12-5088

Souratgar v. Lee

1 UNITED STATES COURT OF APPEALS

2 FOR THE SECOND CIRCUIT

3 August Term 2012

4 (Argued: March 13, 2013 Decided: June 13, 2013)

5 Docket No. 12-5088

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7 ABDOLLAH NAGHASH SOURATGAR,

8 Petitioner-Appellee,

9 -- v. --

10 LEE JEN FAIR,

11 Respondent-Appellant.

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13 B e f o r e : WALKER, WESLEY and DRONEY, Circuit Judges.

14

15 After Lee Jen Fair removed her child from Singapore to New 

16 York State in violation of a Singapore court order, Abdollah 

17 Naghash Souratgar, the child’s father and Lee’s husband, filed a 

18 petition under the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of 

19 International Child Abduction for repatriation of the child to 

20 Singapore. The United States District Court for the Southern 

21 District of New York (Castel, J.) granted the petition. AFFIRMED.

22

23 ROBERT D. ARENSTEIN, Law Offices of 

24 Robert D. Arenstein, New York, NY 

25 for Petitioner-Appellee.

26

27 RANDY M. MASTRO and Jane Kim,

28 Gibson, Dunn & Crutcher LLP, New 

29 York, NY and Dorchen A. Leidholdt, 

30 Center for Battered Women’s Legal 

31 Services, Sanctuary for Families, 

32 New York, NY for Respondent33 Appellant.

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1 JENNIFER BAUM, St. Vincent de Paul 2 Legal Program, Inc., Child Advocacy 3 Clinic, St. John’s University School 4 of Law, Jamaica, NY (Jenna M. 5 DiCostanzo and Jennifer R. Kwapisz, 6 St. John’s University School of Law 7 on the brief) for Amicus Curiae 8 Guardian ad Litem. 9

10 William C. Silverman, Greenberg 

11 Traurig, LLP, New York, NY for Amici

12 Curiae Tahirih Justice Center, Asian 

13 Pacific American Legal Center, 

14 Ayuda, Battered Women’s Justice 

15 Project, The Central American 

16 Resource Center, Greater Boston 

17 Legal Services, Immigration & Asylum 

18 Clinic of Boston College Law School, 

19 Immigration Justice Clinic, John Jay 

20 Legal Services, Inc., Inmotion, 

21 Inc., Kentucky Coalition for 

22 Immigrant and Refugee Rights, Legal 

23 Services NYC, National Immigrant 

24 Women’s Advocacy Project, New York 

25 Asian Women’s Center, Inc., 

26 Philadelphia Legal Assistance, 

27 Sexuality & Gender Law Clinic, and 

28 Columbia Law School.

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30 Joel Kurtzberg, Mary McCann, and 

31 Etienne Barg-Townsend, Cahill Gordon 

32 & Reindel LLP, New York, NY and Lynn 

33 Hecht Schafran and Elizabeth Grayer, 

34 Legal Momentum, New York, NY for

35 Amici Curiae Legal Momentum, 

36 Domestic Violence Legal Empowerment 

37 Appeals Project, End Violence 

38 Against Women International, Iowa 

39 Coalition Against Sexual Assault, 

40 National Coalition Against Domestic 

41 Violence, National Network To End 

42 Domestic Violence, New Mexico 

43 Coalition of Sexual Assault 

44 Programs, Inc., the Pennsylvania 

45 Coalition Against Rape, and the 

46 Victim Rights Law Center.

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1 Michael R. Lazerwitz, Lewis J. Liman 

2 and Kiesha Minyard, Cleary Gottlieb 

3 Steen & Hamilton LLP, New York, NY 

4 (William F. Gorin, Abigail Fee and 

5 Shira A. Kaufman, Cleary Gottlieb 

6 Steen & Hamilton LLP, on the brief) 

7 for Amici Curiae Dean Jeffrey L. 

8 Edleson, Ph.D., Professor Evan 

9 Stark, Ph.D., Professor Michelle 

10 Madden Dempsey, Ph.D., Dr. Stephanie 

11 Brandt, The Child Advocacy Clinic at 

12 Columbia Law School, The University 

13 of Baltimore Family Law Clinic, and 

14 the University of Oregon Domestic 

15 Violence Clinic.

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19 JOHN M. WALKER, JR., Circuit Judge:

20 Lee Jen Fair appeals the grant of a petition brought by her 

21 husband Abdollah Naghash Souratgar for repatriation of their son 

22 from New York to Singapore. In May 2012, Lee removed the boy to 

23 Dutchess County, New York, in direct violation of a Singapore court 

24 order. The United States District Court for the Southern District 

25 of New York (Castel, Judge) granted Souratgar’s petition pursuant 

26 to the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child 

27 Abduction (“Convention”), Oct. 25, 1980, T.I.A.S. No. 11,670, 1343 

28 U.N.T.S. 89, and its implementing statute, the International Child 

29 Abduction Remedies Act, 42 U.S.C. §§ 11601-10. Souratgar v. Lee 

30 Jen Fair, No. 12 CV 7797 (PKC), 2012 WL 6700214 (S.D.N.Y. Dec. 26, 

31 2012).

