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                                                                    EXHIBIT 10.5

                        EXECUTIVE EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT
                            AS AMENDED AND RESTATED


     This AMENDED AND RESTATED EXECUTIVE EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENT ("Agreement") is
made as of the 19th day of April, 1999, between Wyndham International, Inc., a
Delaware corporation (the "Company"), and Michael A. Grossman ("Executive").

     WHEREAS, Executive has previously had a valued association with Gencom
American Hospitality ("Previous Employer");

     WHEREAS, Executive is currently employed by the Company in a senior
executive capacity;

     WHEREAS, the Company desires to continue to employ Executive and Executive
desires to continue to be employed by the Company;

     WHEREAS, the Company and Executive desire to amend and restate Executive's
existing Executive Employment Agreement with the Company, as set forth herein;

     WHEREAS, the Company and Executive acknowledge that regardless of the
provisions of Paragraph 8 of this Agreement, upon the closing of the Securities
Purchase Agreement by and among Patriot American Hospitality, Inc., Wyndham
International, Inc., Patriot American Hospitality, L.P. and the Investors named
therein, all options and other stock-based awards granted to Executive prior to
the date of this Agreement shall immediately accelerate and become exercisable
or non-forfeitable as of such date;

     WHEREAS, as an additional inducement to Executive to enter into this
Agreement, the Company shall, on the Commencement Date (as hereinafter defined),
grant Executive an option to purchase a certain number of Paired Shares of
common stock of the Company and of common stock of Patriot American Hospitality,
Inc. as set forth in the agreement attached hereto as Exhibit A (the "Option");
and

     WHEREAS, Executive is desirous of committing to serve the Company on the
terms herein provided.

     NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the mutual covenants and agreements
herein contained and other good and valuable consideration, the receipt and
sufficiency of which is hereby acknowledged, the parties agree as follows:

1.  Employment.  The term of this Agreement shall extend from the date hereof
(the "Commencement Date") until the third anniversary of the Commencement Date;
provided, however, that the term of this Agreement shall automatically be
extended for one additional year on the third anniversary of the Commencement
Date and each anniversary thereafter unless, not less than 90 days prior to each
such date, either party shall have given notice to the other that it does not
wish to extend this Agreement; provided, further, that if a Change in
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Control occurs during the original or extended term of this Agreement, the term
of this Agreement shall continue in effect for a period of not less than
eighteen (18) months beyond the month in which the Change in Control occurred.
The term of this Agreement shall be subject to termination as provided in
Paragraph 6 and may be referred to herein as the "Period of Employment."

2.  Position and Duties.  During the Period of Employment, Executive shall serve
as an Executive Vice President of the Company, shall have supervision and
control over and responsibility for the day-to-day business and affairs of those
functions and operations of the Company and shall have such other powers and
duties as may from time to time be prescribed by the Chairman of the Board of
the Company (the "Chairman") or the Chief Executive Officer of the Company (the
"CEO") or other executive authorized by the Chairman or CEO, provided that such
duties are consistent with Executive's position or other positions that he may
hold from time to time.  Executive shall devote his full working time and
efforts to the business and affairs of the Company.  Notwithstanding the
foregoing, Executive may serve on other boards of directors, with the approval
of the Chairman or CEO, or engage in religious, charitable or other community
activities as long as such services and activities are disclosed to the Chairman
or CEO and do not materially interfere with Executive's performance of his
duties to the Company as provided in this Agreement.

3.  Compensation and Related Matters.

     (a) Base Salary and Incentive Compensation.  Executive's initial annual
base salary ("Base Salary") shall be $270,700.00.  Effective July 1, 1999, Base
Salary shall be adjusted to $300,000.00.  Executive's Base Salary shall be
redetermined at least thirty (30) days before each annual compensation
determination date established by the Company during the Period of Employment in
an amount to be fixed by the Board of Directors of the Company or a Committee
thereof or a duly authorized officer (the "Board").  The Base Salary, as
redetermined, may be referred to herein as "Adjusted Base Salary."  The Base
Salary or Adjusted Base Salary shall be payable in substantially equal bi-weekly
installments and shall in no way limit or reduce the obligations of the Company
hereunder.  In addition to Base Salary or Adjusted Base Salary, Executive shall
be eligible to receive cash incentive compensation as determined by the Board
from time to time, and shall also be eligible to participate in such incentive
compensation plans as the Board shall determine from time to time for employees
of the same status within the hierarchy of the Company.

     (b) Expenses.  Executive shall be entitled to receive prompt reimbursement
for all reasonable expenses incurred by him (in accordance with the policies and
procedures then in effect and established by the Company for its senior
executive officers) in performing services hereunder during the Period of
Employment, provided that Executive properly accounts therefor in accordance
with Company policy.

     (c) Other Benefits.  During the Period of Employment, Executive shall be
entitled to continue to participate in or receive benefits under all of the
Company's Employee Benefit Plans in effect on the date hereof, or under plans or
arrangements that provide Executive with

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at least substantially equivalent benefits to those provided under such Employee
Benefit Plans. As used herein, "Employee Benefit Plans" include, without
limitation, each pension and retirement plan; supplemental pension, retirement
and deferred compensation plan; savings and profit-sharing plan; stock ownership
plan; stock purchase plan; stock option plan; life insurance plan; medical
insurance plan; disability plan; and health and accident plan or arrangement
established and maintained by the Company on the date hereof for employees of
the same status within the hierarchy of the Company. To the extent that the
scope or nature of benefits described in this section are determined under the
policies of the Company based in whole or in part on the seniority or tenure of
an employee's service, Executive shall be deemed to have a tenure with the
Company equal to the actual time of Executive's service with Company plus the
actual service by Executive to the Previous Employer. During the Period of
Employment, Executive shall be entitled to participate in or receive benefits
under any employee benefit plan or arrangement which may, in the future, be made
available by the Company to its executives and key management employees, subject
to and on a basis consistent with the terms, conditions and overall
administration of such plan or arrangement. Any payments or benefits payable to
Executive under a plan or arrangement referred to in this Subparagraph 3(c) in
respect of any calendar year during which Executive is employed by the Company
for less than the whole of such year shall, unless otherwise provided in the
applicable plan or arrangement, be prorated in accordance with the number of
days in such calendar year during which he is so employed. Should any such
payments or benefits accrue on a fiscal (rather than calendar) year, then the
proration in the preceding sentence shall be on the basis of a fiscal year
rather than calendar year.

     (d) Life Insurance.  The Company shall pay the premiums on, and maintain in
effect throughout the Period of Employment, a life insurance policy on the life
of Executive in an amount not less than the amount of Executive's then current
Base Salary or Adjusted Base Salary.  Executive shall have the right to
designate the beneficiary under such policy.

