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Filed 3/1/21 In re J.A. CA4/2

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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA

FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION TWO

In re J.A. et al., a Person Coming Under 

the Juvenile Court Law.

SAN BERNARDINO COUNTY 

CHILDREN AND FAMILY SERVICES,

Plaintiff and Respondent,

v.

J.M.,

Defendant and Appellant.

E075873

(Super. Ct. Nos. J276757, J276758, 

 J276759 & J281748)

OPINION

APPEAL from the Superior Court of San Bernardino County. Erin K. Alexander, 

Judge. Affirmed.

William D. Caldwell, under appointment by the Court of Appeal, for Defendant 

and Appellant.

Michelle D. Blakemore, County Counsel, and David Guardado, Deputy 

County Counsel, for Plaintiff and Respondent. 
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I.

INTRODUCTION

J. M. (Mother) appeals from the juvenile court’s orders terminating her parental 

rights to her four minor children, J.A., Ju.A., A.M., and A.A., and freeing them for 

adoption. Their fathers are not parties to this appeal. We find no error and affirm.

II.

FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND

In June 2018, the San Bernardino County Department of Children and Family 

Services (the Department) received a referral alleging that Mother and Ad.A. (Father) had 

engaged in domestic violence. Father had been arrested several times for domestic 

violence, and he and Mother were trying to hide J.A. and A.A. from the Department.

A social worker spoke to Mother at the hospital. J.A., a newborn, and A.A., an 

infant, were with Mother. Mother denied that she and Father had engaged in domestic 

violence and denied being in a relationship with him even though they lived together. 

The social worker spoke with hospital staff, who stated that Mother did not obtain 

prenatal care for J.A. and that she needed Father’s permission to stay at the hospital after 

J.A.’s birth.

When the social worker returned to Mother’s hospital room, J.A. and A.A. were 

not there. Mother told the social worker, “He left with the kids.” Hospital security 

stopped Father from leaving the hospital with the children.
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Father told the social worker that he was aware that Los Angeles County social 

services were trying to locate him regarding an investigation into him, Mother, and the 

children. Father acknowledged he had been arrested for domestic violence in October 

2017, but claimed that he had “dropped a computer” and that Mother tried to pepper 

spray him. Father reported that the children were present during the altercation. The 

police report of the incident, however, stated that Father threw Mother’s laptop on the 

ground, then grabbed her by the hair and hit her head with a car door. Mother tried to 

pepper spray Father, but he took the pepper spray away from her and hit her in the head.

The Department filed petitions under Welfare and Institutions Code section 300, 

subdivision (b)1on behalf of J.A. and A.A., alleging that Mother and Father had an 

unstable and unsafe lifestyle and had engaged in domestic violence in the children’s 

presence, and that Father had a substance abuse issue that Mother did not protect the 

children from. The Department also filed a section 300, subdivision (b) petition on 

A.M.’s behalf, alleging that Mother2had an unstable lifestyle, engaged in domestic 

violence with Father, and failed to protect A.A. from Father’s substance abuse.

The juvenile court held a detention hearing in July 2018. The court ordered J.A., 

A.A., and A.M. detained from parental custody and ordered weekly two-hour supervised 

visits.

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All further statutory references are to the Welfare and Institutions Code.

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A.M.’s father’s whereabouts are unknown.
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A few weeks later, the juvenile court held a combined jurisdiction and disposition 

hearing. The Department recommended offering reunification services for Mother while 

bypassing reunification services for Father. At Father’s request, the juvenile court set a 

contested disposition hearing for September 2018. Before the hearing, the Department 

changed its recommendation, and recommended that Mother and Father receive 

reunification services. The juvenile court followed the recommendation, found the 

petitions’ allegations true, and removed J.A., A.A., and A.M. from parental custody. The 

court also ordered weekly, two-hour supervised visits for Mother and Father.

In March 2019, the juvenile court held a six-month status review hearing. The 

Department recommended that Mother and Father continue to receive reunification 

services. The Department reported that Mother and Father had consistently visited the 

children, their visits were appropriate, and they took direction on how to improve their 

parenting skills and their family relationships. The juvenile court ordered that Mother’s 

visits be unsupervised, continued reunification services, and set a 12-month status review 

hearing for August 2019.

In July 2019, however, the Department received a referral stating that Mother gave 

birth to Ju.A. Mother and Father did not tell the Department that they were expecting. 

They claimed they did not do so because they feared further involvement with the 

Department. The Department filed a section 300, subdivision (b) petition on Ju.A.’s 

behalf, again alleging Mother and Father’s domestic violence and Father’s substance 

abuse issues put Ju.A. at risk. The juvenile court ordered Ju.A. detained and set a 
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combined jurisdiction and disposition hearing for the same day as the 12-month status 

review for the other children in August 2019.

At the August 2019 hearing, the juvenile court found the allegations concerning 

Ju.A. true, ordered Ju.A. removed from parental custody, and ordered reunification 

services for Mother and Father. The court also ordered that reunification services 

continue for the other children and ordered unsupervised visitations for two weekends per 

month. The court set an 18-month status review hearing for J.A., A.A., and A.M. for 

December 2019 and a six-month status review hearing for Ju.A. in February 2020, with a 

special hearing for Ju.A. to coincide with the other children’s December 2019 hearing.

