A Father’s 

Laughter

Sharing the 

Fun and Joy 

of Childhood

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ou know the terrific feeling you get from laughing when you hear a funny joke, read a humorous story, 

or watch a hilarious comedy. Even remembering it later can put a smile on your face. Children feel 

great too when laughter is part of their lives.

At times, it is easy for fathers to take themselves too seriously. And so many interactions between fathers 

and their children are to correct or direct the young ones. While maintaining discipline in your household 

is important, you can be more than an authority figure to your children. Fun and fundamentals can 

coexist happily.

Laughter is not primarily about humor, but about social relationships. Laughter establishes, or restores, a 

positive emotional climate and sense of connection among people. The stronger the connection between 

a father and his children, the more likely the children will accept and follow the father’s guidance. 

Laughter can improve family relationships. Being able to laugh with your family can open the lines of 

communication between you and your children. The closeness you develop through laughing together will 

take your day-to-day dialogue beyond the smiles. Children will be more comfortable sharing their thoughts 

and feelings—even admitting mistakes—which can be the starting point for important conversations about 

conduct and character.
J

ust like yawning, laughter is contagious. The laughter of 

others is irresistible. So look for ways to add spontaneous 

laughter to your family’s everyday activities. Here are 

some ideas to get you started:

 Spend time with your children, viewing the world from a child’s 

perspective. Read their books aloud, scan the Sunday comics together, 

watch the TV shows they like, play their video games (they might even 

let you win one), and listen to their stories about school, friends, sports, 

or whatever is important to them right now, no matter how many times 

you may have heard the same stories.

 Start a new family tradition by celebrating April Fool’s Day. Some 

fathers and their children plan practical jokes and gag gifts for weeks in 

advance in a fun competition to be the best prankster. One dad found 

salt in his non-dairy creamer when he made his morning coffee on April 

1 (the sugar looked suspicious too), and discovered cat food and doll 

shoes in his coat pocket as he left for work.

 Add fun to your children’s lives year round with a joke of the day. Check 

magazines, books, and comic strips to build an inventory of ageappropriate jokes. Select one joke each day. Write the joke on a sticky 

note to tuck into your child’s lunch bag or send it in a text message to 

an older child with a cell phone.

 Use phones, e-mail, links to appropriate Web sites, and other interactive 

technologies to spread humor if you are a father who travels frequently, 

is in the military, or is incarcerated. A cartoon sent by e-mail can brighten 

a child’s day and keep you connected even if you are far away.

 Take your children to the library, bookstore, or video store to borrow or 

buy funny DVDs, CDs, or books you can share. Classic comic strips such 

as Calvin and Hobbes are popular with both children and adults.

 Tell your children about funny experiences you, your siblings, or your 

family had while you were growing up. Give them examples of times 

when you laughed the hardest, fun games you played, or traditions you 

shared with your father or grandfather.

 Encourage your children to use their imaginations in making up funny 

stories that you all can laugh at and enjoy. Some of the most fantastic 

moments in your lives are created by your children...if you just let 

them. 

If laughter is important to you, it will become a natural part 

of your child’s life, too. Laughter can bring comfort in times 

of trouble, draw your family closer together, make you more 

approachable in your children’s eyes, and shape memories that 

last a lifetime.
Be a Dad Today

Take Time to

www.fatherhood.gov

Toll-free: 1-877-4DAD411

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services

Administration for Children and Families

Office of Family Assistance

For Further Discussion

 Name some books, movies, TV shows, or video games that you can use to bring laughter into your home.

 Describe some ways that you can make holiday celebrations fun and memorable for yourself and your family.

 List some good sources for jokes, cartoons, and funny messages or photos that you can surprise your family with 

and bring smiles to their faces.

 Brainstorm ideas for games, puzzles, pictures, and stories that you can work on with your children through letters, 

phone calls, text messaging, or e-mail.

 Talk to and work with other dads to develop a list of appropriate jokes, funny stories, videos, TV shows, and other 

resources. Bring items to share and describe how you used them to add fun to your family’s everyday life. Add 

new items to the list each week. 

Check your local public library for these recommended movies on video or DVD

Over the Hedge Finding Nemo Shrek, Shrek 2, Shrek the Third

The Princess Bride Chicken Little Monsters, Inc.

Surf’s Up Madagascar The Pacifier

Shark Tale The Goonies Cheaper by the Dozen

Freaky Friday Herbie Fully Loaded The Santa Clause

The Wild Spy Kids Cars

The SpongeBob SquarePants Movie Muppet Treasure Island The Incredibles