COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA 

Present: Judges Alston, Decker and Senior Judge Coleman 

Argued by teleconference 

JASON LAFIA 

 MEMORANDUM OPINION*

 

v. Record No. 1149-14-3 PER CURIAM 

 JANUARY 20, 2015 

ROANOKE CITY DEPARTMENT 

 OF SOCIAL SERVICES 

 

 FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE CITY OF ROANOKE 

Charles N. Dorsey, Judge 

 L. Brad Braford for appellant. 

 Heather P. Ferguson, Assistant City Attorney (Daniel J. Callaghan, 

City Attorney; Charles J. Covati, Guardian ad litem for the minor 

child, on brief) for appellee. 

 Jason Lafia, father, appeals the trial court order terminating his parental rights to his 

daughter, B.L-M. On appeal, he argues the evidence was insufficient to terminate his parental rights 

pursuant to Code § 16.1-283(E) and to establish the goal of adoption.1

 

 B.L-M. was born on September 18, 2013. On that date, Meagan Waid, an investigator with 

the Roanoke City Department of Social Services, (RCDSS), spoke with the child’s mother at the 

hospital and attempted to talk with father via telephone. However, father refused to speak with 

Waid. Waid testified RCDSS had worked with father in the past concerning another child, H.L. 

Father’s parental rights to H.L. were involuntarily terminated in April of 2013. 

 *

 Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication. 

1

 Although the parties initially waived oral argument, this was a case deserving of oral 

argument. Therefore, the Court invited the parties to present oral argument. 

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 On September 20, 2013, Waid returned to the hospital and inquired if the parents had made 

alternative arrangements for caretakers for B.L-M. Waid testified father was angry, he did not want 

to speak with her, and he told her he did not have any family nearby. Father also told Waid the only 

person who helped the family was the payee who assisted with his social security payments. Waid 

further testified father was not responsive to her attempts to discuss possible services RCDSS could 

recommend to him. Waid also stated the hospital had attempted to teach father techniques to care 

for B.L-M. However, it did not appear father retained the information. 

 Courtney Jackson, a family services specialist with RCDSS, testified concerning the 

involvement of RCDSS with father regarding H.L. H.L. was born on August 22, 2011 and was 

placed in the legal custody of RCDSS on August 29, 2011. Jackson testified the original goal for 

H.L. was to return her to the family home. In order to achieve that goal, father was to maintain 

contact with RCDSS, complete a parental capacity assessment, complete reunification services, 

attend visitation, and maintain employment and stable housing. RCDSS offered father outpatient 

counseling, substance abuse counseling, reunification services, supervised visitation, a parental 

capacity assessment, and a domestic violence and abuse prevention assessment. Father completed 

the psychological evaluation, and he cooperated with the reunification services. He failed to 

complete outpatient counseling and substance abuse counseling. Additionally, he did not complete 

the domestic violence assessment. Father had supervised visitation with the child in the presence of 

an attachment specialist who assisted father with developing skills for caring for H.L. However, by 

April 2013, father had not progressed past the need for supervision during his visits and RCDSS had 

concerns for father’s ability to care for H.L. Evidence was presented that father sustained a closed 

head injury in 2011. 

 Alexandria Bell, the foster care worker for B.L-M., testified father told her he did not want 

any services from RCDSS. While B.L-M. was in the custody of RCDSS, father attended supervised 
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visitation with her. Bell testified that during each visit someone had to intervene with father’s care 

for the child. For example, father continuously failed to hold or feed B.L-M. appropriately, even 

after repeated intervention and instruction. Bell also stated father did not understand the 

developmental milestones of an infant. Bell testified father has poor retention and is unable to 

implement basic parenting skills despite his best efforts. In addition, B.L-M. suffers from numerous 

medical issues. 

 Father testified he refused services from RCDSS related to the care of B.L-M. because they 

suggested the same services he had previously been offered. He also asserted he had completed 

some of those services. Father testified he was now ready to cooperate by receiving services 

recommended by RCDSS, if given the opportunity. Father agreed that his 2011 head injury had an 

impact on his life and that he was no longer able to take care of his finances without assistance. 

 Father’s counsel asked father if he had “any family anywhere that would be able to help” 

him with the care of B.L-M. Father responded, “I got someone in New York.” Father’s counsel 

asked, “Have you provided that information to the Department?” Father responded, “No.” Father 

identified the family member as “Debbie,” his aunt. Father did not know Debbie’s last name and he 

stated that, although he spoke with Debbie “this week,” he did not discuss with her the possibility of 

her assisting in the care of B.L-M. Father testified Debbie knew B.L-M. was in foster care. 