     (e) Vacations.  Executive shall be entitled to the number of paid vacation
days in each calendar year determined by the Company from time to time for
executives at the same level as Executive.  Executive shall also be entitled to
all paid holidays given by the Company to its executives.  To the extent that
the scope or nature of benefits described in this section are determined under
the policies of the Company based in whole or in part on the seniority or tenure
of an employee's service, Executive shall be deemed to have a tenure with the
Company equal to the actual time of Executive's service with Company plus the
actual service by Executive to the Previous Employer.

     (f) Disability Insurance.  The Company shall pay the premiums on, and
maintain in effect through the Period of Employment, long-term disability
insurance providing for payment of benefits at rates not less than sixty percent
(60%) of Executive's current Base Salary or Adjusted Base Salary.

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4.  Unauthorized Disclosure.

     (a) Confidential Information.  Executive acknowledges that in the course of
his employment with the Company (and, if applicable, its predecessors), he has
been allowed to become, and will continue to be allowed to become, acquainted
with the Company's business affairs, information, trade secrets, and other
matters which are of a proprietary or confidential nature, including but not
limited to the Company's and its predecessors' operations, business
opportunities, price and cost information, finance, customer information,
business plans, various sales techniques, manuals, letters, notebooks,
procedures, reports, products, processes, services, and other confidential
information and knowledge (collectively the "Confidential Information")
concerning the Company's and its predecessors' business.  The Company agrees to
provide on an ongoing basis such Confidential Information as the Company deems
necessary or desirable to aid Executive in the performance of his duties.
Executive understands and acknowledges that such Confidential Information is
confidential, and he agrees not to disclose such Confidential Information to
anyone outside the Company except to the extent that (i) Executive deems such
disclosure or use reasonably necessary or appropriate in connection with
performing his duties on behalf of the Company, (ii) Executive is required by
order of a court of competent jurisdiction (by subpoena or similar process) to
disclose or discuss any Confidential Information, provided that in such case,
Executive shall promptly inform the Company of such event, shall cooperate with
the Company in attempting to obtain a protective order or to otherwise restrict
such disclosure, and shall only disclose Confidential Information to the minimum
extent necessary to comply with any such court order; (iii) such Confidential
Information becomes generally known to and available for use by the hotel and
hospitality industry (the "Hotel Industry"), other than as a result of any
action or inaction by Executive; or (iv) such information has been rightfully
received by a member of the Hotel Industry or has been published in a form
generally available to the Hotel Industry prior to the date Executive proposes
to disclose or use such information.  Executive further agrees that he will not
during employment and/or at any time thereafter use such Confidential
Information in competing, directly or indirectly, with the Company.  At such
time as Executive shall cease to be employed by the Company, he will immediately
turn over to the Company all Confidential Information, including papers,
documents, writings, electronically stored information, other property, and all
copies of them provided to or created by him during the course of his employment
with the Company.

     (b) Heirs, successors, and legal representatives.  The foregoing provisions
of this Paragraph 4 shall be binding upon Executive's heirs, successors, and
legal representatives. The provisions of this Paragraph 4 shall survive the
termination of this Agreement for any reason.

5.  Covenant Not to Compete.  In consideration for the Option and for
Executive's employment by the Company under the terms provided in this Agreement
and as a means to aid in the performance and enforcement of the terms of the
Unauthorized Disclosure provisions of Paragraph 4, Executive agrees that

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     (a) during the term of Executive's employment with the Company and for a
period of twenty-four (24) months thereafter, regardless of the reason for
termination of employment, Executive will not, directly or indirectly, as an
owner, director, principal, agent, officer, employee, partner, consultant,
servant, or otherwise, carry on, operate, manage, control, or become involved in
any manner with any business, operation, corporation, partnership, association,
agency, or other person or entity which is in the business of owning, operating,
managing or granting franchise rights with respect to hotels, motels or other
lodging facilities in any area or territory in which the Company conducts
operations; provided, however, that the foregoing shall not prohibit Executive
from owning up to one percent (1%) of the outstanding stock of a publicly held
company engaged in the hospitality business.  Notwithstanding the foregoing,
Executive shall be permitted to engage in such activities with respect to any
other hotel, motel or lodging facility that would be immaterial to the
operations of the Company in the area or territory in question.  Immateriality,
for purposes of the foregoing sentence, shall be determined in the sole
discretion of the Board in good faith.

     (b) during the term of Executive's employment with the Company and for a
period of twenty-four (24) months thereafter, regardless of the reason for
termination of employment, Executive will not, directly or indirectly, either
for himself or for any other business, operation, corporation, partnership,
association, agency, or other person or entity, call upon, compete for, solicit,
divert, or take away, or attempt to divert or take away any of the customers
(including, without limitation, any hotel owner, lessor or lessee, asset
manager, trustee, consumer with whom the Company from time to time (i) has an
existing agreement or business relationship; or (ii) has included as a prospect
in its applicable pipeline) or vendors of the Company in any of the areas or
territories in which the Company conducts operations if such action has the
intent or effect of interfering with the Company's relationship with the vendor
or customer.

     (c) during the term of Executive's employment with the Company and for a
period of twenty-four (24) months thereafter, regardless of the reason for
termination of employment, Executive will not directly or indirectly solicit or
induce any present or future employee of the Company to accept employment with
Executive or with any business, operation, corporation, partnership,
association, agency, or other person or entity with which Executive may be
associated, and Executive will not employ or cause any business, operation,
corporation, partnership, association, agency, or other person or entity with
which Executive may be associated to employ any present or future employee of
the Company without providing the Company with ten (10) days' prior written
notice of such proposed employment.

     Should Executive violate the provisions of this Paragraph, then in addition
to all other rights and remedies available to the Company at law or in equity,
the duration of this covenant shall automatically be extended for the period of
time from which Executive began such violation until he permanently ceases such
violation.

6.  Termination.  Executive's employment hereunder may be terminated without any
breach of this Agreement under the following circumstances:

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     (a) Death.  Executive's employment hereunder shall terminate upon his
death.

     (b) Disability.  If, as a result of Executive's incapacity due to physical
or mental illness, Executive shall have been absent from his duties hereunder on
a full-time basis for one hundred eighty (180) calendar days in the aggregate in
any twelve (12) month period, the Company may terminate Executive's employment
hereunder.

     (c) Termination by Company For Cause.  At any time during the Period of
Employment, the Company may terminate Executive's employment hereunder for Cause
if such termination is approved by not less than a majority of the Board of
Directors of the Company at a meeting of such Board of Directors called and held
for such purpose.  For purposes of this Agreement "Cause" shall mean:  (A)
conduct by Executive constituting a material act of willful misconduct in
connection with the performance of his duties, including, without limitation,
misappropriation of funds or property of the Company or any of its affiliates
other than the occasional, customary and de minimis use of Company property for
personal purposes; (B) criminal or civil conviction of Executive, a plea of nolo
contendere by Executive or conduct by Executive that would reasonably be
expected to result in material injury to the reputation of the Company if he
were retained in his position with the Company, including, without limitation,
conviction of a felony involving moral turpitude; (C) continued, willful and
deliberate non-performance by Executive of his duties hereunder (other than by
reason of Executive's physical or mental illness, incapacity or disability) and
such non-performance has continued for more than thirty (30) days following
written notice of such non-performance from the Board; (D) a breach by Executive
of any of the provisions contained in Paragraphs 4 and 5 of this Agreement; or
(E) a violation by Executive of the Company's employment policies and such
violation has continued following written notice of such violation from the
Board.

