Data Spotlight | Reports of romance scams hit record highs in 2021 1

February 2022 

Reports of romance scams hit record highs in 2021

Online dating can be a great way to find lasting love – or even your next fling. But reports to the FTC suggest it

also creates opportunities for scammers. In the past five years, people have reported losing a staggering $1.3

billion to romance scams,

1,2 more than any other FTC fraud category. The numbers have skyrocketed in recent 

years, and 2021 was no exception – reported losses hit a record $547 million for the year. That’s more than six

times the reported losses in 2017 and a nearly 80% increase compared to 2020. The median individual reported 

loss in 2021 was $2,400.

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Reports show that romance scammers are masters of disguise. 

They create fake online profiles with attractive photos swiped 

from the web. Sometimes they even assume the identities of real 

people. They may study information people share online and then

pretend to have common interests. And the details they share 

about themselves will always include built-in excuses for not 

meeting in person. For example, many reportedly claim to be 

serving overseas in the military or working on an offshore oil rig. 

Many people who’ve experienced scams report being contacted 

on dating apps. But you don’t have to be looking for love to be 

courted by a romance scammer. Reports of unexpected private 

messages on social media platforms are common. More than a 

third of people who said they lost money to an online romance 

scam in 2021 said it began on Facebook or Instagram.4 

Romance scammers weave all sorts of believable stories to con 

people, but their old standby involves pleas for help while claiming 

one financial or health crisis after another. The scammers’ stories

might involve a sick child or a temporary inability to get to their 

money for a whole range of reasons. People who lost money to a 

romance scammer often report sending money repeatedly: they

believe they’re helping someone they care about. But it’s all a lie. 

In another common twist on the romance scam, people agree to 

help transfer money as a favor to their supposed sweetheart. The

scammer often claims to need help getting their inheritance 

money or moving funds for an important business deal. Stories 

like this often set people up to become “money mules” – they may 

think they’re just helping, but they’re really laundering stolen 
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funds. These stories are also used to trick people into sending their own money. People have reported paying all 

sorts of bogus fees to accept money that never turns up. Others say they deposited a check from their sweetie

and sent some of the money as instructed, only to find out later that the check was fake – leaving them without 

the money they sent. Still others report sending money based on promises – later proven to be false – that they 

would be repaid.

A growing trend in 2021 was scammers using romance as a hook to lure people into bogus investments, 

especially cryptocurrency. People are led to believe their new online companion is a successful investor who, 

before long, casually offers investment advice. These so-called investment opportunities often involve foreign 

exchange (forex) trading or cryptocurrency. And when people follow this investment “advice,” they wind up 

losing all the money they “invest.”

In fact, the largest reported losses to romance scams were paid in cryptocurrency: $139 million last year alone.

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That’s a remarkable growth in cryptocurrency payments to romance scammers: 2021 numbers are nearly five 

times those reported in 2020, and more than 25 times those reported in 2019. In 2021, the median individual 

reported loss using cryptocurrency was a staggering $9,770. While cryptocurrency losses were the most costly, it 

was not the most common payment method for romance scams. In 2021, more people reported paying 

romance scammers with gift cards than with any other payment method. In fact, about one in four people said 

they paid a romance scammer with a gift card, and they reported losing $36 million last year.6

Reports about romance scams increased for every age group in 2021. The increase was most striking for people 

ages 18 to 29. For this age group, the number of reports increased more than tenfold from 2017 to 2021. But 

the reported median loss increased with age: people 70 and older reported the highest individual median losses 

at $9,000, compared to $750 for the 18 to 29 age group.

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So how can you spot scammers if you’re looking for love online? 

• Nobody legit will ever ask you to help by sending cryptocurrency, giving the numbers on a gift card, or 

by wiring money. Anyone who does is a scammer.

• Never send or forward money for someone you haven’t met in person, and don’t act on their 

investment advice. 

• Talk to friends or family about a new love interest and pay attention if they’re concerned. 

• Try a reverse-image search of profile pictures. If the details don’t match up, it’s a scam. 

Help stop scammers by reporting suspicious profiles or messages to the dating app or social media platform. 

Then, tell the FTC at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. Learn more at ftc.gov/romancescams.
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1 This figure and figures throughout this Spotlight are based on reports to the FTC's Consumer Sentinel Network that were classified as romance scams, excluding 

reports provided by the Internet Crimes Complaint Center (IC3). IC3 reports submitted prior to 2019 are not included in Sentinel, so these reports were excluded to 

ensure greater consistency in reporting trends over time.

2 Because the vast majority of frauds are not reported to the government, this figure reflects just a small fraction of the public harm caused by romance scams. See

Anderson, K. B., To Whom Do Victims of Mass-Market Consumer Fraud Complain? at 1 (May 2021), available at

https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3852323 (study showed only 4.8% of people who experienced mass-market consumer fraud complained to a 

Better Business Bureau or a government entity).

3 Reports provided by MoneyGram and Western Union are excluded for this calculation as these data contributors report each transaction separately, which typically 

affects calculation of an individual’s median loss. 

4 This figure is based on 2021 loss reports directly to the FTC categorized as romance scams and where the consumer identified an online platform. Of these, the top 

platforms identified as the starting point for the scam were Facebook (23%) and Instagram (13%).

5 Ranked by reported dollar losses the top payment methods on romance scams reported in 2021 are as follows: cryptocurrency ($139M), bank transfer or payment 

($121M), wire transfer ($93M), and gift card or reload card ($36M). 

6 About 28% of people who reported losing money on a romance scam in 2021 said they paid with a gift card or reload card, followed by cryptocurrency (18%), 

payment app or service (14%), bank transfer or payment (13%), and wire transfer (12%). These figures exclude MoneyGram and Western Union as these data 

contributors report each transaction separately, which affects the number of reports. 

7 In 2021, the median individual reported losses to romance scams by age were as follows: $750 (18-29), $2,000 (30-39), $3,000 (40-49), $4,000 (50-59), $6,000 

(60-69), and $9,000 (70 and over). Reports provided by MoneyGram and Western Union are excluded for these calculations as these data contributors report each 

transaction separately, which typically affects calculation of an individual’s median loss. About 70% (38,886 reports) of 2021 romance scam reports included age 

information.

The FTC uses reports from the public to investigate and stop fraud, for consumer education and outreach, and for analyses like this. File 

your fraud report at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. To explore Sentinel data, visit FTC.gov/exploredata.