IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 22-0404

Filed September 21, 2022

IN THE INTEREST OF S.G.

Minor Child,

A.K., Mother,

Petitioner-Appellee,

M.G., Father,

Respondent-Appellant.

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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Monona County, Mark Cord III, 

District Associate Judge.

A father appeals the termination of his parental rights under Iowa Code 

section 600A.8 (2021). AFFIRMED.

Jessica R. Noll of Deck Law P.L.C., Sioux City, for appellant.

Sabrina Sayler of Crary, Huff, Ringgenberg, Hartnett & Storm, P.C., Dakota 

Dunes, South Dakota, for appellee.

Michele Lewon, Sioux City, attorney and guardian ad litem for minor child.

Considered by Bower, C.J., and Tabor and Chicchelly, JJ.
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CHICCHELLY, Judge.

A father appeals the termination of his parental rights to his six-year-old

child under Iowa Code section 600A.8 (2021). He challenges the sufficiency of the 

evidence showing the grounds for termination. He also contends termination is 

not in the child’s best interests. Following our de novo review, see In re B.H.A., 

938 N.W.2d 227, 232 (Iowa 2020), we affirm.

The child’s mother and father divorced in 2018. They agreed they would 

share joint legal custody and the mother would have physical care of the child. 

They also agreed that the father would have weekly visitation from Thursday to 

Sunday and pay $428 per month in child support. The district court approved their 

agreement and incorporated the provisions into the decree dissolving their 

marriage.

After the divorce, the father failed to exercise all his visitation. The mother 

described his behavior as “hostile,” “paranoid,” and “very aggressive.” He also 

talked about suicide and voluntarily terminating his parental rights. Based on his 

drug use before the marriage, the mother suspected that the father was using 

methamphetamine. Just three months after the court entered the dissolution 

decree, the mother moved to modify child custody. She asked the court to require 

that the father take a drug test before each visit and for all visits to be supervised 

until the father showed he no longer used drugs. 

After the mother began modification proceedings, the father showed 

threatening behavior toward her. Within one month, the mother petitioned for relief 

from domestic abuse. The district court issued a protective order prohibiting the 

father from contacting the mother, but his behavior escalated. Just days after the 
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final protective order issued, the father violated it by calling and texting the mother 

at least seventy-nine times over two days before breaking into her home and 

attacking her with a baseball bat and knife. His actions led to a jury finding him 

guilty of five crimes, including first-degree burglary. The district court sentenced 

the father to a thirty-year prison sentence with a five-year mandatory minimum 

sentence. The Iowa Department of Corrections lists a tentative discharge date in 

2032.

Twenty months into the father’s prison sentence, the mother petitioned to 

terminate his parental rights under Iowa Code section 600A.8. The mother had 

remarried and stated that her husband wants to adopt the child. Following a 

hearing, the district court found the mother proved the grounds for terminating the 

father’s parental rights under section 600A.8(3), (8), and (9). It also found 

termination is in the child’s best interest and granted the mother’s petition. 

We begin with the father’s claim of insufficient evidence supporting the 

grounds for termination. He challenges all three grounds found by the district 

court. We may affirm if the record supports termination on any one of these 

grounds. See In re A.B., 815 N.W.2d 764, 774 (Iowa 2012).

Iowa Code section 600A.8(3) allows the court to terminate parental rights if 

a parent has abandoned a child. “To abandon a minor child” means to “reject[] the 

duties imposed by the parent-child relationship, . . . which may be evinced by the 

person, while being able to do so, making no provision or making only a marginal 

effort to provide for the support of the child or to communicate with the child.” Iowa 

Code § 600A.2(20). The statute considers a parent to have abandoned a child six 
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months of age or older “unless the parent maintains substantial and continuous or 

repeated contact with the child.” Id. § 600A.8(3)(b).

The father challenges the finding that he abandoned the child. To prevent 

a finding of abandonment, a parent must provide “contribution toward support of 

the child of a reasonable amount, according to the parent’s means.” Id.

§ 600A.8(3)(b). The parent must also show “substantial and continuous or 

repeated contact” by at least one of the following:

(1) Visiting the child at least monthly when physically and 

financially able to do so and when not prevented from doing so by 

the person having lawful custody of the child.

(2) Regular communication with the child or with the person 

having the care or custody of the child, when physically and 

financially unable to visit the child or when prevented from visiting 

the child by the person having lawful custody of the child.

(3) Openly living with the child for a period of six months within 

the one-year period immediately preceding the termination of 

parental rights hearing and during that period openly holding himself 

or herself out to be the parent of the child.

Id.