In November 2019, the Department reported that Mother had been arrested 

because of a domestic violence incident between her and Father. The Department

therefore requested that the parents’ visits be supervised and once per week for two 

hours. 

At the 18-month status review hearing for J.A., A.A., and A.M. in December 

2019, the Department recommended terminating reunification services and setting a 

section 366.26 hearing to establish a permanent plan of adoption because of the 

November 2019 domestic violence incident. The Department noted that the parents 

provided differing stories as to who the aggressor was. Mother and Father requested a 

contested hearing as to the termination of reunification services. The juvenile court set 

the matter for February 2020, the same date as Ju.A.’s six-month review hearing. Before 
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the hearing, the Department requested the court also terminate reunification services as to 

Ju.A.

At the hearing, the juvenile court found that parental custody was detrimental to 

the children and ordered reunification services be terminated for Mother and Father. The 

court also ordered that the parents’ visits continue to be supervised for two hours once 

per week, with the parents visiting separately. The court then set the matter for a section 

366.26 hearing in June 2020.

At the Department’s request, the hearing was continued to October 2020, so that 

the Department could complete an adoption assessment for the children. The Department 

reported that the children had been placed in adoptive homes with relatives. A.M. had 

been placed with her aunt since April 2019. J.A. and A.A. had been placed with their 

grandmother since April 2019, and Ju.A. had been placed in the same home with his 

siblings since February 2020.

The Department also reported that Mother’s visits had become inconsistent, she 

had failed to visit any of the children for six weeks, and her ability to engage with them 

was “weak.”

Before the October 2020 section 366.26 hearing, the Department submitted a 

report recommending that the court terminate parental rights and order adoption as the 

permanent plan. The Department reported that the children were happy in their 

respective adoptive homes and were bonded with their caretakers, who wanted to adopt 

the children. The Department also reported that Mother had failed to visit J.A., A.A., and 
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Ju.A. since June 2020, and their caretaker thought that contact with Mother negatively 

impacted the children’s behavior.

At the section 366.26 hearing, Mother and Father requested that their parental 

rights not to be terminated and that the court apply the beneficial parental relationship 

exception. The juvenile court declined to do so. The court found that the children were 

adoptable and, although Mother and Father visited them consistently, Mother and Father 

did not occupy a parental role in their lives. The court further found that, even if 

terminating parental rights was detrimental to the children, the benefits of adoption “far 

outweighs” the detriment. The juvenile court therefore terminated Mother and Father’s 

parental rights to their respective children and freed them for adoption. Mother timely 

appealed.

III.

DISCUSSION

Mother argues the juvenile court erroneously found that the beneficial parental 

relationship exception did not apply. We disagree.

The Legislature prefers adoption where possible. (In re L. Y. L. (2002) 101 

Cal.App.4th 942, 947.) Once the juvenile court finds a child is adoptable, the parent 

bears the burden of proving one of the exceptions to terminating parental rights exists. 

(In re Lorenzo C. (1997) 54 Cal.App.4th 1330, 1343.) “[I]t is only in an extraordinary 

case that preservation of the parent’s rights will prevail over the Legislature’s preference 

for adoptive placement.” (In re Jasmine D. (2000) 78 Cal.App.4th 1339, 1350.)
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The parental benefit or beneficial relationship exception applies where “‘[t]he 

parents . . . have maintained regular visitation and contact with the minor and the minor 

would benefit from continuing the relationship.’” (In re Derek W. (1999) 73 Cal.App.4th 

823, 826.) The parent has the burden of proving that the exception applies. (Ibid.) 

“When applying the beneficial parent-child relationship exception, the court balances the 

strength and quality of the parent-child relationship in a tenuous placement against the 

security and sense of belonging that a stable family would confer on the child. If 

severing the existing parental relationship would deprive the child of ‘a substantial, 

positive emotional attachment such that the child would be greatly harmed, the 

preference for adoption is overcome and the natural parent’s rights are not terminated.” 

(In re B.D. (2008) 159 Cal.App.4th 1218, 1234-1235.)

The beneficial parental relationship exception rarely applies. (In re E.T. (2018) 31 

Cal.App.5th 68, 70.) For the exception to apply, ‘“the emotional attachment between the 

child and parent must be that of parent and child rather than one of being a friendly 

visitor or friendly nonparent relative, such as an aunt.’” (In re Jason J. (2009) 175 

Cal.App.4th 922, 938.) The parent must show more than frequent and loving contact or 

pleasant visits. (In re Dakota H. (2005) 132 Cal.App.4th 212, 229.) “‘A biological 

parent who has failed to reunify with an adoptable child may not derail adoption merely 

by showing the child would derive some benefit from continuing a relationship 

maintained during periods of visitation with the parent. [Citation.] A child who has been 

adjudged a dependent of the juvenile court should not be deprived of an adoptive parent 
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when the natural parent has maintained a relationship that may be beneficial to some

degree, but that does not meet the child’s need for a parent.’” (In re Jason J., supra, at p. 