     (d) Termination Without Cause.  At any time during the Period of
Employment, the Company may terminate Executive's employment hereunder without
Cause if such termination is approved by a majority of the Board at a meeting of
the Board called and held for such purpose.  Any termination by the Company of
Executive's employment under this Agreement which does not constitute a
termination for Cause under Subparagraph 6(c) or result from the death or
disability of the Executive under Subparagraph 6(a) or (b) shall be deemed a
termination without Cause.  If the Company provides notice to the Executive
under Paragraph 1 that it does not wish to extend the Period of Employment, such
action shall be deemed a termination without Cause.

     (e) Termination by Executive.  At any time during the Period of Employment,
Executive may terminate his employment hereunder for any reason, including but
not limited to Good Reason.  If Executive provides notice to the Company under
Paragraph 1 that he does not wish to extend the Period of Employment, such
action shall be deemed a voluntary termination by Executive and one without Good
Reason.  For purposes of this Agreement, "Good Reason" shall mean that Executive
has complied with the "Good Reason Process" (hereinafter defined) following the
occurrence of any of the following events:  (A) a substantial

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diminution or other substantive adverse change, not consented to by Executive,
in the nature or scope of Executive's responsibilities, authorities, powers,
functions or duties, other than a change in Executive's position or reporting
relationship; (B) any removal, during the Period of Employment, from Executive
of his title of Executive Vice President; (C) an involuntary reduction in
Executive's Base Salary or Adjusted Base Salary or involuntary reduction in cash
incentive compensation plan (but not reduction in incentive compensation
appropriate for level of performance) except for across-the-board salary
reductions similarly affecting all or substantially all management employees;
(D) a breach by the Company of any of its other material obligations under this
Agreement and the failure of the Company to cure such breach within thirty (30)
days after written notice thereof by Executive; (E) the involuntary relocation
of the Company's offices at which Executive is principally employed or the
involuntary relocation of the offices of Executive's primary workgroup to a
location more than thirty (30) miles from such offices (other than a relocation
in either event to Dallas, Texas), or the requirement by the Company for
Executive to be based anywhere other than the Company's offices at such location
or in Dallas, Texas on an extended basis, except for required travel on the
Company's business to an extent substantially consistent with Executive's
business travel obligations; or (F) the requirement that Executive report to a
person who is below the level of an Executive Vice President. "Good Reason
Process" shall mean that (i) the Executive reasonably determines in good faith
that a "Good Reason" event has occurred; (ii) Executive notifies the Company in
writing of the occurrence of the Good Reason event; (iii) Executive cooperates
in good faith with the Company's efforts, for a period not less than ninety (90)
days following such notice, to modify Executive's employment situation in a
manner acceptable to Executive and Company; and (iv) notwithstanding such
efforts, one or more of the Good Reason events continues to exist and has not
been modified in a manner acceptable to Executive. If the Company cures the Good
Reason event during the ninety (90) day period, Good Reason shall be deemed not
to have occurred.

     (f) Notice of Termination.  Except for termination as specified in
Subparagraph 6(a), any termination of Executive's employment by the Company or
any such termination by Executive shall be communicated by written Notice of
Termination to the other party hereto.  For purposes of this Agreement, a
"Notice of Termination" shall mean a notice which shall indicate the specific
termination provision in this Agreement relied upon.

     (g) Date of Termination.  "Date of Termination" shall mean:  (A) if
Executive's employment is terminated by his death, the date of his death; (B) if
Executive's employment is terminated on account of disability under Subparagraph
6(b) or by the Company for Cause under Subparagraph 6(c), the date on which
Notice of Termination is given; (C) if Executive's employment is terminated by
the Company under Subparagraph 6(d), sixty (60) days after the date on which a
Notice of Termination is given; and (D) if Executive's employment is terminated
by Executive under Subparagraph 6(e), thirty (30) days after the date on which a
Notice of Termination is given.

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7.  Compensation Upon Termination or During Disability.

     (a) If Executive's employment terminates by reason of his death, the
Company shall, within ninety (90) days of death, pay in a lump sum amount to
such person as Executive shall designate in a notice filed with the Company or,
if no such person is designated, to Executive's estate, Executive's accrued and
unpaid Base Salary or, if applicable, his Adjusted Base Salary, to the date of
his death, plus his accrued and unpaid incentive compensation, if any, under
Subparagraph 3(a).  For a period of one (1) year following the Date of
Termination, the Company shall pay such health insurance premiums as may be
necessary to allow Executive's spouse and dependents to receive health insurance
coverage substantially similar to coverage they received prior to the Date of
Termination.  In addition to the foregoing, any payments to which Executive's
spouse, beneficiaries, or estate may be entitled under any employee benefit plan
shall also be paid in accordance with the terms of such plan or arrangement.
Such payments, in the aggregate, shall fully discharge the Company's obligations
hereunder.

     (b) During any period that Executive fails to perform his duties hereunder
as a result of incapacity due to physical or mental illness, Executive shall
continue to receive his accrued and unpaid Base Salary or, if applicable, his
Adjusted Base Salary and accrued and unpaid incentive compensation payments, if
any, under Subparagraph 3(a), until Executive's employment is terminated due to
disability in accordance with Subparagraph 6(b) or until Executive terminates
his employment in accordance with Subparagraph 6(e), whichever first occurs.
For a period of one (1) year following the Date of Termination, the Company
shall pay such health insurance premiums as may be necessary to allow Executive,
Executive's spouse and dependents to receive health insurance coverage
substantially similar to coverage they received prior to the Date of
Termination.  Upon termination due to death prior to the termination first to
occur as specified in the preceding sentence, Subparagraph 7(a) shall apply.

     (c) If Executive's employment is terminated by Executive other than for
Good Reason as provided in Subparagraph 6(e), then the Company shall, through
the Date of Termination, pay Executive his accrued and unpaid Base Salary or, if
applicable, his Adjusted Base Salary at the rate in effect at the time Notice of
Termination is given.  Thereafter, the Company shall have no further obligations
to Executive except as otherwise expressly provided under this Agreement,
provided any such termination shall not adversely affect or alter Executive's
rights under any employee benefit plan of the Company in which Executive, at the
Date of Termination, has a vested interest, unless otherwise provided in such
employee benefit plan or any agreement or other instrument attendant thereto.