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1 The principal issue on appeal is whether Lee’s affirmative 

2 defenses to repatriation should have prevailed in the district 

3 court. We find the district court correctly applied the Convention 

4 and affirm its order of repatriation.

5 I. Background

6 The boy at the center of this case, now four-year-old Shayan, 

7 was born in Singapore in January 2009 to Lee and Souratgar, who are 

8 both residents of that country. Souratgar is an Iranian national 

9 who has owned a business in Singapore since 1989. Lee is a 

10 Malaysian national who worked as an airline attendant, saleswoman,

11 and retail manager in Singapore. She converted to Islam, 

12 Souratgar’s faith, just prior to their marriage in Singapore in 

13 2007. Shayan is a citizen of Malaysia with Malaysian and Iranian 

14 passports.

15 The parties’ marital relationship has been stormy. At the 

16 district court hearing, they traded accusations and denials of 

17 domestic abuse. Souratgar accused Lee, among other things, of 

18 biting him, repeatedly threatening him with a knife and chopper, 

19 having suicidal tendencies, and inflicting injuries on herself. 

20 Lee asserted in her testimony more serious allegations – that 

21 Souratgar repeatedly slapped, beat, shook, and kicked her, and that 

22 he forced her to perform sex acts against her will. The district 

23 court carefully checked these assertions against the various police 

24 reports, medical records, and legal papers entered into evidence
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1 and, while it could not verify the most severe claims of abuse and 

2 found both parties’ testimony to be incredible in certain 

instances, it did credit the accounts it could corroborate.

1

3 The 

4 district court found spousal abuse by Souratgar, including 

5 “shouting and offensive name-calling,” and several incidents of 

physical abuse in which he “kicked, slapped, grabbed, and hit” Lee.

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7 Souratgar, 2012 WL 6700214, at *11.

8 The district court found no credible evidence of any harm 

9 directed against the child. Both parties, despite their 

10 acrimonious contest over his custody, acknowledge the other’s love 

11 for Shayan, and it is not disputed that the boy dearly loves both 

12 of his parents.

 

1 The district court’s findings as to the charges and countercharges of domestic abuse by the parties are set forth in the 

district court’s opinion. See Souratgar, 2012 WL 6700214, at *7-10, 

*11, *12 & *13.

2 The district court declined to credit Lee’s charge that 

Souratgar compelled her to engage in certain sexual acts, noting 

that text messages she sent him indicated her willing 

participation. The text messages, however, were sent well before 

the acts had allegedly occurred, and it is of course possible for 

express or implied consent to sex to be withdrawn after it is 

given. Even if the text messages were sent close to (or even 

after) the alleged acts, that would not in itself indicate that Lee 

was a “willing participant” or ipso facto invalidate her testimony 

that she was forced to engage in sexual activity. The district 

court was entitled to make its own determination regarding the 

credibility of Lee’s testimony, and nothing in the record indicates 

that its finding was erroneous. Any suggestion that a woman who 

indicates enthusiasm for a sexual relationship cannot later be 

taken advantage of in the context of that relationship, however, is 

mistaken, and we disclaim any indication that our holding today is 

based on Lee’s text messages. Our concerns on this point do not 

affect our judgment that, viewed in their entirety, the district 

court’s credibility assessments should not be disturbed.
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1 The district court also found Souratgar and Lee to be 

2 intelligent, sophisticated individuals who were able to make use of 

3 legal proceedings in Singapore, Malaysia, and the United States. 

4 In April 2011, when Shayan was two, Lee filed an ex parte

5 application in the Singapore High Court for sole custody. She 

6 cited concern that Souratgar would take Shayan from the country and 

7 cut her off from the boy. On May 16, the Subordinate Court of 

8 Singapore issued an ex parte order directing Souratgar to hand over 

9 Shayan’s passports and personal documents to Lee and barring 

10 Souratgar from removing the child from Singapore without court 

11 approval and Lee’s knowledge or consent. Souratgar complied with 

12 the order, denied Lee’s charges, and cross-applied for sole 

13 custody. While the custody proceedings were pending in Singapore, 

14 Lee moved out of the marital home with Shayan and refused to 

15 disclose their whereabouts to Souratgar. He eventually found them 

16 in Malaysia, where Lee denied him access to the boy. Souratgar

17 then filed a custody application in the Syariah Court of Malaysia, 

18 which granted joint custody to the couple in early July. 