 The record contains a Foster Care Service Plan that states RCDSS asked both father and 

mother if any appropriate relatives could care for B.L-M. and they “were unable to name anyone.” 

The plan further provides: “A relative search was done through Lexis-Nexis. Approximately seven 

letters were sent out to relatives of both [mother] and [father] that resulted in this search; however, 

to date, no one has contacted this agency regarding [B.L-M.].” The plan does not state the names of 

any of these relatives. 
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 At the conclusion of the evidence, father argued that he had provided “at least a little bit of 

information about an aunt in New York,” and he requested that the trial court continue the case and 

direct RCDSS to explore Debbie as a possible relative placement for B.L-M. 

 The guardian ad litem opined that father “simply cannot take care of this child” and that it 

was in the best interest of B.L-M. to terminate father’s parental rights. The guardian ad litem also 

disagreed with the assertion that Debbie was “going to be appropriate,” stating, “[s]he would have 

volunteered it by now. She knew what was going on.” 

 The trial court found father had not failed to do anything that he had the ability to do. The 

trial court ruled the “requirements of law have been met,” it terminated father’s parental rights to 

B.L-M. pursuant to Code § 16.1-283(E), and it approved the goal of adoption for the child. 

 The law is very clear that: 

 [w]hen addressing matters concerning the custody and care 

of a child, this Court’s paramount consideration is the child’s best 

interests. On appeal, we presume that the trial court thoroughly 

weighed all the evidence, considered the statutory requirements, 

and made its determination based on the child’s best interests. The 

trial court is vested with broad discretion in making decisions 

“necessary to guard and to foster a child’s best interests.” We will 

not disturb a trial court’s factual findings on appeal unless plainly 

wrong or without evidence to support them. 

Brown v. Spotsylvania Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 43 Va. App. 205, 211, 597 S.E.2d 214, 217 (2004) 

(citations omitted). 

 Code § 16.1-283(A) provides, in pertinent part, that before 

terminating parental rights, “the court shall give a consideration to 

granting custody to relatives of the child, including grandparents.” 

This Court has held that termination of parental rights is 

considered a grave proceeding and other remedies should be 

sought when available. Before termination of parental rights by 

the court, the agency seeking termination has an affirmative duty 

to investigate all reasonable options for placement with immediate 

relatives. Code § 16.1-283(A). The agency seeking termination 

has the burden to show that no reasonable alternatives exist; 

relatives who may be considered as alternatives have no duty to 

present themselves as such. 
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Sauer v. Franklin Cnty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 18 Va. App. 769, 771, 446 S.E.2d 640, 641 (1994) 

(other citations omitted). 

 The duty to investigate is a rule of reason dependent upon the particular facts and 

circumstances of each individual case. “As long as evidence in the record supports the trial 

court’s ruling and the trial court has not abused its discretion, its ruling must be affirmed on 

appeal.” Brown v. Brown, 30 Va. App. 532, 538, 518 S.E.2d 336, 338 (1999). 

 While we recognize that it was the responsibility of RCDSS to investigate all reasonable 

potential relative placements and that “relatives who may be considered as alternatives have no 

duty to present themselves as such[,]” Sauer, 18 Va. App. at 771, 446 S.E.2d at 641, there is no 

evidence in the record that Debbie is suitable or willing to care for B.L-M., particularly in light 

of B.L-M.’s medical issues. In addition, the record does not indicate that prior to the termination 

hearing, father suggested to RCDSS that Debbie should be considered as a potential custodian. 

When B.L-M. was two days old, the RCDSS investigator asked father if he had “any family” and 

he responded that he did not have any family “nearby.” Prior to that conversation, father refused 

to speak with the investigator on the telephone. Furthermore, father testified at the termination 

hearing that he had not provided RCDSS with information concerning Debbie. RCDSS was not 

required to investigate the home of every relative of a child, especially those whom father failed 

to suggest to RCDSS. See Hawthorne v. Smyth Cnty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 33 Va. App. 130, 

139, 531 S.E.2d 639, 644 (2000) (“It is well established in Virginia that a court will not compel 

‘a vain and useless undertaking.’” (quoting Virginia Passenger & Power Co. v. Fisher, 104 Va. 

121, 129, 51 S.E. 198, 201 (1905))). 

