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2022 IL App (2d) 210151 

No. 2-21-0151 

Opinion filed June 24, 2022 

IN THE 

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS 

SECOND DISTRICT 

THE PEOPLE OF THE STATE ) Appeal from the Circuit Court 

OF ILLINOIS, ) of Winnebago County. 

) 

Plaintiff-Appellee, ) 

) 

v. ) No. 19-CM-1026 

) 

MATHEW JOHN GRABOW, ) Honorable 

) Jennifer J. Clifford, 

Defendant-Appellant. ) Judge, Presiding. 

JUSTICE HUDSON delivered the judgment of the court, with opinion. 

Justices Hutchinson and Brennan concurred in the judgment and opinion. 

OPINION 

¶ 1 Defendant, Matthew John Grabow, was charged with domestic battery (720 ILCS 5/12-

3.2(a)(2) (West 2018)) for striking his girlfriend, Yasmin L. El Said, on the face as she continued 

talking on defendant’s cell phone after he asked her to give him the phone. A jury found defendant 

guilty, and the trial court sentenced him to 12 months of conditional discharge. At issue on appeal 

is whether defense counsel was ineffective for failing to tender a defense-of-property instruction. 

We determine that counsel was not ineffective. Accordingly, we affirm. 

¶ 2 I. BACKGROUND 

¶ 3 The State’s information charging defendant with domestic battery alleged: 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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“That on the 16th day of April, 2019, *** [defendant] committed *** DOMESTIC 

BATTERY, in that the defendant knowingly or intentionally made physical contact of an 

insulting or provoking nature with [El Said], a family member or a household member of 

said defendant, in that the said defendant struck [El Said].” 

¶ 4 Before the trial began, the parties tendered their proposed jury instructions to the trial court. 

Defense counsel submitted one instruction, which directed the jury not to consider in any way the 

fact that defendant did not testify. The defense did not tender a defense-of-property instruction. 

¶ 5 The State filed a motion under section 115-7.4 of the Code of Criminal Procedure of 1963 

(725 ILCS 5/115-7.4 (West 2018)), seeking to present evidence of two prior domestic batteries 

involving defendant. The court allowed the State to present evidence of a September 24, 2016, 

domestic battery that involved defendant and El Said. 

¶ 6 Evidence presented at trial revealed that defendant and El Said had been in a relationship 

for almost nine years. On April 16, 2019, they lived in an old multistory farmhouse in Rockford. 

El Said spent that day cleaning the house and opening the windows to let fresh air in, as it was the 

first nice spring day in the area. Because it was such a nice day, El Said called upstairs to defendant 

and asked him if he wanted to go outside with her. Defendant came downstairs, and the couple sat 

together on the den couch. While they sat in the den, defendant commented that he was “God’s 

gift to [El Said] or the best thing that ever happened to [her].” El Said—who disagreed—made a 

“ ‘pfft’ ” sound, defendant became angry, and a verbal argument ensued. Defendant threatened 

El Said’s family, and El Said—who “had *** asked [defendant] for permission to use his 

phone”—called her older sister, Sarah Romanovich. 

¶ 7 El Said testified that she called Romanovich to tell her that defendant had threatened the 

family and that El Said would be unable to contact them anymore. El Said put Romanovich on the 

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phone’s speaker, but she took her off speaker when it became clear that Romanovich’s 

conversation with defendant was only aggravating the situation. Defendant, who was standing by 

the entrance to the den, then asked El Said for his phone back. El Said said no because she was 

talking to Romanovich. Defendant then “charge[d]” toward El Said. He stood an arm’s length 

away from El Said, who was still sitting on the couch, and “[El Said] ended up with a smack on 

[her] face under [her] cheekbone and the phone and [her] glasses [went] flying across the room.” 

El Said, who described the incident as happening very quickly, testified that “[t]here was some 

force that caused me to drop [the phone]—that is all I remember. I don’t remember where his hand 

or whatever contacted my arm, but there was some force to cause me to drop the phone.” When 

asked, “So you can’t say with 100 percent certainty that he even hit your face,” El Said responded, 

“No, he hit my face, 100 percent. That was the first contact was the sting to my face. After that 

was the motion of my arm and the contact with—.” El Said was also asked if “defendant [was] just 

grabbing for the phone that day.” She replied, “If that was his intention, he still hit my face.” 

El Said testified that she asked defendant for her glasses. Defendant picked up his phone from the 

floor and put it on a counter. 

¶ 8 El Said also testified about the September 24, 2016, domestic battery. On that occasion, 

they argued and defendant “blamed [her] for something [she] supposedly [did].” He was angry and 

swore at her. She was sitting on a couch in their home, and he was “hovering above [her].” He 

“smacked” and spit on her as she sat on the couch. 

