COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Present: Judges Humphreys , Beales and Senior Judge Clements Argued at Richmond, Virginia

SELENA GUDINO MEMORANDUM OPINION * BY v. Record No. 0068

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- 2 JUDGE ROBERT J. HUMPHREYS NOVEMBER 1, 2011 DENNIS GUDINO

FROM TH E CIRCUIT COURT OF CHESTERFIELD COUNTY T imothy J. Hauler , Judge Jonathan W. Ware (Freshfields Bruckhaus Deringer US LLP, on brief s ), for appellant. Charles E. Powers ( Terrence R. Batzli ; Batzli Wood & Stiles, PC , on brief), for appellee.
Amicus Cur iae : Domestic Violence Legal Empowerment and Appeals Project, Justice for Children, National Coalition Ag ainst Domestic Violence, and Leadership Council on Child Abuse and Interp ersonal Violence (Carter B. Simpson; Jo a n Meier ; Eli zabeth Liu; SNR Denton, U S LLP; George Washington University Law School, on brief), for appellant. No brief or argument by Louise A. Moore, Guardian ad litem for the children.
Selena Gudino (“mother”) appeals an order from the Circuit Court of Chesterfield County (“circuit cou rt”), dated December 9, 2010, awarding primary physical custody of her three children
to D ennis Gudino (“father”), who resides in Tokyo, Japan. 1 Mother specifically maintains on appeal that the circuit court erred (1) in finding that the best interests of the children were served in

* Pursuant to Code § 17.1

- 413, this opinion is not designated for publication.

1 Three ch ildren were born of the marriage: E.G., born October 1, 2000, E.X.G., born October 23, 2001, and E.A.G., born August 1, 2004.- 2

- the custody of father, (2) in reappointing Dr. Michele Nelson as a custody evaluator for the children and in ordering mother to pay the entire fee for an independent evaluator, (3) in imposing excessive visitation costs on mot her, (4) in appointing a guardian ad litem for the children without the evidence o r findings required to do so, and (5) in requiring mother to pay half of the guardian ad litem ’s fee. For the reasons that follow, we affirm the court below.
I. Analysis
A. Best Interests of the Children Mother first contends on appeal that the circuit court erred in finding it is in the best interests of the children to be placed in the custody of father. Mother specifically contends the circuit court erred in ( 1 ) disreg arding evidence of family abuse and father’s adverse mental history, ( 2 ) making findings as to the mental condition of the parents as well as to the children’s preferences without evidence to support them, ( 3 ) making findings as to the intellectual needs o f the children contrary to the decision of both parents, and ( 4 ) failing to consider the past history of the parents in parenting and making findings not supported by the evidence. Standard of Review and Governing Legal Principles

“‘ In all child custody c ases . . . the best interests of the child are paramount and form the lodestar for the guidance of the court in determining the dispute.’” Bottoms v. Bottoms , 249 Va. 410, 413, 457 S.E.2d 102, 104 (1995) (quoting Bailes v. Sours , 231 Va. 96, 99, 340 S.E.2 d 824, 826 (1986)). “When the trial court hears the evidence ore tenus , its findings are entitled to the weight accorded a jury verdict,” and those findings should not be disturbed on appeal unless “plainly wrong or without evidence to support them.” Id. at 414, 457 S.E.2d at 104

- 05 (citing Bailes , 231 Va. at 100, 340 S.E.2d at 827). “ [A] s long as the evidence in the record supports the trial court’s ruling and the trial court has not abused its discretion, its ruling must be affirmed on appeal.” Brown v. Brown , 30 Va. App. 532, 538, 518 S.E.2d 336, 338 (1999) (citation omitted). Moreover, “[a]bsent- 3

- clear evidence to the contrary in the record, the judgment of a trial court comes to an appellate court with a presumption that the law was correctly applie d to the facts.” Bottoms , 249 Va. at 41 4 , 457 S.E.2d at 10 5 (citing Yarborough v. Commonwealth , 217 Va. 971, 978, 234 S.E.2d 286, 291 (1977)). The thrust of several of mother’s assignments of error is essentially that this C ourt should give greater weigh t to her testimony and that of her witnesses than the circuit court did

. However,

a n appellate court does not make its own factual findings; rather, “the appellate court should view the facts in the light most favorable to the party prevailing before the trial court.” Id. “Code § 20

