[Cite as Alexander v. Alexander , 2013-Ohio-2349.]

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS FOR CHAMPAIGN COUNTY, OHIO JACQUELINE E. ALEXANDER nka GROVE : Plaintiff-Appellant : C.A. CASE NO. 2013 CA 3

v. : T.C. NO. 10DR100 CHARLES D. ALEXANDER, et al. : (Civil appeal from Common Pleas Court, Domestic Relations) Defendants-Appellees :

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Rendered on the 7th day of June , 2013.

. . . . . . . . . . CATHY J. WEITHMAN, Atty. Reg. No. 0020889, 201 West Court Street, Urbana, Ohio 43078 Attorney for Plaintiff-Appellant JACOB M. JEFFRIES, Atty. Reg. No. 0078470, 133 S. Main Street, New Carlisle, Ohio 45344 Attorney for Defendants-Appellees KIRK ELLIS, Atty. Reg. No. 0055275, 121 S. Main Street, Urbana, Ohio 43078 Attorney for Defendant-Appellee

. . . . . . . . . . FROELICH, J.[Cite as Alexander v. Alexander , 2013-Ohio-2349.] {¶ 1} Jacqueline Grove appeals from a j udgment of the Champaign County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division, which denied her Motion to Change Allocation of Parental Rights and Responsibilities regarding her three minor children, who currently reside with their paternal gra ndparents, Charles R. and Minnie Alexander. {¶ 2} Because we conclude that the tria l court did not abuse its discretion in overruling Grove’s motion, the judgment of the trial court will be affirmed.

I {¶ 3} Grove and her former husband, Charles D. Alexander, have three children: two boys and one girl. In 2010, Grove filed a comp laint for divorce, and her husband’s parents, Charles R. and Minnie Alexander (hereinafter, “the Alexanders”), intervened in the action as third-party defendants. During the divorce proceedings, an agreed entry was filed in the trial court, stating that the Alexande rs “shall have the primary righ ts and responsibilities for the care of” the children (the Alexanders’ grandchildren) , who were then ages 15, 9, and 5. The agreed entry included detailed provisions for Grove’s visitation with the children. 1 Grove was

awarded visitation on alte rnating weekends and for six weeks during the summer. The parties acknowledged in their agreement th at the oldest child might refuse to visit with Grove, but they agreed that he would be encouraged to do so.

1 The children’s father was in prison, and the ag reed entry did not address his parenting rights. {¶ 4} In April 2012, Grove filed her motion to reallocate parental rights and responsibilities. The motion was prompted, in pa rt, by the children’s father’s imminent release from prison and Grove’s concern that he would e nd up living with his parents and the children; the motion stated that such an arrangement would be contrary to a guardian ad litem’s3 “suggestion” (earlier in the case) and would not be in the best interest of the children. In November 2012, the trial court conducted a hear ing on Grove’s motion. {¶ 5} Although the motion listed all three child ren, Grove modified her request at the hearing, indicating that she did not seek custody of the oldest child; he was a senior in high school, had two jobs, had lived w ith his grandparents for a long time, and she “[didn’t] want to disrupt him.” Thus, the hearing only addre ssed the custody of the two younger children. {¶ 6} At the hearing, Grove stated that, on the advice of the guardian ad litem in the

case, 2 she (Grove) had been working on making some changes to create a more stable home for her children. She presented evidence that she was employed and had lived in her current apartment for one and one-half years. She indicated that she had room for the children in the three-bedroom apartment she shared with her boy friend. She went to the children’s school for lunch as often as possible (once a month or le ss), and talked with th e principal about some problems that the younger son had been having. Several of Grove’s fa mily members and friends

testified that she was bonded with the children and was a good parent.

2 During her testimony, Grove referred several times to statem ents a guardian ad litem had made to her at an earlier point, seemingly around the time of her divorce from Charles D. Alexander and the agreed entry related to custody of the childr en. Grove did not identify the guardian ad li tem by name, but the guardian ad litem who testified at the hearing, Linda McGillivra y, stated that she had been the guardian ad litem during the “previous custody dispute,” as well as in the current matter. {¶ 7} Grove expressed concern about the situ ation in which the children were then living. She testified that Charles Alexander’s (the children’s grandfat her’s) health, which had not been good at the time of the agreed entry, had further deteriorated. Grove also stated that the children’s father, who was out of prison by that time, lived “like four doors down” from the grandparents. She recounted (w ithout objection) that, in the pa st, the guardian ad litem had4 expressed concern that the children “should [not] sp end very much time with [their father] seeing what he went to prison for,” i.e., domestic vi olence against Grove and having weapons while under disability. Grove also me ntioned some past incidents at the Alexanders’ home involving their other adult children, but admitted on cross-examination that these incidents had occurred prior to the agreed entry granting custody to th e Alexanders. Grove a nd her boyfriend testified

that she had received less summer visitation time with the children than required by the court’s order and that she had trouble contacting the ch ildren by telephone when they were with the Alexanders, even though she had bought them cell phones for this purpose. {¶ 8} The guardian ad litem testified at the hearing and submitted a report for the court. Her report indicated th at Grove’s home was appropriate for the children and that Grove interacted well with the children. The guardian ad litem further stated, however, that the children were doing very well with the Alexande rs and were “very happy ;” based on reports from

their school and her conversations with the childre n, she concluded that the prospect of a change in custody was causing significant stress for the children, particularly th e younger son, who made a comment at school about having “no reason to liv e.” The guardian ad litem also testified that the two younger children are very closely bonded with their older brother, who was determined to stay with the grandparents. She concluded that “t he children would be deva stated if they had to leave their grandparents” and r ecommended that the children remain with the Alexanders, with