     (d) If Executive terminates his employment for Good Reason as provided in
Subparagraph 6(e) or if Executive's employment is terminated by the Company
without Cause as provided in Subparagraph 6(d), then the Company shall, through
the Date of Termination, pay Executive his accrued and unpaid Base Salary or, if
applicable, his Adjusted Base Salary at the rate in effect at the time Notice of
Termination is given and his accrued and unpaid

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incentive compensation, if any, under Subparagraph 3(a). In addition, subject to
signing by Executive of a general release of claims in a form and manner
satisfactory to the Company,

          (i) the Company shall continue Executive's compensation at a rate
     equal to the sum of Executive's Average Base Salary and his Average
     Incentive Compensation payable for the remaining length of the Period of
     Employment after the Date of Termination (the "Severance Amount"), but in
     no event for fewer than twenty-four (24) months.  The Severance Amount
     shall be paid out in substantially equal bi-weekly installments, in
     arrears; provided, however, that in the event Executive commences any
     employment during such period, the Company shall be entitled to set-off
     against the remaining Severance Amount seventy-five percent (75%) of the
     amount of any cash compensation received by Executive from the new
     employer.  From time to time, Executive may be asked to certify to the
     Company that he has not accepted employment with a new employer (including,
     without limitation, contract and consulting agreements).  For purposes of
     this Agreement, "Average Base Salary" shall mean the average of the annual
     Base Salary or, if applicable, Adjusted Base Salary received by Executive
     for each of the three (3) immediately preceding fiscal years or such fewer
     number of complete fiscal years as Executive may have been employed by the
     Company and the Previous Employer.  For purposes of this Agreement,
     "Average Incentive Compensation" shall mean the average of the annual
     incentive compensation under Subparagraph 3(a) received by Executive for
     the three (3) immediately preceding fiscal years or such fewer number of
     complete fiscal years as Executive may have been employed by the Company
     and the Previous Employer.  In no event shall "Average Incentive
     Compensation" include any sign-on bonus, retention bonus or any other
     special bonus.  Notwithstanding the foregoing, if the Executive breaches
     any of the provisions contained in Paragraphs 4 and 5 of this Agreement,
     all payments of the Severance Amount shall immediately cease.
     Notwithstanding the foregoing, in the event Executive terminates his
     employment for Good Reason as provided in Subparagraph 6(e), he shall be
     entitled to the Severance Amount only if he provides the Notice of
     Termination provided for in Subparagraph 6(f) within thirty (30) days after
     the occurrence of the event or events which constitute such Good Reason as
     specified in clauses (A), (B), (C), (D), (E) and (F) of Subparagraph 6(e);

          (ii) in addition to any other benefits to which Executive may be
     entitled in accordance with the Company's then existing severance policies,
     the Company shall, for a period of one (1) year commencing on the Date of
     Termination, pay such health insurance premiums as may be necessary to
     allow Executive, Executive's spouse and dependents to continue to receive
     health insurance coverage substantially similar to the coverage they
     received prior to his termination of employment.

     (e) If Executive's employment is terminated by the Company for Cause as
provided in Subparagraph 6(c), then the Company shall, through the Date of
Termination, pay Executive his accrued and unpaid Base Salary or, if applicable,
his Adjusted Base Salary at the rate in effect at the time Notice of Termination
is given.  Thereafter, the Company shall have no

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further obligations to Executive except as otherwise expressly provided under
this Agreement, provided any such termination shall not adversely affect or
alter Executive's rights under any employee benefit plan of the Company in which
Executive, at the Date of Termination, has a vested interest, unless otherwise
provided in such employee benefit plan or any agreement or other instrument
attendant thereto.

     (f) Regardless of the reason for termination, for a period of five (5)
years beginning on the Date of Termination, the Company will provide such
reasonable assistance and support to Executive as he shall reasonably require in
connection with the preparation and filing of tax returns, statements and forms
insofar as such returns, statements or forms relate to Executive's association
with the Company or any of its predecessors or affiliates.  At the Company's
election, such assistance and support shall be provided by either tax personnel
from the Company or certified public accountants selected and compensated by the
Company.

     (g) Nothing contained in the foregoing Subparagraphs 7(a) through 7(f)
shall be construed so as to affect Executive's rights or the Company's
obligations relating to agreements or benefits which are unrelated to
termination of employment.

8.  Change in Control Payment.  The provisions of this Paragraph 8 set forth
certain terms of an agreement reached between Executive and the Company
regarding Executive's rights and obligations upon the occurrence of a Change in
Control of the Company.  These provisions are intended to assure and encourage
in advance Executive's continued attention and dedication to his assigned duties
and his objectivity during the pendency and after the occurrence of any such
event.  These provisions shall apply in lieu of, and expressly supersede, the
provisions of Subparagraph 7(d)(i) regarding severance pay upon a termination of
employment, if such termination of employment occurs within eighteen (18) months
after the occurrence of the first event constituting a Change of Control;
provided that such first event occurs during the Period of Employment.  These
provisions shall terminate and be of no further force or effect beginning
eighteen (18) months after the occurrence of a Change of Control.

     (a)  Change in Control.

          (i) If within eighteen (18) months after the occurrence of the first
     event constituting a Change in Control, Executive's employment is
     terminated by the Company without Cause as provided in Subparagraph 6(d) or
     Executive terminates his employment for Good Reason as provided in
     Subparagraph 6(e), then the Company shall pay Executive the Severance
     Amount as provided in Subparagraph 7(d)(i) in substantially bi-weekly
     installments, in arrears, over twenty-four (24) months.  Notwithstanding
     the foregoing, if the Executive breaches any of the provisions contained in
     Paragraphs 4 and 5 of this Agreement, all payments of the Severance Amount
     shall immediately cease; and

          (ii) Within fifteen (15) days after Executive becomes entitled to
     receive the Severance Amount under (i) above, the Company shall place funds
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     to the estimated Severance Amount in escrow, pursuant to arrangements that
     are mutually acceptable to the Company and Executive (the "Escrow
     Arrangement"). The Escrow Arrangement shall be maintained until the final
     installment payment of the Severance Amount has been made;

          (iii)  Notwithstanding anything to the contrary in any applicable
     option agreement or stock-based award agreement, if Executive terminates
     his employment for Good Reason as provided in Subparagraph 6(e) or if
     Executive's employment is terminated by the Company without Cause as
     provided in Subparagraph 6(d) within eighteen (18) months of a Change in
     Control, all stock options and other stock-based awards granted to
     Executive by the Company shall immediately accelerate and become
     exercisable or non-forfeitable as of the Date of Termination, and Executive
     shall have 360 days to exercise all his stock options.  Executive shall
     also be entitled to any other rights and benefits with respect to stock-
     related awards, to the extent and upon the terms provided in the employee
     stock option or incentive plan or any agreement or other instrument
     attendant thereto pursuant to which such options or awards were granted;
     and

          (iv) The Company shall, for a period of one (1) year commencing on the
     Date of Termination, pay such health insurance premiums as may be necessary
     to allow Executive, Executive's spouse and dependents to continue to
     receive health insurance coverage substantially similar to the coverage
     they received prior to his termination of employment.

