeal, Abby contends the district court should have granted her 

physical care of the children and should have ordered Michael to pay her 

rehabilitative alimony. On cross-appeal, Michael argues the district court should 

have imputed income to Abby for purposes of calculating child support. 

I. Physical Care

“Physical care” is “the right and responsibility to maintain a home for the 

minor child and provide for the routine care of the child.” Iowa Code § 598.1(7)

(2017). “Joint physical care” is “an award of physical care of a minor child to both 

joint legal custodial parents under which both parents have rights and 

responsibilities toward the child including but not limited to shared parenting time 

with the child, maintaining homes for the child, providing routine care for the child 

and under which neither parent has physical care rights superior to those of the 

other parent.” Id. § 598.1(4); see also In re Marriage of Hansen, 733 N.W.2d 683, 

690-91 (Iowa 2007).

Abby contends the district court should have granted her physical care of 

the children because she was “the primary caregiver for most, if not all, of the 

parties’ marriage”; she and Michael had “significant difficulties in communication”; 

they were “distrust[ful]” and unable “to show mutual respect to one another”; they 
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were “often in disagreement” on parenting decisions, and “the children [were] not 

adjusting that well to the shared care arrangement.”

The district court addressed these concerns. The court stated, “[D]espite 

their respective faults and recent posturing for trial, Michael and Abby are good 

people, good parents, and both love and care a great deal for their children.” The 

court pointed out that the parents lived “within a few blocks of each other,” had 

“strong family support systems in the area,” and had “actively cared for the children 

both before and since their separation.” Although Abby was “primary caretaker in 

recent years,” the court found “Michael’s role and contributions in this regard [could 

not] be said to weigh against him.” The court further found the parents were able 

to support each other’s relationship with the children and were able to 

communicate with each other concerning the children. In the court’s view, the 

parents’ “increased tensions in preparing for trial” were “temporary and situational”

and they would communicate more effectively moving forward. 

On our de novo review of the record, we concur in these findings. Michael 

was a significant part of the children’s lives throughout the marriage. He testified 

that both he and Abby “worked full time for many years” and both attended to the 

children’s daily needs and went to their activities. In his words, he “tried to be the 

most active and attentive dad that [he] kn[e]w how to be even with working a fulltime job.” Although Abby testified to providing the lion’s share of the children’s 

care before a temporary joint physical care order was filed and she stated Michael 

spent long hours at work, she agreed Michael actively parented their first child and 

was involved with the children in other respects.
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Notably, Michael’s job was restructured, affording him “a lot more flexibility.” 

As noted by the district court, he moved to a townhome “less than two blocks” from 

the home he had shared with Abby and in which Abby still lived. These changes 

facilitated a joint physical care arrangement.

We acknowledge the parents’ significant difference of opinion on how the 

children fared under the temporary alternating-week schedule. Michael testified 

they “responded extremely well” to the schedule, while Abby stated they did not 

handle it very well. There is no question the children experienced trauma as a 

result of their parents’ separation and divorce. But this is not surprising, given their 

close relationship with both parents. The alternating-week schedule preserved 

that relationship. Although Abby advocated for a 2-2-3 day schedule, we agree 

with Michael that it would have required more transfers between homes and 

potentially more disruption. 

We turn to the most troublesome part of the case—each parent’s 

disparaging comments about the other during trial. Both paid lip service to the 

importance of supporting the children’s relationship with the other. But both 

parents’ trial testimony evinced a callous lack of respect for the other parent. At 

times during the proceedings, the parents exposed their children to their feelings 

of scorn. In the end, however, they made the temporary joint physical care 

arrangement work. They communicated about the children’s needs primarily by 

text, transitioned the children from one home to the other without inordinate 

disruption, met their daily needs, and facilitated their participation in extracurricular 

activities. Like the district court, we trust that, in time, they will be able to renew 

the respect for each other that was lost during the proceedings. Cf. In re Marriage 
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of Bernard, No. 09-1676, 2010 WL 2384614, at *5 (Iowa Ct. App. June 16, 2010)

(“At the time of trial [the parents] were caught up in what occurred at the end of the 

marriage. This generated frequently seen resentment, bitterness, and emotional 

heat. The district court believed that both parties could overcome these problems 

and support each parent’s relationship with their son. We agree, and upon 

considering all the relevant factors, we affirm the district court’s award of joint 

physical care.”).

The parents could take a step towards repairing their frayed relationship by 

affording each other time with the children during their parenting time, as Abby 

requests. We acknowledge she would like to formalize this “right of first refusal”

and have the decree modified to “specify[] that if either party has to work or is 

unable to care for the children during their respective parenting time, the parent in 

need of care for the children shall offer the option to the other parent to care for 

the children prior to using a third party.” See, e.g., In re Marriage of Klemmensen, 

No. 14-1292, 2015 WL 2089699, at *4 (Iowa Ct. App. May 6, 2015) (addressing 

right of first refusal). We believe the parents are fully capable of informally 

implementing a first-refusal plan without a modification of the decree to incorporate 

such a provision.1 Cf. In re Marriage of Lauritsen, No. 13-1889, 2014 WL 3511899, 

at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. July 16, 2014) (upholding a right-of-first-refusal provision 

where a party denied visitation without good reason).