- 124.3 lists ten factors a trial court must consider when deciding the best interests of a child for determining custody and visitation of a child. The statute concludes by directing that the trial court ‘communicate to the p arties the basis of [its] decision either orally or in writing.’” Artis v. Jones , 52 Va. App. 356, 363, 663 S.E.2d 521, 524 (2008) (quoting Code § 20

- 124.3). 2 “We

2 Code § 20

- 124.3 provides, [i]n determining best interests of a child for purposes of determining custody or visitation arrange ments including any pendente lite orders pursuant to § 20

- 103, the court shall consider the following: 1. The age and physical and mental condition of the child, giving due consideration to the child’ s changing developmental needs; 2. The age and p hysical and mental condition of each parent; 3. The relationship existing between each parent and each child, giving due consideration to the positive involvement with the child ’ s life, the ability to accurately assess and meet the emotional, intellect ual and physical needs of the child; 4. The needs of the child, giving due consideration to other important relationships of the child, including but not limited to siblings, peers and extended family members; 5. The role that each parent has playe d and will play in the future, in the upbringing and care of the child;- 4

- have interpreted this statute as ‘requir[ing] the trial court to identify the fundamental, predominating reason or reasons underlying its decision.’” Id. (quoting Kane v. Szymczak , 41 Va. App. 365,
372

- 73, 585 S.E.2d 349, 353 (2003 )). “‘While communicating the “basis” of the decision does not rise to the level of providing comprehensive findin gs of fact and conclusions of law, it does mean that the trial court must provide more to the parties than boilerplate language or a perfunctory statement that the statutory factors have been considered.’” Id. (quoting Lanzalotti v. Lanzalotti , 41 Va. App . 550, 555, 586 S.E.2d 881, 883 (2003)). “‘ A s long as the trial court examines the factors, it is not required to quantify or elaborate exactly what weight or consideration it has given to each of the statutory factors.’” Vissicchio v. Vissicchio , 27 Va. App. 240, 24 6, 498 S.E.2d 425, 428 (1998) (quoting Sargent v. Sargent , 20 Va. App. 694, 702, 460 S.E.2d 596, 599 (1995)). If the circuit court’s findings are supported by evidence in the record, this Court will affirm. Id.

6. The propensity of each paren t to actively support the child’ s contact and relationship with the other parent, including whether a parent has unreasonably denied the other paren t access to or visitation with the child; 7. The relative willingness and demonstrated ability of each parent to maintain a close and continuing relationship with the child, and the ability of each parent to cooperate in and resolve disputes regarding matters affecting the child; 8. The reasonable preference of the child, if the court deems the child to be of reasonable intelligence, understanding, age and experience to express such a preference; 9. Any history of family abuse as that term is de fi ned in § 16.1

- 228 or sexual abuse. If the court finds such a history, the court may disregard the factors in subdivision 6; and 10. Such other factors as the court deems necessary and proper to the determination. The judge shall communicate to the p arties the basis of the decisi on either orally or in writing.- 5

- 1. The C ircuit C ourt’s Alleg ed D isregard of F amily A buse Mother argues on appeal that the circuit court abused its discretion in disregarding the history of family abuse she endured during the marriage. Code § 20

- 124.3(9) requires the trial court to consider “any history of famil y abuse as that term is defined in § 16.1

- 228 or sexual abuse. If the court finds such a history, the court may disregard the factors in subdivision 6 .

. . .”

“ Family abuse” means any act involving violence, force, or threat that results in bodily inju ry or places one in reasonable apprehension of death, sexual assault, or bodily injury and that is committed by a person against such person ’ s family or household member. Such act includes, but is not limited to, any forceful detention, stalking, criminal sexual assault in violation of Article 7 (§ 18.2

- 61 et seq.) of Chapter 4 of Title 18.2, or any criminal offense that results in bodily injury or places one in reasonable apprehension of death, sexual assault, or bodily injury. Code § 16.1

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. In render ing its decision, the circuit court considered each and every one of the factors contained in Code § 20

- 124.3. In considering factor 9, “[a]ny history of family abuse as that term is defined in § 16.1

- 228 or sexu al abuse,” the court reasoned, the evidenc e that I have heard today is in conflict and inconclusive. If all of this abuse happened as you testified to, ma’am, I’m shocked that there is not any corroborative evidence of it. If it did occur then I think Mr. Gudino has done a superb job in covering it up and excusing it .