     (b)  Gross Up Payment.

          (i) Excess Parachute Payment.  If Executive incurs the tax (the
     "Excise Tax") imposed by Section 4999 of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986
     (the "Code") on "excess parachute payments" within the meaning of Section
     280G(b)(1) of the Code, the Company will pay to Executive an amount (the
     "Gross Up Payment") such that the net amount retained by Executive, after
     deduction of any Excise Tax on the excess parachute payment and any
     federal, state and local income taxes and employment taxes (together with
     penalties and interest) and Excise Tax upon the payment provided for by
     this Subparagraph 8(c)(i), will be equal to the Severance Amount.

          (ii) Applicable Rates.  For purposes of determining the amount of the
     Gross Up Payment, Executive will be deemed to pay federal income taxes at
     the highest marginal rate of federal income taxation in the calendar year
     in which the Gross Up Payment is to be made and state and local income
     taxes at the highest marginal rates of taxation in the state and locality
     of Executive's residence on the date of Executive's Termination, net of the
     maximum reduction in federal income taxes that could be obtained from
     deduction of such state and local taxes.

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          (iii)  Determination of Gross Up Payment Amount.  The determination of
     whether the Excise Tax is payable and the amount thereof will be based upon
     the opinion of tax counsel selected by Executive and approved by the
     Company, which approval will not be unreasonably withheld.  If such opinion
     is not finally accepted by the Internal Revenue Service (or state and local
     taxing authorities), then appropriate adjustments to the Excise Tax will be
     computed and additional Gross Up Payments will be made in the manner
     provided by this Subparagraph (c).

          (iv) Time For Payment.  The Company will pay the estimated amount of
     the Gross Up Payment in cash to Executive at such time or times when the
     Excise Tax is due.  Executive and the Company agree to reasonably cooperate
     in the determination of the actual amount of the Gross Up Payment.
     Further, Executive and the Company agree to make such adjustments to the
     estimated amount of the Gross Up Payment as may be necessary to equal the
     actual amount of the Gross Up Payment, which in the case of Executive will
     refer to refunds of prior overpayments and in the case of the Company will
     refer to makeup of prior underpayments.

     (c) Definitions.  For purposes of this Paragraph 8, the following terms
shall have the following meanings:

          "Change in Control" shall mean any of the following:

          (a) the acquisition by any individual, entity or group (within the
     meaning of Section 13(d)(3) or 14(d)(2) of the Exchange Act) (the
     "Acquiring Person"), other than the Company, or any of its Subsidiaries or
     any Investor or Excluded Group, of beneficial ownership (within the meaning
     of Rule 13d-3 promulgated under the Exchange Act) of 35% or more of the
     combined voting power or economic interests of the then outstanding voting
     securities of the Company entitled to vote generally in the election of
     directors; provided, however, that any transfer from any Investor or
     Excluded Group will not result in a Change in Control if such transfer was
     part of a series of related transactions the effect of which, absent the
     transfer to such Acquiring Person by the Investor or Excluded Group, would
     not have resulted in the acquisition by such Acquiring Person of 35% or
     more of the combined voting power or economic interests of the then
     outstanding voting securities; or

          (b) during any period of 12 consecutive months after the Issuance
     Date, the individuals who at the beginning of any such 12-month period
     constituted a majority of the Class A Directors and Class C Directors (the
     "Incumbent Non-Investor Majority") cease for any reason to constitute at
     least a majority of such Class A Directors and Class C Directors; provided
     that (i) any individual becoming a director whose election, or nomination
     for election by the Company's stockholders, was approved by a vote of the
     stockholders having the right to designate such director and (ii) any
     director whose election to the Board or whose nomination for election by
     the stockholders of the Company was approved by the requisite vote of
     directors entitled to vote on such

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     election or nomination in accordance with the Restated Certificate of
     Incorporation of the Company, shall, in each such case, be considered as
     though such individual were a member of the Incumbent Non-Investor
     Majority, but excluding, as a member of the Incumbent Non-Investor
     Majority, any such individual whose initial assumption of office is in
     connection with an actual or threatened election contest relating to the
     election of the directors of the Company (as such terms are used in Rule
     14a-11 of Regulation 14A promulgated under the Exchange Act) and further
     excluding any person who is an affiliate or associate of an Acquiring
     Person having or proposing to acquire beneficial ownership of 25% or more
     of the combined voting power of the then outstanding voting securities of
     the Company entitled to vote generally in the election of directors; or

          (c) the approval by the stockholders of the Company of a
     reorganization, merger or consolidation, in each case, with respect to
     which all or substantially all of the individuals and entities who were the
     respective beneficial owners of the voting securities of the Company
     immediately prior to such reorganization, merger or consolidation do not,
     following such reorganization, merger or consolidation, beneficially own,
     directly or indirectly, more than 57.5% of the combined voting power of the
     then outstanding voting securities entitled to vote generally in the
     election of directors of the Company resulting from such reorganization,
     merger or consolidation; or

          (d) the sale or other disposition of assets representing 50% or more
     of the assets of the Company in one transaction or series of related
     transactions.

     All defined terms used in the definition of "Change in Control" shall have
     the same meaning as set forth in the Form of Certificate of Designation of
     Series B Convertible Preferred Stock of Wyndham International, Inc.

          "Company" shall mean not only Wyndham International, Inc., but also
     its successors by merger or otherwise.

9.  Notice.  For purposes of this Agreement, notices and all other
communications provided for in the Agreement shall be in writing and shall be
deemed to have been duly given when delivered or mailed by United States
certified mail, return receipt requested, postage prepaid, addressed as follows:

     if to the Executive:

          At his home address as shown
          in the Company's personnel records;

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     if to the Company:

          Wyndham International, Inc.
          1950 Stemmons Freeway
          Suite 6001
          Dallas, TX  75207
          Attention: Senior Vice President of Human Resources and General
                     Counsel

or to such other address as either party may have furnished to the other in
writing in accordance herewith, except that notices of change of address shall
be effective only upon receipt.

10.  Miscellaneous.  No provisions of this Agreement may be modified, waived, or
discharged unless such waiver, modification, or discharge is agreed to in
writing and signed by Executive and such officer of the Company as may be
specifically designated by the Board.  No waiver by either party hereto of, or
compliance with, any condition or provision of this Agreement to be performed by
such other party shall be deemed a waiver of similar or dissimilar provisions or
conditions at the same or at any prior or subsequent time.  No agreements or
representations, oral or otherwise, express or implied, unless specifically
referred to herein, with respect to the subject matter hereof have been made by
either party which are not set forth expressly in this Agreement.  The validity,
interpretation, construction, and performance of this Agreement shall be
governed by the laws of the State of Texas (without regard to principles of
conflicts of laws).