The father contends the mother failed to show he abandoned the child 

because she prevented his attempts at regular communication. He cites the 

protective order, which limited him to six hours of supervised weekly visitation with 

the child and otherwise prohibited him from contacting the mother or child. Less 

than one week after the court entered the final protective order, it ordered the father 

to have no contact with the mother for five years due to his criminal actions. 

Although the criminal no-contact order does not prevent the father from contacting 

the child, he notes that the mother attempted to modify it to restrict his contact with 
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the child.1 The father argues that he “has clearly attempted to maintain a 

relationship with [the child] while following court orders,” while the mother has 

“intentionally taken steps to end [his] relationship with [the child].” 

The father’s argument ignores that the no-contact orders result from his own 

choices and actions. The father began using methamphetamine before the 

divorce. His methamphetamine use caused erratic behavior, including the 

inconsistent exercise of his visitation with the child, and led the mother to seek the 

custody modification. The father responded by threatening the mother. Fearing 

for her safety, she obtained a protective order. But the protective order did not 

deter the father; he broke into the mother’s home, assaulted the mother, and tried 

to abscond with the child. The father also threatened to kill himself and implied he 

would also kill the child, doing so in the presence of the child and the child’s older 

half-sibling. The criminal charges and resulting convictions led to a thirty-year 

prison sentence and criminal no-contact order. As the guardian ad litem noted in 

a report to the court, the father 

does not accept any responsibility for assaulting [the mother] or 

traumatizing [her children] when he broke into their house. He 

accepts responsibility that breaking into the house was a bad 

decision, but continues to place blame on [the mother] not allowing 

him to see [the child]. He has not come to terms with the reality of 

the situation at all and I believe he sees himself as a victim in this 

situation.

The father’s incarceration cannot justify his lack of relationship with the 

child. See B.H.A., 938 N.W.2d at 234. Although the no-contact order prevented 

1 The mother asked that the order be modified to prevent the father from contacting 

persons residing with her and her immediate family, but she dismissed the action 

one month later. 
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the father from contacting the mother, he made no effort to communicate with the 

child since his arrest. See In re A.K., No. 10-0164, 2010 WL 2598252, at *1-2 

(Iowa Ct. App. June 30, 2010) (affirming termination for abandonment under 

section 600A.8(3)(b) because the father’s separation from the child “was of his own 

making” by abusing the mother, violating a protective order, and failing to seek the 

court’s permission to provide monetary support or have written or supervised 

contact with the child). As the district court found, the father “is a near-stranger to 

[the child] as a result of his own actions.” Clear and convincing evidence shows 

the father abandoned the child as required to terminate his parental rights under 

section 600A.8(3)(b).

We next turn to the question of the child’s best interests. See Iowa Code 

§ 600A.1(1) (“The best interest of the child subject to the proceedings of this 

chapter shall be the paramount consideration in interpreting this chapter.”). “The 

best interest of a child requires that each biological parent affirmatively assume 

the duties encompassed by the role of being a parent.” Id. § 600A.1(2). When 

determining whether a parent has affirmatively assumed this duty, the court must 

consider a parent’s “fulfillment of financial obligations, demonstration of continued 

interest in the child, demonstration of a genuine effort to maintain communication 

with the child, and demonstration of the establishment and maintenance of a place 

of importance in the child’s life.” Id.

The father claims termination is not in the child’s best interests. He argues 

that he attempted to have a meaningful relationship with the child despite the court 

orders preventing him from contacting the mother. He notes he paid most of the 
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child support he owes. The father also claims that he is working to better himself 

while incarcerated.

Substantial evidence supports the finding that termination is in the child’s 

best interests. The child, now six years old, has not seen or had contact with the 

father since his arrest, over three years ago. There is little, if any, relationship 

between them. In recent years, the child only referenced the father “a couple 

times,” referring to him as “my first dad who cries all the time.” The father is

currently not set for release from prison until 2032, at which time the child will be 

seventeen years old. 

The record shows that the father was not fully embodying his role as a 

parent even before his incarceration. In the months between the divorce and his 

arrest, the father never exercised full visitation with the child under the decree. 

The mother testified that the father “did have a good solid couple of months where 

he did the dad stuff and was there and present” during the child’s life. But after 

that period, the mother describes “this gradual decrescendo, this break down of it 

got less and less and he wasn’t in the home as much and then he was gone and 

then when he was home, he was asleep and then he left immediately after. It was 

just a—a break down.” 

The mother’s husband assumed the role of father to the child in recent 

years. The guardian ad litem states that he loves the child “deeply and is willing 

to accept all of the duties as father.” Terminating the father’s parental rights will 

allow the mother’s husband to adopt the child and formalize their relationship. 

Because doing so is in the child’s best interests, we affirm.

AFFIRMED.