19 Thereafter, Lee succeeded in obtaining a dismissal of that order 

20 from the Malaysian Syariah Court for lack of jurisdiction.

21 After Lee and Shayan returned to Singapore, the custody 

22 proceedings in Singapore’s Subordinate Court resumed. Following a 

23 mediation session on July 14, 2011, the Subordinate Court barred 

24 either parent from removing Shayan from Singapore without the 
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1 other’s consent and ordered interim supervised visitation for 

2 Souratgar of two hours per week at Singapore’s Centre for Family 

3 Harmony. Following another mediation session on February 16, 2012, 

4 both parties agreed to a consent order by the Subordinate Court to 

have custody decided by the Syariah Court of Singapore.35 In the 

6 meantime, Shayan remained in Lee’s care, while Souratgar’s 

7 visitation time was doubled.

8 On May 20, 2012, Lee removed Shayan from Singapore, in 

9 violation of the Singapore Subordinate Court’s order. Souratgar, 

10 through a private investigator, eventually located Lee and Shayan 

11 in Dutchess County, and on October 18, filed an ex parte

12 application in the district court under the Convention for Shayan’s 

13 return to Singapore. 

14 After ex parte hearings, the district court ordered Souratgar

15 to surrender his passport and post bond, and transferred custody of 

16 the child to Souratgar. The district court then appointed a 

17 guardian ad litem to represent Shayan’s interests and ordered 

18 Souratgar to make the child available to Lee for five sessions of 

19 visitation per week, with not less than three hours per session,

20 during the pendency of the proceedings. The district court heard 

21 testimony from nine witnesses over a nine-day evidentiary hearing, 

22 and on December 26, granted Souratgar’s petition. This petition 

 

3 In late 2011, Lee had filed for divorce in Singapore’s Syariah 

Court and used that proceeding to dismiss the temporary joint 

custody order of the Malaysian Syariah Court.
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1 was temporarily stayed pending emergency appeal. We stayed 

2 enforcement of the repatriation order, imposed an expedited 

3 briefing schedule, and granted leave for the filing of amicus 

4 briefs.

5 II. Discussion

6 A. The Framework of the Hague Convention

7 The Hague Convention, a multilateral treaty, is designed to 

8 “protect children internationally from the harmful effects of their 

9 wrongful removal [by] establish[ing] procedures to ensure their 

10 prompt return to the State of their habitual residence,” Abbott v. 

11 Abbott, 130 S. Ct. 1983, 2002 n.6 (2010) (quotation marks and 

12 emphasis omitted), so that the “rights of custody and of access 

13 under the law of one Contracting State are effectively respected in 

14 the other Contracting States,” Chafin v. Chafin, 133 S. Ct. 1017, 

15 1021 (2013) (quotation marks omitted). The Convention’s remedy of 

16 repatriation is designed to “preserve the status quo” in the 

17 child’s country of habitual residence and “deter parents from 

18 crossing international boundaries in search of a more sympathetic 

19 court.” Blondin v. Dubois (Blondin II), 189 F.3d 240, 246 (2d Cir. 

20 1999) (quotation marks omitted).

21 The removal of a child under the Convention is deemed 

22 “wrongful” when “it is in breach of rights of custody attributed to 

23 a person . . . under the law of the State in which the child was 

24 habitually resident immediately before the removal.” Abbott, 130 S.
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1 Ct. at 1989 (quotation marks omitted). Under the Convention, when 

2 a parent wrongfully removes a child from one contracting state 

3 which is the child’s country of habitual residence to another 

4 contracting state, the other parent may initiate a proceeding to 

repatriate the child to the first state.45 In the United States, the 

6 petitioning party bears the burden of proving that the child was 

7 wrongfully removed. 42 U.S.C. § 11603(e)(1)(A). Once the 

8 petitioner “establishes that removal was wrongful, the child must 

9 be returned unless the [respondent] can establish one of four 

10 defenses.” Blondin II, 189 F.3d at 245 (quotation marks omitted); 

11 see also 42 U.S.C. § 11601(a)(4). The decision concerning 

12 repatriation shall “not be taken to be a determination on the 

13 merits of any custody issue.” Blondin II, 189 F.3d at 245

14 (quotation marks omitted); Mota v. Castillo, 692 F.3d 108, 112 (2d 

15 Cir. 2012) (“[T]he Convention’s focus is simply upon whether a 

16 child should be returned to her country of habitual residence for 

17 custody proceedings.”).

18 The parties do not dispute either that Singapore is the 

19 country of Shayan’s habitual residence or that his removal from 

 

4 The United States signed the Convention in 1981 and ratified 

the treaty, thereby becoming a contracting state, in 1988. See

Ozaltin v. Ozaltin, 708 F.3d 355, 358 n.4 (2d Cir. 2013). Under 

Article 38, one state’s accession will have effect with respect to 

another contracting state only after such other state has declared 

its acceptance of the accession. 1343 U.N.T.S. at 104. Singapore 

signed the Convention in 2010 and ratified it on March 1, 2011. 

