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                                                                   EXHIBIT 10.31


                                Promissory Note


$45,000.00                                                       October 1, 1996
               

         FOR VALUE RECEIVED, Northside Development and Joseph DeKama, (jointly
the "Maker") promises to pay to the order of TRISTAR CORPORATION at 12500 San
Pedro, Suite 500, San Antonio, Texas 78216, or at such other place as may be
designated in writing by the Holder of this Note, the Principal sum of
FORTY-FIVE THOUSAND and NO/100 DOLLARS ($45,000.00), with interest thereon at
the Stated Rate (as defined herein) and interest on all past due amounts, both
Principal and accrued interest, at the Past Due rate (as defined herein);
provided, that for the full term of this Note the interest rate produced by the
aggregate of all sums paid or agreed to be paid to the Holder of this Note for
the use, forbearance or detention of the debt evidenced hereby shall not exceed
the Highest Lawful Rate (as defined herein).  Twenty Five Thousand Dollars
($25,000.00) of the principal amount of this Note was overpayment of commission
to Northside Development and Joseph DeKama, jointly and severally, and Twenty
Thousand Dollars ($20,000.00) of the principal amount of the Note was loaned to
Joseph DeKama.  Joseph DeKama shall be liable for the repayment of all
principal and accrued interest under this Note and, in addition, Northside
Development and Joseph DeKama shall be and remain jointly and severally liable
for $25,000.00 of the principal amount of this Note and accrued interest
related thereto.

         "Stated Rate" means, on any day, a rate per annum equal the rate
charged to TRISTAR CORPORATION by its primary lender which rate is currently
Twelve and one-half percent (12.5%).  Without notice to the Maker the Stated
Rate shall change automatically from time to time as such rate is changed by
TRISTAR CORPORATION's primary lender and each such change shall be effective as
of the date of each change in such Stated Rate, provided, that if on any day
the Stated Rate shall exceed the Highest Lawful Rate for that day, then the
Stated Rate shall be fixed at the Highest Lawful Rate on that day and on each
day thereafter until the total amount of interest accrued at the Stated Rate on
the unpaid balance of this Note equals the total amount of interest which would
have accrued if there were no Highest Lawful Rate.  However, neither the
maturity of this Note nor Maker's privilege to prepay it shall be affected by
this paragraph.

         "Past Due Rate" means the Highest Lawful Rate, or if applicable law
shall not provide for a maximum nonusurious rate, a rate per annum equal to the
Stated Rate plus seven percent (7%).

         "Highest Lawful Rate" means the maximum nonusurious rate of interest
permitted to be charged by applicable federal or Texas law (whichever shall
permit the higher lawful rate) from time-to-time in effect.  At all times, if
any, as Chapter 1 of the Texas Credit Code, as in effect on the date of this
Note, shall establish the Highest lawful Rate, the Highest Lawful Rate shall be
the "Indicated Rate Ceiling" (as defined in Chapter 1 of the Texas Credit Code)
from time-to-time in effect.  If the obligation is an open-ended account, Payee
may from time to time, as to then-current and future balances, implement any
other ceiling under Chapter 1 of the Texas Credit Code and/or revise the index,
formula or provision of law used to compute the rate on such obligation, if and
to the extent permitted by, and in the manner provided in, Chapter 1 of the
Texas Credit Code.

         The Principal of this Note shall be due and payable in twenty-four
(24) equal monthly installments of One Thousand Eight Hundred and Seventy-Five
Dollars ($1,875.00) each on or before the first day of every month beginning
January 1, 1997 and continuing regularly and monthly thereafter until the
outstanding Principal has been paid.  Interest computed on the unpaid principal
balance of this Note shall be payable monthly as it accrues on the same dates
as and in addition to the installments of principal.  The Maker may prepay this
Note in whole or in part at any time without penalty or premium.  All
prepayments shall be applied first against accrued interest under this Note and
then to the last maturity payments of principal due under this Note.





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         Maker is an employee of TRISTAR CORPORATION and hereby authorizes the
payments to be made hereunder to be made by payroll deductions from his salary
and bonuses to be paid by TRISTAR CORPORATION.  Maker agrees to execute any and
all documents legally necessary to perfect such payroll deductions.

         During the term of this Note Maker agrees that one-half (1/2) of any
bonuses paid to him by TRISTAR CORPORATION shall be applied against the
outstanding principal balance and accrued interest under this Note and any such
payment shall be deemed to be a prepayment pursuant to the terms on this Note
and applied as a prepayment on this Note as herein provided.

         Interest on the amount of each advance against this Note shall be
computed on the amount of that advance and from the date it is made.  Such
interest shall be computed for the actual number of days elapsed in a year
consisting of three hundred sixty (360) days, unless the Highest Lawful Rate
would thereby be exceeded, in which event, to the extent necessary to avoid
exceeding the Highest Lawful Rate, interest shall be computed on the basis of
the actual number of days elapsed in the applicable calendar year in which it
accrued.

         On the failure to pay any installment on this Note when due, or on the
breach of or default under any other provision of any of this Note including
the Covenants herein set forth, at the option of the Holder, the entire
indebtedness evidenced by the Notes will become due, payable and collectible
then or thereafter as the Holder may elect, regardless of the date of maturity
hereof.  Notice of the exercise of such option is hereby expressly waived.
Failure by the Holder to exercise such option shall not constitute a waiver of
the right to exercise the same in the event of any subsequent default.

