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                                 Exhibit 10.3

                            AMENDMENT NO. 1 TO THE
                          DIGITAL INSIGHT CORPORATION
                 2001 NON-EMPLOYEE DIRECTOR STOCK OPTION PLAN

                                   RECITALS

     A.     On May 3, 2001, the stockholders of Digital Insight Corporation (the
            "Company") approved the Digital Insight Corporation 2001 Non-
            Employee Director Stock Option Plan (the "Plan").

     B.     On May 4, 2001, the administrator of the Plan (the "Administrator")
            voluntarily amended the Plan to place limitations on its discretion
            to amend the Plan and to require stockholder approval on certain
            amendments to the Plan.

     The Plan is amended as follows:

                                   AMENDMENT

     1.  Section 15 of the Plan shall be replaced in its entirety with the
         following:

          "15.  Amendment and Termination of the Plan.

           a)   Amendment and Termination.  The Board may at any time amend,
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     alter, suspend or terminate the Plan.

           b)   Shareholder Approval.  The Company shall obtain shareholder
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     approval of any Plan amendment to the extent necessary and desirable to
     comply with Applicable Laws. In addition, no amendment pursuant to Section
     15(a) or (b) shall be made without the approval of the Company's
     shareholders to the extent such amendment would:

                i.  expand the classes of persons to whom Options and Stock
     Purchase Rights may be granted under Section 5 of this Plan;

               ii.  increase the number of shares of Common Stock authorized for
     grant under Section 3 of this Plan;

              iii.  increase the number of shares underlying Options and Stock
     Purchase Rights which may be granted to any one participant under Section
     6(c) of this Plan;

               iv.  permit unrestricted shares of Common Stock to be awarded
     other than in lieu of cash payments under other incentive plans and
     programs of the Company and its Subsidiaries;
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                v.  allow the creation of additional types of stock-based
     awards;

               vi.  permit decreasing the exercise price on any outstanding
     Option;

              vii.  change any of the provisions of this Section 15(b).

           c)    Effect of Amendment or Termination.  No amendment, alteration,
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     suspension or termination of the Plan shall impair the rights of any
     Optionee, unless mutually agreed otherwise between the Optionee and the
     Administrator, which agreement must be in writing and signed by the
     Optionee and the Company. Termination of the Plan shall not affect the
     Administrator's ability to exercise the powers granted to it hereunder with
     respect to Options granted under the Plan prior to the date of such
     termination."


     IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the Company has caused this Amendment to be executed by
the undersigned duly authorized officer.

DIGITAL INSIGHT CORPORATION
2001 NON-EMPLOYEE DIRECTOR STOCK PLAN
ADMINISTRATOR


/s/ James McGuire
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James McGuire
Chairman of the Compensation Committee

Dated:  May 4, 2001