¶ 9 Romanovich testified that El Said sounded “[p]anicked [and] sad” when she called her. 

“[El Said] seemed very concerned, which made [Romanovich] very concerned.” Romanovich 

explained that she was “extremely” worried about El Said’s safety. 

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¶ 10 As she was talking to El Said, Romanovich heard defendant very clearly. Defendant was 

“[i]rate, agitated, [and] angry.” He was yelling and directing “vulgar terms” at Romanovich, which 

made Romanovich feel threatened. (She admitted that she currently disliked defendant.) When 

defendant began addressing her, she addressed him back. However, she believed that this further 

agitated defendant because she heard defendant running toward the phone. The “next thing [she 

heard] *** was almost like the phone was being smacked” or a “skin-on-skin slap.” Romanovich 

described the sound as “very loud.” Next, she heard El Said scream, yell, and “yelp like she was 

crying.” Romanovich then “heard the phone smack and chaos.” After the loud smack sound, 

Romanovich heard the phone drop and then heard nothing. She called her local police department, 

who put her in contact with the Rockford police. 

¶ 11 Rockford police officer Ryan Terranova testified that he responded to a domestic 

disturbance and welfare check at the couple’s home. Officer Terranova saw El Said when she 

opened the door. He did not immediately see defendant. El Said was “visibly upset.” Her eyes 

were red, watery, and puffy; she was out of breath. She told Officer Terranova that she was afraid. 

Although Officer Terranova observed no physical injury to El Said, he explained that not every 

slap to the face causes physical injuries. When defendant saw El Said talking to Officer Terranova, 

defendant began yelling from across the room. He was agitated and upset. He yelled that “[n]o 

crime had been committed.” Defendant told Officer Terranova that “[h]e heard her [presumably 

El Said] calling him evil, so he took the phone and said that when he took the phone, her glasses 

fell off, and then he went upstairs.” 

¶ 12 Defense counsel moved for a directed verdict, arguing that the State failed to establish that 

defendant knowingly made physical contact with El Said when he tried to grab his phone. See 720 

ILCS 5/12-3.2(a)(2) (West 2018) (“(a) A person commits domestic battery if he or she knowingly 

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without legal justification by any means *** (2) Makes physical contact of an insulting or 

provoking nature with any family or household member.”). The trial court denied the motion. The 

State rested. After the court admonished defendant about his right to testify, defendant decided not 

to testify and presented no evidence. The court asked the parties if they needed to address any 

additional jury instructions, and defense counsel said no. 

¶ 13 In closing, the State addressed what it meant to “knowingly” make physical contact. The 

State asserted, “And we know it was done knowingly because the defendant walked up to [El Said] 

and slapped her.” 

¶ 14 In its closing, defense counsel stated, "If it was [defendant’s] intention to grab the phone, 

I don’t know. Those are the words from Ms. El Said as she sat and testified.” Counsel stated that 

defendant “was grabbing his phone” and that he “had no intention of striking Ms. El Said. He did 

not knowingly strike Ms. El Said. He was reaching for a phone.” 

¶ 15 After closing arguments, the trial court instructed the jury. However, the court did not give 

the jury a defense-of-property instruction. 

¶ 16 The jury found defendant guilty. Defendant moved for a new trial, and the trial court denied 

that motion.

1

 This timely appeal followed. 

¶ 17 II. ANALYSIS 

1

In the motion for a new trial, defense counsel argued that the trial court erred in refusing 

to give the “following” jury instructions. No instructions followed. The State replied, noting that 

defendant’s allegations concerning the jury instructions lacked specificity. When the trial court 

denied the motion, it noted that it did not know which jury instructions defense counsel was 

referencing in the motion. 

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¶ 18 Defendant argues that defense counsel was ineffective for failing to tender a defense-ofproperty jury instruction. 

¶ 19 “In determining whether a defendant was denied the effective assistance of counsel, we 

apply the familiar two-prong test set forth in Strickland v. Washington, 466 U.S. 668 (1984), and 

adopted by our supreme court in People v. Albanese, 104 Ill. 2d 504 (1984).” People v. Falco, 

2014 IL App (1st) 111797, ¶ 14. “To prevail on a claim of ineffective assistance of counsel, a 

defendant must show [(1)] that counsel’s performance was deficient and [(2)] that the deficient 

performance prejudiced the defendant such that he was deprived of a fair trial.” Id. In proving 

deficient performance, “ ‘[t]he defendant ‘must overcome the strong presumption that counsel’s 

action or inaction was the result of sound trial strategy.’ ” People v. Bustos, 2020 IL App (2d) 