Singapore’s accession was accepted by the United States on February 

9, 2012 and entered into force on May 1, about three weeks before 

Lee left Singapore with Shayan.
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1 Singapore was wrongful under the Convention. The issue on appeal 

2 is whether the two affirmative defenses that Lee raised under 

3 Articles 13(b) and 20 of the Convention preclude repatriation. 

4 Under Article 13(b), 

5 the judicial or administrative authority of the requested 

6 State is not bound to order the return of the child if 

7 [the party opposing repatriation] establishes that . . . 

8 there is a grave risk that his or her return would expose 

9 the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise 

10 place the child in an intolerable situation.

11 1343 U.N.T.S. at 101. Under Article 20, repatriation also “may be 

12 refused if this would not be permitted by the fundamental 

13 principles of the requested State relating to the protection of 

14 human rights and fundamental freedoms.” Id.

15 The respondent parent opposing the return of the child has the 

16 burden of establishing “by clear and convincing evidence that one 

17 of the exceptions set forth in article 13b or 20 of the Convention 

18 applies.” 42 U.S.C. § 11603(e)(2)(A). Subsidiary facts may be 

19 proven by a preponderance of the evidence. See In re Lozano, 809 

20 F. Supp. 2d 197, 224 (S.D.N.Y. 2011). The district court is vested 

21 with considerable discretion under the Convention. Indeed, “even 

22 where the grounds for one of these ‘narrow’ exceptions have been 

23 established, the district court is not necessarily bound to allow 

24 the child to remain with the abducting parent.” Blondin II, 189 

25 F.3d at 246 n.4.
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1 B. Standard of Review

2 We review the district court’s interpretation of the 

3 Convention de novo and its factual determinations for clear error. 

4 Blondin v. Dubois (Blondin IV), 238 F.3d 153, 158 (2d Cir. 2001).

5 Our “review under the ‘clearly erroneous’ standard is significantly 

6 deferential.” Concrete Pipe & Prods. of Cal., Inc. v. Constr. 

7 Laborers Pension Trust for S. Cal., 508 U.S. 602, 623 (1993). We

8 must accept the trial court’s findings unless we have a “definite 

9 and firm conviction that a mistake has been committed.” Id. 

10 (quotation marks omitted).

11 C. Lee’s Article 13(b) defense

12 Lee contends that returning Shayan to Singapore would expose 

13 him to “a grave risk” of “physical or psychological harm” or 

14 “otherwise place him in an intolerable situation” and that the 

15 district court’s finding to the contrary was error. The harms he 

16 could face upon return, she asserts, are (1) exposure to spousal 

17 abuse; (2) direct abuse from his father; or (3) the loss of his 

18 mother. After carefully reviewing the record, we find that Lee’s 

19 arguments are permeated with conjecture and speculation and that 

20 there was no error in the district court’s determination that Lee 

21 had failed to meet her burden to establish the Article 13(b) 

22 defense.

23 Under Article 13(b), a grave risk of harm from repatriation 

24 arises in two situations: “(1) where returning the child means 
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1 sending him to a zone of war, famine, or disease; or (2) in cases 

2 of serious abuse or neglect, or extraordinary emotional dependence, 

3 when the court in the country of habitual residence, for whatever 

4 reason, may be incapable or unwilling to give the child adequate 

5 protection.” Blondin IV, 238 F.3d at 162 (quotation marks omitted). 

6 The potential harm to the child must be severe, and the “[t]he 

7 level of risk and danger required to trigger this exception has 

8 consistently been held to be very high.” Norden-Powers v. 

9 Beveridge, 125 F. Supp. 2d 634, 640 (E.D.N.Y. 2000) (citing cases). 

10 The grave risk involves not only the magnitude of the potential 

11 harm but also the probability that the harm will materialize. Van 

12 de Sande v. Van de Sande, 431 F.3d 567, 570 (7th Cir. 2005).

13 This “‘grave risk’ exception is to be interpreted narrowly, 

14 lest it swallow the rule.” Simcox v. Simcox, 511 F.3d 594, 604

15 (6th Cir. 2007); Blondin II, 189 F.3d at 246 (warning that 

16 permissive invocation of the affirmative defenses “would lead to 

17 the collapse of the whole structure of the Convention by depriving 

18 it of the spirit of mutual confidence which is its inspiration”

19 (quotation marks and citation omitted)).

20 1. Risk from exposure to spousal abuse

21 Many cases for relief under the Convention arise from a 

22 backdrop of domestic strife. Spousal abuse, however, is only 

23 relevant under Article 13(b) if it seriously endangers the child. 