 

1 Abby also asks that we modify the decree to include a “joint legal custodian” provision 

specifying “each party’s rights and responsibilities as joint legal custodians.” The decree 

already contains joint custodian language. We see no reason to expand the language. 
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II. Spousal Support

Abby requested rehabilitative spousal support of $1000 per month for one 

year. See In re Marriage of Sisson, 843 N.W.2d 866, 875 (Iowa 2014) (noting the 

primary goal of rehabilitative alimony is self-sufficiency). The district court denied 

the request, reasoning as follows:

This case presents a medium-term marriage of approximately 

13 years. Having considered all of the relevant factors, including but 

not limited to: Michael’s education and employment history; his 

financial circumstances; Abby’s education and employment history; 

her financial circumstances; Abby’s intention to return to full-time 

employment; each party’s good health; their ages; the medium-term 

duration of this marriage; their debt, asset and retirement division; 

the Court concludes that Abby’s request for alimony should be 

denied.

The court characterized Abby’s request as one for traditional rather than 

rehabilitative alimony. See In re Marriage of Gust, 858 N.W.2d 402, 408 (Iowa 

2015) (“The purpose of a traditional or permanent alimony award is to provide the 

receiving spouse with support comparable to what he or she would receive if the 

marriage continued.” (citation omitted)). Nonetheless, the court’s reasoning 

applies equally to her request for rehabilitative alimony. See Iowa Code 

§ 598.21A(1) (listing factors for consideration in awarding spousal support 

payments “for a limited or indefinite length”). 

On our de novo review, we are persuaded by the court’s reasoning. See In 

re Marriage of Anliker, 694 N.W.2d 535, 540 (Iowa 2005) (characterizing our 

review as de novo but stating we give the district court “considerable latitude in 

making [the spousal support] determination based on the [statutory] criteria”).

Abby worked full-time during the first six years of the marriage, earning well over 

Michael’s earnings at the time of the dissolution. Although she took one year off 
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following the birth of their third child, she worked part-time after that point. Her 

part-time earnings were a third to a fourth less than her full-time earnings. But her 

Masters’ degree in Meat Science together with her extensive work experience left 

her well-prepared to rejoin the workforce on a full-time basis. She did not require 

rehabilitative alimony to become self-sufficient. See In re Marriage of O’Rourke, 

547 N.W.2d 864, 866-67 (Iowa Ct. App. 1996) (stating rehabilitative spousal 

support “serves to support an economically dependent spouse through a limited 

period of education and retraining” and noting spouse’s “employment history and 

substantial earning capacity evidence a self-sufficiency inconsistent with the 

underlying purpose of rehabilitative alimony”). 

III. Imputation of Income to Abby

The district court calculated child support under the guidelines adopted by 

the Iowa Supreme Court. See Iowa Ct. R. 9.2. The court used the parents’ actual 

annual incomes and expressly “decline[d] Michael’s invitation to impute income to 

Abby beyond her current earnings.” On cross-appeal, Michael contends the court 

should have imputed annual income of $50,000 to Abby. 

Iowa Court Rule 9.11(4) allows a court to impute income to a parent “in 

appropriate cases.” The rule identifies one appropriate case as a parent’s 

unemployment or underemployment “without just cause.” Iowa Ct. R. 9.11(4).

This is not an appropriate case to impute income. The parents agreed Abby 

would give up her employment for a year and would work part-time until the 

youngest child entered kindergarten. Cf. In re Marriage of Rogers, No. 16-1571, 

2017 WL 4842306, at *6 (Iowa Ct. App. Oct. 25, 2017) (“Jessica’s reduced income 

is a direct result of the parties’ long-term agreement that she would focus her 
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energies at home rather than in the workforce.”). Abby’s actual part-time earnings 

at the time of trial were approximately forty-three percent less than the earnings 

Michael sought to impute to her. Under these circumstances, the court acted 

equitably in using her actual income rather than her earning capacity. 

IV. Appellate Attorney Fees

Abby and Michael seek awards of appellate attorney fees. We decline both 

parties’ requests. An award of appellate attorney fees rests within our discretion. 

In re Marriage of Berning, 745 N.W.2d 90, 94 (Iowa Ct. App. 2007). Though 

Michael earned significantly more than Abby at the time of trial, he was forced to 

expend additional appellate attorney fees defending the primary issue on appeal, 

the district court’s joint physical care decision. We conclude the parties should be 

responsible for their own appellate attorney fees. 

We affirm the district court’s thorough and well-reasoned decree in its 

entirety. Abby shall be responsible for seventy-five percent and Michael shall be 

responsible for twenty-five percent of the costs on appeal.

AFFIRMED ON BOTH APPEALS.