         COVENANTS.  The Maker Covenants and agrees as follows:

                          i.      Maker is an employee of TRISTAR CORPORATION
                 and has an Employment Agreement with TRISTAR CORPORATION,
                 which Employment Agreement is incorporated herein by reference
                 for all relevant purposes (the "Employment Agreement").  Maker
                 agrees that a default under the terms of the Employment
                 Agreement shall be a default under the terms of this Note and
                 the Holder hereof shall be entitled to all rights and remedies
                 provided for hereunder including the right to accelerate the
                 maturity of all payments of principal and interest due
                 hereunder.

                          ii.     This Note shall become due and payable
                 immediately upon the termination of Maker's employment by
                 TRISTAR CORPORATION for any reason.

                          iii.  Maker shall comply with all rules, regulations,
                 procedures, policies and codes of conduct from time to time
                 established in writing by TRISTAR CORPORATION and to be
                 responsible that all employees of TRISTAR CORPORATION that
                 report to Maker shall also comply with such rules,
                 regulations, procedures, policies and codes of conduct.
                 TRISTAR CORPORATION's policies and procedures that Maker is to
                 comply with shall include, but not be limited to, all
                 procedures in connection with placement of orders to the
                 manufacturing division with respect to advanced period of time
                 to manufacture such orders.  A violation by Maker of the
                 provision herein set forth in this Covenant iii shall be a
                 default under the terms and provisions of this Note.

                          iv.     Maker, as an employee of TRISTAR CORPORATION
                 has agreed to certain budgets in connection with business
                 expenses, travel, and entertainment as set forth in the
                 Employment Agreement.  A violation of any of such budgets for
                 business expenses, travel and entertainment set forth in the
                 Employment Agreement shall be a default under the terms of
                 this Note, provided that it shall not be a default of this
                 Note if such violation in such budgets for business expenses,
                 travel and entertainment are previously approved in writing by
                 Tristar Corporation and are not within the control of Maker.
                 Maker acknowledges that all such expenses related to business
                 expenses, travel and entertainment for which he seeks
                 reimbursement are strictly related to the business of TRISTAR
                 CORPORATION and if Maker seeks reimbursement for any expense
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                 not strictly related to the business of TRISTAR CORPORATION
                 shall be a default under the terms of this Note.

         The acceptance by the Holder of any payment which is less than the
total of all amounts due and payable at the time of such payment shall not
constitute a waiver of the right to exercise any remedies or options at that
time or any subsequent time, or nullify any prior exercise of such remedy or
option, without the express consent of the Holder.

         After maturity and at any time while any default exists in the making
of any of the payments herein, whether Principal or interest, or both, or in
the performance or observance of any other Covenants, agreements or conditions
of any of this Note or of any agreement now or hereafter securing the
indebtedness evidenced thereby, the Maker promises to pay interest on the
principal balance of this Note then outstanding from the date of maturity or
the date of such default until paid at the annual rate equal to the sum of
seven percent (7%) plus the Stated Rate from time to time in effect (but not
less than the rate in effect at such maturity or on default and not greater
than eighteen percent [18%] per annum).  During the existence of any default,
the Holder of this Note may apply payments received on any amounts due
hereunder, or under any instrument now or hereafter evidencing or securing such
indebtedness, as the Holder may determine.  Any additional interest or
Principal which has accrued shall be payable at the time of, and as a condition
precedent to, the curing of any default.

         The Maker agrees that if this Note is placed in the hands of an
attorney for collection, or to defend or enforce any of the Holder's rights
hereunder, the Maker will pay to the Holder hereof reasonable attorney's fees,
to the extent allowed by law, together with all court cost sand other expenses
incurred in connection therewith, whether or not an action shall be instituted
to enforce this Note.

         If, for any reason whatsoever, the interest paid or received on this
Note during its full term produces a rate which exceeds the Highest Lawful
Rate, the Holder of this Note shall refund to the payor or, at the Holder's
option, credit against the unpaid Principal of this Note such portion of said
interest as shall be necessary to cause the interest paid on this Note to
produce a rate equal to the Highest Lawful Rate.  All sums paid or agreed to be
paid to the Holder of this Note for the use, forbearance or detention of the
indebtedness evidenced hereby shall, to the extent permitted by applicable law,
be amortized, prorated, allocated and spread in equal parts throughout the full
term of this Note, so that the interest rate is uniform throughout the full
term of this Note.  It is the intention of the parties hereto to conform
strictly to the usury laws of the State of Texas and to the laws, rule and
regulations of other applicable governmental authorities to the extent that
such laws, rules and regulations preempt Texas law.

         The Maker and the endorsers, sureties, guarantors, and all other
persons who may become liable for all or any part of this obligation severally
waive presentment for payment, protest and notice of nonpayment.  Such parties
consent to any extension of time of payment hereof, whether one or more, any
renewal hereof, whether one or more, release of all or any part of the security
for the payment hereof and any release of any party liable for payment of this
obligation.  Any such extension, renewal or release may be made at any time and
from time to time without notice to any such party and without discharging such
party's liability hereunder.

         This Note shall be governed by, and construed in accordance with, the
internal laws of the State of Texas.  This Note is given for an actual loan of
money for business purposes and not for personal, residential, household or
agricultural purposes.



         IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the Maker has executed this Note.



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                                         Joseph DeKama



                                         NORTHSIDE DEVELOPMENT

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