24 The Article 13(b) inquiry is not whether repatriation would place 
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1 the respondent parent’s safety at grave risk, but whether so doing 

2 would subject the child to a grave risk of physical or 

3 psychological harm. Charalambous v. Charalambous, 627 F.3d 462, 

4 468 (1st Cir. 2010) (per curiam).

5 The exception to repatriation has been found where the 

6 petitioner showed a “sustained pattern of physical abuse and/or a 

7 propensity for violent abuse” that presented an intolerably grave 

8 risk to the child. Laguna v. Avila, No. 07-CV-5136 (ENV), 2008 WL 

9 1986253, at *8 (E.D.N.Y. May 7, 2008). Evidence of “[p]rior 

10 spousal abuse, though not directed at the child, can support the 

11 grave risk of harm defense,” Rial v. Rijo, No. 1:10-cv-01578-RJH, 

12 2010 WL 1643995, at *2 (S.D.N.Y. Apr. 23, 2010), as could a showing 

13 of the child’s exposure to such abuse, Elyashiv v. Elyashiv, 353 F.

14 Supp. 2d 394, 408 (E.D.N.Y. 2005). Evidence of this kind, however, 

15 is not dispositive in these fact-intensive cases.

16 Sporadic or isolated incidents of physical discipline directed 

17 at the child, or some limited incidents aimed at persons other than 

18 the child, even if witnessed by the child, have not been found to 

19 constitute a grave risk. See In re Filipczak, 838 F. Supp. 2d 174, 

20 180 (S.D.N.Y. 2011) (granting repatriation petition even though the 

21 child had witnessed one incident of spousal abuse as a two-year22 old); Rial, 2010 WL 1643995 at *2–3 (ordering return of child 

23 despite evidence that petitioner was verbally and sometimes 

24 physically abusive to respondent); Lachhman v. Lachhman, No. 08-CV-
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1 04363 (CPS), 2008 WL 5054198, at *9 (E.D.N.Y. Nov. 21, 2008) 

2 (concluding that evidence of petitioner’s previous arrest, but not 

3 conviction, on domestic abuse charges was insufficient to establish 

4 grave risk where there was no evidence that petitioner had ever 

5 harmed child). In this case, the district court found that, while 

6 Lee was subjected to domestic abuse on certain occasions – albeit 

7 less than she claimed, at no time was Shayan harmed or targeted.

8 We have held that Article 13(b) relief could be granted if

9 repatriation posed a grave risk of causing unavoidable 

10 psychological harm to the child. See Blondin IV, 238 F.3d at 160-

11 61 (affirming denial of petition to repatriate after an expert 

12 psychologist opined that returning the boy and girl to France, 

13 where they had been abused by their father, would likely trigger

14 recurrence of PTSD, and that no arrangement could mitigate this 

15 risk). The holding in Blondin IV depended on the fact, due to the 

16 nature of the potential harm at issue – recurrence of PTSD that 

17 would occur as soon as the children entered France – there was 

18 nothing the courts could do to prevent it. In this case, there is 

19 nothing in the record beyond speculation that Shayan would suffer 

20 unavoidable psychological harm if returned to Singapore. Neither 

21 party nor the guardian ad litem requested a psychological 

22 evaluation of the boy, and the guardian ad litem reported, after 

23 observing Shayan’s interactions with both parents and interviewing

24 him separately, that the boy appeared to be an active and happy 
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1 child, who seemed distressed about the difficulties between his 

2 parents. Shayan expressed unqualified love for both parents and 

3 indicated that he was never physically disciplined and never saw or 

4 heard either parent hit the other or try to hurt the other parent. 

5 These observations are consistent with the reports to the Singapore 

6 Subordinate Court by Singapore’s Centre for Family Harmony, which 

7 supervised and reported on Souratgar’s visits with the boy. In 

8 contrast, the girl in Blondin IV had herself been abused and 

9 expressed fear of her father.

10 The circuit court cases affirming denial of repatriation cited 

11 by Lee are distinguishable in that the petitioning parent had 

12 actually abused, threatened to abuse, or inspired fear in the 

13 children in question. See Khan v. Fatima, 680 F.3d 781, 787 (7th 

14 Cir. 2012) (daughter told social worker she was “scared” of her 

15 father); Simcox, 511 F.3d at 608 (father subjected children to 

16 “repeated beatings, hair pulling, ear pulling, and belt-whipping” 

17 and psychological abuse); Van de Sande, 431 F.3d at 570 (father 

18 spanked daughter and threatened to kill wife and children); Walsh 

19 v. Walsh, 221 F.3d 204, 221-22 (1st Cir. 2000) (one child diagnosed 

20 with PTSD as a result of physical abuse and father repeatedly 

21 violated court orders); Blondin II, 189 F.3d at 243 (father tied 

22 cord around daughter’s neck and threatened to kill mother and 

23 daughter); see also Baran v. Beaty, 526 F.3d 1340, 1346 (11th Cir. 