. . it could have been a pivotal factor in this case, but the evidence is in conflict and is in conclusive in the view of this Court. Mother asserts this finding is plainly wrong, especially since her friends and family members, a
f ormer therapist, and even Dr. Nelson expressly stated that mother suffered abuse from father

. Even viewing the facts in the light most favorable to father, it is clear this couple had a volatile and, at times, physically violent history together. Mothe r testified to, and m other’s friends and family corroborated , several instances of abuse , and father did not deny his tendency to yell and- 6

- scream at mother and the children. Dr. McRae observed father and mother during eight counseling sessions in Japan, a nd noted that father was verbally abusive toward mother, that father had anger management issues , and that he used his anger and finances to control mother. Mother testified to five different physical altercations in which father would pull mother’s hair and push her to the ground. Father admitted that he hit mother “four to five times.” However, f ather also testified that mother often hit him and stated he only hit her if she hit him first. It is uncontested that on one occasion , mother hit father with a tea cup, causing a gash in father’s head that required stitches. Mother conceded that she often “lost control” with the kids and she would lock them out of the house. She admitted that she slapped E.G. across the face. Thus, contrary to mother’s asse rtion, the record suggests that both parties were mutually abusive to each other and the children , and the marriage was turbulent. While mother’s evidence indicated a number of instances of verbal and physical abuse, in order to constitute “family abuse,” there must be evidence , which the trial court finds credible , that the abusive conduct “ results in bodily injury or places one in reasonable apprehension of death, sexual assault, or bodily injury .” Code § 16.1

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. All facts pertaining to the allegatio n of family abuse were before the circuit court , and it appears from the record that the

court did consider them. The court simply gave greater weight to the testimony of father

. T hat finding is not plainly wrong or without evidence to support it and , th erefore , it is binding on this
Court

. T he circuit court did not, th us , err in failing to consider the couple’s history of family abuse.
2. The Circuit Court’s Findings as to the Mental Condition of the Parents and the Children’s Preferences Mother ne xt assigns error to the circuit court’s consideration of the children’s preferences and in concluding they prefer to reside with father. Mother also contends the circuit court failed to consider husband’s mental condition in rendering its decision.- 7

- In it s ruling from the bench, the circuit court addressed each and every one of the issues contained in Code § 20

- 124.3. In addressing “factor 8 , the reasonable preferences of the child,” the court stated, “I only have the testimony of Dr. Nelson, if those are accurate, the children prefer being with the father.” However, Dr. Nelson’s second report to the circuit court , dated July 11, 2010, indicated that none of the children have a preference for where they will live. Dr. Nelson also did not testify at trial to any particular preference on the part of the children and explained the children would simply like to have a final decision in the matter. The circuit court’s finding that the children prefer to live with father is, thus, plainly wrong and without evi dence to support it. Nevertheless, the circuit court was simply required to consider each and every one of the factors contained in Code § 20

- 124.3. It was not required to give any particular weight to these factors or to quantify them in any way. And, since nothing in the record suggests that this factor was pivotal to the court’s custody decision, any such error in the court’s factual finding with respect to the children’s preferences is harmless. See King v. Cooley , 274 Va. 374, 379, 650 S.E.2d 523, 526 (2007) ( “ Under the doctrine of harmless error, we will affirm the circuit court ’ s judgment when we can conclude that the error at issue could not have affected the [result]. ” ). With respect to factor 2, “the age and physical and mental condition of ea ch parent,” the circuit court opined, “mental condition also includes emotional. And based upon the evidence presented .