170497, ¶ 86 (quoting People v. Perry, 224 Ill. 2d 312, 341-42 (2007)). “To establish prejudice, 

the defendant must show a reasonable probability that, absent counsel’s alleged error, the trial’s 

outcome would have been different.” Falco, 2014 IL App (1st) 111797, ¶ 14. “ ‘A reasonable 

probability of a different result is not merely a possibility of a different result.’ ” Id. (quoting 

People v. Evans, 209 Ill. 2d 194, 220 (2004)). “If the defendant fails to establish either prong, his 

ineffective assistance claim must fail.” Id. Because “the facts relevant to [defendant’s] ineffective 

assistance of counsel claim are not disputed, our review is de novo.” Id. 

¶ 20 Defendant’s ineffectiveness claim concerns the failure to tender a jury instruction. “ ‘[A] 

defendant is entitled to an instruction as to any recognized defense for which there exists evidence 

sufficient for a reasonable jury to find in his favor.’ ” People v. Everette, 141 Ill. 2d 147, 156 

(1990) (quoting Mathews v. United States, 485 U.S. 58, 63 (1988)). However, “counsel’s choice 

of jury instructions, and the decision to rely on one theory of defense to the exclusion of others, is 

a matter of trial strategy.” Falco, 2014 IL App (1st) 111797, ¶ 16. “ ‘Such decisions enjoy a strong 

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presumption that they reflect sound trial strategy, rather than incompetence’ and, therefore, are 

‘generally immune from claims of ineffective assistance of counsel.’ ” Id. (quoting People v. Enis, 

194 Ill. 2d 361, 378 (2000)). That said, “the failure to request a particular jury instruction may be 

grounds for finding ineffective assistance of counsel if the instruction was so critical to the defense 

that its omission den[ied] the right of the accused to a fair trial.” (Internal quotation marks omitted.) 

Id. 

¶ 21 Defendant claims that his counsel should have sought a defense-of-property instruction, 

which is an affirmative defense (People v. Bausch, 2019 IL App (3d) 170001, ¶ 22). An 

affirmative-defense instruction is proper even if slight supporting evidence was presented at trial. 

Id.; see also People v. Alexander, 250 Ill. App. 3d 68, 76 (1993). 

¶ 22 When a defendant raises an affirmative defense, the State must prove beyond a reasonable 

doubt the elements of the charged offense and disprove beyond a reasonable doubt the affirmative 

defense. Bausch, 2019 IL App (3d) 170001, ¶¶ 21-22; see also People v. Cruz, 2021 IL App (1st) 

190132, ¶ 42. Thus, if defendant had raised an affirmative defense to the domestic-battery charge 

here, the State would have had to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that defendant knowingly, 

without legal justification, made physical contact of an insulting or provoking nature with a family 

or household member. 720 ILCS 5/12-3.2(a)(2) (West 2018). If defendant had claimed defense of 

property as that legal justification, the State would need to disprove beyond a reasonable doubt 

that defendant was “justified in the use of force against [El Said] when and to the extent that he 

reasonably believe[d] that such conduct [was] necessary to prevent or terminate [El Said’s] 

trespass on or other tortious or criminal interference with *** [his] personal property, lawfully in 

his possession.” See id. § 7-3(a). 

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¶ 23 “[T]o justify the use of force, [a defendant] must reasonably believe (a) *** that his 

personal property is in immediate danger of unlawful trespass or carrying away, and (b) that the 

use of force is necessary to avoid this danger.” 2 Wayne R. LaFave, Substantive Criminal Law 

§ 10.6, at 165-66 (2d ed. 2003). “Even when [a defendant] entertains these reasonable beliefs, 

however, he may not use more than reasonable force ***.” Id. at 166. These same rules apply 

when a defendant seeks to regain possession of his personal property from another. Id. at 171. 

(“[A] momentary advantage obtained by the supposed wrongdoer does not alter the rules on 

defense of property; where force is allowed to defend property, similar force may be used to regain 

possession promptly after its loss.”). That is, the defendant “may resort to reasonable nondeadly 

force to repossess his property if he acts immediately after the dispossession.” Id. at 170. 

¶ 24 Here, even if we presume that El Said’s permission to use the phone terminated when 

defendant asked for it (see Valor Insurance Co. v. Torres, 303 Ill. App. 3d 554, 556-58 (1999) 

(permission that insured’s friend had to drive insured’s truck was revoked when insured simply 

asked friend “ ‘not to take [his] truck anywhere’ ”)), we cannot conclude that evidence that 

defendant might have been grabbing for the phone when he hit El Said was “slight” evidence 

warranting a defense-of-property instruction (People v. Taylor, 233 Ill. App. 3d 461, 465 (1992) 

(“While even slight evidence which supports the underlying theory of defense warrants the giving 

of [an] *** instruction, mere speculation will not.”)). 