937.)

In deciding whether the parental benefit exception applies, “‘the court balances the 

strength and quality of the natural parent/child relationship in a tenuous placement 

against the security and the sense of belonging a new family would confer. If severing 

the natural parent/child relationship would deprive the child of a substantial, positive 

emotional attachment such that the child would be greatly harmed, the preference for 

adoption is overcome and the natural parent’s rights are not terminated.’” (In re J.C.

(2014) 226 Cal.App.4th 503, 528-529.) To make this assessment, we consider “many 

variables,” including “[t]he age of the child, the portion of the child’s life spent in the 

parent’s custody, the ‘positive’ or ‘negative’ effect of interaction between parent and 

child, and the child’s particular needs are some of the variables which logically affect a 

parent/child bond.” (In re Autumn H. (1994) 27 Cal.App.4th 567, 575-576.)

“We apply the substantial evidence standard of review to the factual issue of the

existence of a beneficial parental relationship, and the abuse of discretion standard to the

determination of whether there is a compelling reason for finding that termination [of

parental rights] would be detrimental to the child. [Citations.]” (In re Anthony B. (2015)

239 Cal.App.4th 389, 395; In re Noah G. (2016) 247 Cal.App.4th 1292, 1300-1301.)

Whether there is a beneficial parent-child relationship is a factual issue. Thus, the

substantial evidence standard applies to this component of the court’s decision. (In re
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Bailey J. (2010) 189 Cal.App.4th 1308, 1314.) But whether there is a compelling reason

to determine the child would suffer detriment if parental rights are terminated is a

“‘quintessentially’ discretionary decision,” because it requires the court to “determine the

importance of the relationship in terms of the detrimental impact that its severance can be

expected to have on the child and to weigh that against the benefit to the child of

adoption.” (Id. at p. 1315.)

Mother contends she had a parental relationship with her children. But even if she 

did, Mother has failed to show that “terminating their familial relationship would cause 

[the children] great harm.” (In re E.T., supra, 31 Cal.App.5th at p. 77.) There is no 

evidence that Mother occupied a “meaningful and significant parental role.” (In re 

Andrea R. (1999) 75 Cal.App.4th 1093, 1109.) The juvenile court thus did not abuse its 

discretion in finding that the benefits of adoption outweighed the benefits of continuing 

Mother’s relationship with the children.

All four children were removed because of Mother’s domestic violence issues 

with Father. Although Mother made progress and completed portions of her case plan, 

which suggested that she had resolved the issues that led to the children’s removal, she 

was arrested in November 2019 because of domestic violence with Father, suggesting she 

had not resolved the issues that led to the children’s removal. In other words, Mother 

continued the violent behavior that caused the children’s removal.

By contrast, Mother’s children appeared to be safe and well cared for in their 

prospective adoptive homes. Their prospective adoptive parents are committed to 
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adopting them and providing them with a permanent, safe, and stable home. All four 

children are bonded with their prospective adoptive parents. J.A., A.A., and Ju.A. live 

together with their grandmother, who wants to adopt them. Even assuming the children 

had “positive emotional attachments” with Mother, as she contends, the juvenile court 

reasonably found that the benefit the children would derive from a parental relationship 

with Mother does not “outweigh the well-being [they] would gain in a permanent home 

with new, adoptive parents.” (In re Autumn H., supra, 27 Cal.App.4th at p. 575.) Mother

failed to show anything more than that she and the children had frequent contact that 

raised no concerns. But a loving and friendly relationship is “‘not enough to outweigh 

the sense of security and belonging an adoptive home would provide.’” (In re Jason J., 

supra, 175 Cal.App.4th at p. 938.)

Moreover, “[t]he juvenile court may reject the parent’s claim simply by finding 

that the relationship maintained during visitation does not benefit the child significantly 

enough to outweigh the strong preference for adoption.” (In re Jasmine D., supra, at p. 

1350.) The juvenile court properly did so here. Nothing in the record suggests that the 

children would suffer “great harm” if their relationship with Mother is severed. (In re 

E.T., supra, 31 Cal.App.5th at p. 77.) Mother failed to present any evidence that her 

relationship with her children was so beneficial that it was an abuse of discretion for the 

trial court to determine that the detriment to the children of terminating that relationship 

did not outweigh the benefit to them of permanency through adoption. The juvenile court 

therefore did not abuse its discretion by terminating Mother’s parental rights to the 
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children and freeing them for adoption. (See In re Jasmine D., supra, at pp. 1351-1352 

[beneficial parent exception did not apply despite mother’s “successful visitation record”

because mother “made no steps toward overcoming the problems leading to [her child’s] 

dependency”].)

IV.

DISPOSITION

The juvenile court’s orders terminating parental rights and freeing the children for 

adoption are affirmed.

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CODRINGTON

J.

We concur:

RAMIREZ

P. J.

SLOUGH

J.