. . the court finds that there are significant emotional problems that may exist with [mother], in that regard factor 2 militates in f avor of the [father].” Mother suggests that the circuit court failed to properly consider this factor because it made no mention of father’s history of psychiatric hospitalization, his suicidal ideations or his rage issues. While it is true that “custody and visitation proceedings require courts to consider the mental health of the parties ,” Schwartz v. Schwartz , 46 Va. App. 145, 153, 616 S.E.2d 59, 64 (2005) (emphasis added), father’s history of psychiatric hospitalization, his suicidal ideations , and hi s anger management issues were presented to the circuit court , and there is no- 8

- evidence that the court did not consider them. The mere fact that the court did not mention the particularities of father’s mental condition is of no moment. The circuit court expressly considered factor 2 as required and simply gave greater weight to mother’s delicate emotional state, for which the record contained sufficient evidence , than it gave to father’s mental health issues . The circuit court did not, therefore, abuse its discretion in i ts consideration of factors 2 and 8.
3. The Circuit Court’s Findings as to the Intellectual Needs of the Children Mother next alleges the circuit court erred in its findings on factor 3, each parent’s “ability to accurately assess and meet the emotional, intellectual and physical needs of the child.” Specifically, mother contends the circuit court’s finding is “contrary to the decision of both parties” to place the children in the Waldorf School, and it violates mother’s fundamental co nstitutional right to make decisions about raising her children. To begin with, mother did not make any constitutional objection to the court’s ruling in the circuit court . For that reason , her constitutional objection is not properly preserved for appea l. See Rule 5A:18. With respect to the parties’ decision to place the children in the Waldorf School during the parties’ separation in 2007, father testified that he agreed to the children’s placement in that school to increase the possibility of a recon ciliation with mother. Father reported to Dr. Nelson that he and mother had actually discussed a wide range of educational options for the children and he objected to their attendance at the Waldorf School upon the parties’ final separation. Indeed, the Waldorf School is admittedly unaccredited, it does not utilize any electronic equipment necessary to modern education such as computers, printers, television or video equipment, it does not utilize any textbooks (the children make their own textbooks) , and it does not test or grade the children to provide valuable feedback on their learning accomplishments

. Dr. Nelson was very thorough in her discussion of the children’s education in Japan. She explained that E.G. is having a difficult time catching up wi th the curriculum in Japan, given the fact that she missed an entire school year in 2007, but she is improving rapidly. Although E.G.- 9

- reported that she finds school in Japan to be very hard, she has many friends and is very social. E.X.G. is doing very w ell at school and appears to be thriving. Whereas he was out of control in his early years, he is now obedient and he appears to enjoy a level of popularity with his teachers and the other children. He is also very active in soccer and enjoys sharing tha t activity with his father. Additionally , although E.A.G. did not appear to understand Japanese at all upon his return, he has since beg u n to pick up the language and appears to be doing well in school. Although we acknowledge mother’s concern that E.X.G . has exhibited declining skills in English since his return to Japan, we note the trial court considered this fact along with all the evidence in this case, including evidence that father hired tutors for all the children. The circuit court did not, ther efore, abuse its discretion in weighing mother’s concern against all of the other evidence that the children were thriving in Japan with father. There is some concern over bullying that the children have had to endure, but the authorities in Japan seem to be sensitive to the issue. The circuit court’s statement that the “feel

- good Waldorf School curriculum really doesn’t impress [the court] one bit,” is not per se an unreasonable assessment of the Waldorf School, any more than its suggestion that Americ an schools might benefit from the “very rigid educational program that obviously works” in Japan. The record contains a significant amount of factual information pertaining to the educational needs of the children and both parents’ approach to meeting tho se needs. Although the court did not provide a comprehensive analysis supporting its decision, the fact is, the circuit court considered the parties’ ability to accurately assess and meet the intellectual needs of the children as required by Code § 20

- 124 .3(3) and its findings are not plainly wrong or without evidence to support them. We, thus, affirm the circuit court’s findings on factor 3.
4. The Circuit Court’s Failure to Consider the Past History of the Parents in Parenting Finally, mother contends that the circuit court erred in its consideration of factor 5 “the role that each parent has played and will play in the future, in the upbringing and care of the child.”- 10