11.  Validity.  The invalidity or unenforceability of any provision or
provisions of this Agreement shall not affect the validity or enforceability of
any other provision of this Agreement, which shall remain in full force and
effect.  The invalid portion of this Agreement, if any, shall be modified by any
court having jurisdiction to the extent necessary to render such portion
enforceable.

12.  Counterparts.  This Agreement may be executed in several counterparts, each
of which shall be deemed to be an original but all of which together will
constitute one and the same instrument.

13.  Arbitration; Other Disputes.  In the event of any dispute or controversy
arising under or in connection with this Agreement, the parties shall first
promptly try in good faith to settle such dispute or controversy by mediation
under the applicable rules of the American Arbitration Association before
resorting to arbitration.  In the event such dispute or controversy remains
unresolved in whole or in part for a period of thirty (30) days after it arises,
the parties will settle any remaining dispute or controversy exclusively by
arbitration in Dallas, Texas, in accordance with the rules of the American
Arbitration Association then in effect.  Judgment may be entered on the
arbitrator's award in any court having jurisdiction.  Notwithstanding the above,
the Company shall be entitled to seek a restraining order or injunction in any
court of competent jurisdiction to prevent any continuation of any violation of

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Paragraph 4 or 5 hereof.  Furthermore, should a dispute occur concerning
Executive's mental or physical capacity as described in Subparagraph 6(b), 6(c)
or 7(b), a doctor selected by Executive and a doctor selected by the Company
shall be entitled to examine Executive.  If the opinion of the Company's doctor
and Executive's doctor conflict, the Company's doctor and Executive's doctor
shall together agree upon a third doctor, whose opinion shall be binding.  Any
amount to which Executive is entitled under this Agreement (including any
disputed amount), which is not paid when due, shall bear interest at a rate
equal to the lesser of eighteen percent (18%) per annum or the maximum lawful
rate.

14.  Third-Party Agreements and Rights.  Executive represents to the Company
that Executive's execution of this Agreement, Executive's employment with the
Company and the performance of Executive's proposed duties for the Company will
not violate any obligations Executive may have to any employer or other party,
and Executive will not bring to the premises of the Company any copies or other
tangible embodiments of non-public information belonging to or obtained from any
such previous employment or other party.

15.  Litigation and Regulatory Cooperation.  During and after Executive's
employment, Executive shall reasonably cooperate with the Company in the defense
or prosecution of any claims or actions now in existence or which may be brought
in the future against or on behalf of the Company which relate to events or
occurrences that transpired while Executive was employed by the Company;
provided, however, that such cooperation shall not materially and adversely
affect Executive or expose Executive to an increased probability of civil or
criminal litigation.  Executive's cooperation in connection with such claims or
actions shall include, but not be limited to, being available to meet with
counsel to prepare for discovery or trial and to act as a witness on behalf of
the Company at mutually convenient times.  During and after Executive's
employment, Executive also shall cooperate fully with the Company in connection
with any investigation or review of any federal, state or local regulatory
authority as any such investigation or review relates to events or occurrences
that transpired while Executive was employed by the Company.  The Company shall
also provide Executive with compensation on an hourly basis (to be derived from
the sum of his Base Compensation or, if applicable, Adjusted Base Salary and
Average Incentive Compensation) for requested litigation and regulatory
cooperation that occurs after his termination of employment, and reimburse
Executive for all costs and expenses incurred in connection with his performance
under this Paragraph 15, including, but not limited to, reasonable attorneys'
fees and costs.

16.  Gender Neutral.  Wherever used herein, a pronoun in the masculine gender
shall be considered as including the feminine gender unless the context clearly
indicates otherwise.

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     IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties have executed this Agreement effective on
the date and year first above written.


                                    WYNDHAM INTERNATIONAL, INC.


                                    By:_______________________________
                                    Its:_______________________________


                                     _______________________________
                                     Michael A. Grossman

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                                   Exhibit A

                          WYNDHAM INTERNATIONAL, INC.

                     NON-QUALIFIED STOCK OPTION AGREEMENT

                          Dated as of April 19, 1999


     Wyndham International, Inc., a corporation organized under the laws of
Delaware (the "Company"), hereby grants to Michael A. Grossman, an Employee of
the Company (the "Optionee"), as of April 19, 1999 (the "Date of Grant"), a non-
qualified option (the "Option") to purchase from the Company 400,000 Paired
Shares, at the price of $5.00 per Paired Share, subject to the terms and
conditions set forth below. Such grant is pursuant to the Wyndham International,
Inc. 1997 Incentive Plan (the "Plan") and is made as an inducement to Optionee
to enter into the Employment Agreement between Optionee and the Company of even
date herewith (the "Employment Agreement").

1.   Option Subject to Acceptance of Option Agreement and Employment Agreement.
     The Option may not be exercised unless the Optionee accepts this Option
     Agreement and the Employment Agreement by executing both the Option
     Agreement and the Employment Agreement and returning such original
     execution copies to the Company.

2.   Time and Manner of Exercise of Option.

     a.   Maximum Term of Option. The Expiration Date of this Option is the date
          that is ten years from the Date of Grant. This Option may not be
          exercised on or after the Expiration Date.

     b.   Vesting Schedule. No portion of this Option may be exercised until
          such portion shall have vested. Except as set forth in Section 3 of
          this Agreement, this Option shall be vested and exercisable with
          respect to the following number of Paired Shares on the date indicated
          below provided that Optionee remains employed by the Company on such
          date:

                ===============================================
                              Vesting Schedule A
                ===============================================
                 Number of Paired
                Shares Exercisable               Vesting Date
                -----------------------------------------------
                  400,000 (100%)              February 13, 2009
                ===============================================

          Notwithstanding the foregoing, upon the closing (the "Closing") of the
          Securities Purchase Agreement (the "Securities Purchase Agreement") by
          and among Patriot American Hospitality, Inc., Wyndham International,
          Inc., Patriot American Hospitality Partnership, L.P. and the
          Investors named therein dated as of February 28, 1999, as amended from
          time to time, the foregoing vesting
<PAGE>

          schedule shall not apply and except as set forth in Section 3 of this
          Agreement, this Option shall be vested and exercisable with respect to
          the following number of Paired Shares on the dates indicated below
          provided that Optionee remains employed by the Company on such dates:

                ===============================================
                              Vesting Schedule B
                ===============================================
                 Number of Paired
                Shares Exercisable           Vesting Date
                -----------------------------------------------
                   80,000  (20%)     1 year after Date of Grant
                -----------------------------------------------
                   80,000  (20%)    2 years after Date of Grant
                -----------------------------------------------
                   80,000  (20%)    3 years after Date of Grant
                -----------------------------------------------
                   80,000  (20%)    4 years after Date of Grant
                -----------------------------------------------
                   80,000  (20%)    5 years after Date of Grant
                ===============================================

          In the event of a Change in Control of the Company (as defined in the
          Employment Agreement), if within 18 months of such Change in Control,
          the Optionee's employment with the Company is terminated by the
          Company without Cause (as defined in the Employment Agreement) or for
          Good Reason (as defined in the Employment Agreement)), any unvested
          portions of this Option shall fully vest and become exercisable.
          Notwithstanding the foregoing, the purchase of securities by the
          Investors pursuant to the Securities Purchase Agreement shall not be
          deemed to be a Change in Control.

