Filed 11/20/20 In re A.N. CA2/8

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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA

SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION EIGHT

In re A.N. et al., Persons Coming Under the Juvenile Court Law.

______________________________ LOS ANGELES COUNTY DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN AND FAMILY SERVICES,

Plaintiff and Respondent,

v.

F.O.,

Defendant and Appellant. B305208

(Los Angeles County Super. Ct. No. 18CCJP02285A

– C)

APPEAL from order s of the Superior Court of Los Angeles County. D aniel Zeke Zeidler, Judge. Affirmed.
Roni Keller , under appointment by the Court of Appeal, for Defendant and Appellant.2 Mary C. Wickham, County Counsel, Kim Nemoy, Assistant County Counsel, and Stephen D. Watson, Deputy County Counsel, for Plaintiff and Respondent.

__________________________ Appellant F.O. appeals from the juvenile court order s terminating her parental rights and freeing the minors for adoption. 1 She argues the juvenile court abused its discretion in failing to find the “ beneficial parental relationship exception ” to adoption applies. (Welf. & Inst. Code, § 366.26, subd. (c)(1)(B)(i).) 2 We affirm.
FACTS On April 10, 2018, the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Service s filed a dependency petition on
behalf of five

- year

- old A.N., four

- year

- old S.N., and three

- year

- old
G.N. pursuant to section 300, subdivisions (a) and (b). The petition alleged the minors were at risk because of the parents’ history of violent altercati ons in front of the m. On March 15, 2018, the father strangled the mother

, causing her to lose
consciousness ; he also threatened to kill her and burn down the
minors’ house. On April 6, 2018, the mother punched the father with a closed fist, and he scratc hed her eye. T he father had a history of drug abuse

, including methamphetamine , and the
mother would allow him to have access to the children in

1 Appellant F.O. previously filed a petition for extraordinary relief under rule 8.452 of the California Rules of Court. ( F.O. v. Superior Court , B299479.) The petiti on was denied on the ground it was inadequate. ( Glen C. v. Superior Court (2000) 78 Cal.App.4th 570, 577

– 584.)

2 All statutory references, unless otherwise designated, are
to the Welfare and Institutions Code.3

violation of a domestic violence restraining order and a criminal protective order

. The minors were detained and placed with a paternal great aunt and her partner. Monitored visits were
ordered. On July 2, 2018, the juvenile court sustained the petition, declared the minors dependents of the court, and provided
reunification services and monitored visits. The minors were provided cognitive behavioral services beginning in January 2019, “to reduce trauma related symptoms of anxiety and nightmares.” A.N. was “yelling and not listening to her elders in placement and at school.” She was receiving trauma focused

t herapy “to address the PTSD that she is experiencing.” S.N. was “experiencing flashbacks” and was having “anger outbursts and shutting down (refusing to talk), especially after contact with mother.” G.N. had “symptom of anxiety, (i.e. feeling nervous and fearful in response to talking about mommy/event) ” and was having “difficulty falling asleep, flashback [ s ] and nightmares.” In March 2019, it was reported that the mother’s monitored visits with the minors “have been sporadic.” On June 4, 2019, mother wa s found in partial compliance
with her court

- ordered case plan

, and reunification services were
terminated. One month later, reunification services for the
father were also t erminated. 3 On November 12, 2019, t he Department submitted its report for the se ction 366.26 hearing

. T he minors continued to
reside with the paternal great aunt and her partner ; they f elt
loved and cared for

. “The children report that they like visiting
with mother [twice a month] but enjoy being able to return to
their home with c aregivers.” Telephone calls with the mother are

3 Presumed father S.N. is not a party to th is appeal.4

monitored

. The two oldest “have reported that they speak with mother on the phone, but at times do not want to speak with her.” In August 2019, the oldest “cried because she was afraid
that CSW would retu rn her to the care of mother