- Mother also argues the circuit court erred in its consideration of factor 7, “the r elative willingness and demonstrated ability of each parent to maintain a close and continuing relationship with the child.” In considering factor 5, the circuit court stated, “there’s no question, Mrs. Gudino, that you have been a primary caregiver. A nd I’m not going to minimize the importance of that in the early development stages of a child and now we’re talking about what role they will play in the future in the upbringing and care of the child.” The court continued , “ Mr. Gudino, based upon the ev idence that has been presented, has demonstrated that he is concerned about the needs of the children and has acted in every way to ensure their needs are being met.” Again, although the court focused on mother’s past role as the primary caretaker, the re cord contains evidence that father was always involved with the children. Father testified that he was a “birth partner” (mother wanted to have the babies born at home), he changed diapers, he fed the babies, he got up with the babies in the middle of the night, he did chores around the house, he got the children ready for school in the mornings and made them breakfast, he took the children to school , and he put them to bed. The record, thus, contains evidence of father’s past involvement in the children’ s lives , and there is no evidence that the court did not consider it. With respect to factor 7, Dr. Nelson’s report suggests that since the children’s return to Japan, father has minimized his own social activities in favor of spending time with the chi ldren. Father is responsible for getting the kids to school in the morning and for putting them to bed at night. Father participates in weekly soccer games with E.X.G. , and he engages the children in regular weekend family activities. The children are n oticeably better behaved, particularly in response to father’s implementation of his “hankos” system of discipline in which the children earn reward points for good behavior. Because of the success of the hankos system, father does not have to yell and sc ream at the kids as he did in the past. E.G. testified that whereas she felt like she lived- 11

- with 18 screaming monkeys at her mother’s house, at father’s “we are just three screaming monkeys.” Although the children struggle with the difficult Japanese sch ool system, they appear to be thriving, they seem normal and well

- adjusted , and they appear happy. The court’s finding that father “has stepped up to the plate

. . . [h] e has shown the initiative and has done just that,” is not plainly wrong or without ev idence to support it. Because the circuit court appears to have properly considered factors 5 and 7, and because its findings are supported by the record, we must affirm the circuit court.
B. The C ircuit C ourt ’s R eappoint ment of Dr. Nelson as a Custo dy E valuator and its R equir ement that M other S olely B ear the E ntire C ost of an I ndependent E valuator for the C hildren Mother next maintains that the circuit court erred in reappointing Dr. Nelson as a custody evaluator for her appeal in the circuit cour t. She also alleges the circuit court erred in ordering her to pay the total cost of an independent evaluator. Mother contends the circuit court’s rulings effectively denied her a trial de novo in the circuit court. Father responds that mother failed to preserve this assignment of error for appeal, since she failed to object to the circuit court’s rulings with the required specificity when rendered. Father is correct; mother did not properly preserve this issue for appeal. Rule 5A:18 provides that [n] o ruling of the trial court .

. . will be considered as a basis for reversal unless an objection was stated with reasonable certainty at the time of the ruling, except for good cause shown or to enable the Court of Appeals to attain the ends of justice. A mere statement that the judgment or award is contrary to the law and the evidence is not sufficient to preserve the issue for appellate review. “In order to preserve an issue for appeal, ‘an objection must be timely made and the grounds stated with specif icity.’” McDuffie v. Commonwealth , 49 Va. App. 170, 177, 638 S.E.2d 139, 142 (2006) (quoting Marlowe v. Commonwealth , 2 Va. App. 619, 621, 347 S.E.2d 167, 168 (1986)). “A party must state the grounds for an objection ‘so that the trial judge may understa nd the precise question- 12

- or questions he is called upon to decide.’” Scialdone v. Commonwealth , 279 Va. 422, 437, 689 S.E.2d 716, 724 (2010) (quoting Jackson v. Chesapeake & Ohio Ry. Co. , 179 Va. 642, 651, 20 S.E.2d 489, 492 (1942)). “To satisfy the rule, ‘an objection must be made .

. . at a point in the proceeding when the trial court is in a position, not only to consider the asserted error, but also to rectify the effect of the asserted error.’” Id. at 437, 689 S.E.2d at 724 (quoting Johnson v. Raviot ta , 264 Va. 27, 33, 563 S.E.2d 727, 731 (2002)). Rule 5A:18 “‘ exists to protect the trial court from appeals based upon undisclosed grounds, to prevent the setting of traps on appeal, to enable the trial judge to rule intelligently, and to avoid

unneces sary reversals and mistrials.’” Reid v. Boyle , 259 Va. 356, 372, 527 S.E.2d 137, 146 (2000) (quoting Fisher v. Commonwealth , 236 Va. 403, 414, 374 S.E.2d 46, 52 (1988)). “In addition, a specific, contemporaneous objection gives the opposing party the opp ortunity to meet the objection at that stage of the proceeding.” Weidman v. Babcock , 241 Va. 40, 44, 400 S.E.2d 164, 167 (1991). “If [the] opportunity [to address an issue] is not presented to the trial court, there is no ruling by the trial court on the issue, and thus n o basis for review or action by [the appellate court] .” Riverside Hosp., Inc. v. Johnson , 272 Va. 518, 526, 636 S.E.2d 416, 420 (2006). An appellate court can only “determine whether or not the rulings and judgment of the court below .

