SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY

APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-0264- 22 ABEER A. ABU-GOUSH, Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. ABDALLAH A. ABU-ZUBEDAH, Defendant-Appellant.

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Submitted October 23, 2023

– Decided April 17, 2024 Before Judges DeAlmeida and Berdote Byrne. On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County, Docket No. FM- 02

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- 21. Abdallah A. Abu-Zubedah, appellant pro se. Respondent has not filed a brief.
PER CURIAM Defendant, Abdallah A. Abu-Zubedah, self-represent ed, appeals from an October 18, 2021 order entering a default judgment of divorce against him on NOT FOR PUBLICATION WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION This opinion shall not "constitute precedent or be binding upon any court." Although it is posted on t he internet, this opinion is binding only on the parti es in the case and its use in other cases is limite d. R. 1:36- 3.2 A- 0264

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the grounds of extreme cruelty and a February 18, 2022 order denying his motion to vacate default judgment. Discerning no error, w e affirm both orders. We glean the following facts from the partial reco rd before us. 1 The parties were married on January 12, 2018. There ar e no children born of the marriage. On February 22, 2021, then self-represen ted plaintiff filed and served a complaint for divorce, alleging extreme cruelty

. Defendant did not file an answer to the complaint, which was due on March 29 , 2021, thirty-five days after service of the complaint, as required by R. 4:6 -1(a). Thereafter, on May 21, 2021, plaintiff, represented by counsel, filed a Second Amended Complaint for Divorce (Second Complaint) , and served it upon defendant. The Second Complaint was specific and alleged a count for extr eme cruelty , detailing events alleged to have occurred on identified dates that caused local police to respon d

to an incident of domestic violence , resulted in the issuance of a temporary restraining order , and required plaintiff to seek treatment at a Hackensac k hospital. The Second Complaint also alleged counts for assault a nd battery,

1 It is unclear whether plaintiff was properly served with the appeal. A "proof of mailing" signed by a "private messenger" attested he "would be" mailing, via certified mail, some of the documents to plaintiff. An order suppressing plaintiff's brief was entered on May 1, 2023, and p laintiff has not made an appearance in this action. Pursuant to R. 2 :5 -1(b), service requires an appellant provide the notice of appeal, case information stat ement, and transcript request form to "all other parties who have appeared in the action."3 A- 0264

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intentional infliction of emotional distress, and n egligent infliction of emotional distress. In the complaint, plaintiff sought alimo ny, equitable distribution, and attorney's fees and a jury demand for the counts involving personal injury. See Tevis v. Tevis , 79 N.J. 422, 434 (1979) (because "the circumstances of [a] marital tort and its potential for money damages [a re] relevant in the matrimonial proceedings, the claim [for a marital t ort] . . . should, under the 'single controversy' doctrine, [be] presented in co njunction with that action as part of the overall dispute between the parties in order to lay at rest all their legal differences in one proceeding and avoid the prolong ation and fractionalization of litigation." ). The Second Complaint was served on defendant, but defendant claims all of the pages were "cut on the right side of each pa ge, " and alleges he requested plaintiff's counsel provide him with a "proper amen ded complaint," but he never received one. Defendant did not file an answer, which was due on June 10, 2021, twenty days after service of the amended comp laint, as required by R. 4: 9-
1. On October 18, 2021, the court held a hearing on t he default judgment of divorce. Plaintiff represented herself and stated she simply wanted to be divorced and wanted to waive the marital tort claim s and any requests for4 A- 0264