¶ 25 Further evidence revealed that defendant asked El Said for his phone after she took 

Romanovich off the speaker, and El Said said no. Even if defendant struck El Said to retrieve his 

phone, the phone was not in immediate danger of unlawful trespass, carrying away, or other 

tortious or criminal interference. Force was unnecessary to avoid the danger of El Said’s 

continuing discussion with Romanovich on defendant’s phone. When defendant struck El Said, 

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she was seated on the couch in the couple’s home. Nothing suggested that she would leave or do 

anything with the phone that would prevent defendant’s later use. 

¶ 26 Moreover, the evidence suggested that defendant did not ask for his phone because he was 

concerned about an unlawful trespass or tortious interference. Defendant, who had been arguing 

with Romanovich, heard El Said call defendant “evil.” This remark, not defendant’s concern about 

possession of his phone, prompted defendant to ask for his phone and strike El Said’s face where 

she was holding the phone. After El Said dropped the phone, defendant did not leave with it. 

Rather, he picked it up and placed it on a counter—within easy reach of El Said—and went 

upstairs. 

¶ 27 Finally, the force defendant used to retrieve his phone was excessive. He struck El Said 

with such force that (1) she dropped the phone, (2) her glasses flew off her face, (3) she began 

crying heavily, and (4) she became afraid. This force was unnecessary to avoid the danger of 

El Said continuing to talk to Romanovich on defendant’s phone in the couple’s home. 

¶ 28 The fact that the evidence does not suggest that defendant struck El Said in defense of his 

phone is fatal to any conclusion that counsel’s failure to tender a defense-of-property instruction 

constituted deficient performance. Even if counsel could have raised a defense-of-property 

affirmative defense, not raising it was a sound decision. See People v. Kyse, 220 Ill. App. 3d 971, 

974 (1991) (“[D]efense counsel, in an exercise of judgment and trial strategy, chose not to raise 

the affirmative defense of voluntary intoxication, although such defense could have been raised.”). 

Also, defendant was not prejudiced when counsel failed to tender a defense-of-property 

instruction. The evidence of defendant’s guilt was so strong that the jury’s verdict would not have 

changed even if the court had given a defense-of-property instruction. People v. Maclin, 2014 IL 

App (1st) 110342, ¶ 39; People v. Flores, 269 Ill. App. 3d 196, 207 (1995). Moreover, raising 

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defense of property would have arguably harmed, rather than helped, defendant’s case. In 

disproving a defense-of-property claim, the State might very well have highlighted defendant’s 

previous battering of El Said under similar circumstances. Moreover, the State might also have 

highlighted that defendant used excessive force. El Said was not going anywhere with defendant’s 

phone when he forcefully slapped her. See People v. Edmondson, 2018 IL App (1st) 151381, ¶ 43 

(“ ‘[A] rule that counsel should argue all available defenses as a matter of course would make 

many clients worse off,’ since ‘a defendant who advances an inconsistent argument may shoot 

himself in the foot by implicitly conceding part of the prosecution’s case, or by making the defense 

seem unprincipled.’ ” (quoting Wilson v. United States, 414 F.3d 829, 831 (7th Cir. 2005))). 

¶ 29 As a final matter, we comment briefly on the public policy concerns of this case. Based on 

the facts presented here, if we were to conclude that a defendant could strike a domestic partner 

merely to obtain possession of the defendant’s personal property—which the domestic partner had 

permission to use—we would be condoning the use of violent actions in situations that are already 

quite volatile. In our view, the defense-of-property affirmative defense was not intended to be 

applied in cases like this. 

¶ 30 III. CONCLUSION 

¶ 31 For the reasons stated, we affirm the judgment of the circuit court of Winnebago County. 

¶ 32 Affirmed. 

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Decision Under Review: Appeal from the Circuit Court of Winnebago County, No. 19-

CM-1026; the Hon. Jennifer J. Clifford, Judge, presiding. 

Attorneys James E. Chadd, Thomas A. Lilien, and Zachary Wallace, of 

for State Appellate Defender’s Office, of Elgin, for appellant. 

Appellant: 

Attorneys J. Hanley, State’s Attorney, of Rockford (Patrick Delfino, 

for Edward R. Psenicka, and Max C. Boose, of State’s Attorneys 

Appellee: Appellate Prosecutor’s Office, of counsel), for the People. 

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