. . were correct

. ” Jackson , 179 Va. at 651, 20 S.E.2d at 493. In this case, the parties appeared in the circuit court on February 18, 2010, on mother’s

“ Emergency Motion to Ex tend Stay of Enforcement ” of the j uvenile and domestic r elations district

c ourt ’s (“J &DR ”) custody order pending appeal. The guardian ad litem appeared and requested, over mother’s objection, to be reappointed as guardian ad litem for the children during the pendency of the app eal. Mother objected to the re appointment of the guardi an ad litem , alleging that the guardian ad litem was biased. During the discussion, mother also referred to Dr. Nelson’s report. Mother suggested that Dr. Nelson’s report gave considerable weight to some factors favorable to- 13

- father while ignoring other f actors favorable to mother. However, the record fails to disclose any specific objection to the reappointment of Dr. Nelson as prohibiting mother’s right to a trial de novo

. At the conclusion of the hearing, after the circuit court reappointed the guardi an ad litem , mother inquired, “what about Dr. Nelson, your H onor?” The circuit court replied, “I will reappoint
Dr. Nelson. Do you want me to appoint another independent?” Mother said, “yes.” After appointing an independent evaluator, the court stated, “the parties are bearing the expenses of the independent.” After some further discussion, the circuit court stated “well, each party can pay for their own evaluator.” Mother responded, “just for the record, Your Honor, we do object to
Dr. Nelson and to the Guardian Ad Litem’s report. The court responded, “that’s noted in the record and it is preserved for any appellate purposes that may follow.” The circuit court’s order, dated February 22, 2010, provided that mother is to pay the entire cost of the independent evaluator and father is to pay Dr. Nelson’s fee. Although mother signed the order “seen and objected to as to the court’s re

- appointment of Dr. Michelle K. Nelson as a neutral evaluator in this case,” mother’s objection is not stated with any specificity. In context, it appears mother objected to Dr. Nelson’s reappointment on the basis of Dr. Nelson’s bias. However,

m other’s objection does not make any reference whatsoever to the court’s requirement that mother pay the cost of an independent evaluator, and mother’s objection does not mention the effect of the circuit court’s ruling on mother’s right to a de novo trial. The circuit court was, therefore, n ot apprise d of the objections mother now raises , and it was afforded no opportunity to rem edy the purported wrongs. In sum, t he circuit court was not properly notified of mother’s specific reason for her objection to the reappointment of Dr. Nelson and she made no objection at all to the court’s requirement that she pay for the independent e valuator. This issue is, therefore, not preserved for appeal.- 14

- C. The C ircuit C ourt ’s I mposition of E xcessive V isitation C osts on W ife as I nequitable G iven the Parents’ V ast I ncome D isparity Mother next contends the circuit court erred in ordering her to pay a pro rata portion of the children’s travel expenses associated w ith their visitation schedule in the United States and in ordering mother to pay the entire costs associated with mother’s visitation in Japan. Mother maintains that given the vas t disparity in the parties’ respective incomes, father should be ordered to pay the entire cost associated with mother’s visitation with the children

. The authority vested in a trial court to decide issues concerning the care, custody, support and m aintenance of the minor children, the visitation rights of the non

- custodial parent, and the extent to which those rights and responsibilities shall be apportioned between estranged parents is a matter of judicial discretion which courts must exercise with the welfare of the children as the paramount consideration. Eichelberger v. Eichelberger , 2 Va. App. 409, 412, 345 S.E.2d 10, 12 (1986). This Court will not reverse such decisions absent “a clear abuse of discretion. ” Congdon v. Congdon , 40 Va. App. 255 , 262, 578 S.E.2d 833, 836

- 37 (2003) (citation omitted)