. . . .” It was the recommendation of the Department that all parental rights be terminated and the minors be placed for adoption. In the Last Minute Information for the Court, the Department reported that on September 3 0 , 20 19, it met with the mother who stated that, “she did not know why she was being punished when she was the victim. CSW asked mother if she acknowledged her role in failing to protect her children by remaining in a harmful relationship and exposing her chil dren to
harmful situations. Mother stated that she would take the responsibility of what father did to her in front of the children but
she was also a victim.” The caregivers reported that on October 26, 2019, “mother told [A.N.] that she was going to li ve with her again and needed to tell the judge that she wanted to live with her. [A.N.] shared with CSW that mother scared her

. . . .” The Monday after the visit, A.N. became ill at school. “It appears that A.N. often feels ill after having visits with mother and going to
the [ nurse ’ s ] offices is a recurring behavior.” The October 26 visit
also made the monitor uncomfortable. The mother was on her telephone and at times was attempting to make contact with her boyfriend who was taking pictures from the upper level of the mall. The monitor was no longer willing to monitor the visits. The caregivers also reported that “mother’s phone calls are not consistent and at times mother will attempt to call after the
scheduled times.” The 366.26 hearing was fin ally scheduled for March 12, 2020. In the Last Minute Information for the Court, the monitors5

for the mother’s visits, which are held in the Department’s offices, “have stated that the visits are unhealthy as the children
do not listen to mother. On one of the visits, [a monitor] reported
that [ G.N.] asked mother to teach him how to spell, ‘I hate you ’ and then gave the letter to mother and on the same visit spit on
mother.” The minors “have reported that they enjoy visits with
mother now because mother promises them toys and candy.” The therapist indicated that the minors had progressed well and therapy was no longer needed. At the hearing, the mother testified that the children seem happy to see her at these visits, call her “mom,” and are disappointe d when the visits are over. She brings them snacks and little gifts and talks with them about what is going on in their lives. She knows their likes and dislikes and tries to help them deal with situations when they fight over a toy or become argumentati ve. She talks with the minors over the telephone when they want to. When asked about doctor’s appointments and other health related issues, she said she is aware “like 50 percent. I’m not always aware of their appointments or

— but
when I am made aware of it, I will follow up and , you know, how did it go.” The mother also submitted a progress report from
Abundance Guidance Center. It was offered to show she has learned skills that would show she has the ability to interact appropriately with the minors. The mother argued the court should find the beneficial parental exception applies and not terminate the mother’s parental rights. The Department recommended that the juvenile court select adoption as the permanent plan and terminate mother’s parental rig hts. Minor’s counsel supported the Department and also asked the court to select adoption and6

terminate parental rights. On March 12, 2020, the court found the minors adoptable, concluded the exception did not apply, and terminated the mother’s parental rights.
DISCUSSION
At the section 366.26 hearing , the juvenile court “‘shall terminate parental rights and order the child placed for adoption”
if it finds that “it is likely the child will be adopted.” ( In re Celine
R. (2003) 31 Cal.4th 45, 53 .) Here, the paternal aunt and her partner have indicated they wish to adopt the minors. There is an exception to this rule known as the “beneficial parental relationship exception

. ” Subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i) of
section 366.26 requires termination of parental rig hts “unless” the parent has “maintained regular visitation and contact with the child and the child would benefit from continuing the relationship.” Here, the court found that “mother has maintained regular and consistent visitation and contact,” but then stated
that

, “I can’t find that that parental role and relationship outweighs the benefits of permanence in adoption for the children, nor that it would be detrimental to terminate that relationship . . . .”
The analytical framework is well established. First, the burden was on the mother to prove “ her relationship with the children would outweigh the well