24 2008) (despite the absence of any evidence of past abuse of the 
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1 child by the father, the father was found to be frequently drunk, 

2 emotionally unstable, and to have threatened the child and verbally 

3 and physically abused the mother in the child’s presence); 

4 Danaipour v. McLarey, 286 F.3d 1, 5-8 (1st Cir. 2002) (father may 

5 have sexually abused the daughter). In distinguishing the 

6 foregoing cases, we do not mean to suggest that only evidence of 

7 past parental abuse of the child, past parental threats to the 

8 child or the child’s fear of a parent can establish a successful 

9 Article 13(b) defense. We only hold that in this case, the 

10 evidence, which does not match the showing in those cases, does not 

11 establish that the child faces a grave risk of physical or 

12 psychological harm upon repatriation.

13 Lee contends that the district court erred in discounting the 

14 likelihood that Shayan would be exposed to renewed domestic strife 

15 and suffer grievous psychological harm upon his return to Singapore. 

16 She also faults the district court for refusing to credit expert 

17 testimony characterizing Souratgar as having a coercive and 

18 controlling personality type with a tendency to hurt women and 

19 children. At the hearing, the district court heard the 

20 psychological expert testimony of Dr. B.J. Cling, who described 

21 abusive spouses of the “coercive control” type and of the 

22 “situational” type and placed Souratgar in the former category. 

23 The coercive control type is said to demand domination and control 

24 and grows more dangerous upon separation from the victim. On this 
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1 basis, Dr. Cling concluded that Souratgar still poses an “extreme 

2 danger” to Lee even though they had been estranged for more than a 

3 year. Dr. Cling’s assessment of Souratgar was based entirely on 

4 Lee’s answers to a survey, which the district court found to 

5 contain inaccuracies. The district court therefore discredited Dr. 

6 Cling’s conclusions. Our review of the record yields no basis for 

disagreement with the district court’s finding.

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7 For us to hold 

8 evidence of spousal conflict alone, without a clear and convincing 

9 showing of grave risk of harm to the child, to be sufficient to 

10 decline repatriation, would unduly broaden the Article 13(b) 

11 defense and undermine the central premise of the Convention: that 

12 wrongfully removed children be repatriated so that questions over 

13 their custody can be decided by courts in the country where they 

14 habitually reside. Simcox, 511 F.3d 594 at 604. Our holding today 

15 is not that abuse of the kind described by Lee can never entitle a 

16 respondent to an Article 13(b) defense; rather it depends on the 

 

5 In rejecting Dr. Cling’s “coercive control” analysis, the 

district court stated that the evidence did not “support any 

conclusion that petitioner is an obsessed or jilted lover who seeks 

to be reunited with respondent or prevent others from being with 

her.” Souratgar, 2012 WL 6700214, at *10. Although we find no 

error in the district court’s substantive treatment of Dr. Cling’s 

testimony, she did not testify that Souratgar was controlling 

because he had been “jilted.” The arguments of Lee and amici

regarding the risk of violence from a formerly abusive spouse do 

not depend on any such characterization, and we disclaim any 

suggestion that only a person dealing with an “obsessed or jilted 

lover” might face such a risk. As we have explained, however, we 

find no clear error in the district court’s finding that the facts 

here do not indicate a grave risk of harm to the child in this 

particular instance.
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1 district court’s finding that Shayan would not be in danger of 

2 being exposed to a grave risk of physical or psychological harm and 

3 that the Singapore court system has demonstrated its ability to 

4 adjudicate the dispute over his custody.

5 2. Risk of abuse by the father

6 Lee also contends that Shayan faces a direct risk of harm from 

7 his father, who, having been abusive to Lee, is also likely to turn 

8 on Shayan. In support of this assertion, amici cite the 

9 description of the “coercive control” type in the social science 

10 literature that draws certain correlations between perpetrators of 

11 spousal abuse and child abuse. However, given the problems with Dr. 

12 Cling’s methodology in type-casting Souratgar, the lack of any 

13 indicia of ill-will on the part of Souratgar toward Shayan, and 

14 contrary credited evidence of a loving father-son relationship, 

15 there is no clear and convincing showing in the record that the boy 

16 faces a grave risk of harm from his father.

17 3. “Grave risk” arising from loss of the mother 

18 Lee also posits various scenarios in which the boy would be 

19 deprived of his mother post-repatriation. She claims Souratgar may 

20 (a) resort to Syariah court proceedings in Singapore or Malaysia to 

21 win custody outright; (b) abscond with Shayan to Iran; or

22 (c) expose her to the charge of apostasy (leaving the Muslim faith), 

23 a religious crime punishable by death in her home country of 
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1 Malaysia. The district court dismissed these claims as lacking 

2 factual support.