. “An abuse of discretion can be found if the trial court uses an improper legal standard in exercising its discretionary function, because a trial court by definition abuses its discretion when it ma kes an error of law. ” Id. (quotations omitted). Mother suggests that she should not be required to pay any of the transportation costs attendant to the children’s visitation with her in the United States , nor should she have to pay the entire cost asso ciated with her visits to Japan, because of the vast discrepancy in the parties’ respective incomes. However, the circuit court clearly considered that discrepancy in ordering that mother and father pay only a pro rata portion of the necessary costs for t he children’s visitation schedule in the United States . Moreover, although father makes significantly more money annually than mother, the record shows that he lives in Tokyo, “one of the most expensive citie s in the world,” where he paid one million doll ars for a 1 , 600 square foot house and where he is primarily responsible for the upbringing of the parties’ three children. Also, because matters pertaining to- 15

- mother’s entitlement to spousal support and equitable distribution were not yet decided when the circuit court rendered its decision, it is unclear from this record whether mother will, in fact, be able to pay her own way in Japan should she decide to visit with the children there. Mother works full time and lives at home with her father . She also incurred legal fees in an amount exceeding $150,000, and she paid an expert witness $8,000 merely to read Dr. Nelson’s report and testify at
trial. Mother’s assertion that she is unable to pay her own way in Japan is, therefore, entirely speculative and n ot supported by the record

. It was within the discretion of the circuit court to decide issues pertaining to visitation and the costs attendant thereto and, contrary to mother’s suggestion on brief, there is no evidence the circuit court was attempting to penalize mother in any
way. Simply put, the circuit court did not abuse its discretion in requiring mother to pay a pro

rata portion of the costs attendant to her visitation with the children in the United States and in ordering mother to pay the whole cost associated with her visits to Japan. W e, therefore , affirm the circuit court on this issue as well.
D. The C ircuit C ourt’s A ppoint ment of the Guardian A d L item Mother also alleges the circuit court erred in reappointing Louise Moore as g uardi an a d l item for the children during the pendency of mother’s appeal. Specifically, mother contends the circuit court appointed Moore without first rendering specific findings in accordance with Code § 16.1

- 266(F). 3 According to mother, Moore’s appointmen t was, therefore, “unlawful.” Mother

3 Code § 16.1

- 266 (F) provided in pertinent part: in cases where the custody of a child or children is the subject of controversy or requires determination and each of the parents .

. . claiming a right to custody is represented by counsel, the court shall not appoint .

. . a guardian ad litem to represent the interests of the .

. . children unless the court finds, at any stage in the proceedings in a specific case, that the interests of the chil d or children are not otherwise adequately represented.- 16

- appears to concede that she failed to preserve this issue for appeal and suggests that t his Court can address the assignment of error under the ends of justice exception to Rule 5A:18. As previously stated, [n]o rul ing of the trial court .

. . will be considered as a basis for reversal unless an objection was stated with reasonable certainty at the time of the ruling, except for good cause shown or to enable the Court of Appeals to attain the ends of justice. A mere statement that the judgment or award is contrary to the law and the evidence is not sufficient to preserve the issue for appellate review. Rule 5A:18. In this case, mo ther clearly objected to the re appointment of the guardian ad litem on the basis that she was biased. Indeed, at the February 18, 2010 hearing mother explained to the circuit court that she had filed a motion in the J&DR c ourt to disqualify Moore as the guardian ad litem because of Moore’s “biased opinion in this case.” However, mother ha d withdrawn the motion because she “did not have the money to move forward with that issue, and her motion is just being made now.” Because mother did not have any documentary or other evidentiary support for her contention that Moore was biased, the circ uit court ruled that until it heard some evidence as to Moore’s bias or prejudice, it was going to reappoint Moore. On appeal, mother appears to abandon her argument that Moore was biased, and instead argues alternatively that the circuit court failed t o make thresho ld statutory findings before

re appointing her, as required by Code § 16.1

- 266. However, a t no point in time did mother ever mention Code § 16.1

- 266 to the circuit court or suggest the circuit court was required to make initial findings perta ining to the appointment of a guardian ad litem for the children. She has, thus, failed to preserve this assignment of error for our review. Appearing to acknowledge her failure to preserve the issue, mother suggests this Court can consider the matter under the ends of justice exception to Rule 5A:18 . However, “the ends of justice exception is narrow and is to be used sparingly.” Brown v. Commonwealth , 8 Va. App. 126,- 17