- being they would gain in a permanent home with an adoptive parent. [Citation.] Evidence of frequent and loving contact is not enough to establish a beneficial parental relationship. [Citation.] The mother must also show she occupies a parental role in the children’s lives.” ( In
re Noah G. (2016) 247 Cal.App.4th 1292, 1300 ( Noah G. ) ; see also
In re Jasmine D. (2000) 78 Cal.App.4th 1339, 1350 [makes no7

sense to forgo adoption when no real parental relationship shown] .) Second, the standard of review in “ evaluating the juvenile
court’s determination as to the factual issue of the existence of a beneficial parental relationship, [courts ] review for subs tantial
evidence. [Citation.] But whether termination of the parental relationship would be detrimental to the child as weighed against the benefits of adoption is reviewed for abuse of discretion.” ( Noah G

. , supra , 247 Cal.App.4th at pp. 1300

– 1301 .)
Fi nally, “ [i] n the context of the dependency scheme prescribed by the Legislature, we interpret the ‘benefit from continuing the [parent/child] relationship’ exception to mean the relationship promotes the well

- being of the child to such a degree

as to outwe igh the well

- being the child would gain in a permanent home with new, adoptive parents. In other words, the court balances the strength and quality of the natural parent/child relationship in a tenuous placement against the security and the sense of belon ging a new family would confer. If severing the natural parent/child relationship would deprive the child of a substantial, positive emotional attachment such that the child would be greatly harmed, the preference for adoption is
overcome and the natural parent’s rights are not terminated.” ( In re Autumn H. ( 1994) 27 Cal.App.4th 567, 575.) Here, the juvenile court found by clear and convincing
evidence that the beneficial parental relationship exception did not apply. This was not a close case. It is ev ident from the record that there was no parent/child relationship between the mother and any of her children, much less a substantial, positive emotional attachment. The minors had been traumatized by the history of extreme domestic violence. After succe ssful trauma8

therapy, A.N. at best felt sorry for the mother ; the younger siblings were impressed at the monitored visits with p romises of toys and candy. In contrast, the minors spoke of safety and feeling cared for with the caregivers, traits one associ ates with a parental relationship. Nothing in the record, and in particular nothing in the mother’s testimony at the hearing, suggested she had a parental relationship with the minors. The mother points to In re E.T. (2018) 31 Cal.App.5th 68,
where the re viewing court found the mother had met the parental relationship standard. But that case is clearly distinguishable. There, the mother did all her programs to maintain her sobriety and to become a better parent. ( Id . at p. 77.) The children were very a ttached. ( Ibid .) Here, mother had completed a residential treatment program but did not complete her domestic violence program due to excessive absences . She
di d not show a commitment to improving herself in a way that
would allow her to become a better parent . It was more about keeping the minors from father. Settling accounts with the other parent is not a compelling reason to apply the exception. Appellant’s backup argument is that the court should have ordered a permanent plan of legal guardianship . It does not appear this argument was raised below and th erefore it has been
waived. Even if the issue had been properly preserved, it does not survive critical analysis. Once the juvenile court determines parental rights are terminated, it must select adoption as the preferred choice if adoption is likely. It cannot select a less secure and permanent placement such as legal guardianship . ( In
re Teneka W. (1995) 37 Cal.App.4th 721, 728.) Finally, appellant argues this appeal has “critical importance. The question is how we treat battered women and9

how we will continue to treat them in the future.” Mother has continually argued she was the victim of domestic violence and
that there is something perverse in an order terminating h er parental rights but allow ing father “access” to the minors because the paternal great aunt and her partner will likely be the adoptive parents. Even if the premise were accepted, t he focus of this appeal is whether the court selected the appropriate permanent plan and whethe r the exception applied as to the
mother

. Why the minors were taken into the dependency system

, and whether the father might have “access” to the m after adoption , is irrelevant.
DISPOSITION The orders of the juvenile court terminating parental rights

are affirmed.

SALTER, J. 
We Concur:

GRIMES, Acting P. J.

STRATTON, J.

 Judge of the Orange Superior Court, assigned by the Chief Justice pursuant to article VI, section 6 of the California Constitution.