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                                                                   Exhibit 10.41

                            AGREEMENT TO AMEND NOTES

     This Agreement to Amend Notes (the "Agreement") is entered into as of
September __, 2003 by and among HRC Holding Inc., a Delaware corporation (the
"Company"), and a majority of the holders of the outstanding principal amount of
those certain Unsecured Senior Promissory Notes due 2004 that are signatories
hereto (the "Holders"). All capitalized terms used in this Agreement not
otherwise defined herein shall have the same meanings given to such terms in the
Notes.

                                 R E C I T A L S
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     WHEREAS, the Company has previously issued a series of Unsecured Senior
Promissory Notes due 2004 in an aggregate principal amount of $10,100,000 to the
holders set forth on Schedule A hereto (the "Notes");

     WHEREAS, pursuant to Section 7 of the Notes, the Holders of a majority of
the outstanding principal amount of the Notes may amend all of the outstanding
Notes in the series by an agreement in writing with the Company;

     WHEREAS, Hudson Respiratory Care Inc., the holder of all of the outstanding
capital stock of the Company ("Parent"), wishes to obtain credit facility
subject to the terms and provisions of a Loan and Security Agreement by and
among Parent, Wells Fargo Foothill, Inc., as the Arranger and Administrative
Agent and the Lenders that are signatory thereto and a Loan and Security
Agreement by and among Parent, MW Post Advisory Group, LLC, as the
Administrative Agent and the Lenders that are signatory thereto (collectively,
the "Loan and Security Agreements");

     WHEREAS, it is a condition to the making of loans under the Loan and
Security Agreements to Parent that the Company amend the Notes to extend the
maturity date of the Notes to March 31, 2008; and

     WHEREAS, a majority of the Holders of the outstanding principal amount of
the Notes have agreed to amend the Notes.

                                A G R E E M E N T
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     NOW, THEREFORE, in consideration of the foregoing and of the mutual
covenants and agreements of the parties contained herein, the parties hereby
agree as follows:

     1.   Amendments to the Notes. The opening paragraph of the Notes is hereby
amended to extend the Maturity Date of the Notes to March 31, 2008.

     2.   Scope. This Agreement shall have the effect of amending the Notes as
appropriate to express the agreements contained herein. In all other respects,
the Notes shall remain in full force and effect in accordance with their
respective terms.

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     3.   Governing Law. In all respects, including all matters of construction,
validity and performance, this Agreement and the rights and obligations arising
hereunder shall be governed by, and construed and enforced in accordance with,
the internal laws of the State of California applicable to contracts made and
performed in such state (without regard to the choice of law or conflicts of law
principles there).

     4.   Counterparts; Facsimile. This Agreement may be executed in any number
of counterparts and by facsimile, each of which shall be deemed an original, but
all of which taken together shall constitute one and the same instrument.

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     IN WITNESS WHEREOF, this Agreement has been duly executed as of the date
first written above.

THE COMPANY:                            HRC HOLDING INC.,
                                        a Delaware corporation


                                        By:
                                           -------------------------------------
                                             Name:
                                             Title:


HOLDERS:                                FS EQUITY PARTNERS IV, L.P.,
                                        a Delaware limited partnership
$9,140,000 principal
amount of the Notes                     By:  FS Capital Partners LLC
                                        Its: General Partner

                                             By:
                                                --------------------------------
                                                  Name:
                                                  Title:

$914,000 principal                      THE HELEN LOVAAS SEPARATE
amount of the Notes                     PROPERTY TRUST U/D/T DATED
                                        JULY 17, 1998


                                        By:
                                           -------------------------------------
                                             Helen Hudson Lovaas
                                             Trustee

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                                   SCHEDULE A

                                           PRINCIPAL AMOUNT
                                           ----------------
HOLDER                                         OF NOTE
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FS Equity Partners IV, L.P.                $      1,140,000
FS Equity Partners IV, L.P.                $      8,000,000
The Helen Lovaas Separate Property Trust   $        914,000
U/D/T dated July 17, 1997
Sten Gibeck                                $         46,000
                                           ----------------
        Aggregate Principal Amount:        $     10,100,000