- 132, 380 S.E.2d 8, 11 (1989). “Application of the ends of justice exception require s proof of an error that was clear, substantial and material.” Andrews v. Creacey , 56 Va. App. 606, 636, 696 S.E.2d 218, 232 (2010) (citation omitted). That is, “[t]he record ‘must affirmatively show that a miscarriage of justice has occurred, not that a miscarriage might have occurred.’” Id. (quoting Redman v. Commonwealth , 25 Va. App. 215, 221, 487 S.E.2d 269, 272 (1997)). While “some procedures are so crucial that a court’s failure to adhere to them constitutes error that is clear, substantial and ma terial even in the absence of affirmative proof of error in the result,” Herring v. Herring , 33 Va. App. 281, 287, 532 S.E.2d 923, 927 (2000), such is not the case here. The circuit court appointed the guardian ad litem as requested , and the guardian ad l item performed the duties required of her. Mother cannot now complain on appeal of error in the circuit court where she herself failed to follow through with her motion to exclude the guardian ad litem and where she failed to properly notify the court of the statutory requirements for the appointment. This issue is waived. E. The C ircuit C ourt ’s R equirement that M other P ay O ne - H alf of the Guardian A d L item ’s F ee Lastly, mother contends the circuit court erred in ordering her to pay one

- half of the
gua rdian ad litem ’s fee in this case. There is no dispute that “in those contested custody cases where the trial judge finds that the best interests of the child are not adequately protected by the parties, appointment of a guardian ad litem for the child i s appropriate.” Verrocchio v. Verrocchio , 16 Va. App. 314, 322, 429 S.E.2d 482, 487 (1993). “Indivisible from the power of appointment is the associated power equitably to apportion the fees and expenses of the guardian ad litem as costs to the parties.” Id. Indeed, “Code §§ 20

- 79(b) and 20

- 99(5) provide the statutory basis for the award of such costs as equity and justice may require. Such an award is considered remedial and is within the recognized ‘discretion- 18

- of a court of equity over the subject of costs.’ Code § 14.1

- 177 [recodified at Code § 17.1

- 600] .” Id. Here, mother contends she should not be required to pay any of the costs associated with the guardian ad litem appointed by the court to oversee the best interests of the children. Mother suggests that because husband makes substantially more money per year than she does, he should pay the entire fee. However, as previously stated, father lives in one of the most expensive cities in the world and he has primary physical custody of the chil dren. Wife has at least two professional certifications and works full time. She also lives at home with her father. Both parties have incurred substantial attorneys’ fees and costs associated with this litigation , and mother exhibited an ability to pay her own expert witness fee in the amount of $8 , 000. Thus, while mother clearly makes less money than father, the record shows that mother has the ability to pay one

- half the cost of the guardian ad litem ’s fee, notwithstanding the resulting hardship and sacrifice associated with it. The circuit court did not, thus, abuse its discretion in ordering mother to pay one

- half of the guardian ad litem ’s fee.
II. Conclusion For the foregoing reasons, we conclude that the circuit court did not abuse its discre tion in awarding primary physical custody of the parties’ three children to father , in reappointing
Dr. Nelson as the custody evaluator and Ms. Moore as the guardian ad litem , or in ordering mother- 19

- to pay one

- half of the guardian ad litem ’s fee, the enti re cost of an independent evaluator, and the costs associated with her visitation with the children. We, thus, affirm the circuit court. 4
Affirmed.

4 Father requests h is attorney’s fees on appeal. The rationale for the appellate court being the proper forum to determine the propriety of an award of attorney ’ s fees for efforts expended on app eal is clear. The appellate court has the opportunity to view the record in its entirety and determine whether the appeal is frivolous or whether other reasons exist for requiring additional payment. O ’ Loughlin v. O ’ Loughlin , 23 Va. App. 690, 695, 479 S.E .2d 98, 100 (1996). Upon considerat ion of the record, we conclude “ the litigation addressed appropriate and substantial issues ” and that [mother] did not generate[] unnecessary delay or expense in pursuit of [her] interests. ” Estate of Hackler v. Hackler , 44 Va. App. 51, 75, 602 S.E.2d 426, 438 (2004). Thus, we deny father’s request for an award of appellate attorney ’ s fees and costs.