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alimony, equitable distribution, or attorney's fees . The trial court attempted to dissuade plaintiff several times from proceeding th at day, stating "[ b] ut by just putting your divorce through today you're giving up the right to alimony , you're giving up the rights to all those third-party claim s that you have. . . . You can't come back and ask for that afterwards." Plaintiff explained she understood and wanted to proceed. The court then entered a final judgment of divorce, finding she had properly pleaded a claim for extreme cruelt y. On December 4, 2021, defendant filed a notice of m otion to vacate the default judgment. He checked the box indicating he did not request oral argument. In support of his motion, he claimed he received "improper service" of the Second Complaint and attached a copy of a le tter, dated July 22, 2021, and mailed to the Superior Court and plaintiff's co unsel, requesting a clearer copy of the complaint. On February 18, 2022 the tr ial court entered an order denying defendant's 2 motion to vacate the de fault judgment of divorce. This appeal followed.
Pursuant to R. 4:50 -1(a), a default judgment will remain undisturbed unless the defendant shows the failure to appear or otherwi se defend was due to excusable neglect under the circumstances and the e xistence of a meritorious

2 The order incorrectly transposed plaintiff and defe ndant.5 A- 0264

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defense to both the cause of action and damages. U.S. Bank Nat’l Ass’n v. Guillaume, 209 N.J. 449, 468-69 (2012). Excusable neglect has been defined as "something the parties could not have protected the mselves from during the litigation." Romero v. Gold Star Distrib., LLC, 46 8 N.J. Super. 274, 298 (App. Div. 2021) (emphasis omitted). Absent an abuse of discretion, a trial court's decision will not be disturbed by a reviewing court . Id. at 293 (quoting Hous. Auth. of Morristown v. Little, 135 N.J. 274, 283 (1 994)). Defendant failed to demonstrate excusable neglect. He was served with the first complaint on February 22, 2021 but did not file an answer and does not reference it in his brief, although he attaches it to the appendix. Defendant also does not claim he was not served with the Second Complaint. Instead, he states he was served with a copy that was cut off on the r ight-hand side and he wrote to the court and plaintiff's counsel requesting a b etter copy. 3 The letter requesting a more legible copy is dated July 22, 2021, well a fter his answer was due on June 10, 2021

. If defendant was unable to file an answer to the c omplaint because he could not read it, it was incumbent upon him to file a motion to extend the time to answer the complaint or a motion to be served with a more

3 The copy defendant attaches has one or two words on the right-hand margin cut off, but is otherwise legible.6 A- 0264

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legible copy. Self-represented parties are subject to the same court rules and requirements as parties with counsel. Rubin v. Rub in, 188 N.J. Super. 155, 159 (App. Div. 1982); Venner v. Allstate, 306 N.J. Supe r. 106, 110 (App. Div. 1997); Tuckey v. Harleysville Ins. Co., 236 N.J. Super. 22 1, 224 (App. Div. 1989). Defendant was served with the first complaint and w as aware he was required to file an answer. Defendant was also served with the Second Complaint and was aware he was required to file an a nswe r. He did nothing to protect his rights other than send a letter after the time to answer h ad elapsed. He did not follow up with any other correspondence from July 22, the date of his letter, through October 18, the date the default judgment of divorc e was entered. We discern no abuse of discretion in the trial court's finding no excusable neglect. Defendant argues he was deprived of his constitutio nal right to have his day in court, citing a federal rule of civil proced ure. However, because defendant failed to file an answer to the complaint , a default proceeding was appropriate. See, e.g. , Siwiec v. Fin. Res., Inc., 375 N.J. Super. 212, 218 (App. Div. 2005) ; Jameson v. Great Atl. & Pac. Tea Co., 363 N.J. Supe r. 419, 426, (App. Div. 2003). He also argues he was not given an opportunity to p resent his arguments to the trial court on his motion to vacat e and was surprised the court7 A- 0264

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decided his motion without oral argument. However, defendant waived oral argument on his notice of motion. Finally, defendant makes substantive arguments rega rding his marriage. Because we conclude the trial court appropriately d enied the motion to vacate default judgment, those arguments are not properly before u s, and we decline to address them. To the extent we have not addressed defendant's remaining arguments, we find they are without sufficient meri t to warrant discussion in a written opinion. R. 2:11 -3(e)(1)(E). In sum, we affirm the trial court's orders of Octob er 18, 2021, entering a default judgment of divorce, and February 18, 2022, denying defendant's motion to vacate default judgment, but remand the February 18, 2022 order for a conforming order correct ing the parties identified in the order. Affirmed.