          A partial exercise of this Option shall not affect Optionee's right to
          exercise this Option with respect to the remaining Paired Shares.

     c.   Method of Exercise of Option. Subject to the limitations set forth in
          this Agreement, the Option may be exercised by the Optionee (1) by
          giving written notice to the Company specifying the number of whole
          Paired Shares to be purchased and accompanied by payment of the Option
          price in full (or arrangement made for such payment to the Company's
          satisfaction) either (i) in cash or cash equivalent acceptable to the
          Committee, (ii) in previously owned Paired Shares (which the Optionee
          has held for at least six months prior to the delivery of such Paired
          Shares or which the Optionee purchased on the open market and for
          which the Optionee has good title, free and clear of all liens and
          encumbrances) having a Fair Market Value, determined as of the date of
          exercise, equal to the aggregate purchase price payable pursuant to
          the Option by reason of such exercise, (iii) in cash or a check
          payable and acceptable to the Company by a broker-dealer acceptable to
          the Company to whom the Optionee has submitted an irrevocable notice
          of exercise or (iv) a combination of two or

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          more of the foregoing, and (2) by executing such documents as the
          Company may reasonably request. Any fraction of a Paired Share which
          would be required to pay such purchase price shall be disregarded and
          the remaining amount due shall be paid in cash by the Optionee.

          The delivery of certificates representing the Paired Shares subject to
          the Option will be contingent upon the Company's receipt from Optionee
          of (1) full payment of the Option price, as set forth above, and (2)
          any agreement, statement or other evidence that the Company may
          require to satisfy itself that the issuance of Paired Shares to be
          purchased pursuant to the exercise of the Option and the subsequent
          resale of Paired Shares will be in compliance with applicable laws and
          regulations.

3.   Exercise After Termination of Employment. If the Optionee's employment by
     the Company or an Affiliate is terminated, the period within which to
     exercise the Option may be subject to earlier termination as set forth
     below. The Board's determination of the reason for termination of the
     Optionee's employment shall be conclusive and binding on the Optionee and
     his or her legal representatives or legatees. Any transfer of employment
     from the Company to any Affiliate of the Company shall not be deemed to be
     a termination of employment for purposes of this Agreement.

     a.   Termination Due to Death. If, on or after the Closing, the Optionee's
          employment terminates by reason of death, the Option held by the
          Optionee shall vest and become exercisable in accordance with the
          Vesting Schedule B as set forth in Section 2(b), plus an additional
          number of Paired Shares that would have vested on the next vesting
          anniversary date. The Optionee's legal representative or legatee may
          exercise the Option to the extent exercisable in accordance with this
          Section 3(a), for a period of 360 days from the date of death or until
          the Expiration Date, if earlier. Any portion of the Option that is not
          exercisable at the time of death shall terminate immediately and be of
          no further force or effect.

          Notwithstanding the foregoing, if the Optionee's employment terminates
          by reason of death on or after the Date of Grant but before the
          Closing, the Option held by the Optionee shall vest and become
          exercisable in accordance with Vesting Schedule A as set forth in
          Section 2(b).

     b.   Termination Due to Disability. If, on or after the Closing, the
          Optionee's employment terminates by reason of incapacity due to
          physical or mental illness which resulted in his or her absence from
          his or her duties with the Company on a full-time basis for 180
          calendar days in the aggregate in any 12-month period, the Option held
          by the Optionee shall vest and become exercisable in accordance with
          the Vesting Schedule B as set forth in Section 2(b), plus an
          additional number of Paired Shares that would have vested on the next
          vesting anniversary

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          date. The Optionee may exercise the Option to the extent exercisable
          in accordance with this Section 3(b), for a period of 360 days from
          the date of termination of employment or until the Expiration Date, if
          earlier. Any portion of the Option that is not exercisable upon
          termination of employment shall terminate immediately and be of no
          further force or effect.

          Notwithstanding the foregoing, if, on or after the Date of Grant but
          before the Closing, the Optionee's employment terminates by reason of
          incapacity due to physical or mental illness which resulted in his or
          her absence from his or her duties with the Company on a full-time
          basis for 180 calendar days in the aggregate in any 12-month period,
          the Option held by the Optionee shall vest and become exercisable in
          accordance with Vesting Schedule A as set forth in Section 2(b).

     c.   Termination without Cause or for Good Reason. If, on or after the
          Closing, the Optionee's employment is terminated by the Company
          without Cause (as defined in the Employment Agreement) or the Optionee
          resigns from the Company for Good Reason (as defined in the Employment
          Agreement), the Option held by the Optionee shall continue to vest and
          become exercisable in accordance with the Vesting Schedule B as set
          forth in Section 2(b) for an additional 24 months. The Optionee may
          exercise the Option, to the extent exercisable in accordance with this
          Section 3(c), for a period of 360 days after the end of the 24-month
          period or until the Expiration Date, if earlier. Any portion of the
          Option that is not exercisable at the end of 24 months following
          termination of employment shall terminate immediately and be of no
          further force or effect.

          Notwithstanding the foregoing, if Optionee breaches any of the
          provisions contained in Paragraph 4 or 5 of the Employment Agreement,
          (i) any portion of the Option that vested or will vest by virtue of
          this Section 3(c) shall immediately terminate and be of no force and
          effect, and (ii) to the extent any portion of the Option that vested
          by virtue of this Section 3(c) has been exercised, Optionee shall be
          required to disgorge to the Company the difference between the fair
          market value per Paired Share on the date of exercise and the Option
          price per Paired Share, multiplied by the number of Paired Shares
          acquired by Optionee.

          Furthermore, notwithstanding the foregoing, if the Optionee's
          employment is terminated by the Company without Cause (as defined in
          the Employment Agreement) or the Optionee resigns from the Company for
          Good Reason (as defined in the Employment Agreement) on or after the
          Date of Grant but before the Closing or a Change in Control, the
          Option held by the Optionee shall vest and become exercisable in
          accordance with Vesting Schedule A as set forth in Section 2(b).