 Moreover, despite the fact that father testified he had recently conversed with Debbie, he 

stated he did not discuss the possibility of her caring for B.L-M. In addition, he did not secure 

Debbie’s presence at the termination hearing and she was aware that the child was in foster care. 
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 Further, the Foster Care Service Plan stated that RCDSS inquired of both father and mother 

if any appropriate relatives could care for B.L-M. and they “were unable to name anyone.” RCDSS 

conducted a relative search and sent approximately seven letters to relatives of both mother and 

father, but received no responses. The Foster Care Service Plan did not state the names of any of 

these relatives. 

 Thus, RCDSS investigated the existence of relatives of B.L-M. and made efforts to contact 

these relatives in order to determine a possible alternative placement for B.L-M. Evaluating and 

investigating alternative placement of a child with a relative is a very important part of the process 

when considering whether to terminate parental rights. On this record, and given that father failed 

to provide RCDSS with Debbie’s name when asked, we cannot say the trial court erred in ruling the 

statutory requirements were met. 

 Father also contends the evidence was insufficient to terminate his parental rights to B.L-M. 

pursuant to Code § 16.1-283(E). 

 “[A] termination pursuant to Code § 16.1-283(E)(i) must be based upon clear and 

convincing evidence that the action is in the best interests of the child. See Code § 16.1-283(E). In 

addition, the trial court must find the parent’s rights to a sibling of the child previously had been 

terminated. See Code § 16.1-283(E)(i).” Fields v. Dinwiddie Cnty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 46 

Va. App. 1, 8, 614 S.E.2d 656, 659 (2005) (footnote omitted). 

 Clear and convincing evidence proved that termination was in the best interests of B.L-M. 

Father sustained a closed head injury in 2011 and since that time he has been unable to take care of 

his finances without the assistance of a payee. He agreed the head injury has had an impact on his 

life. Evidence was presented that, despite instruction provided to father by an attachment specialist, 

father lacks the skills needed to meet the basic needs of B.L-M. Bell testified father has poor 

retention and is unable to implement basic parenting skills despite his best efforts. In the past, father 
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has refused to participate in services recommended by RCDSS, although at trial, he stated he was, at 

that time, willing to do so. Furthermore, B.L-M. has numerous serious medical issues that require 

ongoing medical care. Moreover, evidence was presented that father was also unable to care for 

B.L-M.’s older sibling, H.L., and his parental rights to that child were terminated in 2013. 

Virginia law recognizes the “maxim that, sometimes, the most 

reliable way to gauge a person’s future actions is to examine those 

of his past.” Petry v. Petry, 41 Va. App. 782, 793, 589 S.E.2d 458, 

463 (2003). “As many courts have observed, one permissible 

‘measure of a parent’s future potential is undoubtedly revealed in 

the parent’s past behavior with the child.’” Id. “No one can divine 

with any assurance the future course of human events. 

Nevertheless, past actions and relationships over a meaningful 

period serve as good indicators of what the future may be expected 

to hold.” Winfield v. Urquhart, 25 Va. App. 688, 696-97, 492 

S.E.2d 464, 467 (1997). 

Toms v. Hanover Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 46 Va. App. 257, 267-68, 616 S.E.2d 765, 770 (2005). 

 At the time of the termination hearing, B.L-M. had been in foster care for seven months. 

Nothing in the record suggests that “the mere passage of time” would resolve father’s parental 

difficulties. See Lecky v. Reed, 20 Va. App. 306, 312, 456 S.E.2d 538, 541 (1995). “Thus, further 

delay would prolong [B.L-M.]’s familial instability without the promise of benefit to h[er], a result 

clearly contrary to the child’s best interests.” Id. “It is clearly not in the best interests of a child to 

spend a lengthy period of time waiting to find out when, or even if, a parent will be capable of 

resuming his or [or her] responsibilities.” Kaywood v. Halifax Cnty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 10 

Va. App. 535, 540, 394 S.E.2d 492, 495 (1990). It is important for a child to have permanence and 

stability in her life. Father has not demonstrated an ability to adequately care for and provide for 

B.L-M. Thus, clear and convincing evidence proved that termination of father’s parental rights and 

establishing the foster care goal of adoption are in the best interests of the child. 

 Based on the evidence concerning the effort by RCDSS to locate suitable relatives willing 

and able to assume custody of B.L-M. and father’s inability to care for B.L-M., we cannot say the 
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trial court erred in finding that RCDSS presented clear and convincing evidence satisfying the 

statutory requirements of Code § 16.1-283(E) and proving that it was in the best interests of the 

child to terminate father’s parental rights. Accordingly, the decision of the trial court is affirmed. 

 Affirmed.