3 As an initial matter, we cannot conclude that the prospect 

4 that one parent may lose custody of the child, post-repatriation, 

5 necessarily constitutes a grave risk to the child under the 

6 Convention. Since the Convention defers the determination of 

7 custody to courts in the country where the child habitually resides, 

8 it is quite conceivable that in some cases one or the other parent 

9 may lose legal custody after repatriation and be deprived of access 

10 to the child. Thus, the possible loss of access by a parent to the 

11 child does not constitute a grave risk of harm per se for Article 

12 13(b) purposes. See Charalambous, 627 F.3d at 469 (“[T]he impact 

13 of any loss of contact with the Mother is something that must be 

14 resolved by the courts of the Children’s habitual residence.”

15 (quotation marks omitted)). But even assuming that the prospect of 

16 the child losing his mother poses a grave risk to the child’s well17 being, there is no basis to disturb the district court’s finding

18 that Lee has not made a clear and convincing showing that any of 

19 the scenarios that she raised is likely to occur.

20 a. Loss of custody through Syariah Court 

21 proceedings 

22 Lee argues that Souratgar’s attainment of custody in a Syariah 

23 Court is preordained. The district court heard expert testimony 

24 that under Islamic law, a woman’s testimony may be entitled to less 

25 weight than a man’s and there are presumptions in custody 
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1 determinations that favor fathers over mothers and Muslims over 

2 non-Muslims. Lee has not shown, however, that the question of 

3 custody is likely to be decided by a Syariah Court upon 

4 repatriation, much less that such courts are predisposed to reach a 

5 certain outcome. If anything, the record is to the contrary. Lee

6 successfully obtained a dismissal of the order of the Malaysia 

7 Syariah Court, which had awarded the couple joint custody, for lack 

8 of jurisdiction. Furthermore, her aspersions on Syariah 

9 proceedings in Singapore are inconsistent with her consent in 

10 February 2012 to have custody decided by that court.

11 Moreover, the Singapore Syariah Court has pendant, not 

12 exclusive jurisdiction, to hear child custody matters among Muslim 

13 couples. By statute, divorce actions between individuals of the 

14 Muslim faith, a religious minority in Singapore, must be brought in 

15 the country’s Syariah Court. Administration of Muslim Law Act 

16 (“AMLA”) § 35(2)(b)(2013)(Sing.). But any party to a divorce 

17 proceeding before the Syariah Court may apply for leave to have 

18 custody decided by a secular court. Id. § 35A(1)&(2). And when 

19 both parties consent, they do not need to apply for leave in the 

20 Syariah Court to have custody matters decided in a secular court.

21 Id. § 35A(5)-(7). Souratgar has committed to pursue any custody 

22 proceedings, upon repatriation, in Singapore’s civil courts. Even 

23 if this undertaking is unenforceable, as Lee insists, she may still 

24 invoke it, as well as this Court’s decision, in any application to 
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1 transfer the custody determination from the Singapore Syariah Court 

2 under AMLA § 35A(1). In light of these options, we cannot fault 

3 the district court’s conclusion that Lee failed to make a 

4 sufficient showing that the question of custody will be decided by 

a Syariah Court.65

6 b. Risk of father’s flight to Iran

7 Lee also claims that Souratgar will abscond with Shayan to 

8 Iran to subvert the custody proceedings in Singapore. She 

9 testified that Souratgar has expressed a preference for Iranian 

10 military schooling for the boy, that he would like to take Shayan

11 to see the boy’s paternal grandparents in Iran, and that he has 

12 considered the possibility of relocating his business activity to 

13 that country. The district court, however, found no credible 

14 showing that Souratgar would abduct the boy to Iran or any other 

15 country in violation of a court order, and we discern no error in 

16 this finding. See Charalambous, 627 F.3d at 469 (denying relief 

17 under Article 13(b) where mother’s “subjective perception of a 

18 threat . . . was not corroborated by other evidence in the record”

19 (quotation marks omitted)); Walsh, 221 F.3d at 221 (granting relief 

20 after concluding that relying on courts to provide protection had 

21 “little chance of working” given the respondent’s history of 

22 violating court orders). We cannot fail to observe, moreover, that 

 

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Lee also claims that Souratgar schemed to deprive her of 

her Malaysian citizenship and jeopardize her ability to contest 

Shayan’s custody in Singapore. We have considered this argument 

and find it to be without merit. 
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1 unlike Lee, Souratgar has to date honored the legal requirements of 

2 the courts in Singapore.