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     d.   Termination for Cause. If the Optionee's employment is terminated for
          Cause (as defined in the Employment Agreement), the Option held by the
          Optionee shall terminate immediately and be of no further force and
          effect.

     e.   Other Termination. If the Optionee's employment terminates for any
          reason not covered in Subsections (a), (b), (c) or (d) of this Section
          3, the Option held by the Optionee may be exercised, to the extent
          exercisable on the date of termination pursuant to the applicable
          vesting schedule in Section 2(b), for a period of three (3) months
          from the date of termination or until the Expiration Date, if
          earlier. Any portion of the Option that is not exercisable at such
          time shall terminate immediately and be of no further force or effect.

4.   Incorporation of Plan. Notwithstanding anything herein to the contrary,
     this Option shall be subject to and governed by all the terms and
     conditions of the Plan. Capitalized terms in this Agreement shall have the
     meaning specified in the Plan, unless a different meaning is specified
     herein. All references herein to the Plan shall mean the Plan in effect as
     of the date hereof. In the event of any conflict between the provisions in
     the Plan and the provisions in this Agreement, the provisions of the Plan
     shall govern.

5 .  Additional Terms and Conditions of Option.

     a.   Nontransferability of Option. This Agreement is personal to the
          Optionee, is non-assignable and is not transferable in any manner, by
          operation of law or otherwise, other than by will or the laws of
          descent and distribution. This Option is exercisable, during the
          Optionee's lifetime, only by the Optionee, and thereafter only by the
          Optionee's legal representative or legatee.

     b.   Delivery of Certificates. Upon the exercise of the Option, in whole or
          in part, the Company shall deliver or cause to be delivered one or
          more certificates representing the number of Paired Shares purchased
          against full payment therefor. The Company shall pay all original
          issue or transfer taxes and all fees and expenses incident to such
          delivery.

     c.   Option Confers No Rights as Stockholder. The Optionee shall not be
          entitled to any privileges of ownership with respect to Paired Shares
          subject to the Option unless and until purchased and delivered upon
          the exercise of the Option, in whole or in part, and the Optionee
          becomes a stockholder of record with respect to such delivered Paired
          Shares; and the Optionee shall not be considered a stockholder of the
          Company with respect to any such Paired Shares not so purchased and
          delivered.

     d.   Decisions of Committee. The Committee shall have the right to resolve
          all questions which may arise in connection with the Option or its
          exercise. Any

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          interpretation, determination or other action made or taken by the
          Committee regarding this Agreement shall be final, binding and
          conclusive.

     e.   Reservation of Paired Shares. The Company shall at all times prior to
          the expiration or termination of the Option reserve or cause to be
          reserved and keep or cause to be kept available, either in its
          treasury or out of its authorized but unissued shares of common stock,
          the full number of shares of common stock of the Company subject to
          the Option from time to time. In addition, pursuant to Section 2(c) of
          the Pairing Agreement, the Company shall request Patriot American
          Hospitality, Inc. to issue the number of shares of common stock of
          Patriot American Hospitality, Inc. subject to the Option so that the
          Optionee shall receive Paired Shares upon exercise of the Option.

     f.   Change in Capital Structure. The terms of this Option shall be
          adjusted as the Committee determines is equitably required in the
          event the Company effects one or more stock dividends, stock split-
          ups, subdivisions or consolidations of shares or other similar changes
          in capitalization.

     g.   Fractional Shares. Fractional shares shall not be issuable hereunder,
          and when any provision hereof may entitle Optionee to a fractional
          share such fraction shall be disregarded.

6.   Tax Withholding. The Optionee shall, not later than the date as of which
     the exercise of this Option becomes a taxable event for Federal income tax
     purposes, pay to the Company or make arrangements satisfactory to the
     Committee for payment of any Federal, state, and local taxes required by
     law to be withheld on account of such taxable event. Subject to the
     approval of the Committee, the Optionee may elect to have such tax
     withholding obligation satisfied, in whole or in part, by (i) authorizing
     the Company to withhold from Paired Shares to be issued, or (ii)
     transferring to the Company a number of previously owned whole Paired
     Shares (which the Optionee has held for at least six months prior to the
     delivery of such Paired Shares or which the Optionee purchased on the open
     market and for which the Optionee has good title, free and clear of all
     liens and encumbrances) having an aggregate Fair Market Value, determined
     as of the date of exercise, that would satisfy the withholding amount due.

7.   Miscellaneous Provisions.

     a.   Designation as Non-qualified Stock Option. The Option is hereby
          designated as not constituting an "incentive stock option" within the
          meaning of section 422 of the Code. This Agreement shall be
          interpreted and treated consistently with such designation.

     b.   Successors. This Agreement shall be binding upon and inure to the
          benefit of any successor or successors of the Company and any person
          or persons who

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          shall, upon the death of the Optionee, acquire any rights hereunder in
          accordance with this Agreement or the Plan.

     c.   Notices. All notices, requests or other communications provided for in
          this Agreement shall be made, if to the Company, to the Secretary of
          the Company at the Company's principal executive office, and if to the
          Optionee, to his or her address on the books of the Company (or to
          such other address as the Company or the Optionee may give to the
          other for purposes of notice hereunder).

          All notices, requests or other communications provided for in this
          Agreement shall be made in writing either (a) by personal delivery to
          the party entitled thereto, (b) by facsimile with confirmation of
          receipt, (c) by mailing in the United States mail to the last known
          address of the party entitled thereto or (d) by express courier
          service. The notice, request or other communication shall be deemed to
          be received upon personal delivery, upon confirmation of receipt of
          facsimile transmission or upon receipt by the party entitled thereto
          if by United States mail or express courier service; provided,
          however, that if a notice, request or other communication in not
          received during regular business hours, it shall be deemed to be
          received on the next succeeding business day of the Company.

     d.   Governing Law. This Agreement and all determinations made and actions
          taken pursuant hereto and thereto, to the extent not governed by the
          laws of the United States, shall be governed by the laws of the State
          of Delaware and construed in accordance therewith without giving
          effect to principles of conflicts of laws.

     e.   Counterparts. This Agreement may be executed in two counterparts, each
          of which shall be deemed an original and both of which together shall
          constitute one and the same instrument.

     f.   Further Assurances. The Company and the Optionee shall execute and
          deliver such further instruments and take such additional action as
          each party may reasonably request to effect, consummate, confirm or
          evidence the grant of the Option to the Optionee, and they shall each
          execute such documents as may be reasonably necessary to assist each
          other in preserving or perfecting their respective rights in the
          Option.

     g.   No Right to Continued Employment. This Agreement does not confer upon
          Optionee any right to continue in the employ of the Company or an
          Affiliate,

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          nor shall it interfere in any way with the right of the Company or an
          Affiliate to terminate such employment at any time.

                                        WYNDHAM INTERNATIONAL, INC.



                                        By:      /s/ James D. Carreker
                                                 -------------------------------
                                        Title:
                                                 -------------------------------

Accepted this ____ day of _____________, 1999.



/s/ Michael A. Grossman
------------------------------------
Name: Michael A. Grossman
"Optionee"

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