continued visitation with their mother. {¶ 9} With respect to telephone contact, the gu ardian ad litem indicated that there had “been an issue,” which Grove claimed to have addressed by buying th e children cell phones. The guardian ad litem also stated that Grove ha d complained about the Alexanders calling the5 children daily during visitation. {¶ 10} Charles R. Alexander (the children’s grandfather) testified that the children were doing very well in his hous ehold and that, despite some imp rovements in Grove’s situation, he believed a change in custody would be detrimental to the children. He also testified to the children’s very close relationship with their olde r brother. He contradi cted Grove’s testimony that Grove had given the childre n cell phones, stating that he ha d actually provided one to the younger boy, but that Grove took it away during vi sits with her. He agreed with Grove’s testimony that she had only visited with the child ren for five weeks the previous summer, but he

stated that Grove had received an extra week of visitation during the children’s fall break. {¶ 11} The children’s father testified to his preference that the children remain with his parents, where they have alwa ys been happy and done well. {¶ 12} After the hearing, the trial court “acknowledge[d] that [Grove] had become much more stable in her employment, her resi dence/housing situation, a nd her consistency in exercising parenting time with the children. However, during the time [Grove] has become more stable[,] so have the children in the custody of [the Alexanders]. Thus, the harm of a change in environment for the children outweighs any advantages that may have now arisen to justify a change.” The court also noted that the change prompting the request for a modification

occurred in the non-residential parents’ home, but that, pursuant to R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a), the change must have occurred “in the circumstances of the child, the child’s residential parent, or either of the parents subject to a shared paren ting decree” in order to justify a modification. The court denied Grove’s motion for a change in allocation of parental rights.

II6 {¶ 13} Grove raises one assign ment of error on appeal:

THE TRIAL COURT ABUSED ITS DISCRETION IN NOT FINDING A

CHANGE OF CIRCUMSTANCES AND AWARDING CUSTODY TO

PLAINTIFF-APPELLANT. {¶ 14} Grove contends that the trial court erred in not granting her motion to change parental rights and responsibilitie s, in light of improvements in her situation and the problems with visitation and telephone contact about which she presented evidence. {¶ 15} It is well-settled that the right of a parent to raise his or her own child is an “essential” and “basic civil right.” In re Murray , 52 Ohio St.3d 155, 157, 556 N.E.2d 1169 (1990). See also Price v. Nixon , 2d Dist. Clark No. 2010-CA-058, 2011-Ohio-2430, ¶ 32; In re Kovaleski , 4th Dist. Washington No. 05CA13, 2006-Ohio -317. Thus, “[t]he general rule in Ohio regarding original custody awards in dis putes between a parent and a non-parent is that parents who are ‘suitable’ persons have a ‘paramount’ right to the custody of their minor children unless they forfeit that right by contract, abandonm ent, or by becoming totally unable to care for and support those children.” Masitto v. Masitto , 22 Ohio St.3d 63, 65, 488 N.E.2d 857 (1986), citing In re Perales , 52 Ohio St.2d 89, 97, 369 N.E.2d 1047 (1977); DeLucia v. West , 7th Dist. Mahoning No. 05-MA-5, 2005-Ohio-6933, ¶ 21. However, once an original custody award has been made, it generally will not be modified unless a change of circumstances has been demonstrated and a modification “is necessary to serve the

best interest of the child.” Id. , citing R.C. 3109.04(B)(involving maternal grandparents previously designated as legal guar dians); R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a). See also, Kovaleski at ¶ 217 (involving a paternal aunt who had been named residential a nd legal guardian); DeLucia at ¶ 31 (holding that, although father ha d not surrendered parental rights when he entered into and court adopted a shared parenting agreement with matern al grandparent, best inte rest test applied to father’s request for modification).

{¶ 16} In all matters involving a modification of parental rights and responsibilities, R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a) also expressly requires that a court find, based on fact s that have arisen since the prior decree or were unknown to the court at the time of the prior decree, that a change of circumstances of the child, th e residential parent, a nd a parent subject to a shared parenting

decree has occurred and that the modification is nece ssary to serve the best interest of the child. A change in circumstances may logically be desc ribed as some event, o ccurrence, situation, or

the like that has a material and adverse affect on the children. Moyer v. Moyer , 10th Dist. Franklin No. 93AP-157, 1993 WL 169098, *1 (May 13, 1993), citing Wyss v. Wyss , 3 Ohio App.3d 412, 445 N.E.2d 1153 (10th Dist. 1982). {¶ 17} In Grove’s case, the trial court found that there had not been a ch ange of circumstances

of the children or the residentia l parents (the Alexanders) and th at it would not be in the best interest of the children to change the custodial arrangement. The trial court’s findings are supported by the record. Although there appear to have been some minor di sputes or deviations from the agreed entry regarding parenting time and telephone contact, the current custodial arrangement appears to be working well for the children. They are happy and doing well in school, and they enjoy a close relationship with thei r brother, who also lives with the Alexanders.

{¶ 18} The children are also able to see their father regularly while living with the8 Alexanders, a relationship that seems to be important to the children. The possibility of a change of custody caused stress to the children, especially the younger boy. There was ample evidence that the children are doing well under the Alexanders’ care, althoug h they also adjust well and enjoy visiting with their mother. There was no dispute that Grove’s ability to parent the children had improved since the agreed entry was filed, but the trial court did not abuse its discretion in concluding that no change in the circumstances in the children or the Alexanders compelled a change of custody and that it was not in the best interest of the children to do so. {¶ 19} The assignment of error is overruled.

III {¶ 20} The judgment of the trial court will be affirmed.

. . . . . . . . . . FAIN, P.J. and WELBAUM, J., concur. Copies mailed to: Cathy J. Weithman Jacob M. Jeffries Kirk Ellis Hon. Lori L. Reisinger