3 c. Apostasy

4 Finally, Lee claims that Souratgar exposed her to being 

5 charged with apostasy, which she says, is a capital offense in 

6 Malaysia and thus created a “grave risk” that Shayan would lose his 

7 mother. This claim is based on the testimony of Yasmeen Hassan, 

8 Lee’s expert witness on Islamic law, who testified that apostasy is 

9 punishable by death in Malaysia. The claim distorts both the facts 

10 and law. Souratgar did not accuse Lee of leaving the faith. In 

11 his attempt to obtain access to Shayan in Malaysia, Souratgar filed 

12 an affidavit with Malaysia’s Syariah Court reporting that Lee had 

13 committed certain acts in violation of Islamic law, such as selling 

14 cakes containing alcohol online and attending church. Additionally, 

15 although punishment for those who abandon the Muslim faith has been 

16 debated in Malaysia, the national government has consistently 

17 blocked any formal implementation of rules concerning apostasy. 

18 See Kikue Hamayotsu, Once a Muslim, Always a Muslim: The Politics 

19 of State Enforcement of Syariah in Contemporary Malaysia, 20 S. E. 

20 Asia Research 399, 400 (2012); Abdullah Saeed & Hassan Saeed, 

21 Freedom of Religion, Apostasy and Islam 19 (2004). Hence, there is 

22 no indication that Lee could even be charged with apostasy in 

23 Malaysia, much less face the death penalty.
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1 D. Lee’s Article 20 defense

2 The Article 20 defense allows repatriation to be denied when 

3 it “would not be permitted by the fundamental principles of the 

4 requested State relating to the protection of human rights and 

5 fundamental freedoms.” U.S. State Dep’t, Hague International Child 

6 Abduction Convention: Text and Legal Analysis, Pub. Notice 957, 51 

7 Fed. Reg. 10,494, 10,510 (Mar. 26, 1986). The article is to be 

8 “restrictively interpreted and applied.” Id. Article 20 is a 

9 “unique formulation” that embodies a political compromise among the 

10 states that negotiated the Convention, which “might never have been 

11 adopted” otherwise. Id. The defense is to be invoked only on “the 

12 rare occasion that return of a child would utterly shock the 

13 conscience of the court or offend all notions of due process.” Id. 

14 It “is not to be used . . . as a vehicle for litigating custody on 

15 the merits or for passing judgment on the political system of the 

16 country from which the child was removed.” Id. We note that this 

17 defense has yet to be used by a federal court to deny a petition 

18 for repatriation. Fed. Jud. Ctr., The 1980 Hague Convention on the 

19 Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction: A Guide for Judges

20 85 (2012).

21 In urging the Article 20 exception in this case, Lee insists 

22 broadly that Syariah Courts are incompatible with the principles 

23 “relating to the protection of human rights and fundamental 

24 freedoms” of this country. While this general assertion might find 
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1 sympathy among some in this country as a political statement, we 

2 decline to make this categorical ruling as a legal matter. 

3 Moreover, Lee has failed to show that the issue of custody is 

4 likely to be litigated before Singapore’s Syariah Court. Given 

5 that failure, we are not inclined to conclude simply that the

6 presence of a Syariah Court in a foreign state whose accession to 

7 the Convention has been recognized by the United States is per se

violative of “all notions of due process.”

7

8 51 Fed. Reg. 10,510

9 (Mar. 26, 1986).

10 We are also mindful of the need for comity, as “[t]he careful 

11 and thorough fulfillment of our treaty obligations stands not only 

12 to protect children abducted to the United States, but also to 

13 protect American children abducted to other nations-whose courts, 

14 under the legal regime created by this treaty, are expected to 

15 offer reciprocal protection.” Blondin II, 189 F.3d at 242. In the 

16 exercise of comity, “we are required to place our trust in the 

17 court of the home country to issue whatever orders may be necessary 

18 to safeguard children who come before it.” Id. at 248-49; cf.

19 Carrascosa v. McGuire, 520 F.3d 249, 261-63 (3d Cir. 2008)

20 (criticizing a Spanish court for construing an agreement not to 

21 take child out of the United States without the consent of both 

 

7 Indeed, such a holding would contradict the State Department’s 

view expressed upon Singapore’s accession as a bilateral partner 

under the Convention last year, that Singapore is a “role model” 

among states in the region. United States and Singapore become 

Hague Abduction Convention Partners, U.S. Dep’t of State, May 3, 

2012, http://www.state.gov/r/pa/prs/ps/2012/05/189236.htm.
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1 parents as violating fundamental rights under the Spanish 

2 Constitution for citizens to travel and choose their place of 

3 residence and using Article 20 to justify denial of repatriation).

4 For all of the above reasons, we conclude that the district 

5 court did not err in rejecting Lee’s Article 20 defense.

6 III. Conclusion

7 We have considered all of Lee’s remaining arguments and find 

8 them to be without merit. For the foregoing reasons, the district 

9 court’s grant of Souratgar’s petition for his son’s repatriation is 

10 AFFIRMED.